ED
AND EMMA'S
CHILDREN
Frank Wesly Sallinger-------
Frank Wesly was born November 22,
1909 on
the family farm near Marquette, Ne and died May 29, 1983 in
Kearney,
Ne. He married Judith Lucille Webster October 26, 1933 in Seward,
Ne. Judith was born Ocotober 5, 1914 and died December 30,
2003and is
the daughter of Charles Webster and Gail Weakley .
Wes and Judy are the parents of Lois Ellen; Charles Edward
and Richard Lee.
Wes & Judy
1ST DATE
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30th Anniversary
EMMA; ED; WESLY; JUDY
SALLINGER
GAIL PETERSON;
CHARLIE WEBSTER
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Wes and Judy Sallinger
ABT 1980
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More About Frank Wesly Sallinger
Frank Wesly
Sallinger
was born on the family farm near Marquette, Ne and spent his early
years
helping work the family farms near Cairo, Woodriver and Shelton,
Ne.
He graduated at the top of his class from Cairo High School in
1927.
He loved and played all sports and for several years, held the pole
vault
record at Cairo High School. He met Judy Webster at a dance at
Grange
Hall Northwest of Shelton and they married October 26, 1933 in Seward,
Ne. Myrl and Ellen Sallinger, having married the day before in
Lincoln,
Ne were witnesses. Wes and Judy started their life together on
the
farm of Judy's father, northwest of Shelton where Lois Ellen and
Charles
Edward were born. In 1936, his love for sports continued as he
was
a member of the Shelton baseball team playing as their first
baseman.
As dry conditions made farming an unprofitable business Wes moved his
family
to Niangua, Mo where he started a milk delivery route. Their third and
last child, Richard Lee was born during this period. Wes moved
his
family back to Shelton in 1940 and took up farming once again Northwest
of Shelton. While operating the farm, he joined the Kearney Ne
carpenters
union and helped build the hangars at Kearney Army Airfield during WW
II.
In 1945 Wes contracted severe Rheumatism in his legs and ankles,
causing
him to quit farming, working construction and playing baseball.
Kearney
Carpenters Union Local 1430 hired him as their business agent which He
held until resigning in 1958 to build and operate a bowling alley in
Shelton.
He operated this business in partnership with Judy for 15 years at
which
time he sold out and retired on Social Security. He was a fun
loving
man, a practical jokester and loved it when someone would get up a
fishing
party------only he always contended that "some darn fool wanted to
fish".
He was instrumental in having a huge "Carp" hooked to friend Herb
Bonsacks
fishing line on one trip when Herb was the only one not catching
fishing.
It was many years later that was filled with lots of bragging by Herb
about
the fish he caught when Herb was told the real story behind that fish
tale.
On another outing, Wes was caught by Judy with having nothing but a
lead
sinker on his fishing line-----his excuse being he was there to rest
and
relax, not work. Wes and Judy became fond of getting away from it
all in a camper and after retirement, bought a "mini-home" that
saw
many miles crossing the United States. It was on his last trip to
Florida
that Wesly was diagnosed with having Pancreatic Cancer, and after 6
weeks
in a Panama City, Fl Hospital and surgery, he was flown home to be with
the main group of his family that he loved so dearly and prepare for
his
final resting place. Wesly was buried in Shelton Cemetery,
Shelton,
Ne.
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About Judith Lucille Webster
Judith Lucille
Webster was born in Gibbon, Nebraska, the daughter of Gail Weakley and
Charles Webster. Her parents separated and divorced when she was
two years of age and from that time until she entered high school, she
attended country schools in the Gibbon/Shelton area and in California
while living with her father and at times with aunts and uncles.
After finishing the eighth grade at District #17 school NW of Shelton
and while staying with another aunt and uncle, she entered high school
in Kearney, NE but was recalled to the farm home by her father to help
take care of her ailing grandmother. She never had the
opportunity to return to school after this point in time, but stayed on
the farm helping her father with the farm chores and the housekeeping.
