I'm writing in response to the article in last week's Dragon Chronicle (March 23, 1999), "Don't Read This." While claiming to "show off male bashing prowess," he only reinforced the gender stereotypes that led to "male bashing" in the first place (with the rise of the Feminist Movements, women have tried subconsciously and consciously to gain equal power and entrance into a male dominated world, by the very means men have been using for years- putting people down or "bashing"). What seems to be happening in this article is that the author, "Staff Coolguy," has reduced male/ female "differences" to biology. By viewing men as "really insensitive, and generally unaware of their surroundings" and women as having better brains, the article has set up a gendered way of thinking that reduces differences between the sexes to innate, biological terms (which make differences nearly impossible to overcome). In fact, much of this should be termed gender, a cultural manifestation. To clarify, gender is how society has taught us to act, based on whether we have a penis or not. Gender is the reason boys stereotypically play with cars while girls play with Barbie (Barbie herself represents society's gendered thinkng on how women should look). Gender is the reason Lucy Ricardo always stayed home and got herself into trouble while Ricky made the money, got Lucy out of trouble and reprimanded her. Gender is also responsible for the thinking that took place when writing this article. Unfortunetly, gender has been misrepresented. Women are not "genetically immune to the effects of playing video games" and by following that sentence with the statement "it's really not our fault" (speaking of men) blame is taken off of the male video game player in question. It indicates that men aren't responsible for their actions, it's in THEIR genetic makeup. In this way, I guess domestic abuse is also a biological construction in male genes. Maybe it goes hand- in-hand with testosterone, but I don't think so. It's sad, but this is what society and the American culture have been teaching us. Every comment, whether men or women are put down, only reinforces the idea of difference. And "difference" has caused more problems than just those dealing with gender. The idea of difference is also responsible for ethnic and religious divisions. The hierarchy of domination and subordination is in place due to the concept of difference. Whether we're discussing males and females, fraternities and sororities, protestants and Catholics in Northern Ireland, or ethnic groups, we are not, as "Staff Coolguy" claims, "two totally different worlds that are forced together." We are together on this planet we call Earth, and it's about time we start acting together- in unity. We must do this for the preservation of the global atmosphere and equally important- the preservation of ourselves. |