Tea Parties and Lazy Sundays with the dog
Mood:  hungry

The weekend was actually fairly relaxing. I didn’t get much accomplished which I am okay with.

 

Saturday Maria showed up at my place around noon and we headed into Wake Forest for afternoon tea. I love the tea room and I don’t know why I don’t go more often. The have the best chicken salad. After tea we walked around a few shops so Maria could find a card for the wedding she was attending that evening. I love Wake Forest. It is such a cute little town. The used to have a little Irish Store there but it has recently closed and is now a hair solon.

 

When we were finished shopping I drove Maria back to her house and she took me in to see the new hot tub. I think we are planning on having a girl’s hot tub party this Friday with Champaign and I am to bring the chocolate covered fruit. YUMMM. She and I are also talking about going to see this play called, “Five Women Wearing the Same Dress.” Sounds like fun. Maria mentioned something about if you wear a bride’s maid dress you get in for free but I haven’t seen anything on the website about it.

             During an ostentatious wedding reception at a Knoxville, Tennessee, estate, five reluctant, identically clad bridesmaids hide out in an upstairs bedroom, each with her own reason to avoid the proceedings below. They are Frances, a painfully sweet but sheltered fundamentalist; Mindy, the cheerful, wise-cracking lesbian sister of the groom; Georgeanne, whose heartbreak over her own failed marriage triggers outrageous behavior; Meredith, the bride's younger sister whose precocious rebelliousness masks a dark secret; and Trisha, a jaded beauty whose die-hard cynicism about men is called into question when she meets Tripp, a charming bad-boy usher to whom there is more than meets the eye. As the afternoon wears on, these five very different women joyously discover a common bond in this wickedly funny comedy about friendship and love.  Sunday was spent cleaning and trying to finish up laundry but I wasn’t at all motivated. I think I took Potter out 5 times just so I would have an excuse not to do my housework. Lennie showed up around 6 or so and we ran to the pet store and then stopped by Shane’s to pick up some ribs for dinner. After dinner we took Potter to the lake and then settled in for the night.  I didn’t want to come to work today. I am having a “fat” day. I am all bloated and just feel grumpy. Potter didn’t want me to come to work either. I think he would have been thrilled for me to call in sick and snuggle with him on the floor all day. His fur is so soft I just love cuddling with him. J  Well I should probably get some work done. Hope everyone had a great weekend.  

Puppies should be office standards
Mood:  happy

Potter got to come to work with me today. That is why I LOVE my office. Almost everyone here owns a dog and they have all been in the office at one point or another. So today was Potter’s Day. Everyone has been impressed with how sweet and how quiet he can be. He loves everyone in the office and after making his rounds came back and laid in my cubicle and went to sleep. Dana is supposed to stop by today with her bulldog Eli so that she and Potter can play.  I don’t think Potter has ever met a dog or a person for that matter that he didn’t like. LOL I guess he wont be a good watch dog.

 

Lennie called last night from the road and said that he was on his way towards Nags Head. Well actually to a little town outside of Nags Head. A hospital there lost their AC and they needed his help to fix it. Lately with the heat and humidity combined, it has been almost 110 degrees. So you defiantly need AC. He said he would be working till midnight and he would try to find a place to crash. Hoping he makes it home tonight. He has a test tomorrow for a military promotion and he hasn’t had much time to study.

  

My friend Maria and I are going to head into Wake Forest tomorrow afternoon for tea at the Ole English Tea Room. I am so excited about it. I haven’t been there since mom came down. They have the best chicken salad and their scones are amazing. It will be nice for us to hang out without the guys around. Lennie and I apparently have some kind of party to go to Saturday night but as with most guys he neglected to get all the details. Time, place, what is the dress code, will there be food….

 

Other than that it should be a fairly quiet weekend. Potter is due for his shots next week and then we can spend our weekends at the dog park. Can’t wait!

 

I hope everyone has a great weekend.

Disappointment Tuesday
Mood:  hungry

I was supposed to be in court this morning, but alas I sit here still…staring at my computer screen.

 

The very first ticket I wrote when I got my badge (I could only write warnings up to that point) showed up on the court docket a week ago and I was told that I would need to appear in court to testify against the guy I wrote the ticket to.

 

We have what is called an emergency spillway here at the dam. It works as sort of an overflow release for extra water so the water doesn’t go over the dam. Well it seems to attract a lot of people. It is a dangerous area so we have posted no trespassing signs. Most people ignore them. We have a no tolerance policy when it comes to that area so anyone caught gets a ticket. The fine is $100 plus a $25 processing fee.

 

On day as I was locking up I had a van on top of the dam and I couldn’t locate the owners. I was about to lock the vehicle in for the night when I noticed two gentleman walking down from the spillway. I stopped them and asked for ID and started writing them a ticket. They were very apologetic and confessed that yes they had seen the sign but a friend told them that there was great fishing there so they decided to chance it. They wanted me to write a warning but I told them they already had 2 warnings in the way of the signs they chose to ignore. But I decided to be nice and only issue one ticket so they could split the fine. I told them that if it wasn’t paid then they would have to appear in Federal court. If they didn’t show up for court, a bench warrant would be issued for their arrest.

 

Well apparently they decided I was bluffing and decided not to pay it. So true to my word they were sent a notice to appear in federal court. I spent all day getting my documents and pictures ready and was excited about going into court for my first case. I got a call this morning telling me that the guy paid his fine and I did not need to come downtown. I am rather disappointed. Damn responsible people paying their fines. It has totally screwed up my day. L

 

It is suppose to be 102 degrees outside today. So it looks like I was be staying inside and enjoying the AC .The heat has just bee so oppressive. I get home and I don’t’ have much of an appetite. I would love to take Potter for long walks but it is just too hot for him. I did bring him out to the lake last night to meet up with Jeff and his dog Toby. Jeff is a kayaker who is a regular at the lake and he stopped by the VC yesterday afternoon because he heard that I had adopted a puppy and wanted to set up a play date with him and Toby. I wasn’t going to go because it was just too hot but when I got home Potter was wound up. I also think I was a little disappointed that Lennie had come to take Potter out but left before I got home. So I decided I needed something to put a smile on my face. Jeff took Potter out on his kayak which I don’t think Potter enjoyed too much. LOL But Toby and Potter had a great time splashing in the water and playing and afterwards we all went for ice cream

 

 

Don't let the sun go down upon your anger.
Mood:  sad

90% of the time Lennie is the perfect boyfriend. He is caring, sweet, funny, and such an absolute joy to be around. But there is that 1%, usually when he drinks, that will cause a great deal of turmoil between us. See when he drinks he gets this “who the hell are you to tell me” attitude and it shuts down all forms of communication. It is like that little annoying kids who sticks his tongue out at you and says, “I don’t have to listen to you. You are not the boss of me.” Such an incident happened Saturday and I think both of us are having a hard time getting over it.