About a half mile from the farm house
was a community center called Grange Hall, which was across the road
from the one room District #17 school house. It was here during a
dance and social gathering that she met her future husband Wesly
Sallinger who at that time lived 2 1/2 miles northwest of her on
another farm. They exchanged their marriage vows in Seward,
Nebraska in 1933 and returned to the farm home of her father to take up
farming and begin their family. In 1934 and 1935, Lois and
Charles (Bud) were born and not long after, the family moved to
Niangua, Mo. where Richard was born in 1939. They returned to the
same farm home north of Shelton in 1940 and took up farming once
again. Judy was very active in all aspects of farming along with
her homemaking chores. Without her knowledge and help during the
early years that Wesly became crippled with rheumatism, the family
would have truly suffered financially as it was Judy along with the
children who provided the labor that kept the farm going.
In 1948, the family sold the farm
operation and moved into Shelton where Judy soon became involved in the
Shelton Turkey Hatchery. For five or six months of the year, she
could be found placing eggs in incubators and monitoring the incubation
process till time for hatching. When the hatching process was
complete, she would be found taking care of newborn turkeys and
preparing them for shipping to turkey growers and than the process
would start all over again. During the fall, she would be found
at the processing plant in Gibbon, preparing those same turkeys for
homemakers to cook for the Thanksgiving and Christmas meals.
Wes and Judy had a love for bowling and a
desire to operate a bowling alley of their own. In 1958, they
built a six lane bowling alley in Shelton which they operated for the
next 17 years until Wes sold the alley and retired. Judy had her
own lunch counter at the bowling alley where she was famous for
her "Judy Burgers" that attracted people from surrounding towns.
Her malts and "Green River" sodas were also enjoyable. When they
sold the business, Judy
decided to continue working and obtained employment at a factory in
Kearney making filters, which she continued for twelve years and then
retired.
She and Wes had a love for getting away from
it all and purchased a mini-home that saw many miles crossing the U.S.,
providing many happy moments. She loved a good card game, fishing
and breathing the fresh air of spring. She also loved to crochet
and cook. If a contest were held for the best homemade noodles
and chicken, she would undoubtedly win the contest hands down.
Her children and grandchildren was her greatest source of
enjoyment. She loved them all equally and shared their pain as
well as their joy. She hated strife and refused to take sides in
an argument for fear of showing love to one more than the other but
would strive to cement a relationship and her children and grand
children loved her equally in return. On the day of her funeral,
a grand daughter, Brenda Ruyle Moeller wrote a letter to her that was
read by great grand daughter, Lonna Moeller and is indicative of just
how much she was loved and will be missed. That letter and a poem
found and altered by Jody Moeller to reflect on "Grandma Judy" and also
read at the funeral by great grand daughter Kari Gangwish Willis
follows.
Letter to
Grandma Judy
Read by Lonna Moeller at funeral service
1-3-03
Hi Grandma, it's me. I'm feeling
restless and I know it's because I
feel the need to write you one last time. I want to say I love you, I
wish you well, and thanks for being the best grandma there ever
was. You are a great role model, and I hope that Kaleb, and all
of my future grandchildren will feel as lucky to have had me as their
grandma, as I feel about having had you in my life.
Life with you was so fun! When I think back to my early years, I
realize how lucky we were to have you and Grandpa just across the
street. You always had a full cookie jar, time to play games, paper
dolls, sewing Barbie clothes, a basement full of chinchillas, and don't
tell mom .... But a choice for a different meal if we didn't like what
she had cooked. You and grandpa taught us to bowl, to be good sports,
about responsibility (when you would let us work behind the counter at
the bowling alley) You made the best cheeseburger I have ever had in my
life! Speaking of your good cooking, nobody can make chicken and
noodles like you do either.. ...I have tried, even with my lessons from
you, but they just aren't yours!
You and grandpa instilled in me a love for the outdoors. We grandkids
loved to go fishing with you, even though it was sometimes dangerous to
your health (we all felt pretty bad when Beck hooked your
nose....ouch!) I'll never forget the time you took a bunch of us
grandkids to G.I. fishing, and we somehow talked you and grandpa into
letting us bring home a couple of buckets of tadpoles, which we kids
proceeded to put into my parents washtubs in the basement..... .WOW, it
didn't take too many days for them to start stinking! Beck and I really
enjoyed our vacation to South Dakota with you and Grandpa. Traveling in
the camper, and seeing sights to treasure a lifetime. Joe and I
always enjoyed our evening of playing cards with you and Grandpa when
we were first married. You'd always have a great meal for us before the
cards would start, and even though Joe never said a word, I'm sure he
had to have wished his wife could cook like her Grandma. You taught me
what a successful marriage is all about........ .lots of love,
laughter, a sense of humor, about creating a safe harbor for those you
love, being able to play, work , and vent when you needed to.....to say
what was on your mind and then to let it go.
