Do not avoid healthy and natural things
What causes problems, is avoiding things that are healthy and/or natural.
Like if men avoid being like women. That causes propably much more harm than trying to be manly, too.
Because people and all living beings are much alike in many respects. Many likes and dislikes, needs and basic requirements are common to all.
So if we take care that children get good living conditions to grow up in, like is needed in the human societies everywhere, in order that the children grow up to be healthy adults, they get living conditions and ways of living that are well suited for human beings. It is traditional in many cultures that women take care most of the children upbearing. So their culture, values and ways of living are especially adapted to safeguard the living conditions that we all, children and adults, women and men, need alike.
So if that gives a person a soft appearance, values, habits or so, it is not to be avoided, since it is connected to taking care of one's health and so on. So men should not avoid being like women! On the contrary: they should be appriciated, according to justice, for the same healthy things as women are.
One sould never give preference to unnaturalities over naturalities, if one does not need to do so. Otherwise natural systems like human being and human societies are not at all as self-repairing as those would otherwise be.
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