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CHAT
Now a days internet almost invaded every house on our blue atmospheric ball,
people started to communicate by the internet more than phones hmmmmmmm let us be honest
and say first of all its more Cheaper (*_~).... or maybe because it allows u to meet thousnads
of people in several places on this earth .... BUT there is always the bad side for every
thing .... u know what i mean, now u cant tell if the other part u chatting is a boy or
a girl people started to use the chat just to fool the others .... and what is worse
when we see Boys playing on Girls and Girls playing on Boys without giving
a damn concern about the feelings of the other part as long as they are enjoing it
and on the end we find some broken hearts.
the idea of the chat has been changed from it's basic one and it becomes more and more worse ....
at least that what i think ..... hmmmm soooo tell me now what do u think your self about this subject???
RASHAASH (rashaash77@aol.com) :
Chatting is a very sensitive topic once you discuss it between members of a society like ours, UAE's or the Gulf area in general. Well most of us have his own reason of why he logs in to chat, some take as a mean of knowing new people, some to fool around, for fun, to fill in their part time. It depends on the person himself on where does this thing lead him, if it lead to a fight or into breaking his heart. Maybe alot have taken this too far such as developing serious fights and taking them out on the street, typical guys stuff, putting theirselves, family names and repect under risk. Well if you came to talk about girls ...its nearly the same, the are also under risk, because not all respect the fact of a girl going into a chat line, thinking that she is only their to flirt, but as there are respectable guys there also respectable girls, whom are only there for a clean chat and innocent fun. Moving on to the heart breaking topic, well this is life people meet, no matter HOW! it could be on the street, in a party, through work! THROUGH phone, it happens also through cyber space! its a mean of communication, but how that relationship end up or lead to, is up to the people involved, and their environment. If it ends up SO bad ..dont blame the machine and dont blame the channel. All i have to say is make the best of it ! Through the internet i met alot of people, most of them are senseless and we never got along! But i met also ....a great Pal ! Whom id never loose ..no matter what, and to him i write these few words!Meera (arrogant_a@hotmail.com) :
If you want my idea I believe that the internet was there for a really good purpose we all know that like any scientific discovery there should be side effects. It mainly depends on whom ever uses it there is no such thing as a bad machine it is only abused by the people themselves. As for myself the internet is an excellent way to communicate with my friends whom I know very well REAL WORLD FRIENDS The chat is just a mean to get a friend, but that friend is not THE FRIEND that you create to be a good friend on which you can depend on , people expect the truth from people whom lie..!!! so how can you depend on them !?? Heard a lot of stories concerning this issue, most came out the way they expected while others failed to accomplish their demands in love and friendship, our chat sites were once upon a time clean innocent frank and amazingly fun..!!!! But now when you log in the first few sentences that are said is , are you F or M? How old are you? What is your real name? And where are you from and where do you live ?bla bla bla bla But then when you ask them the same questions all what you get is a bunch of crap LIES!!! For a relationship to be built upon meeting someone through the chat sites is not the right way, cause when you meet them in real life they turn out to be completely different ,the way they talk act and think. So I think before building a relationship that you think will end up just the way you want it think twice cause fate has a very important role in our lives you never know what, where and how will it all end up, with a heart filled with scars that can never vanish or be washed away through out the days, you never know...and as Bernard Baruch quoted "Two things are bad for the heart running up the stairs and running down people." It is easier to perceive error than to find the truth , for the former lies on the surface and is easily seen, while the latter lies in the depth, where few are willing to search for it, and last but not least the greatest friend for truth is TIME her greatest enemy is PREJUDICE and her constant companion is HUMILITY... Yours Meeraxiola (xiolazeinith@hotmail.com):
