Friday, November 23, 2001 6:45:02pm
Name: HAROLD & DARLENE BERNACHI
E-Mail: HALDAR@MNSI.NET
City/Country: AMHERSTBURG, ONTARIO, CANADA
Comments:
YOU HAD TO MAKE US CRY AGAIN HUH.
BECKY AND BRENT.........WHAT A TRIBUTE
TO DAD AND FRIEND PAT.
THIS SUMMER WILL BE A REAL TEST FOR US.
UNDER THE MAPLE TREE WITH NO PAT......
CAN'T PICTURE IT.
HAROLD
Friday November 23, 2001 7:28:45pm
Name: Brent Bryksa
E-Mail: bbryksa@mnsi.net
City/Country: LaSalle,Canada
Comments:
I haven't known Pat nearly as long as most of the people that were in his life, but I have learned many things from him and every day I learn more about him from his loving daughter and family. His stubborness and courage not to let his dissability run his life are reasons that I can only hope to be just like Pat and live the rest of my life to the fullest of my ability. There are many other things I would like to say but to make it short, Pat we will all miss you and you will always be in our thoughts.
Friday, November 23, 2001 8:26:48pm
Name: Marilyn & Bob Robertson
E-Mail: marrobr@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg,On.Canada
Comments:
Beautiful, Congrat's on a fantastic job
Friday, November 23, 2001 8:35:23pm
Name: Tony Fracas
E-Mail: thbear@jet2.net
City/Country: Lasalle Ontario Canada
Comments:
It is my pleasure to sign the guest book
I am sorry I did not have the chance to meet Pat but through Harold I feel that I know him like he was my best friend.
I only wish I could have had the honour to have met him in real life.
Tony
Friday, November 23, 2001 10:59:54pm
Name: Bill and Fran Radigan
E-Mail: aburg249@aol.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I didn't know Pat all that well, but we passed a few words now and then. He was always willing to help a newcomer to computers, and we appreciated that a lot.
Pat, enjoy, until we meet again....
B.&F.R.
Friday, November 23, 2001 11:11:14pm
Name: Dorothy Burns
E-Mail: burnsbob@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Burlington, Ontario, Canada
Comments:
I was among those privileged to have been called your Dad's friend. He always spoke with such love of your Mom and you kids. He was very proud of all of you. He often refered to your Mom as a saint and said he couldn't do it without her. You were his angels here on earth. Now he's your angel who will always watch over you.
The website is a beautiful idea and a fitting tribute to a wonderful man.
*HUGS*
Dorothy Burns
Saturday, November 24, 2001 0:26:42am
Name: Christine Homolka
E-Mail: shomolka@mnsi.net
City/Country: Lasalle
Comments:
Being family some how and not knowing for years. Still I will sadly miss him as well. Your father touched a lot of people's hearts in his time.
Great work on this Becky,be PROUD.
Christine
Saturday, November 24, 2001 10:24:22am
Name: Tim, Lisa and Sandra Smeltzer
E-Mail: tls@emporim.on.ca
City/Country: RR # 3 Harrow
Comments:
The two of you have done a wonderful job with this tribute site. It is something to be proud of.
Patrick may have passed on, but he will never be forgotten. His spirit lives on. We can cherish our memories.
'See ya'
Saturday, November 24, 2001 12:44:40am
Name: becky thrasher(daughter)
E-Mail: rebeccathrasher@yahoo.com
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
Dad,we did this to honor you and to allow others to be able to come here and visit you. we will forever celebrate your life and this is just one way we can do that and share your life with so many others. a heartfelt thanks goes to those who took the time and his talent to do this special memorial for my sweet angel.
dad i love you always, miss you terribly and i hope you are up in heaven singing sweet sounds of bob seger.
love always,
becky
goodnight
Saturday 11/24/2001 1:27:31pm
Name: E.P. Chant
E-Mail: epchant@mnsi.net
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Beautiful site, for a beautiful guy.
When I first moved to Amherstburg, and started work for The Echo, I was driving a used car from my great-uncle: a 1972 Chev Impala. As a firm believer in having the dealer of a particular brand service my car, my ownership of this gargantuan GM led me to Kennedy Motors, where I first met Pat. He and all of the service department made a great deal of money off me during the year or two that I owned that Chev ... including several hundred dollars to replace a "heat stove". As I was then (and remain today) a complete moron regarding automotive matters, it took Pat a good half-hour to describe to me what a heat stove was, why it was so important, and why I needed a new one. I never did fully grasp it; but, when you're dealing with complex mechanical stuff involving a 1972 Impala, sometimes you've just got to trust your service manager. During the subsequent 20 years, rarely did I ever see Pat when he didn't ask with a chuckle, "E.P., how's your heat stove?" The Impala is long-gone, and was so unreliable that I never miss it. The same can't be said of Pat: he was always reliable as a friend, politician and businessman, and he'll always be missed.
Saturday, November 24, 2001 4:47:16pm
Name: steven temesy
E-Mail: none
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
we miss you uncle pat.
Saturday, November 24, 2001 5:07:57pm
Name: Joan and Tom Hamilton
E-Mail: frogman@mnsi.net
City/Country: Amherstburg Ontario
Comments:
In 1983 Pat Thrasher, Bill Ferguson and Tom Hamilton were newly elected members of the Amherstburg Town Council, and served together for 6 years. Wonderful. memorable and productive years.
The last time I saw Pat we talked town politics and the future of Amherstburg.
We were very frustrated with the governing of the town and Pat's final remarks were "Keep up your council visits and letters to the Editor. Remind them of accountability to all.
I know you and my son Sean have become friends and I promise both of you that as long as there is breath and vocal cords, Council will know we are both around.
Tom Hamilton
Saturday, November 24, 2001 8:17:33pm
Name: lawrence & Lisa Beneteau and Family
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Becky and Brent, What a marvelous idea. I know that Pat can see this and I'm sure that he realizes just how much we all love him. Pat, I,m sure that we'll meet again. Please keep an eye on us because we all miss and love you.
Saturday, November 24,2001 9:07:31pm
Name: Betty Iams
E-Mail: biams1@san.rr.com
City/Country: San Diego, California - USA
Comments:
To Becky and all Pat's wonderful family. What a loving tribute you have created. I know that it is hard to give up someone you love so much. I knew Pat through the MS Lists, and recognized and experienced his loving and sharing nature. Pat was much loved in the MS community by all of us who shared his "uninvited guest." We will all continue to miss him.
Saturday, November 24, 2001 9:19:25pm
E-Mail: hibeans@home.com
City/Country: Carmichael, California, USA
Comments:
What a beautiful site. Pat must be swelling with pride yet again.
I am one of those thousand of internet friends of Pats' who feel like he was always a part of my life. He was such an understanding and patient individual. I am very glad that I got the chance to meet he and Jayne in person in Las Vegas. I have so many reminders of him and the help and humor he shared on how to live with this disease, not to let it have control on what we do, but only on how we do it. His family meant everything to him and he means everything to so many.
Thank you for sharing one more piece of a special person.
Saturday, November 24, 2001 10:16:24pm
Name: Graham (Hennry) Meehan
E-Mail: gramee@dragnet.com.au
City/Country: Cootamundra Australia
Comments:
A great door was opened when Pat entered my life. He has acheived things I can only dream about. In doing so, his influence brought so many good things to a vast number of people like myself. Technology has a marvelous way of spreading goodness and the internet was used by Pat (the Man) Thrasher to cover the world. He may have passed away, but he will always be with his friends and family and will never be passed by.
Saturday November 24, 2001 11:21:52pm
Name: Chris Green (chevy)
E-Mail: lily210@mpinet.net
City/Country: Rockledge, Fl USA
Comments:
Your site for your dad is beautiful! He was a wonderful person & will be sorely missed. I'm thankful that I have my Vegas memories of actual time spent with him as well as all the chats at JJ. My thoughts are with you always!
Sunday, November 25, 2001 0:11:37am
Name: Ophelia
E-Mail: ardeshir@worldnet.att.net
City/Country: United State
Comments:
I have known Pat for the past 6 years. He was a very kind, caring, and charming man. He was funny, with a great sence of humor. I will miss him dearly. Thinking about him not being here when I need a friend to talk to, brings tears to my eyes. I lost a great friend. He always will be in my mind.