 

Saturday we met up with some friends for dinner at this little Bistro that Lennie and I discovered. We ended up ordering a couple bottles of wine of which I hardly drank because I was driving. I could tell that Lennie was feeling the effects because when he gets drunk he gets very chatty. When dinner was over I invited Maria and Todd over to meet the new puppy. When we got to the house Todd and Lennie grabbed a beer and went out onto the patio. I poured Maria and me a glass of wine and we played with the puppy. After awhile the boys came back inside and Lennie sat down on the floor to play with Potter. He set his beer down on the hardwood floor in front of the door. Potter immediately went over and knocked it over. Lennie picks up the bottle and then points out the spilled beer to Potter so that he can lick it up. I told Lennie not to let Potter drink it and to please clean it up. He said he would but he just stood there while Potter continued to lick the floor. I told him again to stop Potter but he just stood there and laughed. At that moment it hit me…he didn’t’ care about me or Potter. All he cared about was looking cool and funny in front of his friends.  I walked over and grabbed the dog and Lennie said something about me cleaning it up and started to walk away. I shouted, “No you spilled the beer. YOU clean it up.” With Marie and Todd looking on he had no option but to comply but in his eyes the damage was done. I had humiliated him in front of his friends. And maybe I did but he didn’t really leave me any other option.

 

When Maria and Todd left, Lennie took Potter for a walk and came back and told me he was leaving. I tried to talk to him about what happened but he wasn’t interested. He said I had humiliated him. I told him that it wasn’t my intent but that when I asked him to not let Potter drink the beer he just stood there and laughed at me. His response was that when I told him to stop he thought, “Who the hell are you to tell me…” Ahhh there it is…the little annoying boy comes out. I should have shut my mouth at that point because I knew there would be no communicating with him but I wanted to try to work this out and try to get him to understand the dangers of giving a dog alcohol. But it was pointless. He was like that little kid who has been scolded and all he wants to do it pout. He said that he would try to make sure the dog didn’t drink anymore beer and he walked out the door. We had made a deal early on in the relationship to not go to bed angry. Well that night he left and I went to bed alone and angry.

 

Sunday morning I woke up to the sound of Lennie cutting my grass. I got up and took Potter out and Lennie came in to greet us and to have some coffee. You could still feel the strain between us. He asked me how Potter did throughout the night and I said fine and then he said that Maria seemed to like Potter and I said she did and that we were planning a play date for him and Dempsey. Then he got up and went out to cut the grass. When he was done he packed up his stuff and headed back to his house. I didn’t hear from him until about 6PM when he called to see what time I was going to take Potter to the lake. I told him after 7. He came over and we headed out. We barely spoke during the drive or the walk.  I thought he would take the opportunity to talk, but he didn’t. We came home, he took the leash off Potter and gave me a kiss and left. So that was the second night I went to bed alone and angry.

 

I know that I should have brought it up and forced him to talk to me about it but I guess I just hoped he would realize that he had acted like a complete ass Saturday night. Yes I may have humiliated him but he completely disrespected me. I feel myself shutting down and I don’t know how to sop it. My disappointment is just overwhelming at the moment. Am I overreacting to this whole thing? Am I turning this into more than it actually is?

 

On the Potter front….

 

He has finally taken to the crate. I worked with him Friday night and then again on Saturday. I was cleaning at one point Saturday afternoon and Potter walked into his crate and laid down without being forced or tricked. Thanks to Molly at the SPCA for the advice. It worked like a charm and I was finally able to get a good night’s sleep.  I have ordered a DVD that is suppose to help me prepare him for the K-9 Good Citizen’s class. He is a smart puppy I am sure it wont take him long to learn the skills. I have already managed to teach him sit and down and he is even catching on to “Leave it”.

  

Potter Update
Mood:  caffeinated

I thought I would give you all an update on how Potter is doing since the emails have been non-stop since Friday.

 

Potter is doing GREAT! Although to be honest I miss the sick puppy a little just because now he just seems to be on the go ALL THE TIME. He will lie down for a second then he is back up and running around. I would love to know where he gets all of his energy. I finally had him calmed down last night until Lennie showed up and worked him up again. But it is great to see him so happy. Fenwick tolerates Lennie but Potter loves him.

 

I need to get him some more toys because he has declared my socks as his new chew toy. He doesn’t tear them up. He just carries them in his mouth and then runs around the house while I try to chase him to get it back. Lennie was laughing so hard last night as he watched me try to catch Potter to reclaim my sock  Thanks for the help Len!

 

He got his first bath the other night and did not like it at all. I walked in at one point and he had his tail between his legs and this pitiful look on his face. But he smells much better and doesn’t seem to be shedding as much. I am still brushing him every night though. Seems to be the one thing I can do to calm him down.

 

He still doesn’t like the crate although last night wasn’t as bad. He barked for about 20 minutes until he found the bone I stuffed with peanut butter and dog treats hiding under his blanket.

 

Fenwick also seem to be doing a bit better. We went from full on attack mode to sitting in the corner growling and last night he just sat on the ottoman and just watched the dog. There was one point of tension when Potter grabbed Fenwick’s Cat Puppet and Fenwick let out this horrible growl and Potter dropped the puppet and backed away. Fenwick knows that the dog is terrified and take every advantage to torment him. This morning he blocked Potters access to water. I had to act as a shield between the two so that Potter could get by. So funny.

 

Potter has a couple more days of antibiotics left and I gave him his wormer last night which actually went well (Thanks Tanya for the tip). Hopefully I can get him neutered soon and we can start going to the dog park so he can work out all his puppy energy playing with the other dogs. I found a mobile vet that is willing to do the surgery and vaccinated him for $90. I told her my story and she was so eager to help. She has even offered to give me a discount on the microchip.

