The braver sex?
Ok, here's the story. I finally got up the nerve to ask the guy I like out. Yea me! Needless to say, I was very excited when it worked. I've basically told everyone I know and jumped up and down ALOT. (I know I sound like a thirteen year-old. I'm not. I'm nineteen I swear.)
Every girl I've told has given me the "omigod! I can't believe you did that. I could never do that" response. Needless to say I have a theory as to why nobody ever has dates and everyone complains what a dateless loser they are.
I admit that my experience with asking people out before now was extremly limited. Ok, almost non-existant. (you know-one guy to a high school dance) And yes, I was extremely nervous. But I did it. And now I have a date with a guy that is vaguely promising.
My guy friends all complain that they don't have dates. Well, chances are if you wait around for a girl to ask you. She won't. So just do it. And to make matters worse. The idiot girls that go around following "THE RULES" won't make the first move, EVER. Did you ever hear the expression: If you want to get what you want you have to work for it?
So, the world is caught up in a constant state of datelessness. Ok. I admit it. There are worse things that could happen. But hey, this is a lot easier to fix than the war in Kosovo. So here is the aLyssA solution:
People should ask out other people.
It sounds simple, but is much more difficult. Everybody has to stop being afraid of rejection. And you bitchy girls out there, stop being mean to the nice guys. It scares them and turns them mean. And I would like my nice guy friends to continue to be nice. And maybe every once in a while go out with one of the ones who's nice but you wouldn't necessarily have gone out with. you might be surprised. And girls...ask the guy out already. I mean, just do it. Don't listen to that rules crap. As an ex once put it. "we love stupid girls who follow that rules shit because it keeps the smart girls from getting anywhere." As much as I don't like the ex....he did have a point.
That's pretty much it. You don't have to take my word for it if you don't want to, but hey, it just might work.
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