When I think about the biggest, most important lesson you taught me
about life, it has to be unconditional love. It didn't matter the sin,
crime or truancy involved.....you loved right through it. That doesn't
mean you didn't feel hurt, shed tears, or feel the pain, but you loved
all of us closest to you through everything, and you encouraged the
rest of us to do the same. You taught us all about forgiveness, and
about the importance of living life to it's fullest and about not
wasting time on anger, hurt and grievances, and leaving the judgements,
and punishments up to the lord above.
You held your head high and showed the rest of us how to carry on after
Grandpa passed away. I was so proud of you, and the way you continued
to live life to it's fullest. You really impressed me when you joined
that aroebics class at Emerson! You continued card games with us and
trips to the lake where you still managed to beat a lot of us in bean
bags. When you found out you had breast cancer, you once again showed
the rest of us how to get through that. It should have been us keeping
you strong, but down deep I know we wouldn't have been as strong
without your strength, and great sense of humor. I remember one evening
when I was sitting with you and you were worried that I needed to get
home to my family, I told you I was enjoying the quiet time from my
crew, and you knowingly smiled, as only a wife and mother could, and we
settled in with our cups of tea and some good t.v.
I am so grateful to have had some time with you before you left us the
other night. I felt like you had something to say when you reached for
my hand and I think I know what it was..... .yes, we will take care of
mom, yes we will be strong and carry on, yes we are ready to let you go
and enjoy your well deserved time with Grandpa, and yes we will love
each other to the best of our abilities.
Grandma, I will shed tears yet today as I treasure all the memories you
have left with me.You will be so missed, but after today the tears will
stop and I will rejoice for you and Grandpa. I know how happy he must
be to have you back in his arms. I don't think any of us will fear our
time for heaven, as we know God will have you there waiting for us with
wide open arms, a great meal, and some card playing for dessert!
Rest in peace Grandma, I love you, and once again thanks for being the
best grandma there ever was..
Brenda
REFELCTIONS
IN A POND
By Jody Moeller
Read by Kari Gangwish Willis
I see reflection in a pond
Of summer days gone by.
Memories, so sweet and dear
Of Grandma Judy and I.
On a very warm and sunny day
Under the shade of an old oak tree,
We walk along the water's edge,
My Grandma Judy and me.
She gently holds my hand
As I near the slippery bank.
A day of fun, no cares at all.
I have my Grandmother to thank.
Ever patient, smiling, laughing,
She helps me set my pole
I know now that gleam in her eye
Both of us kids, at a fishing hole.
We tossed a line into the pond,
My bobber dipped in strife
Grandma tells me it's the biggest Bluegill
She's ever seen in her life!
We gather up our good day's catch
In the warmth of the summer sun
We pause to take a picture now
A snapshot of our smiles and that day of
fun.
Our reflections in the pond grow diim
As the dark of night falls past,
But, these memories of my Grandma Judy
Will forever last.
***
ELMER EDWARD SALLINGER
Elmer Edward was born December 14, 1914
in Grand
Island, Hall County Ne. and died June 1998 in Winchester, Va. He
married Ethel Gladys Reynoldson February 14, 1941 in Crawford, Ne.
Ethel
was born May 5, 1915 in Horsehoe Bend, Ne and died February 28,
1998
in Winchester, Va. Elmer and Ethel are the parents of
Sally Lou;
Cindy Sue and Elmer Edward Jr.
Elmer Edward Sallinger Sr.
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Ethel and Elmer
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Elmer Sallinger Sr.
abt1986
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More About Elmer Edward Sallinger Sr.