 

I am hoping soon that Lennie and I can get back to our relationship. It has been put on hold a bit what with the dog and then Lennie’s dental work. I am hoping we can go grab a quick bit to eat tonight and have some quiet time away from the pets. I do need to run to Petco and get some puppy food.

It is all fun and games until some puppy gets Parvo!
Mood:  caffeinated
Topic: Pets
What a weekend! 

 I got a call Friday from the volunteer who was bringing Potter to Raleigh. One of her new volunteers had driven down to Columbus County to rescue 11 puppies. Two of the puppies were sick but the volunteer didn’t think much of it. When they got to Raleigh, Shannon opened the back of the truck and said she could smell it immediately…Parvo. She separated the other dogs and called me to come and pick up Potter ASAP! Of course nothing went smoothly. There was a 7 car accident on 40 that had everything backed up. Two hours after leaving the office, I finally got the dog and ran him to the vet’s where we had met up with Lennie. The did some blood work and a fecal then the Vet came in with the news…he tested positive for Parvo. *sigh* The vet told us that treatment would consist of IV fluids and lots of medication to the tune of $1400. Lennie and I were given a minute to discuss what we should do. $1400 is a lot of money and there was no guarantee that he would pull through. Potter got up off the floor and walked over and placed his head on Lennie’s leg and looked at him with those big brown eyes and that is when we decided we had to save him. We were able to take out a loan with this company called Care Credit, so that we can make payments for the treatment. They put Potter in isolation and we were given some time to spend with him. He was such a trooper. The staff there was so nice and believed that the best way for him to get better was to have something to fight for. I hated leaving him there. Saturday we went for another visit. Potter was up and about…tail wagging and trying to give Lennie and I as many puppy kisses as we would allow. He vomited some and had some diarrhea but the vet said he was happy about his progress. Sunday morning we got a call that Potter kept down his food and that they thought we could take him home that night. I don’t think the vet staff wanted to part with him. He is such a sweet dog. Just wants to be with you all the time and loves to be petted and doesn’t have an aggressive bone in his body. He came in to the house and ignored Fenwick but Fenwick was determined that this puppy would know his place. I thought the cat would run and hide but all he wanted to do was fight the dog. He got Potter a couple of times on the nose and got Lennie and me on the leg. This morning was a little better. Fenwick stayed in my room and growled as he watched the dog. I think it is just going to take time. Sorry the picture isn’t great.  I hope to get more soon. He just won’t stand still long enough. LOL  Hope you all had a good weekend.

 

 

 

 

IT'S PUPPY DAY!!!!!!!
Mood:  happy
Topic: Pets

I have a crap load of work to do today but they only thing I think about is that it’s PUPPY DAY!!!!  I haven’t heard yet from the volunteers so I am hoping they were able to get him out on time. If all went well they should be back in Raleigh at 1PM and I can go pick him up after work.

 

I went last night to pick up the crate and I got to talking to the woman at the register. When she found out I was adopting a dog she gave me a booklet with $160 worth of coupons. Most of them were for free 5lb bags of dog food. SWEET! Oh and for those of you who have a PETCO near you…I am not sure if all of them have it but ours does…it is a self dog wash. It is set up like a regular grooming area but you do it yourself. For a fee they provide you with all the supplies. You make the mess and they clean it up and no more bending over your tub at home they have a big wash bin with steps so it is easy to get your dog in there. What an awesome idea.

 

I talked to Lennie last night and kind of got upset/nervous by the time I hung up. I thought he was as excited about getting a dog as I was but when I asked him last night if he was looking forward to it he just said in a non-enthusiastic way, “Yeah I am…as long as you’re happy then I am okay with it.” What kind of answer is that? The main reason I was getting this dog was because of him. I was happy with life the way it was. I mean I am excited about getting Potter don’t get me wrong but I could have waited a few years until I was a little more stable. He had agreed to help with expenses and when asked last night if he would cover the vet costs since I am paying for all the doggy stuff he said yes but then started to list off all the bills he has to pay and hoped this wouldn’t be too expensive. I have bills too but WE agreed to this. I asked him before I got Potter if this is what he wanted. Maybe he had a commitment phobic moment. I have certainly had those. Maybe he realized how life would be different. It won’t be as easy to travel. It was easier with the cat and bird. They were fine with 2 visits a day but the dog will need to go out several times a day. I am hoping that once Lennie meets Potter he will fall in love with him. I really hoped that he would be honest with me instead of thinking, “well if it will make her happy I will say yes.” If he had said to me, “You know I just don’t think we are ready for this. Let’s wait awhile.” I would have said okay and been fine with it. Now I am just worried that I am getting in over my head and that I won’t have the support that I need from him. I am just hoping now that everything will work out. Both with the dog and with Lennie.

 

I think everything is set up for tonight. I figured since I am meeting Shannon at PETCO I will run in and get him bathed and deflea’ed then head home. I am hoping that Fenwick will take the new addition in stride. I made sure I played extra long with both he and Merlin. I don’t have too many toys yet. I got him a Budda Bone, a Kong, and a stuffed Hedgehog. I also got him from doggy treats. I figured today after his bath I will let him pick out his own toy at the store.

 

I probably won’t post this weekend seeing as I will be busy with the dog. I hope on Monday I will have some pictures to post. Hope everyone has a nice weekend.

 

Update!!!

 

Just got word from the volunteer at the shelter in Columbus County….

 They are.....SAFE and on their journey home ward.  All I really know is, Gracious Gloria (she needs an award of some kind!) picked them up and loaded her car down with some more and they are in route. I do not have times they will be in your area, as she and Shannon have been coordinating that. Just wanted to let you know they are OUT of the shelter and safe. Please let me know how they are doing when they arrive! Best Wishes, Susan & The Gang I just want to cry with joy!!!! 

It is raining puppies over here!
Mood:  happy
Topic: Pets

Well if all goes well I will be the proud new owner of a Golden Retriever. I am just not sure which one.

 

What a morning it has been. But to set up the story I really need to start from the beginning. Last week I took out an ad on Craig’s List asking if anyone had or knew of a Golden that needed to be adopted. I wrote about myself and what kind of life the dog would have if he came to live with me. Any animal that lives in my house is very spoiled.

