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Tired of listening to the perturbed rantings of
Webmasters who have had their feelings hurt?

IF NOT, READ ON !!!






BACKGROUND

Most of my visitors know how hard I work on this site and how important it is for me as a creative and philosophical outlet. The only reason I do not say I am proud of my work is because a quality named humility is, to me, such a treasure. Therefore, I opt to let my work speak for itself in the hopes that the visitor will be both enlightened and amused. Balancing humor and profundity can be like roller skating on a greasy high wire at times. There is always the risk that someone will take things the wrong way.

Last year, I was teaching class at a local Middle School and the subject turned to the internet. Not being ashamed of this site, I put the URL on the board - something I have done before with only positive feedback returned. About a week later I was in the office at another Middle School at which I teach talking to the Principal who is an old family friend. I was very surprised to learn that some parents had called in to the Principal of the other school to complain.

Evidently, they neither liked the idea of me promoting my site at school nor thought the content suitable for teens, although I have no evidence that any of them made it past the Home Page. Receiving that input was the precipitating factor in my creating this page. Hopefully there is more to this book than its cover might suggest.





MY RANT

Obviously it is impossible to please everyone and we live in a world permeated with fear. The internet is a wide open place and, from what I have seen, there certainly seems to be no shortage of perverts and morons in cyberspace. There are , unfortunately, those who do attempt to seduce young people using the net as a tool. I am, most emphatically, NOT one of them.

I am personally - and vehemently - NOT out to harm anyone or to subvert our youth. If you think I am then I feel sorry for you. Sheesh! I am a parent myself and I care about our children. Our children, now - as ever, are our future. I can relate as both parent and teacher to valid concerns about the content to which our children are exposed on the WWW. However, I suspect that a pious few of you may have somehow acquired the mentality of those hypocrites who condemned Socrates and crucified the (innocent) messiah two thousand years ago.

On the other hand, I know what they say about opinions and, as Dennis Miller says, I could be wrong.

It is said that we tend to find what we seek, whether consciously or not. My philosophy is to seek the Truth and beauty (and sometimes ... irony) in all things. I promote the free exchange of ideas and encourage people to THINK. Personally, I immensely dislike profanity and pornography and will have none of it on my site - but I hope satire still has a place in this world.

Also, what you find to be phunny, I may find offensive, and vice versa. I take those considerations to heart and I respectfully request my audience does likewise. In my humble opinion, our Creator gave us brains to use. Is that just an interesting but unproven theory ... or is it the Truth? Think about it :o)

It is probably true as well though that any self-respecting religious moralist will find a thing or two in this site with which to find fault. After all, I am a spiritual being in a religious world. There may indeed be a price to be paid for poking the executioner in the eye while standing on the gallows, eh?

I like what Louis Nizer said about looking where the other three fingers are pointing whenever pointing a finger at someone else ... and "Judge not lest ye be judged" rings true as well. If you feel you must pass judgment though, please take the time to read through my entire site before you form your opinion. I firmly believe there is ample redeeming social value to be found here.

For my part I forgive anyone who passes judgment upon me, for I know that it is only our Creator who has that right in Truth. We are each endowed with free will, but how we use it is up to us. The greater part of adulthood consists of the acceptance of responsibility for our actions. I try not to judge others because I know it is not my place. Any judgment I make of another is necessarily but a flawed perception. Only our Creator can see us clearly, so I choose to defer to His judgment.

In the final analysis, the freedom for one to express his (or her) opinions derives primarily from the granting of the same right to others. You are therefore free to think and act as you choose, and thus am I set free. Am I right ... or am I right?

As a closing thought, I offer this (which is also found in my lobby). The real Secret of Life is coming to accept but these two postulates: Love always prevails because it has no opposite. Fear always deceives for it has no reality.





FREE ADVICE: If you find this site objectionable,
please seek counselling immediately or check with your doctor
about a possible cranialectomy to relieve the pressure.

It stands to reason that I probably would not have had over 2,000 (now over 5,000 ... 6,000 ... 7,000 ... 8,000!) visitors and won dozens (now over 100!) of awards by offending people. My intention is now, and always has been, to INvoke thought, not PROvoke harsh feelings.

SECOND OPINION: (By the way, I normally charge for these lol)
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