THE HEART OF A CHILD
Francine Harrington,
Don’t Run—Listen!
Are you aware that the past may not
necessarily be what truly occurred? It is possible that as time goes on our
minds may change some tiny bits of information that can throw the moment into
another dimension. The truth is that
the issues remain the same when battering or living a loveless life where very
little love is given, causes the person to feel abandoned. This is what causes
low self-esteem, which is the cause of inappropriate behavior towards oneself.
People
hurt people, especially when they have been hurt themselves. They may tend to
be extra sensitive because of the pain or they will adopt a hard -hearted
personality, hiding who they really are.
It takes a lot of work and prayer to heal from emotional abuse.
Sharing my story is very difficult because
I get misunderstood. I need to realize
that the person I address may delve into her own past and seek for some sort of
similar situation in order to understand what I am saying. This will produce confusion because the
listener has already stored a preconceived image of what is being spoken and
therefore will pass judgment in accordance to what she thinks she heard.
A problem cannot be fixed if the hearer
does not listen. A blessing will not
bring joy if the story has been misjudged.
How then is one draw wealth from my story if she hasn’t paid complete
attention to what is being said?
Blessings are to be shared and pain is to be alleviated by prayer, love
and understanding.
Each person has her own behavioral
style. While one woman is outgoing and
expressive, another may be quiet and keeps to herself. Each one has her own personality and needs
to be accepted for who she is. No matter what behavioral style the lady has,
she still has a need to be accepted for who she is. It is therefore wise to step into her shoes for a moment to
understand what she is trying to convey.
When I share my pain with you it is
because I want to let you know that my bad moments prepared me to help you with
yours. I asked God do what He had to do
to bring victory in my life and although some of the things He showed me about
myself were not pleasant, I accepted them.
My Lord gave me the desire to work on the things that were displeasing
to Him and although I have the victory over several of my flaws, I still have
work to do.
I am inviting you to walk with me and
together we will win the battle!
Ephesians 2:19b tells us, “You are
citizens along with all of God's holy people. You are members of God's
family.” Hebrews 2:11 also states,
“Since the One who saves and those who are saved have a common origin, Jesus
doesn't hesitate to treat them as family,”
We are family! Our last name is Christian after Christ who
is the Head of this household.
When someone wants to talk to you
about her pain and aggravation
she may come to you out of admiration
for she noticed how you handled your
situation
so please don’t run, take the time to
listen.
When someone is crying out of desperation
and doesn’t know where to turn for
information
don’t be afraid to give her acclamation
Please don’t run, take the time to listen.
When someone is rude and tough to handle
You may be the only candle
to lighten up her dark and dreary world.
All it takes is a gentle word
So please don’t run, take the time to
listen.
When you see a woman battered and bruised
understand that she has been used
as the brunt of someone’s temper
Let her know that you won’t run.
Let her know that you will listen.
Minister Francine Herrington ©