 

Well all the sudden I got emails from these 4 really sweet women and they sort of adopted me and were determined that they were going to find me the perfect dog. They are apparently part of a network called Furry Friends Rescue and started searching kennels, pounds, Rescue Orgs, and Craig’s List.

 

First there was Max. He was a beautiful 15 mo Golden Retriever. The owner just didn’t have the time to spend with him. I wrote the guy a huge email about why I would be the perfect owner. Well he wrote me back and said sorry he had a new home already.

 

There was then the little puppy I mentioned in Monday’s blog. After several attempts to get the dog from the NRGRR I gave up. They are not putting him up for adoption yet but said that the puppy already had an interested owner.

 

Then another ad from Craig’s List was sent to me. Another Golden named Max…15 months old…could this be the same dog? So I email the woman about me and the type of owner I would be and I wait and I get no response. That was on Monday.

 

Okay so today I get into work this morning and have emails from two of my 4 new friends. There are two puppies at a shelter in Columbus County. Gufus (soon to be Potter if he comes to live with me) who the volunteer thinks is a pure bread (I think he is a mix but who cares) the other is Brewster who is a Golden Mix. They both appear to be about a year old and just as cute as they could be. They are in a high kill shelter so I called them to see if they could hold the puppies till this weekend (Gufus is due to be put down on Friday). The woman stated that they aren’t open on Saturdays and they can not hold dogs. F**K! What the hell am I suppose to do now. I can’t take off this week? So I emailed Amanda (one of my new doggy friends) who put me in touch with Shannon. Shannon heads up Furry Friends and is making a run to the shelter tomorrow. She would be glad to pick him up for me all I had to do was fill out the application. I sort of cringed because I haven’t had luck with rescue orgs and their “applications.” This one called for 8 references. I filled it out and sent it back and within the hour I had my response. I had been approved. She called one reference…my petsitter who gave me a glowing review. So now I have to meet her at Petco and give her the money for the adoption fee. I have asked for Gufus but if he is gone then the woman will get me Brewster. She said she called the pound and they have held both dogs for me. I am so excited. Here are some pictures. They aren’t too good. I had the volunteer run over to the shelter and take some pictures.

 

This is Gufus:

This is Brewster:

 

 

 

 

In the meantime the woman emails me about Max. It is the same dog. They got him Friday and decided he was too much for them so she needed to find him a home. She was hoping to get rid of him by Sunday. I was angry when I heard this. Animals are not disposable. I almost took him but figured that I would better off getting the shelter dog. Yeah I am sure Potter (aka Gufus) will have some health issues and will probably have to be neutered and will cost a fortune but he deserves this chance to be a great dog. Max I am sure will have no problem finding a home. So I told the woman no thanks. Broke my heart but I think I made the right decision.

 

So I guess tonight I will be shopping for the dog. That part I am not looking forward to. I am looking at having to spend around $200. I am hoping Lennie agrees to cover the vet bills. Keep your fingers crossed.

 

A little nervous now....

 

The Spell has been cast!
Mood:  hungry

I watched out my window Saturday as the little girl across the street ran to check her mailbox every 15 minutes until the mailman finally arrived with the parcel she had been so anxiously waiting for. I too felt anxious but I wouldn’t allow myself to even touch the mailbox until I had completed my chores. For I knew if I ran out there and grabbed the package I would end up getting nothing accomplished. I will admit that knowing that it was just sitting out there waiting for me definitely helped to speed the cleaning process along

 

At 2 o’clock I looked around the house and when satisfied with the cleaning, I ran out to the mailbox. There it was…my box from Amazon.com. There was some bright red taped that sealed the box that read Muggles, Do not deliver or open till July 21^st. Well today was Jul 21^st so it was free to open and I ran into the house and grabbed a knife. After pushing away all the advertisements, I finally saw the object I have been waiting for since February. My very own copy of the last book in the Harry Potter series, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollow. I grabbed my glasses, some lemonade and headed to my patio to start reading. I got about 1/4^th way through when Lennie arrived to take me to dinner. I am sure he was annoyed that all I wanted to talk about at dinner was what Harry had been up to since book 6. But he sat patiently and listened while I rattled off what happened so far and which characters had already died. Don’t worry, I didn’t spoil the book for him because he doesn’t and probably will never read it. Well unless we have kids and he agreed that we should read to our children and that these stories had great moral values. He even said that he could see this becoming the next bible. LMAO Only if the world is destroyed and someone comes from another plant and finds that most households contain the Potter series, they may think it was some sort of religious following.

 

Sunday morning I grabbed some coffee and the book and headed back to the patio. This time I reach the middle of the book and forced myself to set it down. I know some of you were shocked. The day was so beautiful that I didn’t want to spend all day reading. I also through that since this is the last book that I will savor it a little since another will not be coming out next year. So of my friends stayed up all night to read it. I enjoy the journey. I like to read a few chapters and then mull over the contents. Trying to figure out in my own mind what Harry might do next. I read a couple more chapters last night before finally putting it down to go to bed.

 

I may have it finished by Wednesday if the homeowner’s meeting doesn’t run long tomorrow.

 

As for puppy news….There still is no puppy. There ate a couple of puppies that just arrived at the SPCA so hopefully I will have time this week to go out and take a look. I just feel like I am on puppy overload. I contacted a pound in Columbus County. They had a Golden Retriever puppy there that would have been perfect. I asked the shelter if they could hold it for me. I was so excited because the adoption fee was only $15 and it was already neutered. Well I got an email back saying that the dog was on its way to Raleigh to the Neuse River Golden Rescue. My heart sunk. I am happy the dog is out of the pound but to adopt a dog from the NRGRR cost $350. WAY out of my price range. So I will just keep my eye out for something else.

Playing hookey....shhhh
Mood:  hungry

I really should play hooky from work more often. We had such a great day yesterday that I hated for it to end.

