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Before I begin, let me tell you how I came to live in Oklahoma City. I graduated High school in May of 1979, and Nov of that year, I joined the U.S. Air Force. I've never wanted to go to college, and to be honest, I've never really had a goal in life, other than to travel the world, meet different people, learn new cultures, try new foods, but get paid for it at the same time. The military seemed to be the logical choice. Between Nov of 79 and Oct of 94, I was an Air Traffic Controller. I've worked in Control Tower's, as well as RADAR units. I've lived in Europe as well as Asia, so yes, I did live my dream. Then I was about to be sent to Minot, North Dakota, from the gorgeous Island of Guam, so I figured it was time for me and the Air Force to part company and I separated from the military and faced the civilian world for the first time. I got a job with United Airlines at Houston Intercontinental Airport (my hometown) while I searched for an Air Traffic Controller position somewhere. Just when I was beginning to think, I was shit out of luck and would be doomed to work on that airport ramp loading bags the rest of my life, one of the many applications and resumes I sent out came through. There was a position at Tinker Air Force Base, Oklahoma in Airport Management. Because of my background, they felt it would take minimum time to train me in the art of airport management which is different, but Air Traffic Control skills were required. I started at Tinker Base Operations Jun of 1995. Well, here is the latest. As of May 19th 2002, I now work at the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA). My new job is in the National Flight Procedures Office. What do I do at this new job you ask? (Yes I hear ya askin). What we do is we design, revise, and review arrival, departure, and enroute approaches and procedures for all airports in the nation. I will be going to several classes to learn just how to do this, but I'm pleased as punch and eventually, it will allow me some serious financial freedom...What a wonderful couple of words... (^_^) Some personal info...I've been dianosed as an insulin dependant Diabetic. Was kind of a shocker, but life never guaranteed you any easy hurdles to jump over. Unfortunately as a result of that I've gained more weight then I'd care to admit. And it's a daily battle. It's a rare side effect that the insulin increases my appetite like crazy. I need to lose 70lbs and that is my life challange right now. So far, it's winning. So keep your fingers crossed for me...
What would I like to have in a lover/mate (Will probably never find, but I can dream can't I): Now this is a subject that can easily get me into trouble. NOTE: Many have read this and took it to mean this is ironclad. THIS IS NOT...So please don't tell me I need to broaden my interests. This is just what I'd like, as we all have a preference in a mate, so again don't go picking on me about this list Ok??? This is what I really miss about relationships. Knowing when I get home, I will once again see the woman that loves me and has missed me as much as I her. Ok, the physical info you ask, well in my past, I've dated, the entire spectrum, from super thin, to pretty large, so no one can tell me how do I know what I like if I don't try. Well I've tried, so so I'm here to tell you I know what I am attracted to. I find that I am most attracted to petite to a medium build, between 5'3" and 5'10" or so and her weight should be proportionate to height. Yeah, yeah, that's what every man wants, you say. Do something for me, when your out in public, look around and see that is not true. There are many that only want a big woman, or a small woman, etc. And I'm sure you too have your preferences as to what you like/dislike, so please don't judge me without judging yourself. I've been engaged 3 times, all 3 were of the Asian nationality, but this was just because of I was living there each time. I've also cared deeply for a woman from Turkey, so I can be happy with any nationality other then Black (I know there are many beautiful Black women out there, but for whatever reason, I am just not attracted to them). My bottom line is that I am only interested in an Interracial relationship and doesn't matter where she is from as long as she has love for me, and I her, beyond that happiness is sure to follow. I also prefer a woman a few years younger than I. I'm not saying just out of the cradle, but 7 years younger or more than I seems to be a good start. Now before I go on, none of this is set in stone. I've been with a woman 15 years my senior and we got along great. I was not at the age where I was thinking of settling down then, otherwise, who knows how life would be for me now...
