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In Search of the Body Beautiful
By: 'Itrat Azad
There seems no limit nowadays to the extent that women (and men!) are
prepared to go to in order to achieve that 'perfect look'. Forget false
eyelashes and wigs, we are now talking scalpels, implants and
liposuction!!
Cosmetic surgery amongst film actresses has been commonplace for quite
some time now, but these days, we wouldn't be too hard pressed to find
ordinary women on the street who are more plastic than real! Indeed, in
some circles, having multiple facelifts has become a status symbol: the
more you have, the higher you are in the status rankings.
If questioned whether cosmetic surgery was Islamically correct or not,
then without doubt, most Muslims would instinctively respond by saying
that it isn't, for the simple reason that it would be interfering with
Allaah's creation. And certainly, this would be the correct response.
The Companion, Ibn Mas'ood, radiAllaahu 'anhu, once said (quoting what
he had heard the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, say):
"Allaah
has cursed the tattooers and those who have themselves tattooed, and
those women who have their teeth filed for beauty and those who have
their [facial] hair plucked and thus alter Allaah's creation."
A woman
remarked, "What's all this?" So Ibn Mas'ood - radiAllaahu 'anhu - said:
"Should I not curse one whom Allaah's Messenger cursed? And it is in the
Book of Allaah!" She said: "I have read the Qur'aan from cover to cover,
but I did not find that in it." He replied: "If you had read it
thoroughly you would have found it. Allaah says, 'Whatever
the Messenger gives you, take it and whatever he has forbidden, retrain
from it’" [Sooratul-Hashr (59):7].
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So the Prophet Muhammad, sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, forbade women
from performing these three practices which the women commonly did for
the sake of beauty in those days - seemingly 'insignificant' practices
for which they would incur the CURSE of Allaah. And this forbiddence
isn't just restricted to the procedures mentioned in the hadeeth.
Because Allaah says in more general terms in His Book:
"So set your face truly to the
faith, Allaah's handiwork according to the pattern on which He has made
mankind, [Let there be] no change in the creation of Allaah."
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[Soorah ar-Room (30):30].
Therefore, it is obligatory for us to accept the creation of Allaah as
it is, not making any alterations to it.3 More importantly though, it is
also obligatory or us to believe that all of Allaah's creation is
beautiful, because Allaah, the Khaaliq (Creator) does not create
anything except with beauty and perfection, which is why He says to
mankind: "You can see no fault in the creation of ar-Rahmaan [the Most
Merciful]. Then look again: can you see any rifts? Then look again and
yet again, your sight will return to you in a state of humiliation and
worn out." [Soorah al-Mulk (67):3].
This may all sound quite strange when we consider how often we hear
women complaining about their appearance. In fact, it is estimated that
over half of the Western women today actually perceive themselves to be
ugly. In addition, surveys show that nearly all women feel under
pressure to "look good". As a result, the quest for beauty has become a
serious preoccupation for many women. Open up any women’s magazine and
you will not fail to find a single one which doesn't contain tips on how
to "look good", or which don't contain huge adverts promoting new creams
that halt the aging process or concealers to hide wrinkles, etc.
Beauty today is big business. Beauty contests are very profitable
and - contrary to popular belief - more are spawned every year. The
cosmetics market is a multi-billion dollar industry; the demand for
cosmetic surgery is growing at a tremendous rate. All three industries
promote the same notions o beauty that women everywhere are expected to
meet: mainly a white, European, "Barbie-doll" like standard. The
pressures on women to conform to these standards are enormous and few
are able to withstand them.4
The fact is that Western women today may complain that they are not
treated with equality and respect, but it is they themselves who have
made it acceptable for society worldwide to see women merely as
beauty-objects who are there to be ogled by the men who in turn are the
(im)polite voyeurs. When viewed in this light, we find that beauty
contests are not too dissimilar to reality itself: just as the tallest,
slimmest blonde girl gets the title in the beauty contest, in the real
world it's the tallest, slimmest blonde girl who gets the man!
In Islaam, beauty is not just in the eye of the beholder, beauty is in
the whole of creation, because Allaah - the One free of all
imperfections - is the one responsible for it.
And as Allaah says: "Your
Lord creates whatsoever He wills and chooses: no choice have they.
