Dad was home for about an hour this morning and has come back this evening for the night. The kids are really excited to see him. Coby has been working on Interactive Reading Journey and doing real well. This is actually his *choice* this week.
December 16, 98: Well, all is in motion. Coby went in for a few of his pre-secretin tests today. We are set to infuse on Fri at 1:30 Mountain Standard Time. I would like to request prayer for him, our FABULOUS Doc Scott, and the nursing staff that will be assisting him. This has been an intense road of research and time for both me and Doc Scott. The last few days have been very tramatic for Coby. Just rough. He had a seizure in the car yesterday that was really bad and lasted quite some time. He wouldnt go to bed last night and even after I turned out his light and went to bed myself, he got back up, shut his door, turned the light on and I have no idea how long he was up. He just sits in there in reads books and looks at magazines and plays with his Legos. This morning he was so sweet though. He was standing under the mistletoe *tempting* me to kiss him, so we had a ball while I was chasing him through the house with big ole kisses on my lips. It was great fun. He had me tickle him while they took blood today. Took 2 sticks this time. Seems his wrists are better than his arms. My family tends to have rolling veins, unfortunetely he got those too. He really was on one at the Drs office today and thank goodness that everytime he told Doc Scott that he hated him, Scott told him back that was ok, he still loved him. And of course there was the kicking, screaming, tearing the paper off the examine table into itty bitty pieces to prove his point. But would you believe I got a urine sample from him. I wont give details but suffice it to say it was NOT easy. Thanks for all the support over the last few months. Please continue to pray for the money to be supplied to fund this experimental treatment. We are looking at much more than just the secretin at this point. There is one important test we need to do but it costs over $300 and has to be paid for upfront. And our secretin turned out to be more than we anticipated too. So far, God is carrying us through, we will continue to trust in Him. We pray that this will be a new chance for Coby.
December 17, 1998--This has been a really bad day for Coby. Everything has
upset him. Even the air he breathes. *L* Had a little bit of poopy pants
tonight but not much.
December 18, 1998--Infusion Day! I kept us busy the entire morning and all
went pretty well. We did 2 grocery stores, a bookstore and a outlet store
with no major incidences. Stopped by a friends house, and got home in time
to put the Emla cream (for numbing). Now THAT was fun! That is not a job
for just one person and a fighting child. I had to put it in 4 different
areas so as to be sure that a vein could be found in an numbed place. My
friends oldest daughter came to watch the girls and Coby and I were off. I
had prepared him pretty well this time about what was going to happen. We
got to the Drs office and he was fine. As we walked into the exam room and
Doc Scott closed the door, he began to pray for the success of the treatment
and for Coby. It was totally awesome. I just cant imagine any more in a
Dr, than of course finding one like him for all of us. =) Coby played with
everything in the exam room. But Doc Scott was doing a super job in being
*nice* to Coby. The nurse he chose to help us was great too. They used an
armboard to keep his arm straight, he didnt care for that too much but the
fight was only minimal. He wanted to sit up but eventually we got him to
relax and lie back. I tickled his tummy again while it was happening and
finally got him to quit watching what was going on. It did take 2 sticks
but the second one was successful. I wish I had the money to hire them to
be personal physicians for us. Hmmm wonder if they do housework. *L* We
stayed at the office for 30 minutes after to watch for any reactions. Had
none. Didnt take Tegretol any Thurs or Fri. Dr. asked us to keep him off
till Sun if no seizures. Since there is no real protocol on this, its hard
to know what to do about it. Coby had to have Christmas ice cream so that
left out the .49 McDonalds and went to Baskin Robbins.
I found myself watching him looking for some miraculous thing to happen. *L*
He did go to bed quite easy last night but I was getting on to his sister
for playing in the bathroom and getting all wet instead of being in bed like
she was supposed to, so I guess he got the point.
