If Someone is too tired or grumpy to flash you a :-) let them have one of yours anyway.... Nobody needs a :-) as much as the person who has none to give... :-)

SUCCESS
To laugh often and much
to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. That is to have succeeded.

--Ralph Waldo Emerson