Sunday, November 25, 2001 1:26:18am
Name: Tom Twadell
E-Mail: twadell@aol.com
City/Country: Rialto, California
Comments:
Pat got A LOT OF US together in Las Vegas for the MS Gathering a few years ago. It was wonderful to attend and meet Pat. He always waas helping others with MS and a good friend. Tom
Sunday, November 25, 2001 7:41:55am
Name: Dora Lee
E-Mail: doralee@x5ca.net
City/Country: windsor
Comments:
I love your poem,
very nice Becky,,,,,,
we all miss him too,,,,,,,
Sunday, November 25, 2001 10:45:41am
Name: Janice and Terry McDonald
E-Mail: janmcd@wincom.net
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Pat Thrasher a great friend and a fantastic humanitarian. Even in his most difficult times he put other people before himself. You can see what a wonderful person he was by just looking at his four fantastic children and his terrific wife Jayne. They will always keep Pat alive in our hearts each time we see them.
Remember the good times.
Sunday, November 25, 2001 11:41:34am
Name: Mike Sellar
E-Mail: msellar@accesswave.ca
City/Country: Halifax , Canda
Comments:
Becky and Brent I could feel your love for Dad in the wonderful tribute you've created. Thank you for this.
I met Pat on-line and by phone and I too found him to be a very positive, charismatic and compassionate person.
His remarkable legacy lives on with you.
My condolences on your family's loss.
Sunday, November 25, 2001 12:24:18am
Name: lindsay james
E-Mail: buddyj@hotmail.com
City/Country: amherstburg on
Comments:
Good job, I didn`t know Pat but his daughter Becky always talks about him.
Sunday, November 25, 2001 1:12:43pm
Name: Max Leggett
E-Mail: mleggett@sprint.ca
City/Country: Vancouver
Comments:
Pat was a hell of a nice guy, and I always had the utmost respect for him. I only met him and Jayne once, in Toronto, but we got along like a house on fire. His contribution to the MS community will be missed as much as the pleasure of his company.
Sunday, November 25, 2001 6:18:46pm
Name: Paula & Brian Pare
E-Mail: PlPare2@netscape.net
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
This is such a wonderful tribute to your Dad , Becky this is great. He will forever be in our thoughts and hearts. Love you
Monday, November 26, 2001 8:20:55am
Name: Jennifer White
E-Mail: jen@mindboxcreativegroup.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, Canada
Comments:
Becky your poems to your father are touching. You are a very strong person; along with the rest of your family. Unfortunately, I was not able to know your father well enough to write encouraging words. But I do know that he had four beautiful children. And I am glad you and Wes are in my life.
Monday, November 26, 2001 9:44:05am
Name: Mary Brownlie
E-Mail: maryb@uwindsor.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
What a great job you guys have done...I loved looking at, and enjoying, those photos, some I've seen and others I haven't. And the same smile is in each one. Terrific!
Monday, November 26, 2001 10:39:06am
Name: Margaret Bruce
E-Mail: mebruce@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Peterborough, ON
Comments:
An article about Pat from an MS Newsletter confirmed my opinion that he was a wonderful and caring man.
I found Pat's smile to be a great comfort to me.
He is missed a lot!
Monday, November 26, 2001 11:02:32am
Name: Mike & Shelley Sipila
E-Mail: mikesipila@sympatico.ca
City/Country: St..Mary`s Ont.
Comments:
Pat will always be in our heart and our thoughts. We know that his life will inspire others to go that extra mile,get involved and make this world a better place.Through even the smallest acts of kindness to others, his memory will be kept alive.
Love,
Mike and Shelley
Monday, November 26, 2001 1:52:57pm
Name: Hazel Roethenbaugh
E-Mail: hazelroethenbaugh@ntlworld.com
City/Country: Stevenage - United Kingdom
Comments:
I 'knew' Pat as am internet buddy. To anyone with MS he was an inspiration. His sense of humour was so tangible and you can bet your life he would always see the funny side of almost any situation. But there was the other side, the caring man with so much empathy that you could tell him anything. I was so glad that I had the opportunity to get to know him, just a little bit. The MS forums will not be the same without him.
After reading the press cuttings I was staggered at just how much he achieved - what a modest man - I never knew just how much he had done. Doesn't suprise me though - he was that sort of guy. He will always remain in my thoughts.
God bless him and his family and many friends around the world.
A light has gone out here on earth but it's beaming in heaven.
Love Hazel
Monday, November 26, 2001 3:58:44pm
Name: Marilyn Bruce
E-Mail: m.bruce@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Ottawa, Ontario
Comments:
Pat's presence is greatly missed in the M.S. Posse family. He was always ready with a joke, but definitely had a caring side to him when one needed info or cheering up dealing with MS.
Thank you, Becky for sharing this with us.
Monday, November 26, 2001 10:42:35pm
Name: Jayne Thrasher
Comments:
This is absolutely beautiful. Thanks you guys, what a wonderful site. I go into it quite a few times a day, it is my therapy. Keep up the good work!!
Love Mom
Wednesday, November 28, 2001 3:23:04pm
Name: Darice and Charlie Bain
E-Mail: darice@btopenworld.net
charles.bain@supanet.com
City/Country: Aberdeen, Scotland, UK
Comments:
We are very saddened by your loss. We met Pat and Jayne in Las Vegas at the function Pat organized. His life has touched people all over the world, and the world is a better place for Pat having been in it.
Wednesday, November 28, 2001 3:23:58pm
Name: Darice and Charlie Bain
E-Mail: darice@btopenworld.net
charles.bain@supanet.com
City/Country: Aberdeen, Scotland, UK
Comments:
We are very saddened by your loss. We met Pat and Jayne in Las Vegas at the function Pat organized. His life has touched people all over the world, and the world is a better place for Pat having been in it.
Wednesday, November 28, 2001 9:27:45pm
Name: Wes Thrasher
E-Mail: wthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: A-burg
Comments:
Wow! After reviewing the guestbook you realize how much of his Spirit has spread among us,..What a legacy. What a fantastic job you've done on the site.
All for you Dad..Much Love!
Thursday, November 29, 2001 3:23:36pm
Name: Bob & Dorothy James
E-Mail: bjames@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Even though we did not have the honour to have met Pat, we have been very fortunate to have met his daughter Becky. She has shared so much about her Dad's life, the goals he had accomplished and of all the lives that have been touched by his determination and will.
This is a beautiful website in Memory of Your Dad - a very special person with a precious family he would be so proud of.
Thursday, November 29, 2001 10:40:15pm
Name: Norma
E-Mail: norlusan@coqui.net
City/Country: Puerto Rico
Comments:
Becky, this is a wonderful way to honor your Dad. I know that "your angel" is now resting peacefully, well maybe not..he is probably making the Angels laugh and organizing them. LOL
I met Pat and Jayne at the Vegas gathering and am sorry that I did not get to spend more time with them, but I am grateful for his online friendship. Every morning I would start my day laughing thanks to him and his jokes. Thanks to him I made many friends in Vegas. I understand how proud you are of your Dad. He was a good and giving person. I will miss seeing him online and I will miss his humor in the morning. I am honored to have known him. He must be smiling at you from up above because through this you are showing him your love. My deepest condolences and know that as long as you remember him, he will be with you.
REST IN PEACE, AMIGO
Norma
Thursday, November 29, 2001 10:45:39pm
Name: Sara Capaldi
E-Mail: saracapaldi@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
What a beautiful tribute to Pat this website is.
Saturday, December 1, 2001 1:57:36pm
Name: Jayne Thrasher
Comments:
Its me AGAIN!!! I love it...love Mom
Saturday, December 1, 2001 6:10:11pm
Name: rene and aj duch
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: toronto canada
Comments:
a truly wonderful memorial from an exceptional person, we will never forget him, he will always be kept close in our hearts
Saturday, December 1, 2001 7:18:50pm
Name: becky
E-Mail: rebecca thrasher@yahoo.com
Comments:
this site is wonderful, and i love to read all of the touching comments from everyone who has visited.
love you dad, i miss ya tons!!!!
Saturday, December 1, 2001 11:07:11pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Becky this is a wonderful tribute to your father, he was a wonderful person, one who touched my heart deeply.
He was truly an inspiration to me.
