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I know there are far worse cases of bullying...but here is the mildest of the memories I have

At least one guy who I consider much to be a child still, asked my mother a long while back now how I was, he years before did many things and made me very sad, he amongst other things took a pencil of his and poked my back and said to the others in around that table in class look how fat she is, they all laughed, etc etc.. IT WAS ON A LESSON, TEACHER AND EVERYONE WAS PRESENT, when I stood up and turned to him and said STOP IT, it was only me the teacher told of, she told me to sit down and not to do that again.Even though SHE SAW WHAT HE DID.

Well I remember also about when someone.. well that person and others had on their "minds" they tore out paper from their books (writing pads)and shrivled it up and put it in their mouths and threw it in my hair.

I remember once of a child my age then running after me after class, she finally came up along side me and stopped me, and said sorry, and along the lines of: I can't be your friend, I want to be in the popular gang, so on and so forth..I said to her then that what do you think, I didn't choice this, I want to have friends too, you do what you must do, I would have chosen that too I said, but I wont ever forgive you
Later in life when I was with my mom at the movies, she was there with a friend of hers, she had the nerve to come up to me and say hello, and said to me that well I am not friends with them anylonger, I said in the lines of:good on ya, they wheren't good


There was one guy that took me by my hair and dragged me around in a circle on the schoolyard( we where in the same class at the time) but he was shortly transferred not because of that but he had alot of anger inside of himself apparently or something,but at the time there was teacher in the yard and did nothing.

many have tried to tripp me, some pushed me but that only happened a very few times.

mostly it was ignoring, teasing, ignoring, teasing, ignoring and so on, when their friends went on holiday and they couldn't then I was a so called "Temporary "friend for them

Other memories that also have effected me very much

Don't expect that on trams especially someone will help you if a drunken or otherwise man or female that is bothering you and making you scared that anyone will help you.
I was on the first tram where the chauffour=driver is, and have had drunken and crazy people bothering me, and it is very scary and always with a full tram and no one helped me
One was a crazy old man who keept saying show your teeth, show your teeth and was getting to near me.
several times drunken men have bothered me on trams and no one helped me, ( good idea when you travel by tram, bus or anything and t here is one or several drunken men or women that are rude and loud etc don't look at them etc , but I never did that still they bothered me so)
On one more note I am against shops that sell beer and everything else that is alcoholic, well I was walking home after school years ago and it was in the day time, the disgusting shop was open and I was a child, and there was many drunks there, suddenly a male drunk pulled me in when I tried to walk past, he said to his just as disgusting and drunk friends which was women and men that I was his new girlfriend and they all laughed and I WAS VERY SCARED, there where loaads of people walking past and no one helped me even thought I said stop it, let me go
But eventually I got free I ran a little then I walked fast home, I was crying all the way home.

The summer place taken away from me when I was a child, my haven

I was nine years old approximatley when I lost my haven
it was a place in Mollösund called Mollön Me and my parents stayed in a little brown cottage and my grandparents stayed in the house
I loved it there, it was truly my haven, and I lost it to someone that talked nicely to my grandfather for a little while and then cheated my grandfather out of it, for a socalled"friendship price" ( even thought my grandfather was beginning to be senil at the time and he knew how much that place mean to me so he was cheated out of it) then that friend did never consider what it would have for effects on the grandchild, and he sold it shortly there after to his friends and the judge in the case never even thought of that "friends" never buy in good faith...
now that brown cottage has changed colors to a disgusting red color. You can see it from the Mollösunds harbour