Elmer grew up on the family farms in
Hall County,
Ne, and attended school at Cairo, Ne graduating about 1932. After
graduation, the family moved their farming operation to an area
Northwest
of Shelton, Ne. In the late 1930's, dry conditions made farming an
unprofitable
business and Ed Sallinger moved his family to Niangua, Mo. Elmer and
brother
Carl stayed behind in Nebraska to join a "Civilian Conservation Corp"
camp
to help generate an income for the family to survive. After a
time,
Elmer left the camp to join the US Army. His tour in the army
took
him to many of the states as well as Japan, Germany and other countries
in Europe, and always with his family. He retired from the Army
in
1960, settling in Winchester, Va and began Civil Service employment in
Berryville in what is known as the "Mountain", an underground facility
for high level government employees to be used in case of attack by a
foreign
power. He retired from this job in 1981. While living in
Winchester,
Elmer practiced his skills he obtained from farming as a youngster with
a garden that always produced a beautiful and bountiful crop of
vegetables
and flowers. His hobby was raising flowers for competition in
which
he won numerous ribbons at flower shows in Washington D.C. for his
gladiollas.
Many of these flowers he grew in his basement with artificial
light.
Elmer and Ethel separated and divorced in 1976 with Elmer re-marrying
twice
before his death. Ethel remained single until her death.
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About Ethel Sallinger
As related in
remarks
at Ethels funeral by her granddaughter, Cindy Clark Sheffield, Ethel
was
born in Horseshoe Bend, Ne and was raised as an only child. She did
have
a sister who died as an infant. Her father left them at an early age,
so
was raised by a single working mother during the depression
years.
Although life was hard, Grandma spoke of dances, music and laughter and
"her dance card was always full". After marriage to Elmer, her
three
children became her "pride and joy" and she had a story for everything
that she could relate to one or the other of the children.
Growing
up, I (Cindy) had the pleasure of taking several vacations with
Grandma.
"We were back seat buddies", and in this backseat, I learned about life
in Nebraska, life during the Depression, and at whatever age I was at
the
time, Grandma had a unique gift of remembering herself at that age and
could relate to how awkward I may have felt at a certain age. We
would make up songs, tell jokes and on one of our trips, I learned how
to "shoot craps" with two sugar cubes that Grandma had transformed into
"dice". Life was never dull with Grandma around. Grandma
was
not only confidante or roomate on trips but a teacher and most of all,
a friend. Grandma was a wonderful person who gave of her time and
herself so openly. In the end it wasn't materialistic things that I
remember
Grandma for---it was her laughter and her love. Grandma wrote me a poem
when I was 12 years of age that said: When twilight pulls the curtain and pins it
with a star, my love for you will always be no matter where you
are. In rremembrance of my Grandmother Ethel, I dedicate
the chorus of this song by Boyz II Men: It states; I know you're shining down
on me from Heaven, like so many friends we've lost along the way.
And I know eventually we'll be together-One Sweet Day. The
song title is One Sweet Day with Mariah Carey and Boyz II Men.
The Wesley
Methodist
Church
Minister added----Ethel was one of those rare people who truly did not
know a stranger. Her life was a life of faith; love; endurance;
and
gentleness. She lived the life God commanded her to live and
lived
it to its fullest. She loved her children and how she loved to
brag
on her grandchildren and great grandchildren-- "They are wonderful she
would tell me". Her family was at the center of her loving
and nurturing attention. She always gave her support to the
church.
Her outreach was a symbol of encouragement. she had a gift for
lifting
spirits----always with words of praise. We have all been touched by the
warmth and love of this special lady. IF YOU EVER WANTED A
CHALLENGE---YOU NEEDED TO PLAY CARDS OR TRIVIAL PURSUIT WITH
HER.
***
CARL LLOYD SALLINGER----
Carl Loyd married Beulah Clair
August 8,
1936 in Niangua, Mo. Beulah was born March 17, 1917 in Niangua,
Mo
and died February 1985 in Lincoln, Ne. Carl and Beulah (Boots)
are
the parents of Carl Daniel and Larry.
Carl and Buelah sallinger
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Carl Sallinger abt 1983
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More About Carl Lloyd Sallinger
The third of five chldren, Carl was born at home on Lafayette Street in
Grand Island, Ne and during his years of growing up, his family farmed
near the small towns in the Grand Island area; Cairo, Wood River,
Shelton.
Like many children of the 1920's, Carl had to leave school early to
help
with the family farming but was always wishful he could have completed
his education. However, he did stay aware of all that was
happening
and was educated in many important ways other than in school.
