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"TAMMYS ABUSE CONTINUED
"TAMMY DID SURVIVE"


Tammy survived this and went through counseling and finally got brave enough to let Chris go,but Chris came to the hospital and said he would go to counseling with her so she took him back!But he never attended any sessions with her,he just got worse and even held a loaded gun to her head and threatened to blow her head off!! And Tammys abuse started all over again and Chris would spend more and more time in the bars and doing drugs with his friend and Tammy would spend more hours alone thinking it was her fault,some called her stupid and those that knew about her abuse just kept quiet! She would tell me all was fine,but I knew it wasn't! Some of those Fridays before I left her house I would hear him yelling at her and once I went back inside and he went into his bedroom and shut the door! He was a wimp!
The most amazing thing was how he helped her through my dads funeral ! He was so supportive and Tammy was pregnant with their second child,there were so many times he would actually fool the rest of us into believing he was changing,guess we all just wanted him to so badly because of Tammy loving him so much!

"Megan"
 Tammy was really happy carrying her second baby,infact she liked when Chris was gone and she just had her home to herself,because when he was home she was slapped,sexually assaulted by him,he even cut up her maternity clothers,he was so mad that she was carrying another girl,he wanted a son!!,He would throw her to the floor and pull her hair,he wanted her to lose this baby,but Tammy wanted her !! Chris was just getting meaner and awful with her and the day little blue eyed Megan was born,he left the hospital and had a huge party at his home,and even the dog Tammy had wasn't the same when she got home either ,Chris had beat it and she had to give him away!

But Tammy made the best of her life mainly because she didn't want to live with others and he was gone alot!! But their fights were getting so bad that she even began to throw things back at him! And the last night he was with her,the fight got so bad that he pushed her down on the kitchen floor and was hitting her and yelling so loudly that Kristina now 3 ,woke up and came in yelling at her daddy to stop hurting her mommy!!!! I feel little Kristina saved her mothers life that night!!! Tammy knew that there had to be another woman,he had always run a pattern !! So Chris left Tammy that night with a 3 year old and a 5 month old baby and $4.00 to her name but she stayed in the house until his threats got so bad that her father and I talked her into moving in with us!!!! He had her phone turned off and was hiding in the garage,so her brother would spend the nights there so she wouldn't be left alone!!


They were divorced 6 months later but even now he continues his abuse mentally to their daughters!! Is there anything we can do? We have been tied up in the court system for 6 years now! Will he ever be out of her life? No!!! He has his legal rights to see the girls!! Do the courts care? NO!!!! She lived!! And do the courts care that he continues to abuse?? No!!! See no one died!!!

"ARE YOU A VICTIM???"

If you are being abused by a spouse,boyfriend or anyone,there is help, no one deserves to be abused,get out while you still can!!! Thanks for reading my story,my daughters is just one of millions being abused daily,she got a new chance at her life!! I pray that all the abused and battered get a new chance also!!!

THIS IS TAMMY NOW,AT HER DAUGHTERS BIRTHDAY PARTY,SHE SMILES AND LOVES HER CHILDREN,SHE HAS FINALLY STARTED TO HEAL AND SHE LOVES THOSE GIRLS! I AM SO GLAD SHE DIDN'T DIE THAT DAY AND I THANK GOD,EVERYTIME I SEE HER!!!!





YOU CAN EMAIL MY DAUGHTER AT EMAIL:Partyof_5@Hotmail.com

she would love to hear from others that has gone through this abuse!

Email; Wittyone1998@yahoo.com