Bitch Stands For....

What does "bitch" really stand for??

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.


When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.   


When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts, or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.


   Being a bitch means that I am free to be the wonderful creature that I am, with all my own intricacies, contradictions, quirks and beauty.


Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life my way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.


When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak up against it, I am defined as a bitch.
  

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.   I am proud to be a bitch!


Being a bitch means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated, and determined. By George! I want what I want, and there is nothing wrong with that!   So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed and if that makes me a bitch, that is quite alright.     


I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.


B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself


And by the way... if I were a man with these same qualities, I would be called independent, strong, self-assured, confident, determined, and driven. Go figure!

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