On a personal note, I have to say I have been abused sexually, physically and verbally.
I cannot even begin to tell you how many psychologists or psychiatrists I’ve seen.
~~~ It was a long road to recovery but well worth it. ~~~
If you want to be healthy and happy, you must get the help you need.
Child Abuse in America
Over the past 10 years, more than 20,000 American children are believed to have been killed in their own homes by family members.
According to data from the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System (NCANDS), 49 States reported a
total of 1,585 fatalities.
Based on these data, a nationally estimated 1,670 children died from abuse or neglect in
FFY 2015, which is 5.7 percent more than in 2011 (Source: childwelfare.gov)
American children are suffering from a hidden epidemic of child abuse and neglect. National child abuse estimates are well-known for being under-reported. The latest 2015 Child Maltreatment Report from The Children’s Bureau was published in January 2017. The report shows an increase in child abuse referrals from 3.6 million to 4 million. The number of children involved subsequently increased to 7.2 million from 6.6 million. The report also indicates an increase in child deaths from abuse and neglect to 1,670 in 2015, up from 1,580 in 2014. Some reports estimate child abuse fatalities at 1,740 or even higher.
The United States has one of the worst records among industrialized nations – losing on average almost five (5) children every day to child abuse and neglect. (Source: American SPCC.org)
Who Are the Perpetrators?
In 2015, parents—acting alone or with another parent—were responsible for 77.7 percent of child abuse or neglect
fatalities. More than one-quarter (26.7 percent) of fatalities were perpetrated by the mother acting alone, 14.7 percent
were perpetrated by the father acting alone, and 22.3 percent were perpetrated by the mother and father acting
together. Nonparents (including kin and child care providers, among others) were responsible for 18.7 percent of child
fatalities, and child fatalities with unknown perpetrator relationship data accounted for 3.6 percent of the total.
In 2015, parents—acting alone or with another parent—were responsible for 77.7 percent of child abuse or neglect
fatalities. More than one-quarter (26.7 percent) of fatalities were perpetrated by the mother acting alone, 14.7 percent
were perpetrated by the father acting alone, and 22.3 percent were perpetrated by the mother and father acting
together. Nonparents (including kin and child care providers, among others) were responsible for 18.7 percent of child
fatalities, and child fatalities with unknown perpetrator relationship data accounted for 3.6 percent of the total.
Myths and facts about child abuse and neglect
MYTH #1: It's only abuse if it's violent.
Fact: Physical abuse is just one type of child abuse. Neglect and emotional abuse can be just as damaging, and since they are more subtle, others are less likely to intervene.
MYTH #2: Only bad people abuse their children.
Fact: While it's easy to say that only "bad people" abuse their children, it's not always so black and white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a substance abuse problem.
MYTH #3: Child abuse doesn't happen in “good” families.
Fact: Child abuse doesn't only happen in poor families or bad neighborhoods. It crosses all racial, economic, and cultural lines. Sometimes, families who seem to have it all from the outside are hiding a different story behind closed doors.
MYTH #4: Most child abusers are strangers.
Fact: While abuse by strangers does happen, most abusers are family members or others close to the family.
MYTH #5: Abused children always grow up to be abusers.
Fact: It is true that abused children are more likely to repeat the cycle as adults, unconsciously repeating what they experienced as children. On the other hand, many adult survivors of child abuse have a strong motivation to protect their children against what they went through and become excellent parents.
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Defined as non-accidental trauma or physical injury caused by punching, beating, kicking, biting, burning or otherwise harming a child, physical abuse is the most visible form of child maltreatment.
Many times, physical abuse results from inappropriate or excessive physical discipline. A parent or caretaker in anger may be unaware of the magnitude of force with which he or she strikes the child.
Other factors that can contribute to child abuse include parents’ immaturity, lack of parenting skills, poor childhood experiences and social isolation, as well as frequent crisis situations, drug or alcohol problems and domestic violence.
NCANDS defines neglect as “a type of maltreatment that refers to the failure by the caregiver to provide needed, age-appropriate care although financially able to do so or offered financial or other means to do so” (USDHHS, 2007). Neglect is usually typified by an ongoing pattern of inadequate care and is readily observed by individuals in close contact with the child. Physicians, nurses, day care personnel, relatives and neighbors are frequently the ones to suspect and report neglect in infants, toddlers and preschoolaged children. Once children are in school, school personnel often notice indicators of child neglect such as poor hygiene, poor weight gain, inadequate medical care or frequent absences from school.
Physical neglect accounts for the majority of cases of maltreatment. Physical neglect generally involves the parent or caregiver not providing the child with basic necessities (e.g., adequate food, clothing and shelter). Failure or refusal to provide these necessities endangers the child’s physical health, well-being, psychological growth and development. Physical neglect also includes child abandonment, inadequate supervision, rejection of a child leading to expulsion from the home and failure to adequately provide for the child’s safety and physical and emotional needs. Physical neglect can severely impact a child’s development by causing failure to thrive; malnutrition; serious illness; physical harm in the form of cuts, bruises, burns or other injuries due to the lack of supervision; and a lifetime of low self-esteem.
Educational neglect involves the failure of a parent or caregiver to enroll a child of mandatory school age in school or provide appropriate home schooling or needed special educational training, thus allowing the child or youth to engage in chronic truancy. Educational neglect can lead to the child failing to acquire basic life skills, dropping out of school or continually displaying disruptive behavior. Educational neglect can pose a serious threat to the child’s emotional well-being, physical health or normal psychological growth and development, particularly when the child has special educational needs that are not met.
Emotional/Psychological neglect includes actions such as engaging in chronic or extreme spousal abuse in the child’s presence, allowing a child to use drugs or alcohol, refusing or failing to provide needed psychological care, constantly belittling the child and withholding affection. Parental behaviors considered to be emotional child maltreatment include:
•Ignoring (consistent failure to respond to the child’s need for stimulation, nurturance, encouragement and protection or failure to acknowledge the child’s presence);
•Rejecting (actively refusing to respond to the child’s needs — e.g., refusing to show affection);
•Verbally assaulting (constant belittling, name calling or threatening);
•Isolating (preventing the child from having normal social contacts with other children and adults);
•Terrorizing (threatening the child with extreme punishment or creating a climate of terror by playing on childhood fears); and
•Corrupting or exploiting (encouraging the child to engage in destructive, illegal or antisocial behavior).
A pattern of this parental behavior can lead to the child’s poor self-image, alcohol or drug abuse, destructive behavior and even suicide.
Severe neglect of an infant’s need for stimulation and nurturance can result in the infant failing to thrive and even infant death. Emotional neglect is often the most difficult situation to substantiate in a legal context and is often reported secondary to other abuse.
Child Abuse Statistics
Emotional Abuse
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