i believe that chatting throught the net is a unique way to know ppl, share ideas, creat groups...etc. unfortunatly, many ppl have this fixed idea that chatting is like this "love-connection" programmes on tv...where all u do is flirt, flirt and flirt..others have even worse! all that due to the thousands and thousands of rumours, which could be true, about these chats... Ofcourse i have to admit that chatting has irs bad side, still we dont blame it on the chat or the whole net...it all mounts up to the folks using it and their up-bringing (if there is one). we also see how ppl terribly abused the net for their perverted deeds. some use it 4 black-mail, others for pornography and some ppl just want to make ur life like hell...(now those r sick lol).....well we cant do much about the matter i guess...we gotta be alert and not hand our trust to whoever passes by...lol as for me, i just cant get over it..Ok ppl its oficcial "IM ADDICTED!" lol, thats one bad side effect...lets just pray i dont OD! lol at the end...i am really graetful we have this new advanced technology. it makes life easier on plenty of ppl around the world..it links us to one another...and makes us one huge "Global Village"... Urs truely, xiolaMMG THE-GREAT (couchon@hotmail.com) :
I was actually seduced by someone i know to write in this place!!! Anyways, to me chat means a load of crap, i mean what the hell do people expect from it anyways. People has to face reality, this new invention is next to telephones, all the guys see is another device to get to girls, in this case actually the easiest device. It's like a dream come true, no police, brothers any kind of supervision. I have never used this tool to get a friend, thank god, i am not that pathetic and desperate, if i go in the chat i would just have fun try to insult as much people as possible and depart without any hard feelings. i care less for these people they are not going to effect me in any way, all i see is a screen full of insignificant remarks that are not at all stimulating. especially in this society where people are practically moving corpses without any aim in life or dream, live for today, of course and why not since we have everything, everything that is empty!! and the 'love' business over the chat, is all bullshit, you can't fall in love with someone you totally don't know, i mean totally , i just can't take anyone seriously who beleive it could happen, it's just absurd. I read all the stuff that is written on this page, i'm sorry to say you all people are so much into this chatting business and emotion stuff, that it starts to stink really bad, you are making big fuss out of nothing. p.s. i apologise if i offended anyone by utilising foul language, however i do choose my words wisely and intentionally!!allured (allured@usa.net) :
I know that not every person in this world is allowed freedom, and I know that not everything I want will happen. But to me chatting is another world a world .. a world in which I can maybe find a friend whom might appreciate me for whom I am discised as, or maybe who the real me is ( if I ever learn to trust anyone ). In my other I learnt a lot of stuff from chatting enough to hurt me and even more to make me happy, I even meet a lot of ppl who I never did and never will learn to co op with. And maybe those ppl I chatted with are totally different from what they are pretending to be, but they never gave free way for anyone to know them better and maybe help them. When ever I am feeling low or maybe feeling hyper I go to my new world, but I have to say I always depended on the creation . Yes the only thing I can do was just dream because I knew that my dreams where something between me and my god not anyone else (unless I tell anyone else). But now I have to tow worlds which I can create my own friends or actually pretend to be friends with them. And it wont be hard for me to leave it cause no one will ever stop me, because no one over there really knows who the real me is. My first world the world which I can never set free because everybody knows me well enough to put me in trouble or maybe to help me. Chatting to me was an amazing discovery a discovery I thought that was worth all the discoveries of the world. I know that the guys would to understand what I am talking about cause they are free but not all of us girls are free like U GUYS ..I would thank UAEHOMESICK who produced this discussion room .lets all give a hand to UAE HOMESICK ..lolJazmine ( N/A ) :
ok here's what i think about chatting.. CHAT: a FRIENDLY informal talk this is the meaning of chatting..i got it from the dictionary.. briefly i truely believe that ita great way for people to communicate around the world (specially for families who live far away from each other) ..its also a great way for people to know each other and make valuable friendships and share ideas..but for those who r using it to play prakns on people or hurt them then they better cut out this childish act..we've got enough people who r hurt in the real world..i know i havent said anything unique or new its because i believe its as simple as that ! ..in the end each one knows whats good for his/her and is entitled to his/her opinion...and for the people who r chatting have fun and enjoy it but not on the expence of other people... take care and have fun :)