To help you gain self confidence in all areas of your life. Stand before your magick mirror or bathroom mirror if you have no magick mirror. look at your self in the mirror. What do see? Do you see yourself self assured?, Successful?, talented?, worthy of love and friendship?, prosperous? If you say no to any of these, why. Look honestly at why you feel that is so. Is it realistic, are your negative feelings about yourself based in reality? what can you do to change those feelings about yourself? When you have finished your self analysis. Light a red candle (if using the bathroommirror you can place the candle on the basin, if the magick mirror hold the candle in your hand; preferably have the candle in a candle holder) and concentrate on the flame for about thirty seconds or so before looking into your eyes. Tell yourself something along these lines:
"I am beautiful and special. I love you. I'm perfect and I can do anything I want to.
Next go to your altar and burn an incense of three parts wood aloe, two parts frankincense and one part nutmeg. Light a blue candle for inner peace and harmony, and a white candle for outer peace, and balance. On a piece of parchment paper, write down all the things in life you want to achieve.
Read over it and affirm in your mind that can achieve these goals, and will achieve them, visualize them having already happened. As you visualize each goal coming to fruition tick off the goal, like you do with a list of things to do. Then fold the paper in two, and set it on fire, one half from the blue candle the other from the white. Toss the paper into a fire proof container or cauldron then concentrating on the two candles, say these or similar words:
Mother Goddess and Father God (You may use your patron deities if you wish) You have created me out of love, a perfect being, a reflection of your love, your wisdom, strength, and virility. You have infused within me, your spark. Your divine presence. You have filled me with the potential to do great things, the ability to achieve whatever I will to do in life. I call forth this potential, my inner strength, my inner wisdom, my inner beauty, my inner confidence, my inner self-assurance to manifest itself in my life to create a harmonious balance with my outer self. I call upon my inner resources, to manifest into my life, to create for me a state of self-confidence and successful assurance within myself. May it be reflected in my everyday workings, through confidence to speak openly, through tactile thinking, through knowing the right action to take at the right time. I banish from myself shyness, introversion, and awkwardness. From this time on, I will always know the right words to speak, the right actions to take, the ability to converse freely with no inhibition. Through your power Goddess and God, which is manifest in me, I will it to be so for the good of all and the harm of none, So mote it be!
Let the candles and incense burn themselves out. This spell is best followed by working with your chakras, removing any blockages from
them that you might find.
Gather a piece of paper, one grey crayon, one bright crayon (orange-yellow is good), matches, and a small item to represent yourself (perhaps a pebble). On the left side of the paper write in grey the word "doubt," and draw a cloud over the word. On the right side, use the bright crayon to draw a sun with the word "assurance" underneath it. Then lay the paper before you, placing the symbol of self on the left side. Slowly, while repeating the phrase, "From doubt to certainty, light to mark my way. Misgivings be gone, I'm seizing the day," move the stone across the page until it sets firmly on the word "assurance."
Next, take a deep breath and tear away the left side of the paper, releasing your breath as you finish tearing. Burn that side to literally destroy your doubt. Wrap the remaining paper around the stone or object and carry it to encourage confidence every day. Easing indecision. Clarifying a sense of confusion. Reservations, misgivings, skepticism.