December 19,1998-- He called me several times in the night scared and
finally turned on his light about 4. He was wet and had horrendous poop
this morning. When I told him to get it cleaned up the fit began, screaming
and hmphing at me. I went and helped him, and then he seemed fine. Got in
the tub, bathed himself, and actually got out when I told him to. So far
mood is fine. We slept late but everyone in the house was up for numerous
reasons all night long. I woke up in Rylee's bed this morning and really
dont know when I got in with her. Who knows? Will update more as anything
exciting occurs.Day 2--December 19, 1998
Im curious about others with high fuctioning kids who have tried the secretin. I would love to hear from you. BTW, Coby is 8.4 yo. Im not sure if its wishful thinking or that Coby just had a good day. He spent NO time in his room at all yesterday, which is where he has been for the last few weeks. He came into the school room, propped his feet on his desk and started reading another Dr. Suess book. He stayed with the family all evening and put himself to bed about 10pm. Also, our toilet is clogged with undies and while I was trying to get my oldest to get the snake from the utility room, Coby was already in there looking. I had to go to the shed to look for it and by the time I got back in the house he was putting his shoes and socks to help me look. This is not totally abnormal for him but has been since we took him off all his vitamins. Its like the behaviour we saw while we had him on the Teen Active. I guess I know the biggest changes we are hoping from range from potty training, night training, clarity in speech, socialization, control of emotions and temper, and focus on task. He's been somewhat hyper but he always is so dont really think that is a side effect. He has been on the VERY silly side too.He's been very social today. We finished our Christmas cookies and he was there the entire time. He was VERY LOUD today. No voice control at all. This is an old issue that we havent noticed being as bad lately. He followed instructions much better today, and put himself to bed on his own at 9pm. This is very unusual. No poop at all since secretin on Fri. Hmmm.
December 25, 1998--Day 7--I cant say that I have seen anything positive so far. Coby gave a very animated speech about a dirty glass he found in the cabinet last night. Jerry and I were laughing hysterically. We've seen many new facial expressions that are so funny. He finally had a bowel movement Mon. night in the potty, but has pooped his pants twice since then. First one was grainy and somewhat loose, second was formed *as dh says like playdough*.
He has eaten very little over the past 3 days. Yesterday he only ate some candy and one piece of pizza. Today he picked the top off cinnamon rolls and ate chips and lots of cashews. Maybe its just the holiday junk, but it really seems as if his apetite has decreased greatly. His sleep has been much improved, but not sure if that is secretin or being off the Tegretol and then back on. He has been putting himself to bed at night and taking naps most days, which he hasnt done much at all in the last year.
We went to my Dad's on Wens. and he had several meltdowns as well as inappropriate behaviors. He scraped the refried beans off the serving spoon back into the serving bowl, my to my Dad's horrification. *L* He went to give me one of those very common *love HITS* and hit the chair instead of me. I tried to comfort him but he wanted nothing to do with it. He just went into the LR and went to sleep. He is thinking correction is just a big laugh. Jerry had to chase him all around the house and down the street when we were visiting some friends on Thurs. We have used spanking in the past effectively most of the time but that isnt impacting him at all at this point.
I would like to say his speech is clearer but that may just be wishful thinking on my part.
Christmas Eve was very busy. We had planned on staying home since Jerry was only here for 1 1/2 days, but decided to deliver Christmas presents first then come home and relax. Well, we spent much more time visiting than planned and didnt get home till after 6pm. We ate, finished wrapping presents, and decided to go ahead and open presents. Coby did super, and was thrilled with all his gifts. He handled it all well, and seemed to have no problem all day waiting his turn to open gifts. He did however, wake up in a terrible mood this morning and wanted nothing to do with his stocking and only wanted to play his new Sega game. And has been that way virtually all day. His attention span is terrible as far as staying focused on anything. He was staying on task ie.computer games, video games, Legos for hours at a time. He is changing from as little as 5 to as much as 30 minutes now.
He is sitting at the table for long amounts of time without actually eating, just crumbling and destroying his food. We've never allowed toys at the table but he is now thinking that he needs his toys right there with him.
I dont know... Im not ready to call it a failure at this early point, but can definetly say Im not pleased with the irritable side effects. Oh... another thing Ive noticed that Ive never seen before is he will sit with his tongue hanging out of his mouth alot. That concerns me. Im not sure if Ive mentioned but his voice volume has been VERY high too.
Thats really all I can think of currently. At least we made it through the holidays without any major incidents.
Jan 2, 1999--Many of yall have been asking about Coby and since it changes from day to
day at this point, I thought I would wait till I had a little more to say.
Unfortunately, nothing good so far. As you know, we took him off all his
vitamin supplements 7 weeks before we started the secretin treatment. The
first 3 weeks showed little to no change in any behaviors or functioning. As
a matter of fact he began reading books during this time. Yes, complete Dr.
