Two Guys-One Choice

I am a 16/F who has started to like her best (guy) friend. My eyes were opened just last week, and I told him how I feel. He has always liked, me and wanted us to be together. I told him how I feel, and I really want to be with him. But... See, there's another guy who I've had a crush on who is going on this trip with me. He's just started to notice and flirt with me. I really like my best friends, but I feel that he'll always be there, waiting for me. Should I see how things work on this tripp with the guy?
ADVISOR REPLIES: Won't it be a little too cruel to tell your best friend how you feel,and then go for a trip with another guy that you claim you like? What about this ,go to the trip with this guy ,and decide how you really feel about him ,if you miss your best friend ,than that settles it ,you like your best friend better, then you should know what to do.If its the other way round ,then i guess you just have to talk to your best friend about you and him .Good luck ,and keep a clear mind.- swee shean Is that how you treat a friend? You make them wait on you because you might be able to net someone else? Some other guy for that matter, someone who knows nothing about you. You know almost nothing about him as well. On the other hand if the first guy is your best friend you should know him very well. Friends make much, much better girlfriends or boyfriends. Let me tell you a story about myself. I knew this girl named "A". She slowly was becoming my best friend. I told her everything even when I thought I liked this girl named "B". Sure "B" was a friend, so I even knew quite a bit about her; however, truly I did not know too much only what I saw of her. Nothing of herself, not how she thought, how she felt, what she liked, disliked, etc. "A" and I knew everything about each other being that we are friends. Well I told "A" all about how I liked this girl and on and on. Well this whole time "A" has liked me and I am breaking her heart and as a friend she says nothing. Then months later I finally realize how great she is as a friend and that I like her more. We are still together and not only that we understand each other and we don't have to be fake for each other. We can be honest and friendly and we know what the other person likes and enjoys which makes life so much easier. Go for the friend. As a policy friends always make better girlfriends or boyfriends. God Bless,- Josh Tough call...I wouldn't nessecarily not get together with your friend before you take this trip because you may like him more than you think. Right now, the thing that you need to figure out is who you have the most feelings for. Good luck. Modern Teen Advisor,- Em

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