Pat, I miss you......love Lisa
Saturday, December 1, 2001 11:21:48pm
Name: Denean and Paul,Caitlin and Brent
E-Mail: deneanirvine@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Thanks Beck and Brent for the beautiful tribute to Pat.I miss him very much too.I feel the greatest pride is talking about him to others.He will be loved forever.To my brother,my hero and my angel
love always.
Sunday, December 2, 2001 9:14:01pm
Name: Carrie Salvati
Comments:
you guys did an awesome job Beck
love Carrie
Monday, December 3, 2001 1:24:49pm
Name: Shar
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point, Ontario
Comments:
Becky .... this is an absolute fantastic tribute to your Dad! I didn't realize there was a guestbook to share thoughts with you and your family... so knowing me, you'll know I'll be back!
Hugs to you all and just know, it's like the blades of a fan, when in motion you can't see the individual blades but you know they are there. Your Dad is with us all, just on a different plain. Although we can't see nor feel him with our touch, know he is right there beside us all the time.
Love to all of you with Hugs big time!
Shar
Monday, December 3, 2001 1:45:08pm
Name: Shar Good
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point, ON
Comments:
Hi Becky! I have so much to say as your Dad was and still is one very special person to me, as I’m sure he is with so many others who he has touched in his life. He will continue to touch us all for the rest of our lives because his spirit is alive and well in each and every one of us!
When your Dad asked me to take over for him, I was horrified only because the immediate thought was how was I ever going to live up to what he’s been able to accomplish. Your Dad knew, as always, just what I was thinking and said, “Don’t worry, I’ll be right there with you to help you along.”
Becky, he wasn’t kidding. He is! If I am having a dilemma about something, I just take a long hard look at his picture sitting here on my desk and low and behold, the answer suddenly becomes so clear!
To Pat: I know you’re seeing all of this and only hope that with your help, I will continue to do what you started with the MS Society and to make you proud! You’ll always be the backbone of our chapter and the inspiration to us all to do our best in whatever we do. As you were the rock for me when I lost my son… I hope I can be comparably as strong if called upon by Jayne & the kids.
Loving you as an Inspiration and a Friend, you’ll always be in my thoughts.
Shar
Wednesday, December 5, 2001 6:41:51pm
Name: Debbie Sutton
E-Mail: dsutton76@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
What a beautiful tribute to your dad. It is obvious that your parents instilled in your family unconditional love and I'm sure they were proud of you. My family prays for yours and I know your Dad will watch over you always. He meant alot to my friend Tina who also has M.S. and I know he will be missed tremendously. Thank-you for sharing his life with so many people. God bless
Debbie Sutton
Wednesday, December 5, 2001 8:02:42pm
Name: Anne Baker
E-Mail: baker.family@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Windsor, Ontario
Comments:
Hi Becky,
Thanks so much for putting together this beautiful tribute to your Dad. It is a great comfort to see his pictures and to read about him. I feel so fortunate to have worked with him over the past 5 years. He was a great friend and I miss him so much!
I was so happy to hear you are interested in working with Jackie on the walk. We definitely need the Thrashers! He would be so proud of you!
Love,
Anne
Friday, December 7, 2001 8:09:07am
Name: Paula & Brian Pare
E-Mail: paula.pare@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hi Becky , this is such a wonderful site. Whenever I am thinking of you guys I like to pop in here, it keeps us close. Hope to see you soon.
Love ya
Paula
Friday, December 7, 2001 7:31:02pm
Name: Lawrence Beneteau
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Becky, every time that I open up this site, it really makes me feel good that I've had a chance to get to know Pat. From what I see, he was a very powerful man and he was and still is loved by all. To you Pat, I hope that you know how much we love you and I hope that you know that we will always be there to take care of the ones that you left behind.
Sunday, December 9, 2001 9:24:32pm
Name: Chad Stewart
E-Mail: Shadrock@hotmail.com
City/Country: St. Louis/Missouri
Comments:
Great Job! I only wish I had some pictures with Pat.
Sunday, December 9, 2001 10:06:20pm
Name: Rene Thrasher Duch
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto ON
Comments:
Today I miss him the most. I'm not sure what is different then the other days, it just feels a little harder today.
So I come to look and read the site and it makes me feel a little closer to him. Thanks to everyone for keeping his memory alive.
Love you and miss you my brother
Monday, December 10, 2001 5:21:33pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, for some reason today has been a bit tougher than others. i know you are there wiping my tears. i just wish that you were really here with me. i miss you so much and i can`t imagine that you really won`t be here x-mas morning wearing your santa hat and driving your scooter into every inch of the house.
hope you are up there dancing and singing, and i want you to know that i love you so much.....
always, becky
Monday, December 10, 2001 11:57:48pm
Name: Wes
E-Mail: wthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: the burg
Comments:
I love to come here! Into the Guestbook that is. It's innocently become a Support Group..Therapy. I get the impression that others share that opinion.
Missing you in December Dad....
Tuesday 12/18/2001 0:10:01am
Name: Paul Ke & Laura Tetreault
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby, Ontario, Canada
Comments:
Thanks for the revealing pictures... Well... needless to say, Pat is sure beaming right now - guaranteed... humble friend... confidante... motivating emails - every day... respected colleague... pain in the "_utt" cause you were most always right... life is just not the same without you!!! you were, are and continue to be my guiding light... definitely "like a rock"... you give us all strength... you give us all hope to dream that impossible dream... you give us reason to be thankful... fish & chips... tbq... Mexican village... Detroit auto show... Caribbean cruise as a SuperStar on the SS Radisson Diamond 1996... Gold Professional Service Manager (how many times!?!)... your expressive smile, especially piloting up and down the river... your contagious laughter... thanks for the precious memories and continuous expressions of unconditional love... fortunate to call you friend... Forever, love, hugs, and kisses Paul & Laura...
Save us some seats up there... bye for now!
P.S. thanks to all for your providing this wonderful tribute to the greatest man I ever had the pleasure to call friend!
Keeping you all in our prayers, God Bless.
Tuesday, December 18, 2001 10:25:19am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
First off, Bec and Brent you two did an amazing job with the site and I'm glad we all have this place to come to and remember all that dad did for everyone and see all the responses from the many people he touched throughout his life. Dad, you will never be forgotten and hopefully we can carry on the legacy that you left behind ~ I love and miss you all the time
Wednesday, December 19, 2001 11:31:57am
Name: les and carolyn
E-Mail: les,thrasher@sympatico.ca
City/Country: canada
Comments:
thank you for all your support through this hard time , he was a well loved young man and will be truly missed.
seasons greetings to all and god bless
Thursday, December 20, 2001 9:44:03pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, merry christmas.
i know if you are doing anything you are beaming with light and reading all of the wonderful messages on this page. you are very much a huge part of me and my day. i think of you and miss you sooooooo much.
Sunday, December 23, 2001 12:02:58am
Name: Brian Beneteau
E-Mail: brianbeneteau69@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Becky and Brent you did a great job on this website. It's a great place to come and remember uncle Pat. This website also reminds us that he is living in each and every one of us.
We all miss you, and love you uncle Pat
Thanks for everything
Monday, December 24, 2001 9:11:52pm
Name: BROTHER
E-Mail: kcthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
WELL HERE WE GO!!!!!!!
We have now gone through the first Thrasher portion of Christmas without you (in person) and it was comforting to be with family. Pat we miss you terribly and it will never be the same again. It has now been almost two months since we lost you and I still have a tough time not being pissed at the world for taking you from us. I know you wouldn't want the anger and pity because that was who you were.
We will continue to live and enjoy every day we have together on this earth.
Becky we thank you for this beautiful place where we can all come and continue to talk and remember Pat. Memories are so important, they are like therapy for me. This is a man who I have looked up to all my life and will continue to carry on his passion for life. At the time of his leaving us their was so much I wanted to say but couldn't. This site will now continue to be my phone line to my brother. Pat I love and miss you so much it hurts but it is an enjoyable pain because I am thinking of you!!!!!!!
Love always
KEN & ROBIN & AMANDA & ADAM & ALEX
PS we will talk again and we will be together again someday.
Monday, December 24, 2001 10:47:11pm
Name: Lindsay
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Becky and Brent,
I want to thank you so much for putting this site together for everyone to view. It's the one place I can come to and think about all of the things dad has done and see all of the people he touched in his short life.
