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Ramblings of a Ranger
Tuesday, 22 August 2006
Another Day in Paradise
Mood:  hug me
I hate Tuesdays! Why? Because Tuesdays are the days we have staff meetings. It seems that when we come out of the meeting I have about 80 other things to add to my to-do list. *sigh*

Our Colonel is coming next week so we are running around in a panic trying to get everything ready. Pulling weeds, getting the grass mowed, cleaning the office..etc. Luckily Tom will have him out in the project most of the time so I don't have to worry much about what I am going to talk to him about. He is actually a very nice man. He is down to earth and puts you at ease. We often talk about Catoctin (the park where I worked in MD) because he was stationed in DC for awhile and used to pass the park on his way to visit family in PA. We are planning a dinner with the Colonel Tuesday night and it is my duty to pick a restaurant. The only problem is...the places I like to go can be pricey for some. So I need to do some research.

I am trying to get my boss to agree to let me plant flowers outside my office window. He is worried it will be something else we have to keep up with. I assured him I would pick flowers (cone flowers, day lilies) that would be easy to grow and wouldn't take much care. I have end of the year money left in my budget so I might just go ahead and do it. I think he would really like it once I get done. We have a landscaper here doing some weeding and putting down mulch. I think he has a slight crush on me. His name is Delmer and he is just a sweet heart. I was outside talking to him about what kind of mulch he plans to use and he said pine straw. I immediately turned up my nose. As most of you know... I detest pine straw. It just looks tacky. He asked me what I would like to see used and I said some sort of bark mulch or cocoa hull mulch. He smiled, winked and said he would see what he could do. We will more than likely end up with pine straw because it is cheap but I know Delmer will do his best.

I heard from "A" last night. I was actually surprised that he called. Sunday night while I was out with Tanya and Andy I mentioned that I wasn't sure there was anything there between us. That it seemed to be more of the friendship than a romantic relationship. I thought that it was just my commitment phobia rearing its ugly head because after all it was the 2nd date and there is a holiday coming up. Well apparently "A" had the exact same feelings. He told me that I was a nice person but that he just wasn't feeling a connection. Wow I have never had a guy call and be so honest. Normally they just stop calling or ignore my phone calls or send me a crappy email. He says he still wants to be friends and hang out but just not on a romantic level. And before you all start sending me emails and calling me to see if I am okay or to bad mouth "A" in some way...remind yourself that it was only 2 dates and I was in no way emotionally attached to him. He respected me enough to be honest and that says a lot about him.

Well I guess I should get back to work. I have a lot of dining research to do. Later ya'll!!!

Posted by md2/thenest at 1:36 PM EDT
Updated: Tuesday, 22 August 2006 7:33 PM EDT
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Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 1:56 PM EDT

Name: Tanya

You get to have dinner with a Colonel? That is exciting. Is he cute?

Andy called me last ngiht after he talked to you. Glad that things between you and "A" didn't prgress any further. I just didn't get the feeling that you were all that excited about him. You need someohe you can't stop thinking about. Someone who can appreciate you for the person you are. I will take a special person.

Do you actually think you two will "hang out"?

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 2:08 PM EDT

Name: Rebecca

Yes we will have dinner with him as a staff. He is is marriend Tanya and has two little twin girls. Even if he was single and cute...he is boss so..no.

*shrug* Don't know if we hang out or not. There are a lot of people that say that and then it never happens. He is a fun guy to hang out with. He enjoys hiking unlike you. ;) But if we don't...it is no big deal. I wish him the best.

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 3:19 PM EDT

Name: Bill

Why wouldn't he want to still hang out with you. You are such an awesome person and from what I hear...and amazing cook. I am still waiting for my invite by the way. ;)

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 3:46 PM EDT

Name: Rebecca

Bill you are welcome anytime. I can't promise I will have a meal ready but I can always recommend a great place to eat. LOL

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 4:48 PM EDT

Name: Marie

Here's a hug from me!!! And yes, you always know where to go to dinner, and no, we shouldn't bad mouth a guy that does the decent thing... I have a hard enough time doing it myself. I hate making those phone calls; I have to do one tonight, actually. Its so tempting to just not call at all!

Tuesday, 22 August 2006 - 7:42 PM EDT

Name: Rebecca

Well here is a hug back and good luck with the call. Is this the guy from Durham? Yeah I hate those phone calls too. Hallmark just doesn't make cards for this sort of thing.

Have you ever heard from the guy from the swing dance? His name escapes me at the moment.

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