The Volcano Lover   
by Francesca Lia Block, SPIN 
March 1996 
 

 
If you think  is just another New Age flower poet, wait till you meet the furious girl
inside. Francesca Lia Block talks faeries, boys, and pudding with pop music's reigning
goddess. 


 
I had a dream about Tori Amos before I met her. She was wearing a stiff peach damask
Italian Renaissance gown; her hair was up on her head, cascading marinara tendrils. We
were walking through an ancient stone castle, discussing light and darkness, and the way
she is often seen as either one or the other -- virgin or whore, ex-classical pianist child
prodigy or ex-rock chick, poet or punk, more the daughter of a Methodist minister father
or of a part-Cherokee mother. When so many contradictions coexist in one petite palace,
there's going to be a cacophony of voices shaking up that dinner party, but what happens
to the lady at the head of the table? 
 

 
When I actually meet Tori Amos, outside of Surrey, the castle is a pale pink English
country manor with roses clambering up the side and green fields all around. The damask
gown is a fuzzy angora sweater, worn with bell-bottoms and Mary Janes. But her face is
like in my dream, open and friendly, with that lustrous baroque-pearl skin and generous
mouth. Amos kisses my cheeks when I give her the Sky Dancer doll -- a flying plastic
faerie -- that I brought from F.A.O. Schwarz in Manhattan. I join her for lunch in a dining
room overlooking, through French doors, a huge lawn and a pool the color of Amos's
eyes and sweater. It feels like I've been hanging out here for a while. 
 
 
Later, I'm sipping red wine in an attic loft, and listening to the new album  , named after
the Hawaiian goddess of destruction and creation to whom young men were sacrificed by
being thrown into her volcano. Through most of it, I don't know whether to cry or dance.
Amos is dancing around behind me, and bringing me Kleenex. She has told me, "The
music is the magic carpet that other things take naps on," and I am alternating between
soaring on her tapestry carpet with its elaborate, gold-encrusted surface and falling into
its gorgeous and bloody scenes. I am looking for the secrets in the hidden patterns, but
my guide into this woven world can be as allusive and abstract as the goddess herself.

 
 
"I don't fall in love much," she says. "I mean, I fall in love every five seconds with
something but I don't go from boy to boy. I go from archetype to archetype." 
 
 
Her words weave a kind of spell, so that even while you're thinking this is an out-there
girl, you're following her down every thickly wooded forest path, among the roses and the
briars, past the carnival mirage in the distance. 
 
 
She starts to walk slowly in circles with her hand raised above her head as she talks.
"With Caton [Steve Caton, who plays guitar on  and Boys for Pele], we talked about
`Doughnut Song' and the swirling, the idea of girls on hands of men and underneath men
are slates of material that open up and there are women underneath them on the backs of
cattle and above the girls that are on top of the hands of men there's something pouring
into their water jugs. Those are the pictures I get when we're trying to find a sound, and
it's funny because the guys go, `Here we go again -- Tori-speak.' " 
 
 
Deciphering Tori-speak, I learn that the 14 major songs on Boys for Pele -- which at 70
minutes runs much longer than either of her two previous albums -- symbolize the 14
body parts of the Egyptian god Osiris. In the myth, they were collected by the goddess
Isis. If Amos is Isis, whose parts does she need to collect and reassemble? She recently
broke up with Eric Rosse, the coproducer of  and  , whom she was with for over seven
years. 
 
 
"Eric and I were inseparable, and the truth is I don't care any less for him. We just agreed
that we needed to go and be independent of each other. Sometimes I didn't know what
was my thought or what was his, and that's not healthy. We painfully held hands and
looked at each other and said we have to go explore, we can't protect each other anymore.
I miss him of course; you kind of miss it when one of your arms is gone. I mean, I have a
really good left hand and it plays really fast but I do miss my right arm. I seem to be
growing another one, though, and I think he needed his back so that he could play his
instrument." 
 
 
She also mentions some anonymous other he's who appear on Boys for Pele, but won't
say who they are, though the album is full of references. 
 