 

Lennie and I slept in a bit and then got up to have a couple cups of coffee together before pushing him out the door to go get some work done. He had a job a Duke to finish up and then he needed to pick up some equipment he left at NC State. I told him to hurry and get his stuff done because we needed to leave the house at 12:30 to go see Harry Potter.  I don’t think he quite understood how this IMAX thing works. I tried to explain that even though the movie didn’t start to 1:45 we needed to be there early to get in line so that we could get Center/Center in the theater. This is the best spot to be for 3D movies. He sort of blew me off and came strolling in at 1:10. I was PISSED!!! It takes a good 20 minutes to get downtown. Then we have to find a place to park and then stand inline to pick up our tickets. We got there at 1:35 and had to settle for seats on the side. I was not amused but decided I wasn’t going to let it spoil the movie for me. The movie was AWESOME!!!!  I love to watch movies on IMAX because you feel like you are in the film. There is a 20 minute portion of the film that is in 3D whish was amazing. It starts at the point where the kids get on the flying horse like things (can’t remember their names at the moment) and went through the big fight scene with Dumbledore and Voldemort. Of course I cried when Sirius died and the part when Dumbledore tells Harry that it isn’t how they are unlike but how they are different. Such a good film. I want to see it again.

 

After the movie we headed down to the SPCA to look at some puppies. We went into the meeting room and they brought in Anderson, the black border collie I had seen Saturday. Just as before he walked in and immediately worked on our hearts. Lennie fell in love with him and wanted to take him on the spot. I suggested we look at a few more dogs. Reluctantly he agreed. After playing with several more dogs Lennie told me that he still liked Anderson so we went up to fill out the paperwork. The counselor came over and proceeded to run through Andersons papers and we learned more details about him. One of which is that he tends to be aggressive. Then came the one thing I dreaded to hear…he doesn’t do well with cats. After talking more with the counselor we agreed it wouldn’t be a perfect match. I looked over at Lennie and I could see the disappointment on his face. He walked back and said goodbye to Anderson and my heart just broke for him. The good thing about this shelter is that it is a no-kill facility and Anderson will stay there until he finds a home. He is a great dog and I am sure he will be a fit for someone. They put me on a wish list for a Golden Retriever who the counselor and I agreed would be a perfect match for me. But I could still tell Lennie was devastated.

 

After the disappointment of not bringing a dog home we decided to treat ourselves to Café Luna which is a great little Italian place downtown. I had this great seafood pasta dish and Lennie had veal. We sat there and talked a great deal about our relationship and getting a dog. As much as I would love to have a dog I know I can not afford it on my own. Lennie has offered to take on a lot of the finances because he REALLY wants a dog but knows his lifestyle isn’t a good fit. My worry is that we will get this dog and then he will decide he is done with me and I will be stuck with a dog I can’t afford. I know he keeps telling me that he isn’t going anywhere but I still worry. I think in the end I was convinced that getting a dog would be okay. It is too bad we don’t have a dog right now because this weekend is going to be perfect hiking weather.

 

Well I will end it here. Except for a hike, this weekend will be quiet. Lennie has drill so I will only see him in the evenings. I hope everyone has a great weekend planned. It is going to be a nice one weather wise.

This weekend went to the dogs
Mood:  hungry

What a long weird weekend.

 

My friend Tanya emailed the foster woman  to tell her that we was appalled by the way the woman was running her organization and that according to the online description of Andy, I would have been a perfect match. The woman’s response was slightly more irritating than her original message.

 

I appreciate your concerns regarding this matter, but truly, this does not reflect Best Buddies practices.  I am Andy's foster mom, and there's nothing I'd like more than to place him in a wonderful home.  I'd also like very much to help your friend, Rebecca, find just the right dog for her, but to be honest, I don't have any foster dogs, nor do I  know of any, that could be left home alone for 9 hours a day without getting bored and developing destructive behaviors.  Because I didn't know of any foster dogs that could be left alone for so many hours, I did not have any alternates to suggest to Rebecca. 

 

The facts of the matter are that Andy's description for the website was written only a few days after he came to live here when none of us knew very much about him.  It wasn't until last week when he was adopted to a very kind and loving family that we learned that his separation anxiety was as serious as his thunderstorm anxiety.  When he was left at home for just 30 minutes, he destroyed wooden blinds and a window facing in their new home.  Of course, he was returned to me.   We learned  through that experience that he's going to need a home where he's not often left alone.  My husband is retired and I work part time, so someone is here with Andy nearly all the time.  In a situation like ours with the other dogs and us here, he doesn't exhibit separation anxiety.   Because we are home nearly all the time, we can be on the lookout for approaching thunderstorms, and can get him inside in an interior room, and can sit with him until the storm is over.  I can't imagine what he would do at home alone all day if it was storming.  I'm sure he'd be terrified.  Andy's description on the website should be changed, and I will submit those changes to the webmaster as soon as I have time, but with a house full of foster dogs and hospice dogs to care for, I have to prioritize what I do. 

 

Rebecca, I sincerely apologize for not going into more detail in my response to you.  I wish I had a foster dog that would be a good match for you, but I honestly don't.   Most of the adult foster dogs I have are dogs with "issues" and dogs who have special needs, medical or otherwise.  Then, I have puppies who are still much too young to be left alone for many hours.  If I can be of any help at all to you in your search, please let me know.  Again, I do sincerely apologize for not elaborating further in my email to you.  It's been an extremely long day, and I'm just very very tired.   I should have waited til tomorrow to reply to your email, but I thought you were probably anxious for a response.  I really try to do the best I can at accomodating people and helping them find what they're looking for.  I'm sorry I disappointed you.  I've been doing this for seven years, and this is the first time anyone has complained, believe it or not.  Please don't give up on adopting a foster dog or shelter dog because of this unfortunate incident.

 

I admire this woman for what she is attempting to do but it is obvious she hasn’t the first clue on dog training and behavior. Andy is a PUPPY and will display puppy behaviors. Every puppy I have met has some separation anxiety and it takes time to train the puppy to know that it will be okay if it is left alone. My question is…why isn’t this dog crated? It can’t tear up the house if it is in a crate. The dog doesn’t need to be crated forever. Just till it learns the rules of the house. As for the fear of storms…her part about taking him into a room and sitting with the dog until the storm passes is only strengthening his fear. Dogs look to the pack leader (YOU) for guidance in scary situations. If you act scared or nervous the dog picks up on that and will act the same as you. In this case the dog should be provided at safe place to go (a crate with a blanket over it) and you act as normal as possible. Hasn’t this woman ever watched the Dog Whisperer? I was going to write her back but decided to leave it alone. It breaks my heart to see Andy living this way because he could be a great dog.

