IDEALS TO LIVE BY
(OUR "COMMANDMENTS")

BASIC RULE: All rules have exceptions.

     1) HUMANITY: That which has been described in literary endeavors as "humanity". Webster's Dictionary describes humanity as "2. The qualities of kindness and sympathy".  Be kind and sympathetic whenever possible in your dealings with others. I think it's also more than that, it's the ability to think of another before yourself, the ability to "stand in anothers shoes", i.e., to see something from someone else's point of view. This is not to say that you should always sacrifice your own interests, for that would be counterproductive to survival. It is the ability to do the things mentioned above added tp the wisdom to make the proper decision for a course of action. Also means don't kill unless it is the only way to survive, and don't hurt anyone if you don't have to.
  2) EARTH: The earth is our mother, she gives to us, and we shall not take what we do not need, and we will not waste what we recieve. Recycling isn't just to "save the earth" (for the earth will survive), it is also a good idea because trash is ugly. Recycling reduces trash and therefore keeps our earth a nice place to live.
 3) ANIMALS: Animals are our brothers and sisters and while they are also gifts of the earth to keep us nourished, hunting for sport is not only a waste (see #2), but a grave crime committed against our brothers and sisters of the earth. Animals, like the earth, are to be treated with respect.
     4) PARENTS: Respect your parents, although know that they, too, are human and make mistakes sometimes. There are exceptions to this ideal, given that we live in a world where not all parents are worthy of respect. But if they love you, provide(d) for you as best they could, taught you important life lessons, and didn't intentionally harm you, then love and respect them for all they contributed to the person you are today. Listen to them. What they say may not always be exactly right, but they are still worth listening to. Wisdom doesn't always come with age, but it often does, and you may learn wise things even when you don't expect to. So listen. Also, a certain respect for all elders is well-mannered and polite, even tho it is not always deserve. But give them the benefit of the doubt and treat them with respect.
     5) VIRTUES: These are virtues: kindness, sympathy/empathy, patience, tolerance, wisdom, love, generousity, loyalty. Few people, if any, are born with all these traits, most have to be learned. But they are ideals to live by, employ them whenever possible.
 6) TOLERANCE OF BELIEFS: Respect the beliefs of others. Don't force your beliefs on anyone. Every person decides for themselves what to believe, and while you may present your beliefs to others if they are interested, don't force them down anyone's throat. Remember the basic tenet of The Truth: "There is no one right way for everyone."
   7) SURVIVAL: You do what you gotta do. That's not an ideal, per se, thats just a basic principle in today's world. But there are limits. You do what ya gotta do, but no more than that.
 8) HARM: "And it harm none, do as ye will." Personally I find this Wiccan phrase a little too vague. It's on the right track though...maybe add to that, "and if it harms, be prepared for the consequences".
  9) "GOLDEN RULE":  "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." A good rule, but as with any rule, there are exceptions. Like what about when you do unto others, but they don't do unto you? Leaves you kinda vulnerable, dontcha think? But all in all, I suppose, a good rule.
 10) OPTIMISM: Have fun and be happy! Try to look for the good in everything. Like Mary Poppins said, "A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down" ! :)

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