Looking at Pornography
I am wondering if pornography is ok or normal for 14 year
old boys. I try not to look at it but I seem to want to. My parents
found out I had some magazines after I threw them out. They didn't seem
too hard pressed. Am i normal??????
ADVISOR REPLIES:
Are you "normal", yes- is what you are doing a good idea? Well that's a different story. So you're at a point in your life when testosterone is at its greatest point and that's all well and good but you have to remember that pornography is classified as ADULT material which, in most cases, isn't appropriate for minors. What may have not seemed inappropriate to you could have been thought of by your parents as the greatest profanity that they ever saw in their lives- get the picture? Well at any rate, I wish you the best of luck.
Modern Teen Advisor,
~*Em*~
As long as you look at it from the privacy of your own home you are
normal. If that's what you like then why wouldn't it be. Everybody
likes different things. Especially right now you are growing up and
wondering about stuff like that. So don't worry about it.-
Lisa
It is quite normal for boys your age to be curious about such things. I'm sure it is alright, if you somehow got your hands on a magazine or whatever, that you gratified yourself looking at it. BUT, I do not believe it would be a good regular acitivity for you to pursue. I'm sure that your time could be used more wisely doing something productive. It would be better not to be an avid collector of such magazines, movies, etc. If you must see these things, please use some that are conveniently at your service, don't spend your own money on that mess. If you can resist, then I advise you to do other things. There are plenty of better things in the world than pornography.
~becca
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