 

Saturday afternoon I drove down to the local ASPCA... I sat in the parking lot for about 20 minutes just getting up enough nerve to go inside. All sort of thought ran through my head. What if I am rejected again? Can I really afford a dog? I know Lennie said he would help but what happens when he goes to Iraq? Am I really ready for the commitment? One of the animal control officers was going to his car and came over to see if something was wrong. I told him that I was thinking of going in and that I was just wondering if this whole adoption thing is something I should do. He said that it wouldn’t hurt to check the place out. So I got out of my car and went on in. I sat with a counselor for about 30 minutes. We discussed my wants, needs, and concerns in owning a dog and she was very patient and understood my apprehension and even stated that it was good I was being cautious. She stated that I had done a lot more research in owning a dog than half the people that come in. She then took me back to see the dogs. If you live and Raleigh and have never been to the center it is actually some place you should check out. It is one of the best shelters I have seen. The dogs are color coded for age and personality type. This is an attempt to steer people away from just selecting a pretty dog instead and go for a dog that will suits their lifestyle. My color dogs are the Purple – Teacher’s Pet and the Orange- Busy Bee and Goofball. I went through the dogs with the counselor and selected a few I thought might be a match.

 

Meet Buck!

 

Buck is a golden retriever chow mix and is a beautiful dog but was too interested in chasing his tail and was easy distracted by other things. This is not a good thing when you are out hiking. You need a dog that can focus. These are traits that he can be taught but just didn’t get the feeling he was for me. This is good because another couple had fallen in love with him and planned on putting in an application.

 

Then came Sampson.

 

Sampson is a Shepherd Akita mix and was a great dog. I was talking to the counselor at one point and Sampson got in my lap and rolled around. He definitely needed to be the center of attention. Might not bode well for a cat who also needs to be the center of attention.

 

Next in was Linus...

 

 

Linus is a Shepherd/Hound mix and was just a goofball. He came in with a dumb happy go lucky look on his face. What a sweet heart and was very gentle. He is very eager to please and loves attention. He pulls on the leash a little bit but I am sure with a puppy class or two he would be a great walker.

 

Lastly…Anderson

 

 

 

Anderson is a 5 month old Border Collie Mix and probably my favorite dog of the day. The volunteer brought him in and he immediately started worming his way into my heart. He went over and pick up a rope toy and brought it to me so we could play tug of war. When he was done with that he went and got a ball for me to throw. He would bring it right back and curl up in my lap for a belly rub and then wanted me to throw the ball again. When he got tired of playing he came over and got in my lap and just wanted me to snuggle him. Anne it was sort of like Bilbo lying in your arms like a baby.

 

I told Lennie we would go over when he got back into town. I know he is excited but I am still a little unsure about owning a dog. We will see. There might be a dog out there that we just can’t do without.

 

Hope everyone had a good weekend.

 

 

 

Broken Hearted
Mood:  sad

Well I just got the following email back from Andy's Foster Mom....

 Hi Rebecca.  Thanks so much for your interest in Andy.  I've been fostering him for a couple of months now, and have learned a lot about him.  He is a sweet boy, but has thunderstorm anxiety as well as a little separation anxiety.  He's not the happy-go-lucky guy that Goldens usually are.  I think he's going to need a home with someone who's going to be around a lot.   I'm sure sorry he's not the one for you.

Am I the type of person that owns a dog?
Mood:  bright

Well I talked to Lennie last night about Andy the Golden Retriever puppy I wrote about yesterday. He of course was all for it seeing as he has been after me for months to get a dog. I told him I just wasn’t sure if I could handle a dog right now and he informed that that he would help with the finances and care. So this morning I put in an application for Andy. It was 3 pages and very detailed. I am nervous they won’t find me a good match. It is sort of like adopting a child. Now I just have to wait for a phone call.

 

The one thing that worries me is that my yard isn’t fenced in. That is a huge plus to these adoption people. I wasn’t planning on doing it till next year. My boss suggested an invisible fence but I just don’t know if I could shock my dog. I am sure if I was going with a normal pound I would pass just for having a pulse, but this dog is being fostered and I have dealt with a lot of foster moms and they can be very strict on the types of homes they send these dogs to. I figure if I don’t get selected then it is just not meant to be. But I know in my heart of hearts that I could give this dog a great home. I mean just look at Fenwick and Merlin. Have you ever seen two more spoiled animals?

 

I also worry about Fenwick. He has never been around dogs before and doesn’t do well with change. He also doesn’t like sharing his toys and I can just image the fight that would ensue if the dog went to pick up Fenwick’s cat puppet. (shudder at the thought).

 

I was also thinking that if I did get Andy I would have to change his name. What do you think of Potter? Goes with the whole wizard theme I got  going at the moment. I just realized I am getting ahead of myself.

 

We will just have to wait and see.

I am in love...with a dog!
Mood:  happy

A friend of mine knows how much I love Golden Retrievers and how much I long to get a dog. In searching for a dog for himself he came across Andy.

 http://search.petfinder.com/petnote/displaypet.cgi?&petid=8517251&mtf=1

I only wish my yard was fenced in and I was a little more financially secure. God I would love to have this boy. Doesn’t he have the sweetest face? 

I hope he can find a good home. 

 

 

Is it Friday yet?
Mood:  caffeinated

What a week it has been. Thank God tomorrow is Friday.

 

Monday we had the General’s visit. Tuesday we had a field trip to Clayton which took all day. Then Wednesday morning I came in to a notice that I have been “randomly” selected for a drug test (2^nd time this year). Today I have 3 conference calls and a credit card to reconcile. The only thing I have to look forward to is the fact that Supernatural comes on tonight and my plan is to grab a glass of wine and drool over Jensen Ackles for an hour.

 

Lennie called me last night and said he wasn’t sure if he was going to be coming home this weekend. There is an office they are supposed to be working on and they can only get into it on the weekend. He said he will find out today if he will have to stay to help. I miss him like crazy but I am trying to use this experience to prepare me for his departure to Iraq in January. I am keeping my fingers crossed that Congress gets their act together and override Bush’s veto to bring our troops home. Shhh don’t tell the General I said that. I will be accused of being un-American.

