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Dear Aly-
My job and my love life seem like dead ends. What should I do?
Dear Katfish-
It sounds to me that you are just really stressed out right now. I don't really know how to give you advice as you were quite broad in explaining yourself but the best advice that I can give you is to hang in there. Things are bound to get better as winter leaves and spring approaches us with the flowers in full bloom! Lots of luck to you!
Love, Aly
Dear Aly-
My boyfriend and i have been together for over a month but we've known eachother forever because we grew up together. well just recently we were talking about having a baby and i really want one right now!!!! He says he wants one now also but i don't know if he's just saying that because i said i wanted one. we both really care about eachother and i feel we would be great parents accept i am 17 and he is almost 16. i know we're still young but i will be graduating next year and i love kids so much, what should i do do you think we should try having a kid???? please i need your advice. we talked about trying sometime next year because i don't wanna have a kid while i'm still in school so we're probably gonna wait until i'm halfway through my senior year.
Dear Chrystal-
In my opinon, when you are a teenager you are not ready for the responsibility of raising a child. But in some cases that is not true. I have a friend who is 19, married with two kids and she does a great job with them. So if you want to give up your regular life and have a kid that is you and your boyfriends desion really. I think that you should wait until you are finished with school and you know exactly what you want to do with your life and then work out the children situation. But anyways, good luck with whatever you decide!
Love, Aly
Dear Aly-
Ok...there is this boy in one of my classes at school. He has a girlfriend that he doesnt really like but they are still together because she is very attached to him and he cant find an easy way to get rid of her so just keeps her around. They dont do much together though. Anyways, he and I have fooled around twice now. The last time was Thursday. We both had a really good time. Then Friday at school he came into class and came right over and talked to me and one of my friends in the class was right there...she and him have done stuff too. So I felt kind of awkward and didnt say much. I think he got mad about it too because after class I saw him in the hallway and he didnt talk to me. I am really worried that now he will stay mad and nothing will happen between us again like I want it to. What should I do?
Dear Worried-
I have a question. Do you have feelings for this kid or do you just like to fool around with him? If you have feelings for him and you think that something might come out of the "relationship" you have now, then you should talk to him about it. But if he has a girlfriend and he is doing stuff with other girls this is not good. Maybe you should talk to him and find out what he wants. In my opinion it is wrong to do stuff with a guy that has a girlfriend, but it is different for others. Also know that alot of guys will just get some from girls who know will give it to them. I'm not implying anything, I'm just saying beware! But my suggestion is that you talk to him about it and hope that he will forgive you and not be mad anymore. Lot's of Luck to you!
Love, Aly
