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Jacob's Troubles

Review: Jacob is blessed, he runs away, he starts working for Laban.

Leah – weak eyes (Gen. 29:16)
Rachel – beautiful in form

The marriage of Jacob and... Leah?!
Give me my wife – that I may know her
There was a great feast = wine!
Laban brought Leah in the evening – when it’s dark!
What is this you have done to me?!
What can Jacob do?
Keep Leah, forget about Rachel - [The right thing?]
Ditch Leah, marry Rachel - [Laban will not approve]
Ditch Leah, run away - [Not practical]
Keep Leah, marry Rachel also - [Customarily acceptable; but right?]


Jacob demands his true love – Rachel
He loved Rachel more than Leah
He served Laban 14 years for Rachel


Leah 4, Rachel 0
Leah was unloved = hated
Reuben = See, A Son - Now my husband will love me
Simeon = Heard - The Lord heard that I am unloved
Levi = Attached - Now my husband will be attached to me
Judah = Praise - Now I will praise the Lord


“Give me children, or I will die!”
Rachel envied her sister
She accuses her husband -- "Am I God?"
She offers her maid
She obtains mandrakes


Sons

Of Rachel’s maid:
Dan = Judge - God has judged my case (in my favor)
Naphtali = My Wrestling - I wrestled with my sister and prevailed

Of Leah’s maid:
Gad = Troop or Fortune - A troop comes
Asher = Happy - I am happy; I will be called blessed

Of Leah:
Issachar = Wages - My wages for giving my maid to Jacob
Zebulun = Dwelling - Now my husband will dwell with me

Of Rachel:
Joseph = He will add - The Lord will add to me another son
Ben-Oni = son of my sorrow - (Rachel died)
Benjamin = son of my right hand



The case against polygamy
Definition: one man with more than one woman; polyandry is the opposite

  1. God created one woman for Adam
  2. God instituted the family as a man and his wife Gen. 2:24
  3. Extra strains
    1. Marriage is tough! Two individuals trying to be like one
    2. Tension
      * Envy
      * One loved more
    3. Fights – women and children
      * Sarah and Hagar
      * David’s kids
    4. Persuasion – Solomon (2 Kings 11)

  4. The husband of one wife - 1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6; 1 Timothy 5:9!

  5. The law of the land
    * It’s illegal!
    * Leads to Social ills


Divorce & Remarriage – progressive polygamy

What’s the why?
Falling out of love
Social custom
Status
Religious convictions

Falling out of love is the leading cause for progressive polygamy, practiced widely in the states
Guard your life and your heart by avoiding the pitfalls "love" has in store for you



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