My Interests/Hobbies: This subject area is a bit hard to cover, as I really don't have any real dedicated hobbies like stamp collecting, model building etc. What I throughly enjoy doing is listening to music. Mostly Jazz (Bob James, Herb Albert, David Sanborn) and New Age (Yanni, David Lanz, John Tesh, David Arkenstone). I can also go for some Rock (Metallica, Pearl Jam), even some Alternative (Depeche Mode, POD). Everyday, some type of music is being played in my house. Music keeps me sane as far as I'm concerned. Now believe it or not, I know how to clean, do laundry, I can cook, I'm Mr. Domestic and I really don't mind any of it, as long as the music is playing. I'll put on something I can sing to and look out baby (^_^)... I enjoy working in the yard since it's my home, and my latest project (See Rich's Project room) is restoring a 1958 Chevrolet Impala,. This now takes up quite a bit of my time (and money), but I still find time to surf the net. Continue below to learn more about things I like, dislike, etc, etc. After your done reading all this stuff, you will know quite a bit about the old boy...
What I like about myself: -I truly believe my sense of humor is my greatest asset. I've never seemed to have a problem making people laugh. I even crack myself up sometimes. I've also become an overall better person in dealing with people, problems, and life in general (getting old does that to you sometimes). I love the fact that I'm really into romance and romancing. I love being in love and having someone love me. I like to do those little things for my mate like opening the door, pulling out her chair, drawing her bath if she comes home tired, serving breakfast in bed for no real reason, spending time together, holding hands, doing just any ole thing, as long as we're doing it together. If I seem old fashioned, so be it, but it is me. I'm a pretty good house keeper, which surprises the hell out of me, let me tell you. I used to be such a slob/pig, whatever fits. My mom and Dad can sure tell you some stories. I've become very easy going, a great listener, attentive, passionate, compassionate to my fellow man (to a point anyway). I'm very patient and love hanging out with kids, since I'm still a kid at heart myself... I realized that will never be rolling in cash, but I'm content with just being the way I am. Wait doesn't this sound like a personal ad??? Single and available, will rock your world (^_^)...Hahahaha. Well, I'll be the first to tell you I am VERY picky, but I think I'm well worth it in the end...
What I don't like about myself: -Well that's a tough one since I am quite the catch (if you don't believe me, keep reading the above AGAIN until your convinced). Well one would be that I find it very hard to express my feelings. I hold it all in until I just want to explode. I've been told recently that my voice doesn't reflect emotions. That when I speak, it all comes out rather cold and hurtful. I was never aware of this, so I've been working on that one hard. It's not an easy thing to get emotional response out of me (I'm getting better though). I am very guarded of my feelings which I guess my vocal tones seem cold now. Now when you get my dander up, I become very (you listening to me now), very stubborn, hard-headed is what I am called my one friend). I still have some control over my temper. It used to be a mother. I'm still not happy with my physical appearance although I have gotten better. I had been at one time reached over 300 lbs. I now down to 250-260 and my goal in 215-220 lbs. I know I will never be a rock hard stud muffin all you women want (^_^), but I do want to get in better physical condition, so wish me luck. I've gotten lazy with going to the gym, I also need to work on that. Lastly is my ability to get myself deep into debt. I'm still paying on credit cards (the root of all evil by the way) from charges I made years ago. I hope to see the light at the end of the payment tunnel by my 42th birthday...OK 45th birthday. Expect this to be moved back as needed...
My Likes: (Not in order of course)
-Working on my "58" Impala...
My personal list of whom I consider some of the planet's most beautiful people (In one way or another):
-My Mom...
Some of my dislikes (This subject has great growth potential):
-Jealousy...
How I would like my future to be: -In my past, I've had to deal with a lot of heartache and loss. I was engaged 3 times and of course as you can see they never came to past. The first two died in accidents, and I caught the last one in bed with another man a week before the wedding. So I would call this very unlucky love life (Also pretty much explains the weight gain. I didn't give a shit for a long time). However, now I'm at least a little bit optimistic that I will one day find love. To be happily married to a beautiful younger woman, have kids, and finally be at peace before I go nuts...
Some final thoughts: -To some of you, this is all just dry information about a guy you will probably never meet, which is probably true. What I can tell you is that all of this is me the good, the bad, and to some the ugly, but it is the truth. What I do know about myself is that I've lived an adventurous life full of fun, learning experiences, travels, dangers, sexual encounter's, romances, heartache, and lost loves. I am a man with a good heart, that knows what is right and what is wrong. I can promise whomever I finally settle down with that I will do whatever is in my power to keep my family safe, happy, and together and no one can ask for more than that. I've included a few pictures of how I progressed as the years passed. This room is about just plain old me. No one can predict how their lives will turn out, who is to say how my life will end, but my wishes are few and my heart is waiting for whomever has the key to open it...
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