SubhaanAllaah! And far removed is He from the partners they ascribe [to
Him]." [Soorah al-Qasas (28):68].
So it is from the wisdom of Allaah that He has chosen to create some of
us short, others tall, some fat, some thin, some dark-coloured, some
light - all are beautiful and perfect in their own right. That is why we
are taught from the Sunnah, the beautiful du'aa (supplication) that the
Prophet, sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, would say: "O Allaah, as You
have made my appearance beautiful, likewise make my character
beautiful." (Allaahumma kamaa hassanta khalaqee fa hassin khuluqee).
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As Muslims, we must believe that evil and imperfection cannot be
attributed to Allaah.6 The desire to change any aspect of ourselves
means, in effect, that we are dissatisfied with Allaah's choice and His
handiwork, and that there is imperfection in what He has created. Thus
to say about ourselves or anyone else that we or they are ugly is a
great sin. This point was reinforced by the Prophet, sallallaahu 'alaihi
wa sallam, when he once saw the Companion, 'Amr ibn Fulaan al-Ansaaree,
radiAllaahu 'anhu, whose izaar (lower garment) was hanging low (to the
ground), so he, sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, ordered that he raise it.
‘Amr made an excuse saying that he had skinny shins (i.e. he was
embarrassed to show them), so the Prophet responded by saying: "O 'Amr!
Verily Allaah - the Mighty and the Majestic - has created everything in
the best form." 7
All this is certainly not intended to discourage women to look after
themselves and adorn themselves in lawful ways (e.g. wearing nice
clothes, having nicely done hair, etc.). Indeed, adorning oneself is
something that the wives are obliged to do for their husbands and Allaah
rewards the woman who pleases the husband when he looks at her.8 But
with these tremendous pressures on women to conform to the ideals set by
the marketing media, it may be hard for Muslim women to resist feeling
insecure or uncomfortable about their appearance. Consequently, many
Muslim women have shed their hijaabs for the sake of following fashion;
Muslim women too develop inferiority complexes about themselves.
We must bear in mind that this search for the 'body beautiful' is, in
reality, a deception from Shaitaan. Shaitaan has vowed that he will
create such false desires in mankind. He has said (as stated in the
Qur'aan): "Surely I will arouse in them [mankind] false desires; and
certainly I will order them to slit the ears of cattle, and indeed I
will order them to change the nature created by Allaah." [Soorah
an-Nisaa’ (4):119].
May Allaah always keep us safe from the false promises of Shaitaan, for
Verily He is the One who guides to the Truth.
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Notes
1. Reported by Ibn Mas'ood and collected in Saheeh Muslim (English
trans, vo1. 3, p.1166, no.5301). This incident is a good illustration of
the status which the Sunnah held in front of the Companions.
2. Note that this forbiddence applies to the whole of creation, not just
human beings. Therefore, defacing any part of Allaah’s creation is
haraam. By extension, this ruling also applies to all forms of genetic
engineering, which are carried out on farm animals, for example, in
order to procure more profitable meat from them.
3. This is with the exception of those things which have been prescribed
in the Sharee'ah, e.g. clipping the nails, shaving the underarms and
around the private parts, etc.
4. In fact, some women go to such extremes that it results in them
developing health problems - anorexia nervosa - for instance. The
carcinogenic nature of breast implants are also well documented now. No
doubt, the future will reveal more harmful effects of these artificial
means of changing creation.
5. One hadeeth which contains this supplication mentions that this du'aa
should be recited on looking in the mirror. However, the chain (isnaad)
of this hadeeth is not authentic. But it is authentically reported as a
supplication to be recited at any time. (See Ibn Taimiyyah's
al-Kalimat-Tayyib with al-Albaanee’s footnotes.)
6. For an explanation of this important aspect of belief, please refer
to The Prophet’s Prayer Described (p.15).
7. Saheeh - collected in the Musnad of Imaam Ahmad (vo1.4, p.200).
8. See Musnad Ahmad, an-Nasaa'ee and others. Also, it is forbidden for
the husband to invoke ugliness upon the wife - as was a common practice
amongst the pre-Islamic Arabs.
Originally appeared in Ad-da'wah ilallah magazine, Volume 1, Issue 3.
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