Dad, it's been almost two months without you and everyday has been a struggle to get by, but with what you left us I have been able to go on just knowing that you're watching over me. I love you, I miss you and I think about you every second of every day~
Thank you Bec and Brent again and to dad I love you
Tuesday, December 25, 2001 0:29:22am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Well, it's me again! I wasn't sure if my first two messages made it onto the site but now I'm sitting here listening to the sounds of Burton Cummings, Bob Segar and Lionel Ritchie remembering our Manitoulin sing-a-longs to these 3 favorites! Dad it's Christmas Eve (well officially Christmas morning) and it's really hurtin' me right now! I just want you to be here so bad to direct me to what gift to open first, how to make your coffee and how to work my newest Christmas "toy"! Now it's all on Mom and she's doing an awsome job keepin us all on our feet but tonite it's been especially hard thinkin that I'm goin to wake up tomorrow morning to the sounds of Christmas music without you! But because I know you are watching over it's giving me the strength to keep strong and remember the time we did have together! So I will continue to listen to my music, watch my candle burn in your honour and imagine you running peacefully up in heaven with your friends by your side!
I love you and I miss you,
Lindz
Tuesday, December 25, 2001 9:51:33am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, merry christmas, it sure wasn`t the same opening gifts without you and how to operate these new gadgets will be more difficult without you sitting here reading the manuals and telling me how to set stuff up. but ya know, we did it and we spoiled mom for you. we`ll never do as good a job as you did, but we tried. in tradition brady was the first one up plugging away at his gifts, and was more than ready for a hardy x-mas breakfast. i love you and wish you were here dad, but i know you are all around us right this moment, and knowing that, gives me the strength to get through this day.
miss you tons, love ya lots :)
always becky
Wednesday, December 26, 2001 1:25:16pm
Name: Denean Irvine
E-Mail: www>deneanirvine@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Well it was a difficult christmas to get through but thank god for family. I was particularly dreading the candle light ceremony but Rene did a beautiful job and in some way it brought you home. I have found the past week or so most difficult and on the worst day I selfishly made a surprise visit to Wes, and it gave me relief. Always in my heart and my thoughts.
Love forever.
Denean, Paul, Caitlin and Buck
Saturday, December 29, 2001 9:31:43pm
Name: Jennifer Ruston
E-Mail: daisy_craze@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Mr. Thrasher was truly an amazing man! He was not only an inspirational leader for many but a remarkable person that many have come to be proud of. And I know that his incredible strengths and talents have been past right along to my bestfriend, Lindsay. She inspires me everyday with her strength and incredibility.
Sunday, December 30, 2001 2:05:58pm
Name: Amanda
E-Mail: way_2_sexy27@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I saw my uncle Pat as my second father. He always had a smile on his face that reassured you that no matter what, everything would be ok! He has carried his positive attitude unto his family members and others and has spread his personality throughout the world. Wes, Becky, Lindsay, and Brady your father was an amazing person who many adored greatly, myself included. Aunt Jayne keep smiling because you have the most of him in you! I love you and all and this is a beautiful site! We miss you uncle Pat and you will never be forgotten!
Monday, December 31, 2001 5:59:00pm
Name: becky
E-Mail: rebeccathrasher@yahoo.com
City/Country:
Comments:
happy new year dad,
even though you are not here with us, you are truly our angel and i know you are right there to guide us through this year. we will always view this past year as the worst because we lost you but we will always treasure it as the most precious.
i love you dad,
always becka lee lee
Tuesday 01/01/2002 3:04:07pm
Name: Rene and AJ
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
Well it is Jan 1, 02 and a new year is beginning. Even though I look forward to a new beginning and leaving the 2001 behind... we will never leave you my brother, you are always close in our heart and in our thoughts. If I have learned one thing this year... it's that...through the loss of a loved one you learn to love and appreciate those around you even more!!
Love you all! Happy and Healthy New Year!!
Rene and AJ, Max and Muff
Tuesday, January 15, 2002 8:24:10pm
Name: Wes
E-Mail: wthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: the burg
Comments:
I miss you Dad...
Wednesday, January 16, 2002 5:02:19pm
Name: Brad & Lupe Thrasher
E-Mail: bradthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: Las Vegas, USA
Comments:
I had an opportunity to describe my cousin Pat while in a conversation with a similarly medically challenged person who had met "The Geez" on one occasion.
I shared with him my personal motto "Life is good. The idea is to try and give more than you get."
Pat Thrasher is the person who most resembles that remark. There isn't one of us who isn't a better person today because we knew him.
Thanks Geez.
Sunday, January 20, 2002 9:42:53am
Name: Peter
E-Mail: smeltzers@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg, Canada
Comments:
Pat, My friend and brother.
I sit here this morning thinking about the last outing that I had with you, it was the Auto Show at Cobo Arena, 2 years ago. I remember many of those shows with you, and a time or two with Wes when he was very young.
As many of you have written, " It just isn't the same without Pat", that fact is very true for me. I must say that I think about you often and it is very nice to have those thoughts.
Jayne, Wes, Becky, Lindsay and Brady we on Beneteau Drive think and talk of you often. Remember as I said on November 4, 2001, I am always here for you.
Becky and Brent, this site has been very healing for all of us.
Till later
Love Peter
Sunday, January 20, 2002 1:16:48pm
Name: Julie A. Drea
E-Mail: julnpete@earthlink.net
Comments:
Becky, I only knew your Dad through e-mail, as a member of the MS Posse, and only for a short time. He was one of the guys I hoped some day to meet, as he battled his MS, and it seemed other parts of his life, with the same humor and courage that I think is so important for getting me through the day. I am tremendously sorry you had to lose him so soon, but I'm joyous you had him long enough to learn his wonderful lessons of love for life, love for others, and "never give up" attitude. Enjoy your life to it's fullest extent, you know it is his wish for you, certainly. Thanks so much for this special site! Best wishes to you and your family.
Julie
Laughter is the only Cure - FOR NOW!
Monday, January 21, 2002 9:46:14pm
Name: becky
Comments:
hi dad, i miss you very much every second of every day. i miss your smile, wisdom and your encouragement.
hope you are warm and free, free from pain and worry.
love always, becky
Tuesday, January 22, 2002 3:23:50pm
Name: Brent Bryksa
E-Mail: bbryksa@mnsi.net
City/Country: LaSalle
Comments:
When hearing that Pat's health was quickly declining nearly 6 months back, I felt upset and angry that things like this always happen to the good people in life. I wanted to do something positive for the family and for Pat, so I thought it would be nice to have a webpage dedicated to him and his many accomplishments. It was nice to learn more about the life of Pat and the lives he affected by working on this site and reading the articles printed about him. I am very happy to hear that people find coming here helpful in remembering the special times they spent with Pat and his family. I can only say it was my pleasure to work on this site with Becky and to learn just how much of an inspiration he was to so many lives. If there is anything anyone would like to see on the site that isn't there, please email me and I'll do my best to add it somewhere.
Thanks to everyone for sharing their thoughts and memories to make this site what it is.
Brent
Saturday, January 26, 2002 7:18:59am
Name: Paula & Brian Pare
E-Mail: paula.pare@sympatico.ca
Comments:
Hi Becky,
Sitting here thinking of your wonderful family. You are in our thoughts often and I know your whole Thrasher family will get through this time because he is right beside you guiding you every day of your life.
Always in our thoughts and hearts.
Love you all.
Paula & Brian
Saturday, January 26, 2002 10:55:54am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amhertsburg
Comments:
Hey everyone,
I haven't been on the site for a while to sign the guestbook and I figured now is as good a time as any. I love coming here just to read all the wonderful comments and heartfelt thoughts that everyone has shared about dad
I miss you and love you always dad,
Lindz
Sunday, January 27, 2002 12:13:15am
Name: BROTHER
E-Mail: kcthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
Hello brother just stopping to say hello and we miss you terribly. We have just sent Aunt Bunny to be with you all up there so please take care of her. This doesn't get any easier losing the people in our lives that we love but we will be together again. Pat you should see the store it looks great wish you were with me there. I know you are and always will be looking out for us all.
Talk to you soon love and miss you.
Ken,Robin,Amanda,Adam and Alex
Give Aunt Bunny a big hug and kiss.