 

I still haven’t seen Harry Potter. I told Lennie I would wait and see it with him. I guess it must be love if I am willing to torture myself with not seeing the film so that he and I can see it together. The plan is to take off a weekday and go and see it on IMAX.

 

This weekend should be fairly quiet. Tanya is in town visiting her brother and getting the rest of her things out of storage. We will have dinner together tonight and that will probably be the last I see of her for awhile. I am in the process of planning a Girl’s Night Out for later in the month. I am hoping I can get a good turn out.

 

Well I better get going. I have to grab some lunch before my next conference call. Take care everyone and have a great weekend.

 

 

Kitty Alarm Clocks
Mood:  a-ok

I totally forgot to set my alarm clock last night before going to bed. Today WASN’T a day for sleeping in. Our Brigadier General is visiting today and there was still a lot to get done.

 

Thank God Fenwick can tell time. I woke up this morning to him frantically meowing outside my bedroom door. I yelled at him to be quiet that the alarm hadn’t gone off yet. I rolled over to see how much time I had left to sleep when I noticed that the clock read 5:45 AM. I normally wake up at 5:30. I got up and gave Fenwick lots of hugs and kisses and promised that I would buy him a present on the way home tonight. He proceeded to prance around the house like he knew he had done a good job. Now if I could only get him to realize that I don’t have to get up on the weekend.

 

Normally Lennie spends the night on Sunday and there is some discussion on the wake up time so I usually remember to set the alarm. Well he left yesterday afternoon for a two week trip to Charleston, SC for work so it just totally slipped my mind to turn the damn thing on.

 

We had a small argument Saturday night. Well it was more of a misunderstanding really. Even through we had worked through the issue before we went to bed. I was still a little pissy with him Saturday and part of Sunday. At brunch I realized how stupid I was being. I mean we had worked through it so I should be mad…right. So I decided to cheer up a bit. I didn’t want him leaving town thinking I was still angry. He commented later on how cold the goodbye was on both our parts. I told him I missed him and he told me he thought about me the whole drive down to SC. So I guess things are good. We still haven’t had a knock down drag out fight but I am sure it will happen before too long.

 

The General’s visit today went well. He was only here about 2 hours. He seems like an okay sort of guy. He believes that if you don’t pull your weight you should go which is good because there are a lot of people in our district that are just place holders. Another thing I noticed is that the man LOVES to tell stories. I thought he would go around the table and talk to each one of us about our jobs and some issues we have but instead he asked the group what their concerns were. A few people would answer and then he was interrupt and say, “That reminds me of a story.” And if he could find some way to tie it into a war story he would. The only thing I didn’t like was at one point he said if we were against the war or if we tried to encourage others not to serve in the war that we were un-American and should get the hell out of the country. One thing that makes this country great is that we can disagree. I may not like the war and I may not want Lennie to go off and fight. But I support our troops. And I think that most Americans feel the same way. Granted those who stand in front of a soldier’s funeral with picket signs with Anti-war slogans are tacky and retarded. But I should be able to say to whoever will listen that I hate the war and think we should bring our soldier home now without fear that I am going to be called un-American.

 

Okay enough ranting for one day. I have a ton of work to do. Till next time….

Perfect days should be savored
Mood:  hungry

Yesterday was absolutely perfect. Well except for the fact that I woke up with another wine headache. But I am in much better shape than Lennie who drank wine then switched to beer later in the night.

 

We woke up Wednesday and had coffee and breakfast out on the patio sitting at my new patio table and chairs. The weather was perfect. It was cool with a slight breeze. We sat there a little longer than I would have wanted but it was just so nice we hated to get up. Lennie drove back to his place to change clothes and I packed a lunch and we headed up to Eno River State Park for the day. I had never been there before but my boss raved about it so we decided to give it a try.

 

We got there around noon and grabbed a picnic table and ate our sandwiches and fruit then glanced at the trail map for a hike we could do. We opted for the Coal Mountain Trail which was about 4 miles long. It was a beautiful hike. And we had most of the trail to ourselves. I even managed to spot a Scarlett Tanager (It’s a bright red bird) which was a thrill for me because I had never seen one in the wild. I got some pictures and when I have a chance I will upload them.

 

Once we finished the hike we head home so I could get started making dinner. I was so excited to use my new cedar planks. We had a minor mishap with the first one. It went up in flames and couldn’t be saved so I went in and soaked another one. Thank God the salmon wasn’t on it.  I sent Lennie outside with the second plank to keep an eye on it. Which I am sure he would have preferred to watch Eddie Izzard instead. Dinner was fantastic. The sauce I made for the salmon was very tasty. Lennie stated at one point that he would have paid for a meal like that. I just wish I knew that before I served him. I could have made a few bucks. LOL After dinner we spotted my neighbor Dave and Lennie invited him down to enjoy the new patio and to have some pie. We sat there eating pie and drinking wine and just chatting up a storm. It was such a nice night. My other neighbors were all setting off fireworks. At one point it sounded like my complex was being invaded. It was coming from all sides. Every once in awhile one of the fireworks would go high enough for us to see them.

 

So all in all it was a great day. I need days like that just to recharge. I hope everyone had a safe and enjoyable 4^th.

Weekend Update
Mood:  a-ok

It was a fairly quiet weekend which is just what I needed. I got up Saturday and cleaned the house never once getting out of my pj’s. Well that was until Lennie showed up to take me out to dinner. I had actually already eaten and wasn’t really in the mood to leave the house because it meant I had to put real clothes on. Lennie was suppose to help a friend with his AC. I assumed that they would hang out when they got done because the friend’s wife is in Ireland for a couple of weeks. So I decided I would try to finish off the party leftovers and watch a movie. Lennie showed up stating that his friend wasn’t ready for his help so they were going to wait till Sunday. He was hungry and wanted to go eat at this place called Ted's Montana Grill. This is not one of my favorite places to eat. The food can sometimes be very bland. I figured I would just get an appetizer. Well they only have 4 appetizers and none of them were appealing so I got soup and salad instead. The salad consisted of lettuce, tomatoes, and croutons. That’s it…no other veggies. The soup was New England clam chowder and was so thick that my spoon, when inserted in the center, stood straight up. It also has absolutely no taste.

