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~HEAVEN'S
WARRIORS~
~CHRISTOPHER
JAMES PHILLIP MCCORMICK~
THIS IS THE
LAST PICTURE THAT WE TOOK OF CHRIS
~BORN
TO EARTH~
SEPTEMBER
9, 1980
~BORN
TO HEAVEN~
OCTOBER
10, 1999
BELOVED
SON OF:
PHILLIP
& VIOLET
THE FOLLOWING
STORY APPEARED IN THE TORONTO STAR
ON OCTOBER
14, 1999
Christopher
McCormick, a heart and double lung transplant recipient had the last word
over his doctors for most of his 19 years. Doctors told his parents
that their son, who was born with a heart condition(Pulmonary Hypertension)
that seriously threatened his lungs, wouldn't make it to age 5, he did.
Then they said that he would be lucky to make it to his 12th birthday,
it to went by. Not bad for someone who had heart surgery as a baby
and had to go through several years of life relying on an oxygen
tank to get extra air into his improverished lungs.
Christopher
died Sunday three years after his life saving transplant surgery in London,
Ontario, He was 19. Even at the end he tried to have the last word
over his doctors, who knew that the battle was over. "His body was
fighting so much to stay alive." his father Phillip McCormick said."
But he new at this stage there were no alternatives, and there was no hope
for a re-transplant, or that he would ever wake up. He was so susceptible
to infections, he didn't have a fighting chance," his father added. But
he was a fighter right to the end. Horror movies, The Phantom
of the Opera helped Christopher get through his difficult life. He
loved them, "He loved them," his father said.
Staff
at the Health Science Centre in London, Ontario even set up a TV and VCR
for him in the Intensive care room after his transplant. Christopher
also loved Tarzan, One of the highlights of his life was a trip to Los
Angeles sponsored by The Childrens Wish Foundation, where he got to meet
his idol, actor Wolf Larson who portrayed Tarzan on the television series.
Education was a challenge because of the constant need for treatment and
repeated hospital stays, But that didn't stop him from learning." his Mother
Violet McCormick said." he liked to read books and draw it helped to keep
his mind active.
She
said the transplant allowed Christopher to experience more independence
and energy than he had ever enjoyed before in his life. He was able to
go for walks for a couple of years before he had to resort to a scooter.
He could go out to meet friends and could breath easier. The McCormicks
still remember Feb.23,1997, the day they brought their son home after six
months in the hospital, including 3 months on a respirator. There
were times we never dreamed that our son would ever leave the hospital
alive, and the doctors were surprised,too" his father said." even Christopher
was flabbergasted." Some people say it was a miracle that he survived.
"Violet McCormick says nurses at the London Hospital nick-named her
son "Super Trooper" because he took three months on the respirator in the
intensive and beat it.
"IGuess
he wasn't ready to die then....he was just too stubborn." The years have
understandably
been difficult for both parents. I will remember the fact that we had
3 extra years with him. "Phillip McCormick said," the majority of
the time was good. There were times he was going so much, so active,
he made both of us tired just watching him." Alvin Lee, 44, says
he is going to miss his young friend, who inspired him to have a similar
heart and double lung transplant. Lee, who lives in Hamilton, Ontario introduced
himself to Christopher about 2 years ago after overhearing him talking
about transplants. At the time, Lee was concerned about the great risks
involved. But after talking to Chris he went ahead and a year later
he had no complications or rejections.
Chris
gave me inspiration, and he gave me confidence to, "Lee said in a telephone
interview. He told me to try it and not be afraid, "That positive
attitude, and the courage he had, it was insurmountable, it was unbelievable,
Lee added, "Its not everyday you meet somebody like Chris.
A POEM FROM
CHRIS' AUNT GINA
~IN LOVING
MEMORY OF A SON~
If we could
have a lifetime wish
a dream that
could come true
We would pray
to God with all our hearts
for yesterday
and you
A thousand
words can't bring you back
we know because
we've tried
Neither will
a thousand tears.
we know because
we've cried
You left behind
our broken hearts
and happy
memories to
But we never
wanted memories
we only wanted
you
Your resting
place we'll visit
place flowers
there with loving care
It broke our
hearts to lose you
But you didn't
go alone
For part of
us went with you
The day God
called you home
God saw that
you were getting tired
And
a cure was not to be
So he
rapped you in his loving arms
And
whispered" come to me"
You suffered
much in silence
Your
spirit did not bend
You
faced your pain with courage
Until
the very end
You tried
so hard to stay with us
Our
loss became Heaven's gain
Your
golden heart stop beating
Your gentle
hands rest
Though
your smile is gone forever
And
your hand we cannot touch
Still
we have the memories of you
The son we
love so very much
Your
memory is our keepsake
With which
we'll never part
God
took you in his loving arms
And
freed you from your pain
God has
you in his keeping
We have
you in our hearts
~IF
TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY~
~Author Unknown~
If tears could
build a stairway
and memories
were a lane
I could walk
right up to Heaven
and bring
you home again.
No farewell
words were spoken
no time to
say good-bye
you were gone
before I knew it
and only God
knows why.
My heart's
still active in sadness
and secret
tears still flow
what it meant
to lose you
no one can
ever know.
But now I know
you want us
to mourn for
you no more
to remember
all the happy times
life still
has much in store
Since you'll
never be forgotten
I pledge to
you today
a hallowed
place within my heart
is where you'll
always stay.
~WISHING
YOU WERE HERE~
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EUGENE HEDGLIN~
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