During
the dry years of the 30's, the family moved to Missouri leaving Carl
and
brother Elmer behind to join a "CC" camp earning $30 a month of which
he
kept $5 and gave the rest to his parents. After a time, he joined
his family in Missouri where he eventually met Beulah Clair while
attending
the same church and they were married on August 8, 1936. In 1943
they moved to Grand Island, Ne where Carl gained employment as a truck
driver for Neilson Peterson Co.,and later, as a charter bus driver
which
often took him away from home for extended periods. As a charter
bus driver, he traveled all over the United States, but his greatest
joy
of driving the charter bus was providing the transportation for the
Grand
Island High School basketball and track teams to their games for which
his son Larry was a member. Being away for long periods was
difficult
for the family so he sought employment near his home and rounded out
his
years of employment driving for 3rd City Meats. After 49 years of
marriage, Beulah passed away. Carl than met and married Helen Simpson
in
1991 but after four years, Helen passed away with Cancer. In
December
1997, Carl was taken to Lakeview Health and Rehab Center, Grand Island
Ne in serious health condition. After a change of medication, a
few
months of Rehabilitation and a remarkable recovery, he became a social
organizer, getting a group of men residents out of their rooms to meet
for coffee and cookies in the social hall. His efforts in
enhancing
the daily lives of the residents of Lakeview earned him the respect of
the staff and the nomination of RESIDENT OF THE MONTH for July 1998. He
was a man who liked keeping a neat yard, loved jokes, football, and
Burger
King. He enjoyed driving in the country and meeting people. At
the
time of Carl's death, he had 9 grandchildren, 10 step grandchildren, 7
great grandchildren, 12 step great grandchildren and two great great
grandchildren.
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About Beulah Clair Sallinger
Beulah Irene (Clair) Sallinger
was the
second of nine children born to Ralph Albert Clair and Pearl (Dudley)
Clair
and grew up in a two story, two room log house built (The cabin still
stands
today) by Ralph on a small farm in the tree covered hills east of
Niangua,
Mo. where water was obtained from an ice-cold artesian well.
Ralph
Clair was a brick mason, carpenter and farmer and Pearl was a mother
and
homemaker. Ralph also operated a saw mill on his property.
While Ralph worked as a brick mason and farmed, Pearl and the children
raised a large garden every year that was located adjacent to the cabin
along with several fruit trees and a smoke house. They cared for
the garden and trees, canned all the vegetables and fruit and smoked
all
of their own meats for the family.
Beulah met Carl
Sallinger
at a church function and they were married on August 8, 1936.
Beulah
was 17 and Carl was 19. The mid to late 1930's and early 40's
were
hard years for everyone and Carl thought the family would be better off
in Nebraska and moved the family to the Grand Island area in
1943.
Beulah had given birth to two son's, Carl "Danny" and Larry while
living
in Missouri. Carl was a farmer but found work driving trucks
while
Beulah was primarily a mother and homemaker until the boy's were in
Junior
High School. At that time, Carl was seriously hurt with a back
injury
while driving a truck for Nielson & Peterson Company and Beulah was
forced to find employment. Not having any formal education except
for some elementary school, she found employment working as a waitress
and cook in several different establishments in the Grand Island area
over
a 15 to 20 year period until she retired in 1977.
Beulah was a
fantastic
cook and had many specialties she would prepare for the family.
She
raised a large garden every year and one of her specialties was canning
dill pickles with people from all over Grand Island placing orders for
her pickles. Her potato salad was also well known around Grand
Island
as she would often prepare her special recipe in the various places she
worked. Many times she was asked for the recipe but always
refused
to share it, even with an offer from the well known Driesbachs Steak
House
to buy it from her. She also canned many different vegetables and
fruits (learned from her mother). Beulah was a very generous and
supportive person, an immaculate housekeeper and very particular about
clean clothing. After a long illness and bout with cancer, she
died
February 21, 1985 at the age of 65 in a hospital in Lincoln,
Nebraska.
She was buried in Grand Island, Nebraska at Westlawn Cemetery.
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FERN GERTRUDE SALLINGER--
Fern Gertrude, born Feb 11, 1922 in
Grand Island, NE and died August 8, 2003 in Lincoln, NE. She
married Virgil
Gray Cole August
8, 1943 in Grand Island. Virgil was born May 23, 1921 in Wilderville,
TN
and died December 22, 1993 in Grand Island, Ne. Fern and Virgil
are
the parents of Shirley and Dorothy.