Monday, February 4, 2002 0:11:44am
Name: Ashley Duby
E-Mail: _ashley_@ureach.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
hey lindsay and family. the site is really well done, you guys should feel proud. its good that there's a place to go for everyone to personally communicate with him. lindsay, i have to say that you've got to be the strongest person i've met in a long time. you've held yourself together and have done so well in everything that you've done. you're a model for all of us at school, i admire your ability to stay so strong in times when its often difficult. i know your father is really proud of you and your whole family. i wish all of you the best of luck in the future.
xoxo -Ashley
Tuesday, February 5, 2002 0:12:11am
Name: Brandie Long
E-Mail: ima_baller@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, On
Comments:
Lindsay and Family,
I strongly feel that you and your family have got to be the strongest and loving family that I know!! Stay Strong for yourself Lindz and especially for your family! Your dad will always be remembered as a strong caring man!
I will always be there for you and I know your father will be too!!
Love you always
~Brandie~
Tuesday, February 5, 2002 8:55:55pm
Name: Megan and Dean
E-Mail: m_duby@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
We have just browsed through the site and we would like to thank Brent and Becky for doing such a wonderful job. We miss you and love you Uncle Pat! There hasn't been a day that's gone by that we haven't sent you a hug and a kiss!
Miss you lots!
Love Megan and Dean
Wednesday, February 6, 2002 11:42:40am
Name: Brittany Smeltzer
E-Mail: rebel_hunnie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
We all truly lost someone very dear to our hearts, at least we can remember all of the good times we had.
Saturday, February 9, 2002 1:54:33pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
Thinking of you today brother and every day!! I think of your strength and it keeps me determined to get through anything!
I miss you so very much.......Love you!
Monday, February 11, 2002 0:22:38am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
Dad, Just thinking of you and missing you as much as always. I can't believe it's almost been 3.5 months since you were taken from us....so much has changed here without you and I wish so badly everyday that you could be here to guide us through...we're all doing well and missin you a ton.
Love you,
Lindz
Monday, February 11, 2002 6:48:05pm
Name: BROTHER
E-Mail: kcthrasher@hotmail.com
Comments:
hello brother just passing through again and reading all the letters,it helps. love you and missing you!!!!!
alex asks about you often!!!
Monday, February 11, 2002 11:04:57pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hi Pat! I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I am getting myself ready for the Multiple Sclerosis Walk, I registered today...so now the fun begins as I go out and collect pledges.
Yesterday I found out that I was the fourth top fundraiser in our area, raising $2472.00, that is so awesome. This year I am going to try and top that, I am doing this for you Pat, as I always have.
You may be gone Pat, but your spirit lives on, I miss you. You don't realize how much you love someone until that person is no longer with you.
Since your death Pat, I have lost five other people in my life who I had come to care for and love very much, through all of this I have deepened my faith so much. Faith is very important to me and it is what helps me to get through some of my days.
Love ya lots!
Lisa
Thursday, February 14, 2002 12:10:07am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, today on valentines day i wish you were here to give mom her "walkers candies" but we took it upon ourselves to do that for you. we love you so much, and i hope you get my hugs and kisses i sent to heaven :)
always becky
Thursday, February 14, 2002 1:43:43pm
Name: Brad & Lupe thrasher
E-Mail: bradthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: Las Vegas, Nevada
Comments:
Hey Cuz,
Just wanted you to know I understand that all of us getting the last word on you is making you nuts over there. 'bout time we got ya ain't it :-)
Thursday, February 14, 2002 9:38:31pm
Name: Shar
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point
Comments:
Hi guys!
I find myself coming here quite often, just to find some encouragement... something your Dad was there for, giving 100%.
Today though, with it being Valentine's Day, I want to wish the whole lot the Thrasher family, a Happy Valentine's Day. I know I've only personally met and have gotten to know just a few of you but that doesn't matter. The same sentiments of love and support go out to all of you!
Hey, before I forget..... see you at the SuperCities Walk!
Thursday, February 14, 2002 10:54:27pm
Name: Terri McPherson
E-Mail: tmcphers@mnsi.net
City/Country: Lasalle
Comments:
Dearest Becky,
Love is raining on you tonight,
as every hug and kiss
you sent up to the heavens
is returned from the one you miss.
Your strength is inspirational my dear...
Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:44:37pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad,
It's me yet again....it's Valentine's Day and we all wish you were here so we could watch you spoil mom like old times....but no worries we're tryin to carry on the legacy! I miss you and love you every second of every day and I always wish you were here
Love you always,
Lindz
Saturday, February 16, 2002 5:44:46pm
Name: Jayne
Comments:
Just trying so hard to function each long, long day, the kids are my strength and my reason for getting thru each day. Family and friends have been emotionally devastated but we are all doing it together and will get thru it. We have such wonderful memories to share with each other and that is part of our healing process. The kids miss you terribly, fortunately they are gifted with your strength and endurance. You would be so proud of all of them, they are taking such good care of me. I love you and miss you and just know that you are always with us...
love jayne
Saturday, February 23, 2002 11:39:03am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: CANADA
Comments:
If I had one more minute...
I would hug you longer...
hold your hand, and touch your face.
I would look you deep in your eyes
and see what you weren't saying.
If I had one more minute...
I would listen to what you were saying
when you said " I'm good, how 'bout you?"
If I had one more minute...
I would make sure you knew we would be okay,
that we would love your kids and Jayne,
that we will be there for each other..
always.
If I had one more minute...
I would tell you we haven't given up on our dreams,
that your dream for us is still there!
If I had one more minute...
I would tell you
"I Love You"
...again.
Sunday, February 24, 2002 12:38:23am
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
Hello again, just passing through to get some strenghth to carry on. You are someone special that keeps us going.
It was another great euchre night. Just look what you have made people do in your memory and what you have brought out in so many people you have touched.
Thanks again brother.
Loving and missing you terribly.
ps - Alex says Canada is going to smoke the US because Uncle Pat is looking out for them too!
Sunday, February 24, 2002 1:53:56pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, last night we attended the annual euchre tournament, and wow we miss you! i miss sitting back and watching the way you light up a room. i miss the smiles you bring to people's faces, the laughter that fills the room, and the powerful presence you carried with you.
i know you were there with us, and i hope you felt the love that we all share for you.
miss you immensely:)
luv becky
Sunday, February 24, 2002 10:33:37pm
Name: Julie
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, Canada
Comments:
Lindz, Girl you are the greatest! Becky this site is very beautiful and I'm sure everyone is proud of you for doing this! Great job! Talk to You Later!
God Bless,
Julie Theriault
Monday, February 25, 2002 10:09:35pm
Name: Julie
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hey Lindz!
It's me again! Just back to say that this page is amazing and your family has to be the strongest family I have ever seen! You are definately an inspiration to everyone! You keep smiling girl because that's what you do best!!! Stay strong! I'll be here for you whenever you need me to be!
Love Your Best Friend,
Julie Theriault
Wednesday, February 27, 2002 11:58:43am
Name: Jasmine
E-Mail: jasbouf@yahoo.cm
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
I'm embarassed to say that this is my first time signing the guestbook for this fabulous webpage. I visit it frequently, to view the thoughts and words of friends and family of Pat. I usually end up in tears after each visit. My heart goes out to the entire Thrasher family, I know that I have told this to Becky a million times, but I truly believe that they are the strongest family I will every know.
Babygirl, just wanted to say I love ya, and to keep your chin in the air, your dad gets a better view of ya that way :)
Keep Smiling
Love Jasmine
Thursday, February 28, 2002 12:36:38am
Name: Wes
Comments:
Hey Dad, I am just passing through on my Lunch. Like Kenny said "it helps".
I miss ya Dad..We all Miss ya.
much love
Saturday, March 2, 2002 1:02:34am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
We told him to look for you, that you would show him the ropes, that you would take care of him and he would be okay! We know you are up there still helping people like they were entering into your home.....Look for AJ's Dad...and collect the HUGS we sent for you!
Love Rene and AJ
Sunday, March 3, 2002 8:58:50pm
Name: mom & dad
Comments:
It's been almost four months but it seems like yesterday that you left all of us. I miss you so very much, but I know you are in God's loving arms. There isn't a day taht goes by, that we don't think of you.
Loving and missing you always and forever.
Mom and Dad
Monday, March 4, 2002 11:07:26pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey dad,
I haven't said hi lately and I'm missing you just as much as ever...I'm just thinkin' about you constantly and smilin' cause I know you're dancin' up there.
