It Starts With You! Every Woman’s Guide to Personal Growth and a Successful Love Relationship
Julia J Austin
Jackie Paper Publishing

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Julia J Austin’s “It Starts With You! Every Woman's Guide to Personal Growth and a Successful Love Relationship” is instructive.

Section one outlines for the reader How to be the right person. Beginning with a questionnaire to abet the reader toward making some self discovery which she may not have recognized about herself is a starting point.

On the pages of Chapter Two the author pushes women to truly care for themselves, she says, it is more complicated to instigate or put together a connection with others when you don’t really understand or think about yourself.

For those who take pleasure in Biblical reference; the writer offer; a Biblical clarification for what love is: long-suffering, kind, not resentful, not pompous or immodest, not vulgar or egotistical, does not become livid easily, does not well on real or imagined wrongs from others, is not cheerful with malevolence, is joyful with facts, good-naturedly acknowledges all things, trusts and hopes and endures.

“It Starts With You” is not a feel good little document set forth to add lubricant to smoldering self deception that the reader is but a susceptible pawn in the hands of the world as a whole or a manipulative partner on a personal level. The book IS projected to serve as an individual aid to guide readers toward appreciating how to take ownership of their own lives, and how to be successful partners in satisfying personal relationships.

Throughout the book, the reader is offered suggestions for becoming an improved person in addition to how to go about locating the right person for her and how to ascertain if an apparently ideal person is in point of fact companionable with the reader’s particular individuality.

The author puts forward proposals for how to go about making a relationship last and centers her idea on relationship founded in reality and not on pie in the sky or endeavoring to shape the prospective partner into what the reader wants that partner to be.

As the reader probes the book there is found visibly defined approach methodology for learning how to organize notions and behaviors toward forging triumphant links. The writer's approach is augmented with individual experiences, including suggestions re learning from them and then setting down implications for the reader who may find themselves engaged in similar circumstances.

Offering buoyancy and direction for readers; confidence and supervision is drawn from down-to-earth guidance to supply readers with methods needed for dealing successfully and positively with unsatisfactory or disturbing experiences including lack of caution ignoring danger signals or even the self destructive need to stay with incapacitating relationships. The writer points out that in order to embark on a path leading to fulfilled, meaningful relationships hard choices may need to be may.

It seems at times that members of our society as a whole, as well as for many individuals in particular, have developed a feeling for trying to lay responsibility on others; whether parents, culture, upbringing, partner, anything but focusing on self regarding how interrelating with others, or behave in particular settings is performed. Rather than taking a cold hard look at the self to see what is going on to cause serial bad relationships, or self destructive behaviors it is much easier to lay blame elsewhere.

The writer’s chatty writing technique is very readable. “It Starts With You!” is a down-to-earth guide filled with information, idea, thoughts and simple tactics for how to perk up and maintain a relationship far into the future. Using levelheaded philosophy for recognizing strengths and weaknesses in self in order to enter into and grow a relationship will help readers make constructive changes in themselves.

“It Starts With You! Every Woman's Guide to Personal Growth and a Successful Love Relationship” is a must have for the therapist’s collection for the woman who may have had a series of destructive relationships, and for whom contentment seems indefinable and even for those who just plain hope to prolong and improve upon an already good relationships they now enjoy.

Happy to recommend Julia J Austin’s “It Starts With You! Every Woman's Guide to Personal Growth and a Successful Love Relationship”.