Fern and Virgil Cole
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Fern and Virgil in 1993
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About Fern Gertrude Sallinger
The following was
written by
a Great Grandson of Fern as a school project in 1999 and in short, very
well describes the life that Fern has lived throughout the years.
Justin, grandson of Dorothy and son of Audra, mentions that the
one
thing Fern would love to hear again is music. In 1978, at a
wedding
dance of another relative, Fern and Virgil were there and were observed
to enjoy themselves immensely and were enjoying the dancing as others
were,
even though they could not hear the music. When asked how they
were
able to move so gracefully around the dance floor, they said they could
feel the vibrations and sense the beat of the music being
played.
Justin mentions the Missouri School For The Deaf that Fern attended and
Graduated from. Fern's family had moved to Niangua, Missouri and
had enrolled Fern in the school at Fulton. It is apparent that
she
was an excellent student as she was selected from her school to
attend
"Girls State"-----which was quite an honor considering she was the only
deaf girl elected to Girls State. As Justin says---she is a
special
woman who worked hard to overcome and live a rich and rewarding
life.
Justin's remarks follow:
THE LIFE OF A SPECIAL WOMAN
By Justin Garcia
The date is February 11, 1922,
Teddy Roosevelt
is president, "Flapper Girls" are the latest craze and Fern Gertrude
Sallinger
is born. She later became my "Great Grandmother".
Fern was born in Grand Island,
Nebraska to
Mr. & Mrs. Edward Sallinger. She was the only girl with 4
brothers.
At the age of 5, Fern became very
sick with
influenza. With this illness, she ran high fevers causing her to
lose all of her hearing. Fern remains deaf to this day.
Up to the age of ll, Fern attended
public school
in Cairo, Ne. At this age she also learned to drive. When
she
was 11 years old, per parents took her to Omaha, Ne. so that she could
attend the Omaha School For The Deaf. She spent 3 years at
Omaha.
During those years she lived at the school for 9 months and then went
home
for the 3 summer months. After 3 years, she moved to Missouri and
attended school there. She graduated from the Missouri school For
The Deaf in 1943. While attending school there, she met Virgil
Gray
Cole who was also deaf. They were married later that year and
moved
back to Grand Island, Ne. to live out their married lives.
As they began their married life
togather,
World War II and The Great Depression were already underway.
People
weren't allowed to buy tires or shoes. Food was rationed.
You
had to receive government stamps to buy sugar.
During Fern's adult life she was
employed at
J.M. McDonalds department store as a seamstress where she altered
clothing
for 25 years. Fern has always believed strongly that herself and
other deaf people were capable of working to support themselves.
She would become angry when she saw other deaf people using their
disability
as a way to beg for money.
During her marriage to Virgil, Fern
gave birth
to 2 daughters. At this time, she has 9 grandchildren and 17
great
grandchildren, all of which are hearing. Fern's daughters are
able
to sign to her and all of her grandchildren can finger spell.
Some
of the great grandchildren can finger spell also. She
communicates
with hearing people by lip reading and writing notes.
Fern and Virgil celebrated 50 years
of marriage
in 1993. On December 21st of that same year, Fern became a widow
when her husband died of cancer.
I once asked my Great Grandmother, if
she could
hear one sound.........what would that sound be? She answered me
with one word........................That one word was, MUSIC!!
***
About Virgil Gray Cole
Virgil Cole was
an inquisitive
child and as a toddler, got into and ingested a medication called
"Quinine"
which caused him to become permanently deaf. But, being an
energetic
person with a strong desire to succeed, he didn't let this problem slow
him down and in fact, worked hard in all endeavors to excel.
His inability
to hear
caused special problems for his schooling as it was a time period where
there was no "mainstreaming" and teachers in public schools were not
qualified
to teach deaf children. His mother realized the need of a good
education
and when Virgil was 7 yrs old, she made the extremely tough decision to
enroll him in a school for the deaf in Tennessee where Virgil was
required
to live in a dormitory setting with other youngsters far from the
familiar
surroundings of his home. He made this tough transition of moving
from his home without a great deal of difficulty even though it must
have
been quite traumatic to have been uprooted from his home at such an
early
age. Further, economic and transportation problems prevented him
from returning to his home for visits except during summer
vacations.
