You know what I hate? I hate people who have never had an original thought in their entire lives. I hate people who just go along with whatever is "cool" or whatever all of their friends are doing. Case in point: Recently I was involved in a discussion of music with a group of people including a few who fall into this category. There were three of them. All of them were dressed similarly, had the same haircut and were even drinking the same flavor Slurpee. Each of the people in the discussion were discussing the type of music that they liked and why. When it came time for these three fellows to divulge their musical tastes, each of them gave the same answer: rap. Now, I don’t really have anything against rap, but I this set me to thinking, so I asked them why they liked that particular kind of music. I was not surprised by the answer, because it’s cool. Here everyone else was giving profound reasoning behind their likes and dislikes in terms of the music’s message or the fact that they could identify with it and these three clones answered simply "because it’s cool." This made me curious, so I questioned them further. I asked if they felt a connection to the urban black artists, if they sympathized with their plight. No, they said. I asked if the music made them feel a certain way. Again they answered the negative. I asked if the music made them feel a certain way, if it evoked any emotional response. No. My next question, which I didn’t ask, was do you even like rap, or do you just listen to it because all of your friends do. I didn’t ask because I knew the answer. Of course they would deny it, then they would kick in their high school I’m-better-than-you-because-I’m- cool-because-I’m-just-like-everyone-else-and-you-can-think-for-yourself attitude and anything I said thereafter would be ignored. That’s another reason why I dislike people like this, you can’t tell them anything because they think they already know it all, and if you try and make a point to them about something like their lack of reasoning in their musical tastes, they just tune out for fear their perfect opinions of themselves will be scarred. There’s no reasoning with them. That’s why there will always be people like this, they are either too stupid or too belligerent to realize that they could be wrong and therefore change their attitude. Tobacco and alcohol companies prey on people like this, those that will do whatever seems to be cool. That’s why the beer ads almost always show "cool" people hanging out, having fun and drinking beer. This sinks into the clone’s mind and he says "hey, if cool people are drinking, then I have to too." That’s why all the preppies and otherwise "popular" people in high school spend all their time drinking, a lot of them don’t even like to drink, they just do it to fit in and be cool with all their friends. I used to think that by college this attitude would wear off, and people would start to see that doing something because all of your friends are doing it doesn’t make you cool. But now that I am here, I see that I was wrong. In fact, now that I think about it, a lot of the parents of these clones I have met are the same way. Even after 20 years they are still trying to be "cool." The sickness gets passed down from generation to generation until someone wises up and figures it out, which is a rare occurrence. So, for all of those that fit into this category out there, here’s an original thought for you: Think for yourself.
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