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Cooking while glorifying Allah
True Story
Translated By: www.islamway.com Team
I will not keep it a secret that I am not the one of cooking fans, as I
used to consider it as a waste of time and effort.
When I got engaged, I discovered that my mother in law is one of those
who spend most of their life time at the kitchen, moreover she loves to
give variety to new kinds of food from time to time using different
kinds of Arabic and western cooking books.
This matter – of course – used to make me worry because
I thought that my fiancé, after marriage, would compare between my
cooking and his mother’s. So when we have finished with all marriage
arrangements and the marriage date was determined, my fiancé noticed
that I was delaying the wedding and every time I used to invent a
different excuse so finally he came and asked me “you are delaying the
marriage for a reason I do not know, what is it?” then I felt the matter
is being discovered and I do not have anything to do but saying the
truth, so I said “ frankly, I hate kitchen!” then he laughed in
astonishment and told me “anyway I like simple kinds of food and also I
do not mind if I eat the same kind of each two days ” these words calmed
me down and I did not delay the marriage any more, on the contrary after
I got married I started feeling responsible for the house and all its
matters which include the kitchen! So I told myself “you have to do your
best in the kitchen even if your husband likes simple kinds of food”.
At the first day I entered my kitchen for cooking I asked God for help
and trust on Him then I pleaded Him that my food would not come to be
much less that of my mother in law. Then I started to cook and during
that time I remembered--with God’s help-- some words of one of our
sisters who was giving us lessons at the mosque during Ramadan and she
said – God Rewards her—“the Arabian woman spends most of her life time
at the kitchen, especially in Ramadan, which wastes much of this great
month. Ramadan is like a scent flying away easily! So do not miss it in
the kitchen and such kind of works, and if though why do not you mention
God while at the kitchen? Has anyone of you tried to cook while she is
glorifying Allah?!”
I felt I need to do that, not to take the opportunity of Ramadan—because
we were in other month which I do not remember now—but for the hope that
God Will Make my food tastes good!!
And I decided to start with saying God’s name before each step; starting
with turning the fire on , passing through putting butter, then onion
and garlic , then tomato and ending with turning the fire off.
The second time I asked myself why do not I say Surat Al-Ikhlas (the
loyalty), after mentioning God’s name, during each step? I love this
Surat very much, it is short and there are a lot of rewards with saying
it too!!
So I have started doing that with God’s help and then, subsequently, God
led me to glorify Him while the food is being cooked and during washing
the dishes or cleaning the kitchen.
My husband’s reaction was to praise my food to the extent that he said
my food has been better than his mother’s! —And of course I did not
believe him then—because I am not the one who would pay much attention
for the taste of food as long as it is fitting for eating and the salt
is not too much, and I thought him saying that as a compliment, after
all I was still new bride and such compliments are very normal. But I
have noticed that he is repeating such words very often and this made me
so happy but I never believed him and thought it is just encouraging
from him especially when I discovered that he is one of the greatest
fans when it comes to well cooked food , moreover he pays much attention
to the way each kind of food is cooked, and thus he told me before
marriage turned out to be encouragement , nothing more!!!
When I used to invite my mother in law to spend few days with us she
used also to praise my food and I thought she was making a compliment as
well. I have noticed that she used to spend her time with me at the
kitchen while I was pleading her to have rest at the living room however
she used to refuse. Because we were chatting with each other—I did not
notice that she was watching my cooking till she asked me once about the
method of cooking a certain kind of food and when I mentioned it she was
surprised but I did not understand why till she called me once, after
months from my marriage, to tell me “I adjure you to tell me the secret
of your food taste” so I asked her if she is joking but she swore that
she was not!!!
This was a surprise for me and I started thinking deeply to find out the
reason but I could not find any but mentioning God’s name and surat
Al-Ikhlas and sometimes glorifying God so I told her: “do you want the
truth?” she said “sure” then I told her the aforementioned , she was
surprised but she seemed as if she did not believe me, I noticed the
next time she visited us that she was watching me while cooking to make
sure of what I had told her!! And when she believed she told me that she
“is doing the same thing now” and that she started noticing a progress
in her food taste too!!!.
The funny thing about this matter is that I do not hate cooking or
spending time at the kitchen anymore, especially when I play a cassette
there; in the kitchen, to listen to Quran and different kinds of
religious lessons. Subsequently the time I am spending at the kitchen
has become amusement and I do not feel the pass of time except after
finishing with everything.
Not only that but also—with God’s help—I am not confined to cook just
the ordinary dishes but also baking foods like cake, pizza, and
sometimes making jars and pickles to the extent that my friends and
relatives did not believe that when they knew!!!
Glory to Allah that mentioning Him has secrets we do not know, but such
ignorance dose not prevent us the amazement of such secrets. So Glory to
you God how great you are!!!!
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