I love you and miss you always,
Lindz
Friday, March 8, 2002 5:28:39pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad,
well its going to be different going away tomorrow morning without you, but we have lots of you packed up with us to bring. i miss you so much, and i love you with every inch of my soul.
always becca lee lee
Monday, March 25, 2002 7:46:47pm
Name: Wes
Comments:
I wanna wish you a happy Easter Dad. Our Vacation was not the same without you. But we did enjoy Great company, I am sure it would have been your 1st choice as well. The Walk is coming. I know it will be hard. I wanted you to make this one.
Much Love
wes
Friday, March 29, 2002 10:01:46am
Name: BROTHER
E-Mail: kcthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: WORLD
Comments:
Morning BRO!
It is Good Friday and I'm here again for some vitamins. The walk is coming and I'm looking forward to it because it will remind everyone just how great you were (I have known all my life) I know you were in Mexico lately watching over them hope you didn't get burn't like you know who! Pat every day there is something that reminds me of you. I don't have to be reminded how much I love and miss you!
PS:I thought this was supposed to get easier. I need a kleenex
Sunday, March 31, 2002 2:01:12pm
Name: becky
Comments:
happy, i guess, easter dad.
what can i say, its easter and we are heading out to grandma and grandpas to be with your family and you're not here, just isn`t right is it? we miss you so much and i just wanted to stop in here and let you know that, and uncle ken is right it just doesn`t get easier, you are simply irreplaceable, and unforgetable.
love becky
Sunday, March 31, 2002 2:11:34pm
Name: Chris
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: a'burg
Comments:
Hi Uncle Pat,
I have been spending a lot of time over at your house, playing basketball with Brady. It sure is strange not seeing you there, I miss you so much.
Watching you suffer like you did really touched me, it's not fair.
Uncle Pat, I miss you.
Happy Easter!!
Tuesday, April 2, 2002 11:46:01pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Ontario
Comments:
Dear Dad,
I wanted to pop in and say hi! I don't know what it is but these past few days have been especially hard for me. I miss you so much and I never stop thinking about you! Like Bec and Wes said vacation just wasn't vacation without you but I know you were watchin' over us and I'm so thankful for that!
I love you always,
Lindz
Saturday, April 13, 2002 11:23:06am
Name: Wes
Comments:
Well I'm back again! Dad
We are a week away from the Walk..your Pride and Joy.
I am counting on having a hard day. It will be very difficult without you there. That day always brought an ear to ear smile. I watched your Video last night it's been a while since I've been able to watch it, it's nice to look back on but I need to be alone to watch it.
I miss you Dad I hope your new life is pain free.
You can see I'm sure from up there how much we miss you.
Always in my Heart Dad.
wes
Tuesday, April 16, 2002 6:31:09pm
Name: Rene and AJ
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
It's been a while brother, but you are always on my mind. Today I feel sad....the day Mom and Dad got married 47 years ago, starting a new life and a family, and now celebrating without you!!
We miss you soo much and can't wait to see all the people at the walk this weekend in your honour!
It won't be the same without you, but we'll make it just as good!
Love you, Rene
Saturday, April 20, 2002 2:16:47pm
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
WELL ITS HERE WITHOUT YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME AND WE WON'T LET YOU DOWN. IT WILL BE A GREAT DAY COLD OR HOT. IT WILL BE GREAT BECAUSE YOU WILL BE EVERYWHERE AND IN EVERYONE.
I LOVE AND MISS YOU DEARLY.
Sunday, April 21, 2002 8:55:41pm
Name: Jayne
Comments:
hey baby
I havn't wrote you for a while only because there is so much I want to say to only you and if my beliefs are true than you really are hearing me and guiding me thru this unbelievable time in my life.Today was just not the same I looked for you like I always have when I was walking up the final lap of our walk to see the excitement on your face and just to watch you mingle with all whom so respected you and forever will...but you were not there,you would have been so thrilled at the turn out especially our group Pat's Legs that was approx 80 relatives whom all walked for you,and for the awsome bench in dieppe along the walk that will forever be there with your name engraved on it from the M.S society,it was really nice to see alot of our freinds that I hav'nt seen for quite a while, but they have been very patient with me and given me space, I just don't know how it could ever feel the same because the bunch of us were always together as couples and we had such good times so I find myself still very weepy in there company.I really wonder if I will ever feel whole again and if the emptiness in my heart will ever ease? I know I am being very selfish but god this is just not fair!!!
p.s. they did announce today that there has been a major break thru in the cure for M.S.so you know what all that you have done both as a guinea pig and a major driving force in raising funds for the cause will hopefully come to fruition....
loveyouloveyouloveyouloveyou
Monday, April 22, 2002 4:38:11pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: TO
Comments:
It was your day yesterday, your friends where there, your family came out, lots of money was raised for your cause, people missed you, you could see the sadness in their eyes and hear it in their voices. It may take us a few tries to get the energy buzz back up to where you had it but we won't give up!!!
It is so wonderful to have the bench placed in downtown Windsor, now I have a place to go to talk to you when I come home!!!
Miss you like crazy now!!!
Love you always
Rene
Monday, April 22, 2002 8:55:43pm
Name: Bean
E-Mail: deneanirvine@sympatico.ca
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
Today I needed to come here, today I needed to read all the notes and today I needed to talk to you. Time passes and each night when I sit in the hot tub I see the star that has become my symbol of you. I still feel overwhelmed with the emotion of missing you. My tears seem to creep up on me at the oddest times and maybe that is you talking to me, but it is still so hard to not call you for that quick piece of advice or that apparently needed lecture. I know you can hear me so I will keep talking to my star and saying good night but never good-bye.
Love you lots and miss you forever.
Tuesday, April 23, 2002 0:23:32am
Name: wes
Comments:
Dad, Aunt Rene said it best. It was very heartwarming at the walk to see you recognized for all your contributions. I am thankfull that we have the Walk, A place where you are cherished and embraced.
Tuesday, April 23, 2002 6:57:06pm
Name: Amanda
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Uncle Pat,
I know its been a while since I've written but I find it hard to come on this site. This past Sunday was the MS walk as you know and well it was always your day but as a family and a team we pulled through to continue the tradition! We wanted to make you proud as you have made us so many times! It will never be the same there or anywhere without you but your family will help bring parts of you there..we miss you and know you are watching over us
Love you and miss you always
Amanda
xoxoxox
Thursday, May 2, 2002 11:36:02pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Ontario
Comments:
Hey dad,
It's been a while since I've last come on here to sign the book, so I decided I would do it now. It's weird because one day I could come on this site and feel great and refreshed and others, like today I find it hard. It's been the longest six months of my life, actually of all of our lives and it's still so hard everyday to know that you're gone. There isn't one second that goes by that a thought about you doesn't cross my mind. I'm doin the carnations at school again, and they're not doing so hot, but I'm not givin' up. I'm goin to exceed last year's sales because of what you always taught me...stay strong and keep going. We're also holding a benefit concert in your honour at the beginning of June and I'm sure it'll go well. There is just so much going on right now that I want you to be here for. Prom's in less then a month and it's gonna be so hard to know I can't show off my newest fashion trend or hairdo to you. It's always you who critiques them so well and manages to make me feel like a princess....I know you're watchin over and that's what will get me through these hard times....I love you with all my heart, and miss you more then you know
Lindz
Sunday, May 5, 2002 9:50:03pm
Name: sister
Comments:
this is my first visit - the site is beautiful and offers encouragement and comfort- just like you always did.
When will this hurt go away, does the void ever fill? The past six months have been very difficult and a full menu of feelings; hurt, deep sadness, anger, gratitude to everyone for the continued support and pride in our family strength.
i love the bench at the waterfront - i don't know why it feels like a place to visit you but it does.
miss you every day!
love you lots!
Monday, May 6, 2002 7:30:16pm
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
HELLO AGAIN! WELL WHAT DID YOU THINK OF THE JOB EVERYONE DID AT THE WALK? PRETTY TERRIFIC AREN'T THEY? BROTHER, YOU SURE TOUCHED A LOT OF PEOPLE AND IT WAS EVIDENT EVERYWHERE AT THE WALK. IT WASN'T THE SAME WITHOUT YOU AND IT WILL NEVER BE AGAIN. THE TEAM MOM PUT TOGETHER WAS PRETTY INSPIRING INCLUDING UNCLE GORD!!!!!!
