The things that are extremly hard for me to forget about. :(
The horrid chat session
The end of a 5 1/2 year freindship lies HERE!
Hello, Here is some of the HELL I am experienced in 2005. First I had various random mis-fortions happen b2b, but that is only the f***ing icing on the "cake". I intend to keep this page here for a while, rather than the noutorious "LAMERZ" list I had for similar reasons. Most of those people on "lamerz" lists should be better forgotten about or forgiven than listed online for everyone to see. On the other hand there are some people you just can never forget about, sadly here is where the end of a friendship story starts.
There was a particular female friend That I met in High school back in the class of 99-00 (my senioer year),Her name is Krystal, B. I have NEVER dated her through out our friendship, so this is NOT a "talk shit" about your "EX" thing, here. (those are HUGE NO-NOs). I am going to spare myself some liability by NOT posting her full name and photos on here. Ok first of all, I should have known our friendship could have been "doomed" in the first place. I was lucky to quietly stay friends with her for 5 1/2 years. It is very hard for me to discuss this because it is such a complicated issue, so I will briefly introduce the "horrid chat session" (linked above ^ ^) that ended it all. My friendship with Krystal could have been spared if things were handeled differently by her and the management at her current workplace then. Krystal is ALWAYS extremly busy and never wanted to make enough time to maintain a good a stable friendship with me, let alone a relationship in the first place. First flaws are that Krystal has a HUGE problem "holding grudges" and "talking in circles" when she is angry, those big thing there ultamately done in our friendship. She rants about me bothering her at work this time, but Krystal was NOT at work when I went looking for her earlier in that month (april 6), she went home sick shortly before I arrived there at SEARS to ask. I left the store peacefully, when I found out she went home. I just wanted to BRIEFLY ask her somthing but the management at that SEARS store blew everything WAY out of proportion, triggering our nasty chat session above later on that day of April 29. I then put my friendship "ON HOLD" with her and her International B/F too (He lives in Jordan), for about 6 weeks for apologies, etc. An apology NEVER came from her, and my better friends and my family all told me to put this to an end, so around mid May, I passively ended my frindship with her by DOBing my yahoo name from her and her B/F'ds buddy lists. I am still disturbed and upset about this today, even though I try to forget about it, that is why this story is "blogged" first here.
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The following issue as well as other family isuues that recently occured caused me to have a nervous breakdown on Wednes August 10th. Mother took me to Midlands Hospital, there I was "triaged", admitted, the EPC'd in the back of a PPD cruiser to Douglas County Hospital for treatment. I shure in hell will NEVER want to do that again, EVER. I had a cyst removed from my head 3 weeks after that "ride" from trying to get myself out from the damn car while wearing the "bracelets". I hade to wear those because of STANDARD "police protocal", I was in PROTECTIVE custody, and did NOT commit any crime what so ever. I had to get help, but that was NOT pleasant, let alone staying at the hospital was very boring and depressing itself. I was able to be discharged on Aug 12 in time for a family dinner. :)
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Ok,this story is gonna be a fairly quick and "blunt" one because the the anonanimity that will be used to deter a "recourse" of any kind from the party involved back then.....LEGAL ABUSE??
It was St Paticks Day night of 2006. I was at Club NICO in Omaha, for an St Patty's day event. I encountered a women who I may have seen before elsewhere earlier in the year. Her name was "Katie". Of course she was drunk, and gave me out her email addy. (will not post it due to risk of a "legal recourse"). I tried to be frindly with her for about three months, only sending a total of 6 messages to her.(tracked :P )
Well, the last message I sent her was basically letting her know that I won't send her anything else ( maybe was a little "harsh", but not threatning in any way). When I sent this final message I got a REALLY NASTY reply back. (deleted) from her stating that she would turn me into "authorities" for harassment of her if I sent her any more messages, but this is only the intro..
Remember I put in "tracked" in the last sentance of my 2nd paragraph in this story? Well, I tracked all those few messages with ReadNotify Email Tracking Service. I of couse ceased sending messages to the drunken psychotic LOSER after that, but ReadNotify told me what she was doing with my last message otherwise for 3 months after this..
"Katie" compulsively reopened that final message about 9-or-10 times after that incident, over, and, over again. I finally did put a stop to that by simply changing my e mail signature by putting in the phrase in the biggest font stating "ENOUGH ALREADY" and the very humerous thing is that that activity Katie was doing "compulsivly" STOPPED! (LOL!!)
Only thing I wished I did different was sending "self destruct" messages, but hey, the problem did resolve very happily of course. :P
well this tactic worked with a "charm" simply because e-mail, and forum "signatures" when allowed are not permanent because they are not actually part of the message itself, but are loaded evertime someone opens/reads your post or message. This means when you change your "signature" it applies to EVERY message you have ever posed or sent online with that site, ISP, or company. (very cool huh?) ROTFL
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