A BEAUTIFUL TRUE STORY
At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My
name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music
teacher from Des Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my
income by teaching piano lessons-something I've done for over
30 years. Over the years I found that children have many levels
of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a
prodigy though I have taught some talented students.
However I've also had my share of what I call "musically
challenged" pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11
years old when his mother (a single Mom) dropped him off for
his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially
boys!) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to
hear him play the piano. So I took him as a student. Well,
Robby began with his piano lessons and from the beginning I
thought it was a hopeless endeavour.
As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and
basic rhythm needed to excel. But he dutifully reviewed his
scales and some elementary pieces that I require all my
students to learn.
Over the months he tried and tried while I listened and
cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly
lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play
someday." But it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any
inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she
dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She
always waved and smiled but never stopped in. Then one day
Robby stopped coming to our lessons.
I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack
of ability, that he had decided to pursue something else. I
also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad
advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer
on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a
flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that
the recital was for current pupils and because he had dropped
out he really did not qualify. He said that his mother had been
sick and unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still
practicing. "Miss Hondorf . . . I've just got to play!" he
insisted.
I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the
recital. Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something
inside of me saying that it would be all right. The night for
the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with
parents, friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the
program before I was to come up and thank all the students and
play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do
would come at the end of the program and I could always salvage
his poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The students had
been practicing and it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His
clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he'd run an
eggbeater through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other
students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least make him
comb his hair for this special night?"
Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was
surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's
Concerto #21 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard
next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced
nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo.
From allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart
demands were, Magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so
well by people his age. After six and a half minutes he ended
in a grand crescendo and everyone was on their feet in wild
applause.
Overcome and in tears I ran up on stage and put my arms
around Robby in joy. "I've never heard you play like that
Robby! How'd you do it? " Through the microphone Robby
explained: "Well Miss Hondorf . . . remember I told you my Mom
was sick? Well, actually she had cancer and passed away this
morning. And well . . . she was born deaf so tonight was the
first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it
special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the
people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be
placed into foster care, noticed that even their eyes were red
and puffy and I thought to myself how much richer my life had
been for taking Robby as my pupil.
No, I've never had a prodigy but that night I became a
prodigy. . . of Robby's. He was the teacher and I was the pupil
For it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance and
love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance
in someone and you don't know why.
Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P.
Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995.