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Touched By An Angel
Mary Frances Palasz born
2/6/27 Died 8/21/02
Laid to Rest next to husband Edward Palasz born
2/23/20 Died 8/28/00
Cal's Angel's Slide Show
A very special person was born on 2/6/27. Born at home, the 5th oldest of twelve, this special person had a mission and that mission became her life. We, our family, was her main ambition and you all know by now that that special person was our mom.
We all loved her dearly and each of us will hold endearing memories that will never vanish. Her effect on us is part of us, her inner soul is part of us, and her love for us burns within as an everlasting candle that kindles the warmth we have for each other.
Mom, you left us too soon ... but I believe that dad was calling his ANGEL and his angel replied, " OK Eddie, I'm coming". Someone was instrumental in our mom's short illness. Could it have been the powers above or could it have been our dad who didn't want our mom to suffer. She had cancer, a disease that is usually unkind and vicious, however for those who saw her the past few weeks, will attest, her pain was minimized and for this we thank the Lord. Truly, she did not complain about the pain, and if God took her so quickly for this reason, then losing her now makes it a bit easier, but none-the-less, heart breaking for us survivors.
We'll all miss you mom.
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For any and all of her bingo pals, mom will be looking over your shoulder, flapping her wings and moving your BINGO chips in a winning fashion. And to Billy, her brother, who was the receipient of a half-a-sandwich at each bingo event, mom will now guide you when you brown-bag and prepare your own sandwich.
Besides Bingo, going out to eat was her greatest pleasure. Was mom a good cook? No! But we didn't care because that meant, " Hey kids, let eat out". Faster then the speed of light, we we enroute to her favorite eaterie and that was Mary's on Rawson Avenue where breakfast became a ritual. There she became friends with Sue, also one of her gambling partners. Talking to Sue, you could see they had a very special relationship.
Today mom is smiling on all her brothers and sisters. Thru her, we have gotten to know the EVEN DOZEN ... ( the Crivello Clan ).
Just for a moment ... Picture This ...
Who would arrive (3) days early .. awake at 2am for a 8am bus ride to GreenBay
Two hours enroute to casino ..
Four to Five hours there with the one-arm-bandits
Two hours back to Madeline's place to recoup and overnight ...
Guess what mom called this ... "It's a mimi-vacation". You just can't make this stuff up.
Mom, did you hear Johnny's prayer, moments after your final breath. I know you did. That was the moment dad greeted his ANGEL in paradise. It was a touching tribute. Thank you, Johnny. She loved all of you, Tony, Joe, Dorothy, Madeline, Sarah, Vince, Mickey, Billy, Nancy, Rosie and Johnny. .... and we know you loved your sister.
Have you ever known someone who makes lists-of-lists. Mom keep Post-IT in business. (1) Close all the windows ... (2) Turn the living room lights on. (3) Turn the outside lights on. (4) Make sure the doors are locked ... (5) the note didn't stop there .. (6) Check it Twice
(7) further note .. if lights burned out have Sandy or Heather replace them.
During tornado warnings, gather clan and direct siblings to SW corner of basement and pray the rosary.. NAG NAG NAG that's how we viewed it then, now we know it was only done in love. Close the doors so the mice don't come in. You know what I'm talking about. Mom had a way about her. ... and for that reason we all got together and decided to share our thoughts and inner soul with you.
From the Youngest to the Oldest
Chris's Thoughts:
Hi everyone, I'm Chris, the youngest and probably the most challenging son a parent could want. But mom's constant attention and her ability to maintain peace despite my growing antics was simply amazing. She shielded me so many times and gave me the motherly love like no one could ever give. Oh yea, she was a nagger, all right, but heck, that was her forte' and eventually her ultimate purpose was drilled home. I could always count on mom and she always supplied me with everything I needed. I truly appreciated mom and dad's committment to each other; it had a huge impact on my life. I have been blessed with a wonderful wife and four terrific boys. Your inspiration and guidance throughout my life will be the tool I use in guiding my family. I congratulate you mom on a job well done. My heart is with you and all my love. Everylasting Peace mom and tell pop I love him too.
Joe's Thoughts:
Here is something very special I would like to share with you. I recognized more then ever the last three weeks just how much mother cared about us all, not wanting to put any of us out in any way. All the way to the end. She was always easily pleased. Even the simple things. Just the other day, things started to make sense to me. I watched mom after receiving the news of her cancer and prognosis; she stilled maintained a calm composure, not complaining or looking for sympathy, but enjoying what she loved most in life, and that was her kids. I realized her complaining was her way of expressing her wellness so that we could go on with our daily events and not look back and worry that mom was lonely with dad or us kids around. There is one last thing I'd like to share. Mom and dad you have many things to be proud of. You will be missed by many. The loved you shared with us will always be ever present. Thank You .. Joe & Family ..
