The deal with sex and older guys

i have a really big problem. i'm 15 and this guy that i'm talking to is 20. he looks younger, so i told my parents he was 17. but, he's in college! i really like him a lot. and, we're having sex so if my parents find out they'll call the police because it's illegal. please help. what should i do? i don't want to end the relationship, so please don't tell me to. ADVISOR REPLIES: I hope you realise what u r doing is actually very wrong. Since you yourself sre aware that having sex is wrong, then why did you do it?? Sex will NOT win the guy's love and doo not ever feel pressured to have sex with a guy just because you feel you love him a lot. I would advise you to stop immediately so that yor parents will not find out and you do not have to lead a life full of fear. You know what your parents will do, so if you really love him, you should learn to love yourself too. You do not have to end the relationship, but if sex is all the guy wants, then i suggest it'd be better to end the whole thing. Dont be an instrument to any user.-Angel Since you've already done the deed of having sex you can only help the situation by stop having sex immediately.I'm not going to tell you to end the relationship but just keep in mind that an older guy will expect more from you mentally and physically and keeping up with this dude can be quite tiring. Also, for future reference don't go for older guys because they will be leading different lifestyles than you...for instance: the guy is in college and you're in high school. Good luck. Modern Teen Advisor,- Em