FAMILY IS GREAT AND I MISS YOU TERRIBLY.
TALK TO YOU SOON BRO!
Saturday, May 11, 2002 8:45:44am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
It's been months now and people expect you to get over it...or to be back to "normal" What!!! I still open my e-mails and expect to see yours. I'm waiting for you to come back...sounds crazy but I feel like I'm waiting for this to be over.....it isn't going to end...I will always think about you, continue to miss you and always feel sad for the loss of your life, and that will be "normal" now.
Monday, May 13, 2002 0:00:22am
Name: wes
Comments:
tonight I watched your video again and I wish we could bring Mom the smile she had in her pictures with you, I would give anything for her to have you back. I thought you'd be alright after your first surgery, Life would be so great right now if that were the case, I don't even know if this is healthy to sit here wishing and wondering and crying to this guestbook..I miss our lunches, I miss calling you to find out what time the race is on or to find out how you did in the pool. I wanna show you my deck I wanna fill you in on the latest dish at the shop.. and it hurts so bad that I can't no matter how hard I try I'll never be able to. Today is Mothers Day! Mom wasn't really festive, and rightfully so. We Love her more and more every day but no matter how much we Love her we can't give you back to her and it's so sad. She also has a birthday this week, we're gonna pamper her just like you would have and always did. I miss you like crazy, it's been so long since my head has been clear..all my love dad.
Monday, May 13, 2002 10:27:07am
Name: Lawrence
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Hi there #1 Habs fan! I know that it's been a while since I've sent you a message but I hope that you know that I'm still thinking of you. I hope that you can do something about our team (quickly) so that they might be able to beat Carolina tonight. You don't realize how much I miss going over to see you and to just shoot the breeze. You should be very proud of your website. It's awesome. I read it once in a while and I hope that you realize that there are so many people that love and miss you as I do. Beginning July 1st, I accepted a position with the K of C State Board to be the District Deputy. I hope that you can guide me through this as it is a 2 year term. I know how much you have done in this community and I hope that I can do as good of a job for the K of C as you have done for the M.S. movement. I know how much you've touched my life and I will remember this forever.
Love, Lawrence
Saturday, May 18, 2002 1:38:46pm
Name: becky
Comments:
"dad, i love you so much. everyday, just when you think that it may get easier, and you think that eventually time will relieve you of the pain and the void....it hits me. i could be driving, working, exercising, even sleeping and i realize that you are not just a simple phone call away, or a few minutes away, you are a world away. one day i am sure we will be together again, but that's sometimes just not good enough.
we all miss your incredible smile and charm.
love you forever,
becky lee
Monday, May 20, 2002 12:06:21am
Name: a friend
Comments:
I guess you could say I am a friend of a friend. Ever since I was shown your website you have truly become an inspiration to me. When I read all of the articles and all of the comments others have made to you and about you I take a deep breath and keep going. Life can throw a curve ball at you and some people would just give up, not you, you just kept going and going even stronger than before. You are a very blessed man Pat. I just wish I could have met you in person. You have changed my life and how I look at it by just reading through this website seeing what you accomplished and with everything you went through and yet you always had a smile.
Bless you and your family.
Love a new friend.
PS. Becky & Brent you did an outstanding job.
You should be very proud.
Bless you both.
Wednesday, May 22, 2002 3:51:42pm
Name: Uncle Paul & Aunt Murla
City/Country: Belleville
Comments:
Becky: Your site is an inspiration, we never knew your Dad that well, but always felt welcome in his company.
Jayne your family are something to be proud of.
Cherish your memories.
Monday, May 27, 2002 9:42:57am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: T.O.
Comments:
Just wanted to say " I Love You" and " I really miss you" today!
Thinkin about you!
Monday, May 27, 2002 5:56:56pm
Name: Amanda
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hey Uncle Pat..had a rough last couple of day just thinkin about you alot I guess..I really wish you were here but i'll have to just live with talking to you like this..
I really miss you...love you
Monday, June 3, 2002 2:56:28pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, i just have to tell you just how wonderful my dream was the other night. you were here and you were smiling...i could hug you and i remember just how warm your embrace was at that very moment...god i miss you. i was in a funk yesterday, and mom and i sat on the boat thinking of you and missing you.
i love you so much dad, my heart is hurting a lot right now.
i`ll meet up with you again in my dreams...i hope:)
love you forever, becky
Tuesday, June 4, 2002 8:43:55pm
Name: Your little lulubell
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Ontario
Comments:
Dad, I don't know how long ago I wrote last, but I find myself comin' here more and more these days. So much has been going on with me and with everyone and I pray to god every second that your watchin down on us!
Friday night was Prom night, and it was so hard doin' it all without you there! I wanted you to see me in my dress, take pictures and tell me that I looked beautiful ...but you didn't? I miss you so much...our limo came to visit the bench after Prom Friday night and I just sat there and imagined you with me...I go there at least once a week now...it's where I go to clear my thoughts and talk to you...
I wanna tell you how school is, how we beat last year's carnation total and how I'm gonna be Prime Minister next year because I know you would be proud of me!
I wish I could talk to you...but for now I'll see you in my dreams!
I love you and miss you always
Lindz
Wednesday, June 5, 2002 8:21:59am
Name: becky
Comments:
happy 26th wedding anniversary to you and mom........:(
always
becca lee
Friday, June 14, 2002 5:23:53pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: T.O.
Comments:
Brother, I just wanted to say Happy Father's Day! People seem to remember the wonderful things you did for others and the MS Society, the community and basically for anyone who needed you!!
I like to also remember you as the ordinary person you were.
The friend and father to your kids, the person who never stopped growing as a human being, always striving to become better at communicating to the kids and guiding them, developing their self esteem and nuturing their spirituality to become "good" people.
Even in death you kept a strong front, a gentle manner, a humourous word to ease their suffering! Those qualities are what being a Dad is all about! I gained a lifetime of learning in witnessing that!
Instead of remembering all of the other wonderful things about you...on Father's day I just want to remember you as a dad, your best accomplishment!
Love and Miss you!
Saturday, June 15, 2002 5:26:15pm
Name: Amanda
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Uncle Pat,
Happy Father's Day..Aunt Rene is right..people are remembering you for all the things you did for others and the town but we also remember you for the person you were with your family..I always thought of you as my second dad..i hope you have a good fathers day..it wont be the same without you..i miss you
love you always
Amanda
Sunday, June 16, 2002 5:01:39pm
Name: Becky
Comments:
Happy Father's Day, Dad.
My gentle father you must know.
This Father's Day I miss you so.
I know that you can see my tears, and feel my heart break.
But I will go on, and be strong for your sake.
I love you more than you will ever know,
And I hold you in my heart wherever I go.
So today and forever from this point on
Guide me as you`ve always done.
I love you dad, and I hope you know that your spirit and your love continue to inspire me each day...I cherish the life you have given me, and I will live like there is no tomorrow, and grasp onto the present that is today.
Wednesday, June 19, 2002 3:53:21pm
Name: it's me again....
Comments:
I'm just really feeling so sad and hoped this would help...god I'm trying so hard I feel like I go 2 steps forward than 10 steps back again...I feel so alone, you were always there to listen to me even when I didn't make sense and would help put things into perspective, you were the one that I shared everything with, good times and bad times, you were the one that took me in your arms every night and just held me, and made it hard for me to get up in the a.m. now I hate to go to bed and can't wait to get up...right now we would be out on the boat, just the two of us in the middle of lake erie watching the flies..ha..ha..it is the kinda day we both loved so I think that is why I feel punky listening to the action on the river makes me so sad....remember last year at this time you were recuperating and how we both were so excited and grateful that you were doing so well...I just really don't understand why but I will go on and just pray for more steps forward than back....love you...miss you with all my heart
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 7:55:29pm
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
hello brother, well its time to say hello and i miss you!! Tomorrow it will be twenty years with Robin and i thank my lucky stars for her and what she has given me. First three children which i adore and love and the stability in my life that is so precious. this is my family and i realize how much i love them and how important family is because i miss you so much. talk to you later brother.
how's bunny say hello
Wednesday, June 26, 2002 0:02:30am
Name: uncle Jamie
City/Country: Las Vegas
Comments:
Keep them coming Beck, they're great!