At the age of 10, his mother made a move to Missouri and enrolled
Virgil
in the Missouri School For The Deaf (MSD) in Fulton, Mo where he
remained
for the remainder of his education.
As time
progressed, Virgil
developed a love for sports and his drive and determination really
showed
when he was a standout athlete for his school. Numerous newspaper
clippings headlined him in sporting events as; "Virgil Cole Shows
Well At State Meet, Proves To Be A One Man Team"; "Cole Sets
Three
Of the New Records In Winning The High Hurdles, High Jump, and Broad
Jump";
"Cole's 63 Yard Run In Closing Seconds Gives Eagles Third
Victory";
"The Eagles, With Speedy Virgil Cole, Again Showing His Ability At
Broken
Field Running Opened The Scoring--"; "Cole of MSD Wins 60 Yard
Dash
IN State Meet And Takes Third In Broad Jump". These clippings are
just a few of the times he was mentioned while attending school at
MSD.
His desire to
excel caught
the attention of his future wife, Fern Sallinger who was also enrolled
at MSD and a standout student making a name for herself at the
school.
Upon graduation, Virgil was hired as a supervisor of the boys dormitory
which position he held for one year while Fern had graduated and moved
back to Grand Island, Ne to live with her parents. The attraction
they had developed for one another at the school was so strong that
Virgil
left his job at the school to go see Fern. At that time of his
life,
Virgil neither owned nor knew how to drive an automobile, so, using a
pencil
and notebook as the only means of communicating with those who could
hear,
he made his desires known and made his way by bus to the strange city
of
Grand Island and managed to find Fern's parents house. In the
years
that followed, her parents loved to tell the story how Virgil showed up
at their door, holding up a picture of Fern and saying as best he
could,
"My Girl"! "My Girl"!. So after a joyful reunion, Fern and Virgil
were united in marriage on August 8, 1943. In the years that
followed,
Fern was the one who knew how to drive, did all the family driving and
became Virgils driving instructor. Upon reaching 40 years of age,
he took the driving test and became the proud owner of a license to
drive,
experiencing the feeling of being set free that is usually enjoyed by
those
who obtain a license at 16 years of age.
After marriage,
Virgil
continued his sporting activities and could be found on a softball
field
playing in an organized league when games were in progress. His
favorite
position was short stop. He was on numerous bowling leagues with
co-workers during his employment years. At other times, he would
be a spectator at football games or track meets-undoubtedly itching to
get in the game himself. He was an avid Nebraska football fan and
would be dressed in Nebraska Red on any football Saturday.
Fishing
was also a great pastime.
Virgil
supported his
family throughout the years in Grand Island by working at Fairmont
Dairy;
Trinity Lutheran Church; Geer Mobile Homes; Redmond Mobile Homes and
Overhead
Door Co. He loved family gatherings and was especially joyful
when
visiting with his daughters and grandchildren.
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WILBUR SALLINGER---
Wilbur married Faye Clair August 20,
1942 in Niangua,
Mo. and are the parents of Charlotte; Patricia and Wayne.
Wilbur and Faye
Sallinger
50th Wedding
Anniversary
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Wilbur & Faye
Abt 1997
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More
about Wilbur Sallinger
The youngest of
five children, Wilbur was born on the family farm 2 miles east of
Cairo, NE. He obtained his education at schools in Cairo;
District #17 country school North West of Shelton, NE and finished his
education at Niangua, MO. Although he received a formal
education, he was the son of a farmer and perhaps gained a better
education through the "Hard Knocks of Life". Times were tough
during his childhood years and it took each family member working
together to make a living as it was doubly hard during this period of
drought and the depression, thus strong work ethics were formed along
with an appreciation for the finer things life had to offer.
Wilbur did learn the Hard Knocks of not only working hard and being
proud of his accomplishments, but with ways and means of retaliating
against his older brothers for the jokes and pranks pulled on
him. Carl being the closest brother in age invariably was on the
receiving end of Wilburs retaliation and if there was nothing to
retaliate against, Wilbur would be sure to dream up something. To
this day, he loves a good joke and continues to tease when the
opportunity arises.