 

Sunday morning we got up and Lennie headed over to his friend’s house. I finished up my laundry and then headed over to Lowes. I needed to get some planters for the jasmine I got at the housewarming. I also managed to pick up two more plants to try to hide the cord from the fountain. On the way home one of the plants fell over sending soil all over the car. So I spent most of the afternoon cleaning it up. Who knew so much dirt could come from such a little plant.  When I was finished I grabbed a shower, a glass of wine, and some candles and sat outside on the patio enjoying my new plants, fountain, and wireless speaker. At 9PM I went in to watch my new favorite show, Supernatural. I have just recently started watching it. I don’t know why I never gave this show a chance before. It is about these two hunky guys who hunt demons and ghosts. What could be better that that? Lennie said that he is almost positive that it isn’t the show’s content that I like but rather actor Jensen Ackles. *sighs blissfully* Maybe he is right.

 

The only downside of the weekend was the fact that Aunt Flo decided to make an appearance. I should have known…it was a full moon after all. So this morning I woke up extremely bloated, crampy, and tired. All I want to do is curl in my bed with Fenwick and sleep for a week.

 

Still trying to decide what to do for the 4^th. Hiking was mentioned as well as working on Lennie’s house. He is trying to get it ready to put on the market. Not really looking forward to doing manual labor on my day off so I am hoping to convince him to do something fun. . I think I have decided on the dinner menu though. How does cedar plank salmon with a Dijon, lemon, dill sauce, steamed green beans, roasted red potatoes and my famous Red, white and blueberry pie sound?

Patio Furniture and Bidding wars
Mood:  hungry

I am starting to get frustrated with my search to find decent, inexpensive patio furniture. The stores are still charging $200 to $1000 for items that will spend their existence outside in the elements. I just refuse to pay that much. Harris Teeter has a set on sale for $199 with your MVP card but it isn’t really what I want. Maybe Lennie and I can ride over to take a look at it tonight.

 

I finally got rid of the extra bed that Overstock sent me. I posted an ad on Graig’s list on Monday and the gentleman came over to pick it up last night. I had a little bit of a bidding war going on between the gentleman and this horrible aggressive woman. Even though the woman offered me more, I ended up letting it go for $140 to the gentleman. My ad was very detailed and included all the measurements and a picture of the bed. The woman kept emailing me asking me questions about the bed that was already listed in the ad. At one point she asked me to measure he bed diagonally. WTF! I finally told her that the bed was spoken for and pending pickup but she still kept asking questions. She tried to get me to lower my price and finally when I got through to her that I was giving it to someone else she kept upping her price. She told me that she could come and get it RIGHT NOW! I told her I work and would not be home until 5PM. She just kept saying, “I can take it off your hands right now. You don’t need to wait till tonight.*Sigh* I finally just ignored her and went with my first choice. The gentleman emailed me this morning thanking me and told me how much his wife loved the bed. I am glad they will enjoy it.

 

This will be a quiet weekend for me. I am going to do some yard work if the rain holds off as well as try to make a dent in my laundry. Lennie will be helping out a friend Saturday and possibly Sunday. I don’t know if we will see each other in the evenings. It will just be so nice to have a weekend where I don’t have to build or paint something.

 

I hope everyone had a great weekend.

I have "Wine Head"...someone pass the advil...PLEASE!
Mood:  caffeinated
I am feeling like CRAP today. UGH!

I got off work yesterday and ran over to the mall. My plan was to hit Charlotte Russe and if they didn’t have anything I would wander over to NY& Company then on my way out of the mall I would check out Dillard’s. Charlotte Russe always has some cute stuff so I was pretty sure I could find something. I found 2 dresses and a top and ran into the dressing room to try them on. I didn’t like either dress but I loved the top so I bought it. Headed over to NY&C and they had nothing. So I stuck to my plan and hit Dillard’s. They had some really cute dresses but I refused to pay $60. So in the end I only got a top. A quick call to Lennie on the way out of the mall assured me that it would be okay to wear pants. The plan now was to wear my sexy black pants and my new top which is a little strapless number that is white with black roses.

I ran home, said a quick hello to the animals, called the recycling center to inform them that their guy skipped my recycling bin AGAIN, and stepped into the tub for a quick shower. Annie was to pick Lennie up at 6 and then they would head to my place. So that meant I had till 6:20 to get ready. I was making good time. Make-up on…hair done…and about to slip into my clothes when the doorbell rang. F***! I glanced at the clock and it read 6:15 PM. This can’t be Annie and Lennie. I threw on some clothes and ran to the door. I opened it up and there stood Lennie (I need to get him a key) with a not so enthused look on his face. He said that Annie was still at the pub and that her daughter Roxanne was supposed to pick him up. He waited but she never showed so he came on over to my place. We were hoping that Annie would drive so that we could drink but now Lennie would have to be DD. He was not happy.

We drove over to Andy’s (woman cooking the dinner). She just moved into to a really nice apartment complex. It has a pool, weight room, garages you can rent for your car, and a movie theater. Andy informed me that she had reserved the theater so that we could watch a movie. She brought out appetizers and Champaign while we waited for the other to arrived. Finally Scott and Roxanne showed up but still no Annie. We decided to eat dinner without her. Dinner was great! It was salmon over rice served with a curry pineapple sauce and fresh baby carrots. We must have gone through 3 bottles of wine. After dessert Annie finally showed up. She works WAY too hard at the pub. I sat there and chatted with her while she scarfed down some food. Then we all headed over to the theater.

The movie for the night was called Acid Nation (I think). It is a Scottish film and even through they are speaking English, their accents were so strong that the whole movie was subtitled. It was totally bizarre. I think Lennie and Scot were worried that my view of Scotland was now tainted. When the movie ended I glanced at my watch 11:30PM. WAY past my bedtime. We headed home and I immediately crashed.

I woke up this morning feeling like someone took dump on my brain. Why did I drink all that wine? I could really go for something greasy right now. I may have to make a Bojangles run.

Tonight should be quiet. I have a guy coming over to buy that spare bed that has been taking up space in the house. Then I am going to run to Lowes to get pots for the jasmine and maybe a palm plant of some kind. Just looking forward to a night at home.