 
Amos and her crew are here at the castle "reeling in the girls," Tori-speak for mixing the
songs. Songs as girls? The more I listen the more I get it; the words and sounds are like a
girl-party. There are changelings whose faerie mamas clipped their shivery wings down
to the nub in order that they might pass as human in North Carolina, where they (and
Amos) first emerged. There are goddesses raging in the heart of the volcano, brides in
veils marrying the sun god, sexy tango dancers in the devil's cocktail lounge, minister's
daughters wailing blasphemy in churches, feverish, gun-toting, swampy Southern belles
gone bad with pigs suckling on their breasts. Call them the girls of Boys. 
 

faerie girl:We are walking down a country lane surrounded by hills so green it almost
hurts to look at them. This is definitely a land for the faeries, whom Amos thanks on
every album. Her connection to these and other mystical beings is often perceived as a
reason not to take her totally seriously -- cute New Age white-girl flower poet. But really
the faerie thing is as much about an eerie chill that makes every hair on your body stand
erect -- or about brutal, bloody violence -- as any Sky Dancer image. The original faerie
tales were scary, sexy stories that helped children and adults work out their most primal
fears. Faerie is as much bone and shards of glass and ice crystals sliding down the spine
as it is pretty daisies and dolls (all imagery from Under the Pink; Amos understands this
range). The queen of the faeries, Mab, had red hair and was buried in a tomb in Ireland,
the country Amos recorded much of Boys for Pele in. Thinking about those curls, that
breathy or wailing voice, those sometimes crystalline, sometimes shattered, shattering
melodies and lyrics, I find myself wondering if this is some kind of pilgrimage to an
incarnation of the faerie queen herself. 
 
 "I think that people who can't believe
in faeries aren't worth knowing," she says when I bring myself to ask. "Neil [Gaiman,
creator of the comic Sandman, featuring the Amos-based character Delirium] believes
that faeries have gone beyond cool. They've transcended cool. I just think alternate
realities make you a good writer. If your work is any more than one dimension, you
believe in faeries. I'm sure I'll start thinking now about all the people I know who don't
believe, that I quite like. We can still go have a pint. Not the Chardonnay, though." 


 
We pass some white horses in a field and I ask about another mythical creature that hasn't
been taken seriously. 
 
 
"People make statements about `this unicorn shit' and don't realize that `this unicorn shit'
was a secret code that millions of people were killed for. The gangs could learn a few
things." She's referring to pagan beliefs that survived through symbolism in tapestries and
literature. "If you weren't toeing the Catholic line at the time, then you were a heretic. I'm
trying to reconstruct some of these falsehoods...." Suddenly, she's had enough of theories
and abstractions. Modern-day-Mab wants to go into the small nearby town to get the
herbal pickup, guarana, for the crew: "Kind of a naughty faerie thing to do." 
 

sacred girl: Much of Boys for Pele stems from Amos's response to what she believes is
"one of the greatest lies that has been told, the lie about the sacred bride and the sacred
bridegroom." Originally, Jesus was the sacred bridegroom, but the bride -- or goddess --
and her cults were wiped out by Christianity -- making Mary Magdalen a whore instead
of a priestess and taking away the Madonna's sexuality. "There's not a sacred bride in our
culture." Amos says her life would have been different, that she would be less oppressed
by shame about her passion and sensuality, if she had been raised with the sacred myth
intact. 
 
 
"We kind of skulk off into the darkness to fulfill these sides of ourselves. We get tied up
or defecated on because we've judged our true desires as women so harshly." If the bride
had been acknowledged, she argues, "there would have been honor of the feminine.
There wouldn't have been patriarchy as we know it or matriarchy. There would have been
balance." 
 
 
This idea also applies to rock. "If you look at rock culture, there is very much a desire for
the sacred bridegroom to die. The sacred brides don't die much.  is one of the very few."

 
 In her song "Muhammed My Friend," Amos honors the bride with the lines,
"It's time to tell the world / We both know it was a girl back in Bethlehem." You can just
see a torrid Tori-video with a girl in a skimpy red dress stepping off the cross and
dancing into the distance. 
 
 All of this myth-speak isn't an abstraction for our
sacred girl. 
 
