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The Road Not Taken


Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;


Then took the other, as just as far,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,


And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.


I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence;
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I...
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
...by Robert Frost




A person, not just a name

They're young, old and in between,
Happy and sad, mad and even mean.


They can't be blamed, it's human nature,
Fear of the unknown is very strong.
Most comply with all my actions,
After all your training, you can't be wrong.


I contemplate my every move,
Before I use an intervention.
Thoughts together with rationale,
I'll organize, prioritize with critical evaluation.


He's terminal, I know it,
His care is still the same.
He's more than just a name.


I give comfort to all,
Whether mild or severe.
Is it any wonder it hits hard,
When someone says, "He died, didn't you hear?"
......by Bob Sussino ( Oct. 1992 )




Dedicated Spirit

It was just like any other ride on the Garden State Parkway; cars and buses racing home, some winners but most losers in Atlantic City. A few people though were heading to work as usual for the night shift.

Out of nowhere, a bus loaded with people struck a northbound sport utility vehicle while trying to weave in and out of lanes, in to much of a hurry to get back to the terminal. In the blink of an eye it was over, seven passengers had been seriously injured including the bus-driver, who was still pinned in the bus, and the two fatalities; an elderly female passenger on the bus and the driver of the truck.

The bus-driver remembers awakening after the collision in excruciating pain. Standing over him was a middle-aged man with salt and pepper hair, a worn look on his face, but smiling just the same. He was all dressed in white and for a moment they just stared at each other in silence. Then the man in white spoke and said, "I'm here to help you, I'm a nurse, and I'll stay with you until the ambulance arrives."

The bus-driver remembers that the man spoke very little after that, but he attended to his wounds and comforted him in his pain. Later, he would recall that the man seemed to be in pain himself but ignored his own to care for the driver.

Days later, when the bus-driver woke up, he found that he was in the hospital, and that his wounds had been treated and were healing nicely. He asked what happened and if anyone else was injured. When the shock of what happened wore off, he asked of the mysterious "man in white" who cared for him.

No one seemed to know what to say except that when the paramedics arrived, the injured, including the bus-driver had been tended to and were off the side of the road. They also told the driver of two fatalities; the elderly woman and the driver of the truck.

The man could not recall anything else except he knew that he was the cause of the tragedy. He could not bring back the people who had died, but he did want to thank the stranger who took the time to care. Days later, still in the hospital recuperating, he noticed a picture in the newspaper. He recognized the face as that of the man who took care of him. He wanted to meet this kind stranger and to thank him. He got up, walked across the room and picked up the paper. To his shock it was the obituary section. The face was that of a man who had been killed tragically in an accident. It was the same man who helped him. Did the man die afterward, ignoring his own injuries? He needed to know.

A few days after his discharge, the bus-driver searched out the trooper who investigated the accident. He asked of the man who had died. To his shock and amazement, he was told that the man had died instantly in the accident. More shocking, he was a nurse on his way to work the night shift at the local hospital. He died doing what he loved most........dedicated to the art of caring.


....by Bob Sussino, RN, MICN



UNTITLED

Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's rush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry....
I am not there.   I did not die.
....John Wayne.









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