Lessons of Life

I've learned -              
that you cannot make someone love you.              
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.              
The rest is up to them.     

I've learned -             
that no matter how much I care,              
some people just don't care back.      

I've learned -              
that it takes years to build up trust,              
and only seconds to destroy it.     

I've learned -              
that it's not what you have in your life              
but who you have in your life that counts.      

I've learned -             
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen             
minutes. After that, you'd better know something.      

I've learned -              
that you shouldn't compare              
yourself to the best others can do.      

I've learned -              
that you can do something in an instant              
that will give you heartache for life.      

I've learned -              
that it's taking me a long time              
to become the person I want to be.      

I've learned -              
that you should always leave loved ones with              
loving words. It may be the last time you see              
them.      

I've learned -              
that you can keep going              
long after you think you can't.      

I've learned -              
that we are responsible for what we do,              
no matter how we feel.     

I've learned -              
that either you control your attitude              
or it controls you.      

I've learned -              
that regardless of how hot and steamy              
a relationship is at first,              
the passion fades and there had better              
be something else to take its place.      

I've learned -              
that heroes are the people              
who do what has to be done              
when it needs to be done,              
regardless of the consequences.      

I've learned -              
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.      

I've learned -              
that my best friend and I can do anything              
or nothing and have the best time.      

I've learned -              
that sometimes the people you expect              
to kick you when you're down              
will be the ones to help you get back up.      

I've learned -              
that sometimes when I'm angry              
I have the right to be angry,              
but that doesn't give me              
the right to be cruel.      

I've learned -              
that true friendship continues to grow,              
even over the longest distance.              
Same goes for true love.      

I've learned -              
that just because someone doesn't love              
you the way you want them to doesn't              
mean they don't love you with all they have.     

I've learned -              
that maturity has more to do with              
what types of experiences you've had              
and what you've learned from them              
and less to do with how many              
birthdays you've celebrated.      

I've learned -              
that you should never tell a child              
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.              
Few things are more humiliating, and              
what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.      

I've learned -              
that your family won't always be there for you.              
It may seem funny, but people you aren't related              
to can take care of you and love you and teach              
you to trust people again.      

I've learned -              
that no matter how good a friend is,              
they're going to hurt you every once in a while              
and you must forgive them for that.      

I've learned -              
that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by              
others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive              
yourself.      

I've learned -              
that no matter how bad your heart is broken              
the world doesn't stop for your grief.      

I've learned -              
that our background and circumstances              
may have influenced who we are,              
but we are responsible for who we become.      

I've learned -              
that just because two people argue,              
it doesn't mean they don t love each other              
And just because they don't argue,              
it doesn't mean they do.      

I've learned -              
that we don't have to change friends              
if we understand that friends change.      

I've learned -              
that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a              
secret. It could change your life forever.      

I've learned -              
that two people can look at the exact same thing              
and see something totally different.      

I've learned -              
that no matter how you try to protect your              
children, they will eventually get hurt              
and you will hurt in the process.      

I've learned -              
that your life can be changed in a matter of              
hours by people who don t even know you.      

I've learned -              
that even when you think you have no more              
to give, when a friend cries out to you,              
you will find the strength to help.      

I've learned -              
that credentials on the wall              
do not make you a decent human being.      

I've learned -              
that the people you care most about in life              
are taken from you too soon.      

I've learned -              
that it's hard to determine where to draw              
the line between being nice and not hurting              
people's feelings and standing up              
for what you believe