 "Even if you don't read history or you aren't interested in anything
that happened before the '60s, there are reasons why we think the way we do. There are
reasons why people are going crazy right now." Paraphrasing Joseph Campbell, she says:
"A culture that doesn't know its mythology is powerless. Some kids show up at my shows
crawling out of their bodies. They'd turn their power over to anything; that's 'cause they
don't know the tools to go in." 
 
 The tools are the myths themselves. Without
them, we won't be able to understand who we are. This tapestry will dissolve, the faeries
will be silenced, white horses will lose their horns, and the goddess will become the
frightened girl forever. The more you live inside Tori's tapestry, the more you realize how
necessary it is to keep the golden threads of myth intact. 
 
 
lucifer's girl: "I wanted to marry Lucifer," she tells me. "Even though I had a crush on
Jesus. Lucifer was the brother holding the space for mankind/womankind to act out their
fears and hidden secrets, things they won't acknowledge. That's what the shadow is, the
side that's been denied, and once you don't deny your shadow anymore then it's not a
perversion of that energy source. I don't consider Lucifer an evil force. We can all tap
into that free-running current of distorted energy. 
 
 
"Some of my girlfriends -- liberal London girls -- had a problem with the idea that I was
writing a song called `Father Lucifer.' One of them heard it and cried and said, `You
made him so beautiful,' and I said, `What if he is beautiful?' Shadow defines light. The
shadow is where I hang out a lot because I like chasing and diving with those forces."

 
 
I mention the Greek myth of Persephone, the girl stolen away by Hades, god of the
underworld, and how she might have preferred that fate to hanging out with her mother
among the flowers and sunshine forever. 
 
 
Amos replies, "Although I think my mom would like to tag along and have a dance with
him because she's been a minister's wife for so long! But this is not Hollywood's view of
Lucifer." 
 
 
Instead of an evil satanic demon, her Lucifer is a dark god who has great respect for life
and love. "On some of my darkest days, he's the one that comes and gives me an ice
cream. I feel such a sadness from him. I cry and feel his presence with his music. I feel
like he comes and sits on my piano. Yet this is a pretty serious being. I'm a little squirt
when you think what a very serious force this is." 
 
 
Sounds pretty heavy, but "Father Lucifer" is as much a romantic fantasy as anything else.
"I just always wanted to learn flamenco so I could dance with him," Tori teases. "I
wanted a great tango in the June summer with somebody really hot. There are a lot of
cute boys around. It's that quirk in their personality that makes my toes curl, and Lucifer's
got a very quirky personality." 
 
 And just as she loves the darkness, she craves
the light: "I flirt with the sun god too. I enjoy that immensely." She gives her "yummy"
smile, like a little girl with a bowl of pudding, a food that comes up quite often with her.
"In fact, I enjoy both of them quite immensely." 
 
 
pudding girl: "Tori is a foody," her assistant, Kerri Manuell, has told me. And it's true.
Tonight is Halloween and we dine by candlelight on salmon steaks, potatoes, sweet
potatoes, broccoli, home-baked bread, apple raspberry crumble, and the Chardonnay she
loves and might not share with you if you don't honor alternate realities. 
 
 Amos
uses food as a way to talk about everything that isn't food. Searching for a sound on
"Marianne," a song about a childhood friend who died, she told her musicians "It's kind
of like that melon slush that I made ten years ago and poured it out the side of my little
hovel when I lived in L.A." Food is how she explains the status of her record label:
"When it's time, that information will be made available, but right now I think it's good to
let the bread bake in the oven. There's definitely some muffins in the oven." It's how she
expresses her desire to care for people -- "Anorexics need to hang out with me. I know
the finest chefs. I do! I've had a few propose marriage and everything!" -- and how she
describes her harpsichord: "I really was getting a bit bored with the piano;
compositionally I just needed a new taste, kind of like another spice, so I got into the red
pepper. Cayenne pepper. Cayenne pepper in orange juice, cayenne pepper in spaghetti,
cayenne pepper in pudding, and this is what the harpsichord has been." In fact, when I
ask her to define her core beliefs, she doesn't have to think. "Lots of food!" 
 
 
furious girl: "I just have to have a giggle sometimes because these relationships are so
overblown. You know the pudding that never stops growing? Like tapioca...you could
forge houses in it." 
 
