I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, Her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.
 
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, Patience is a by-product of tribulations, it isn't granted, it is earned.
 
 I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, I give you blessings, Happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

 I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, You must grow on  your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, I will Give you life so that you may enjoy all things.

 I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as he loves me.
God said, Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.