Suess books. Never read but just individual words then all of a sudden he
was reading books. He has not lost this ability; yet will not read any
others except the ones he already started reading, which could be related or
just typical child/success thing. Anyhow the next four weeks he began to
loose all his composure in all areas of behavior, focusing, and his speech
began to become more garbled. He has a Large vocabulary but has a lot of
trouble with articulation.
Secretin treatment occured on Dec. 19. with little fighting from him.
We noticed over the next few days an increased hyperactivity, extreme
silliness, absolute defiance, no follow through on anything, lots of
argueing, screaming, kicking, hitting.etc. He made it through opening gifts
on Christmas Eve without a hitch. He did fabulous and enjoyed all his new
stuff imenesly. But from there till yesterday he has literally been
bouncing off the walls. As long as he can do EXACTLY what he wants to when
he wants to he has no problems. He has hardly been interacting at all with
us except on one evening he came into the school room and did *school* work.
???? who knows????
If he is told to do anything at all he will begin screaming and yelling and
whining--major fits. It has really been bad. Jerry is home and that is
helping me alot just giving me a break. Coby has actually gotten some
autistic behaviors that he never had in the past and also has picked back up
on some of his obssesive compulsive behaviors too.
One day he was upset and knocked all his stuff off his dresser. He has
*tied* up everything in his room with his speaker wires. Tieing up things
and playing with kleenex endlessly are 2 of his major obsessions. Ive had
to remove almost all his stuff out of his room just so he wont hurt himself
or anyone else. Hes also been zoning out, and will have his tongue hanging
out of his mouth alot. Last night though he did make a joke on me. He said
his seatbelt wouldnt work and when I got in the back he laughed and laughed
because there was nothing wrong with it. Guess that is a good thing. *L*
Now, before anyone *thinks* this is a failure let me explain a few things.
Some parents are seeing immediate results, others from abuot day 10 and
still others are seeing more results from week 3-5. We are PRAYING for this
to happen. So far it has been extrememly disappointing. We had high hopes,
but had also tried to keep them in check knowing that this might not work.
But it still feels like such a let down having to work so hard now. We also
know we have to give it some more time too. Its just tough doing it all.
Poor guy this is hard on him. The most amazing thing is he is asking for
his brown pills back. Those are the ones that were helping him called the
Teen Active. They gave him focus and control over his actions and emotions.
Anyhow, not really good news yet not really bad news. If it doesnt work we
will go back to the vitamin therapy and just work, work, work.
Thanks for all the prayers and encouragement you guys have given me over the
past few months. It helps me get through many days knowing yall are praying
for us and thinking of our children.
January 13, 1999--The meltdowns are slowing down some the past 3 days, and compliance is back up a smigion. Coby had a really bad weekend while we were out of town looking for a home. He got car sick, which he has never done, and threw up most of the way. He has been very lovey but that is not completely uncommon for him. I would say he is almost back to where he was on the vitamins except for his compliance. He is very hard to motivate and very seldom being obedient which we were accomplishing most of the time before. Just not sure how Im feeling about it at this point.
While we were in TX, this was an experience we had. We were going to use the kids book it coupons to get their pizzas. Well
that wasnt what Coby wanted he wanted a salad. We were on a very tight
budget and really NEEDED to use these coupons, so we went ahead and ordered
him a pizza. He had a major meltdown and I actually USED *the autism*
excuse to ask for a small bowl of salad for him of which the waitress was
very cordial and just told me to let him go to the salad bar. He was then
happy. Anyhow, to show how people *understand* autism, when she brought out
the pins she gave them to the girls and told me that she got an extra one
for Coby (with a wink). So what my 3yo is more capable of reading than my
8yo autistic son? They just dont get it. Oh well. Just thought Id share.
MY BUSINESS CARDS
One side reads For More Information call 1-800-3-AUTISM
The other side says
MY CHILD HAS AUTISM
You are observing a developmentally disabled child. Coby has severe language and behavior disorders. At times he becomes confused, upset, disoriented, or violent. We, as parents are trying to teach him to function in society. Anything you may see us do is for the benefit of Coby and safety for all. Please do not stare as this gives him unwanted attention for inappropriate behavior.
Please excuse his actions!!
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