 Even with her lust for life and funny puddings, Amos
habitually deals with images as rippingly painful as "chickens get a taste of your meat,"
in the Boys song "Blood Roses." " `Let go and love,' fuck that shit! My heart is scarred. I
have a tear running down the middle of it and I'm not ready to say, `Let go and love.' "

 
 
But the pain on her new album seems less like the pain of victimization that we
witnessed on Under the Pink and more the growing-up pain of self awareness. "It's not a
revenge record but a releasing record. I've been angry at myself, too, for getting into
certain situations with men. Anger is healthy, but out of balance if it doesn't have
compassion." 
 
 
One of the girls on Boys is "Hey Jupiter," a song about the pain of separation that Amos
says is very much about a real man. "I was at my lowest. I was at a hotel in Phoenix, and I
realized that for once there wasn't a man I could turn to." The song contains lines from
inside the sorrows of a break-up, words that encapsulate a lot of what the album
represents: "So are you gay? / Are you blue? / Thought we both could use a friend to run
to." 
 
 
But this is only part of the story. She also quotes from the driving, bitter bang of a song,
"Professional Widow": " `Give me peace, love, and a hard cock': because you can't have
one without the other. For her to really say, `Are you gay? / Are you blue?' that same
person has had to say `Give me peace, love, and a hard cock,' because if I hear peace and
love one more time! That is so full of shit!" 
 
 
Seething with a rage made visceral by the baroque but violent sounds of the harpsichord,
"Professional Widow" has an anger and power that we've rarely, if ever, heard from her
before. "Slag pit / Stag shit / Honey bring it close to my lips / ...Starfucker, just like my
daddy." Speaking about her furious girl, Amos says, "I really like her because she's dead
honest. I've been a groupie and I wish I hadn't been, but I was and it happens. I can
relate." 
 
 
"And now you're on the other side," I say. 
 
 
"No, I've been a groupie when I was on the other side, actually." 
 
 southern girl:
"Do you sometimes use abstractions or obscure references to give yourself a little
distance from such specific events?" I ask. We are curled up on a couch drinking tea.
Outside, the grounds are veiled in furtive, silvery light. 
 
 "I don't think Boys for
Pele is abstract at all. I think Under the Pink was an abstract work; it was meant to be.
This one is more like when you're in a relationship where there are things that are hidden
but are definitely underlying the conversation; you're interrogating him -- over a glass of
red wine and a fire, but you're still trying to get information. And you feel more than one
thing at one time. 
 
 "Poppa [her part-Cherokee grandfather] always said the
South was so confusing because the South smells the sweetest after a lynching. That's
because after a lynching the goddess cries and the honeysuckle never smelled sweeter.
That's similar to relationships. You're sitting there thinking one thing and hearing one
thing and yet he's telling you another thing. It's like, what was that about not being able to
commit himself? He said it without saying those words, he said, `My mind is divided, I
want to come see you but my mind is divided.' Give me a fucking break. But I'm buying
this -- I wanted to hear his mind was divided so I could hang on a little longer. And this is
many he's -- my whole life." 
 
 
I ask about the choice of finishing up the album in Louisiana. "At first I was going to
record everything in the South. There's a hiddenness about the South, and I wanted to go
back there because it was similar to how I felt in my relationships with men." The
Southern girl wanted to convey the buried meanings that often haunt love relationships,
by working in an environment that is so much about cruelty disguised by rich, sensual
beauty. "Things smell so delicious coming from that oven, the lazy summer days and the
grasshoppers and the honeysuckle and the magnolia, the rhododendrons. You don't want
to see how cruel people are being to each other. It's much more harsh because they're in
this impressionist painting, so everything is muted, even though it's shockingly out of
order. It's very much like the relationships. Everything looks as if there's this beauty and
then we would be doing things to each other that were far from beautiful." 
 