Phil's Thoughts:
Mom here is how I'll remember you. I'll make sure to lock the doors at night. I Love You. Thanks for putting up with me growing up !! " and still loving me ". Thanks for the Match Box Cars and case you used to get for me a lot. Thanks for instilling in me " respect for everyone ". Thanks for the snacks from Gondeks. I remember very clearly when we took a bus ride to and thru Milwaukee when I was very young. Thanks for the spare change for penny candy at Bart's candy Store on Rawson Avenue. I loved you for always being so patient and tolerant with me when my thoughts were fleeting. Mom I'll remember my keys! Have good luck at BINGO! I believe you always wanted the best for all of us kids and did not ask much in return other then to be good and respect others. You always made us feel welcomed, but never intruded in our lives. Our children, Jackie and Joey will always remember grandama's goodie bags. Rest in Peace; We Love You.
Patti's Thoughts:
Mom reminded me that she almost died giving birth to me. " I'm sorry mom, I gave you trouble from the start." Unfortunately she didn't always like my sense of humor but it was never intended with disrespect. I had struggled a long time to gain her approval and had a desire to mom speak to me about her deepest feelings, but learned it was not her style. She wasn't much for dialogue; never liked lengthy conversation. I realized there was no sense in my pent-up thinking. Mom was mom; a private person, never wanting to interfere in my life and frequently reminded me of that. I know she showed her very best to guide me throughout my life. And for that I am grateful. I always maintained an endless love for her. Mom was totally devoted to her family and had a devout love for God. Her devastating news about her illness did not hinder any of that. She left this world knowing she was loved deeply, never losing faith. Mom slipped away fast. My life has definitely changed because of her death. She was so brave to endure this experience knowing her time with us was limited. I realized now what a courageous woman mom was despite her fears after dad died. She never once burdened us with any of them, even during her darkest days. I came away from this experience with a heightened awareness of how precious life is and the time we have with those we love. I used to feel guilty over my imperfect past. Today I can say; I have no regrets. The memory of her fianl days have taught me patience, forgiveness, and a deeper sense of security. Recently I told mom that she raised great kids. We are a close-knit family who by the power of our parents became responsible loving human beings. In the quiet of the night; I held her hand frequently reassuring her of my presence and comfort. She laid content. Mom was a great mother, wife, mother-in-law, grandma, great grandma, sister, and friend. She will be missed. She is loved.
Sr. Paula's Thoughts:
I always felt supported in my vocation by mom and dad. I know they always looked forward to my visits. The only hard thing about coming home was knowing there would be " good byes " at the end of each visit. Mom and dad both encouraged and taught me by their simple and strong faith. I am who I am as a Felician Sister because of their love through the years. Mom always asked how the sisters were and shortly after we began the Prayer Associate Program in our community, mom and dad became a Felician Prayer Associate, daily praying for Felician Sisters. Mom lived her faith and always meditated on her many blessings throughtout her life.
Jim's Thoughts:
We enjoyed our overnight trips visiting the Wisconsin Indian Nations. Mom always said that she was not much of a traveler. She loved to go down the hill for something to eat. We never scheduled anything on Sunday afternoons. That was mom's bingo time with her brothers. Mother was our faily " ROCK " that kept us all on the straight path.
Sandy's Thoughts:
Writing my thoughts on paper is very difficult. For those who know me, words flow easily verbally, but the written words rarily flows. How can I say just how much I'm going to miss you mom? Our friendship, especially the past few years has been very close and your strength during my loss of Loran can never be measured. I lost a shopping partner. I always got a kick out of your bargain hunting techniques. " If it's on Sale, Buy it! ". Mom you were our buffer. Your maternal instints always were in high gear as you protected your clan of EIGHT . My teenage years are vivid as you made sure I always looked good when I went out on a date. How can I forget the day you ironed my hair prior to a YMCA dance. You made me feel so good, you made me feel loved. You give me chills now. Thank You so very much. I Love You.
Mark's Thoughts:
Before I echo my thoughts, I would like to express my sincere thanks to my soulmate, Carol, and to my two wonderful children, Matthew and Laurie, who have given me the strength to stand before you all today and for the love and compassion they have demonstrated to me and my entire family. " I love you Matt, I love you Laurie, and I love you Carol, Thank You. " What does one do after they have lost both parents? This is unfamiliar grounds to me. They have been the foundation of all our families, our strength, our fortitude, our rock. How can we continue without them? Why is my HEART so heavy? I feel a tremendous void and loss. The answer to my own questions were revealed minutes after mom joined dad in heaven at 2:14pm on August 21st. Her perfound words should be echoed to all families where both parents have left for higher plateaus. My mother's neighbor, Susan, simply stated, "now that your parents are no longer here, it is your responsibility, as a family, to remain close and in touch, to carry on that foundation that was established by this remarkable couple. I personally know that I have been remise in that primary responsility, however, from this day forward, I ensure you that our family will proceed with reinforced glue, never to be separated, never to loss touch, never to have that bond broken. Our memories of our parents will never be lost in time. Let us rejoice today and allow the heavy HEARTs to be somehow softened as DAD greets his ANGEL in the heavens above.
On behalf of the Palasz and Crivello families, we would like to thank you for your prayers, for your support, and for the love you have demonstrated to us all during this difficult time. We truly appreciate it from the bottom of our HEARTs.
Mary, our mother, would like the Final Word.
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The song you hear is Final Fantasy. God Bless To All
Eulogy is copywrited ... given by Mark Palasz through the efforts of all his brothers and sisters and to all those who touched our mom in a very special way.
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Dad's Memorial Eulogy
Loran's Memorial
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