The GOOD vs. The BAD:
an index of listening traits
The good:
A good listener;
looks at the person speaking
reacts responsively
pays close attention to the other
does not interupt the speaker
is sensative to the speaker
does not rush the speaker
ask appropriate questions
is emotionally controled
has no hidden agenda
The Bad:
A bad listener;
allways interupts
jumps to conclusions
makes moral judgments
keeps finishing the speaker's sentences
is inattentive
is allways writing and taking notes
changes the subject
is unresponsive
is impatient
can't control emotions
"fidgets" nervously