give me some ass, girl: In this tapestry castle is a room I glimpse but don't go into -- the
sacred temple that houses the piano and the harpsichord. One difference between Boys
and the earlier albums is the presence of the harpsichord, which Amos learned to play
specifically for this venture. Because it has no sustain, it is very different from the piano,
and she's been "playing it more like a percussive instrument. I got into my thrash
harpsichord. When I look at it, I just see it go to me, `Wear your high-heeled red shoes
and give me some ass, girl.' " 
 
 Amos is obsessed with finding unique sounds.
"I'm a hunter," she says. "I'm not much of a collector but I have a really hard time not
collecting shoes." Her confidence as a musician is truly of goddess proportions. And she
should be confident, selling out every venue to screaming audiences who recall  fans in
their hysteria even though she's just one girl and a piano. But she catches me off guard by
suddenly expressing her vulnerabilities. Ironically, since many people are frustrated that
they aren't taken seriously as musicians, Amos struggles with wanting to be appreciated
as a woman first. 
 
 
"You've got to remember I was playing since I was a little girl. I've been a musician
before I was a human. I've always been judged musically before I even knew what was
happening just because that's what happens when you're playing at such a young age. But
now there really is a person inside here other than the musician, and I'm just coming to
that this year. Music is so much a part of me I think it's in my cells. If I lost my hands and
I lost my voice and I was just sitting there I'd still think in tone and rhythm because that's
how I think every second. But I can be a woman that thinks in tone and rhythm, not just
this thing." 
 
 
As Amos figures it, "This is where a lot of Boys for Pele is coming from. It's not [about]
pushing the boys off the side of the volcano or roasting them with marshmallows. There
were five seconds when that did occur to me, but that's just because I wasn't really ready
to see the gift. I think these relationships are such gifts." 
 
 boys and the girl: So
what happens to the girl who is all these girls? How does she integrate the fragments?
How does she resolve her anger toward the boys? 
 
 "It's very much working
with that Pele energy, that destruction/creation energy, trying to find the balance, because
I would find myself either the lovey-doveyest-woviest sweet pea, or a madwoman," Amos
says. 
 
 
With hard work, self-awareness, analysis, and expression, she is bringing all her
fragments together. And she has something else that helps, too -- her appetite for the
humor in life. She interrupts all the analysis with "I think the Brits would laugh their
asses off and go, `Tori, you have to go to a rugby match.' " 
 
 I realize that I like
her even more than I'd imagined I would. This isn't just about worshiping at the temple of
the goddess. It's about sharing pudding secrets with a girlfriend. 
 
 
"This is an interview, so I'm speaking to that boy out there who feels like he's been shit
on by this girl. I'm speaking to that girl out there who will never get approval from her
father -- it ain't going to happen, she's never enough. I know how many kids this reaches,
but at the same time there is a balance to all that search for wholeness and part of that is
going to the rugby game. Diversity creates wholeness." 
 
 We stop in front of the
house. She is lighting and extinguishing one match after another. 
 
 
"And what about the Pele reference?" I ask. "When and how did the album come to be
called that?" 
 
 
"I'm a bit of a pyro and I ran out of matches when I was staying in Hawaii." 
 
 
Pianos for pyros, I think. 
 
 
Back at the house, Amos tells me about her upcoming tour, in which she will do some
180 appearances in one year. I'm reassured to know that she will have her best friend,
Beenie Shanks, who also does Amos's body work, along, as well as her kindly, protective
road manager John Witherspoon, her loyal quirky-angel crew, and a chef specializing in
gourmet Asian cuisine. Still, it's tough work under any circumstances, even for a girl with
"warrior energy" who has told me, "If we were a pile of Vikings, I'm not a bad guy to
have on your side." 
 
 
When I'm about to leave, she hugs me. 
 
 "See you around the bend," she says. 
I'd like to go with her. 
 
 
But instead I'll imagine her flying across continents, alighting at the best restaurants for
her savory favorite meals of wild mushrooms and fish cooked on wood planks, the finest
Chardonnays; collecting shoes with seven-inch heels in Paris; I'll imagine her crying in
hotel rooms in the Midwest and sweating at her harpsichord, lit by the faces of thousands
of the devoted. She is in Hawaii, playing her piano at the edge of a volcano, embodying
(with typical dualism) both the flame and the ash. It is impossible to tell where one ends
and the other begins. 
 
 
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