I basically lead an average life. I am not a religious person although I do believe in God and Heaven.
You see, I have been on a journey, I am sure many of you reading this
are walking along side of me. It's a painful journey but a necessary one.
When I began my journey I met a lot of people along the way,
mostly greiving mothers like myself. Some I found and some found me,
but it's the finding eachother that has brought me to this belief.
I no longer believe that the similarities of 2 lives could be
nothing more than luck or "coincidence". This had been a thought of mine
for some time, but until now it wasn't clear to me.
I believe everything happens for a reason, good things and bad things.
After my daughters death I started my search. I was in search
of someone exactly like me. I thought if I could find another mother
going throught the same thing as me she would understand
completely and know exactly how I feel.
So, while visiting a Children's Memorial site I came across a list of names.
I chose a child, a little girl whose birth and heaven dates
were close to Theresa's and then I clicked on her name.
After reading Sara's story the first thing I thought was
"What a coincidence".
Her story was so similar to Theresa's. Sara had died just 5 days
before Tee-Tee, she was a few months younger and the most amazing
part was that Sara's mommmy, Michele, shared the same birthday as me.
Coincidence? I don't think so.
When Michele and I talked about it we would say that
Sara and Theresa got us together. I believe that to this day.
I honestly believe that Angels somehow guide us where we need to go.
I think Angels have played a significant roll in the lives of the people they touch.
I don't know if God instructs them or if they move about their own families
as if they are still here, that part remains a mystery.
If you have any feedback on this subject~please send me a message.