After finishing school in 1941, he was
employed briefly at Ft. Leonardwood, MO and circumstances soon steered
him towards operating a business of his own in the Niangua area in
which he purchased a truck to begin making various deliveries. In
1943, he was drafted into the U.S. Navy and received his basic training
in Idaho. After completion of his training and a short visit with
his folks and wife in Nebraska, he was sent overseas to New Guinea
where he remained for 18 months. He was perhaps one of the most
popular individuals on this Island as his duties were with the Navy
Post Office (and most likely unpopular if he did not deliver any
mail). After leaving New Guinea, he was transferred to the Naval
Installation at Bremerton, WA where he remained until his discharge in
1946. Faye and his nearly two year old daughter Charlotte, which
he had never seen, was able to join him at this time. Also, his
brother Elmer was area serving with the Army not far away at Seattle,
WA.
Upon leaving the Navy, Wilbur and Faye moved
to Grand Island, NE where Wilbur worked briefly for Nielson Peterson
Company. The call of the Ozark's beckoned them and they soon
moved back to Niangua, MO where Wilbur once again started his own
business of delivering various items by truck. When work became
scarce and being desirous of a more fruitful life, Wilbur moved his
family to Wichita, KS about 1955 where he began a trade in carpentry
work. He later advanced his career and became a finish cabinet
maker until his retirement. The "Hard Knocks of Life" education
Wilbur received in his early years proved to be beneficial throughout
his working years. To this day, (2002) he still works hard at
what ever task he involves himself in, enjoys his family around him and
is just as apt to tease or play a joke on someone as he was as
youngster.
One of the "Hard Knocks Of Life Education" he
learned as a youngster was to quickly see a problem and arrive at an
even quicker solution. Wilbur loves the outdoors---Hunting and
Fishing---and annual trips to Nebraska for Pheasant and Quail hunting
was the norm in earlier years. There was always a large number of
the family in a hunting party and invariably, the quota for the number
of birds allowed would be exceeded. On the return from one
hunting trip, Wilbur saw a "Roadblock" ahead of them where hunters were
stopped and vehicles searched for game. Wilbur quickly announced
he had a flat tire and pulled off the road. While letting the air
out of a tire and changing it, others quickly buried the excess birds
in a ditch and they moved on towards the road block. After all
his quick thinking of arriving at and acting on a solution to this
dilemma, Wilbur was upset about the fact the officers at the "Road
Block" didn't take time to search his car but waved him on
through. Hunting and fishing is still his greatest enjoyment and
proclaims the time spent Salmon Fishing in Alaska was probably the
greatest fishing trip he remembers.
More about
Faye Clair Salligner
Faye Clair was born at the
family farm home near Niangua, MO and is the 4th of nine children in
the family of Ralph and Pearl Clair. Times during her childhood
were extremely tough and it took each member of the family working
together to put food on the table. Growing up in a two room log
house built by her father on a small farm in the tree covered hills
near Niangua gives Faye many memorable moments of family life.
Moments of running and playing with her siblings along with moments of
her mother and the children all pitching in to raise a large garden
every year and then canning the vegetables; picking fruit from the
trees to be canned and smoking all of their own meat for later
consumption. Faye received her formal education through the 8th
grade at Niangua, MO but like her husband, probably received a better
education through the "Hard Knocks Of Life".
Not too awfully long after her marriage to
Wilbur, she was left alone for several months when he was drafted into
the Navy and sent to New Guniea. She was forced to continue life
without him while giving birth to their first child, Charlotte and
raising her for nearly two years before being able to join him in
Bremerton, WA upon his return from overseas. Upon his discharge
from the Navy, they moved to Grand Island, NE where Wilbur obtained
worked but the drawing power of the Ozark Country beckoned them to
return to Niangua, MO. When work became scarce in Niangua, a move
to Wichita, KS became a necessity.
Faye learned at an early age the value of hard
work and how to raise a family. Over the years that followed, she
obtained work at various businesses as a cook and waitress; in a
nursing home; at Coleman Company and finally as a service manager at
the Catholic High School in Wichita. While working outside the
home, she maintained her home and instilled in her children the same
values in life she received as a child of family togetherness and
working hard while making room to enjoy the comforts life has to offer.
Faye's greatest enjoyment now is having her
family around her and going to garage sales. She also loves a
fishing trip and being outdoors when she able to.
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