Wednesday, June 26, 2002 9:27:56am
Name: jamie stewart
E-Mail: jstew19@hotmail.com
City/Country: windsor canada
Comments:
thank you very much for including me in your email.
Pat will NEVER be forgotten.
please stay in touch
Thursday, June 27, 2002 8:35:10am
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad,
i know you were there with us yesterday, it was such a miracle. it was truly special, and jacquie felt you there with her. i love you so much and i miss you terribly.
keep smiling down,
always becky
Thursday, June 27, 2002 12:44:10am
Name: Jasmine
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
I was just passing through reading some of the entries......so many missing you. I know that this was your most favourite time of the year, summer ..... Becky has told me how the boat was your favourite pastime, I hope you're cruisin the waves just the same up above ;)
Love Jas
Thursday, June 27, 2002 5:41:11pm
Name: Shar (AKA The Crazy Lady) LOL
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point, Ontario
Comments:
Pat...What can I say other than with YOUR help, I made it through the SuperCities Walk without any horrific accidents (in the spoken word) and actually was able to finish what I started out to say. I could feel your presence there just as I thought I would.
Thanks bud. :-)
We had our last board meeting before breaking for the summer months but ya know something? It just wasn't the same without you being there. We all miss you so much and often talk about what YOU would do in the situation we are dealing with.
I think I read in another memorial note to you to "ride the waves" as you so often did this time of year. I remember when you took me for a ride on your boat and it truly was so relaxing. It's something I'll always remember.
It's "FIREWORK's NIGHT" tonight so I'm expecting you to be out there in all your glory ok?
Loving and Always Missing You...
Shar
Monday, July 8, 2002 12:23:49am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
It's so sad going back to amherstburg and not seeing you there, you know it's easier to stay here and imagine you are still there. I'll be home this week and reality will hit!!
I will cherish that memory, it is a happy one
I have a great memory of the maiden voyage on the boat.....what a wonderful day that was, how happy you were, how everyone was so happy to see you get out on the water!!! Burton Cummings on the stereo, it was truly a great time....until you almost sunk the ship!!! Hee Hee!! I think you did that on purpose just to show us you still had it!
Love and miss you
Wednesday, July 10, 2002 0:51:53am
Name: Lindsay lulu
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
Hi Dad,
I was just passin' through checkin out the recent entries and I wanted to let you know what's been goin' on lately with me....I found out recently that I was voted for Valedictorian and I'm so excited but it's so different knowing that you're not here to inspire me to write something thoughtful and unique....you always knew the right things to say and when to say them....but I know you'll help me in spirit and Mark's gonna give me some input on it all so hopefully all goes well! I sometimes find myself thinking that all of this with you being gone is just a bad dream and it'll all turn back to reality soon...but it's not?? I wish so badly everyday that you were here with us...enjoying the summer, the water and the view...your three favorite things...you're probably running happy and free up there and I think about you constantly.
I love you and miss you more then I can express
Lindz
Wednesday, July 10, 2002 8:08:48am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, as you can see by the latest entries we are all consumed with loss, heartache, sadness and grief. tomorrow we will all be uniting in your honour to raise funds through the annual golf tournament. this year however, is more meaningful and for years to come it will be held in your loving memory. not a day goes by that i don`t think of you, miss you or shed a tear....eventually they have become tears of joy, joy in having your spirit in my heart eternally. as time grows, our memories of you do as well. memories we all hold so dear to us, and your laughter will always be heard and your love forever felt in each of us.
i love you immensely dad, i know you will be with us tomorrow... hopefully nobody forgets to yell "four!!"
Friday, July 12, 2002 10:51:51pm
Name: Madelyn Weingarden
E-Mail: madwine@hwmgt.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, Canada
Comments:
Jayne and Becky: To-day I am in Toronto with my grandchildren; the grandson that is representing Canada in Bermuda next week as a member of Team Canada Junior Golf Association, and 6 year old Emily, whose closing recital finalizing two weeks of summer dance camp I managed to catch by 3:30 this afternoon. But my life has once again been enriched; enriched by the very special day I had with you two yesterday as we celebrated Pat's life through a game he loved, golf. And we did so under beautiful blue sky, surrounded by families of young birds protected by their parents, and scenery that was beautiful and peaceful. All things that you loved and noticed and took the time to share with your children. I had the opportunity to get to know you a little in your lifetime, but not enough to really see the wonderful human being behind that gentle smile. Not until yesterday was I afforded this opportunity. Becky and Jayne told me what I knew in my heart was true. What a legacy. They are two beautiful women, sad yesterday, but celebratory, because they were enriched through their relationship with you as Dad and husband. I was so privileged to spend the day with them waiting for the hole-in-one that never appeared, sharing laughter and tears but all the while feeling your presence. Yes, they are beautiful women, but more beautiful because they shared your life, your determination and your desire to make life easier for others. I too fell in love with them, just as you have done over and over.
Thanks to Jackie Petterman for giving me the opportunity to assist with the golf tournaments in such an insignificant capacity, but one that has enriched my life by viewing the strength and warmth of these women. I so enjoyed meeting the other Thrasher "kids"....not being here for Pat's funeral I feel that he let me come into his life, share his family and be a part of something very special. Now I can say my own personal farewell special friend, to someone who has encouraged me in my fundraising for MS, and I promise, that as old as I am, I will continue cycling until they find the cure. My love and special thoughts to all of you. Your courage and continuation of the causes that were so important to him is most admirable.
Thursday, July 25, 2002 9:18:55pm
Name: brother
City/Country: heart
Comments:
just browsed through the 30 something pages and it was great. wes your father was there at the barbecue.
talk to you later pat still missing it!!!!!!
Friday, July 26, 2002 10:53:07am
Name: Paula
Comments:
Hi, just have you on my mind today and needed to come here. I know that was a sign from you the day Elyssa was born letting me know to relax and everything was going to be fine. I know you were with us then and every day. We will share her with Jayne and know you will be there too.
Love you all.
Sunday, August 18, 2002 11:12:31am
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad,
last night we celebrated the union of matthew and shannon. as i watched the two of them fall in love each time they glanced at each other, it reminded me of the love you and mom had shared for all of the years you had. i miss you tremendously and i hope aunt martha has found her wings and has flown to you....
always becca lee
Monday, August 19, 2002 2:49:21pm
Name: Laura
City/Country: aburg
Comments:
Though I didnt know Pat well I have had a wonderful friendship with Beckel & she has great strengh & courage. So to Jayne & Pat you should be very proud.
Miss ya Beckel,
Love Laura xoxo
Wednesday, August 21, 2002 6:14:56pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby, Ontario, Canada
Comments:
Hi there Pat: Just spoke with Wes and boy --- has he ever grown.... I still remember him carrying the bucket to mop the floors with the last time you and I were at the dealership together.
Do miss you lots and thinking about you.
Lots of love,
Paul Ke and family in Grimsby.
Wednesday, August 21, 2002 6:54:13pm
Name: Katrina Quittenden
E-Mail: skatrinaq@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Great Idea!!! I am sure your dad is very proud of all of you.
Monday, August 26, 2002 9:08:27pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey dad, I'm just passing through and I wanted to post a message. Brady and I are going up North this week and we'll be cruisin to the beats of Bob Segar and Burton Cummings...but not without continuous thoughts of you...always good ones though
I love you and miss you more every day
Until next time
lindsay lulu
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 8:20:25pm
Name: Dana Stewart
E-Mail: danastewart@hotmail.com
Comments:
Lovely tribute
Thursday, August 29, 2002 11:33:35am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad....on my birthday this year i wish i could have had you for one last hug, smile, silly grin, your beautiful cards were always my favorite...i miss you so much dad, it never fades...i hope it never does...
love forever and ever,
rebecca lee
Sunday, September 1, 2002 1:29:32am
Name: Antonella&Rita Pace
E-Mail: babe_tonell@hotmail.com
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
Your web site brought us to tears what a wonderful way to keep his memory alive!!!!!
Becky you wrote a beautiful poem.
Monday, September 2, 2002 10:35:34pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Dearest Dad,
I have just spend the last few minutes reading through past entries people have left....unbelievable...there are so many people that you have touched and helped throughout your short life...I am so proud to know that you are my father and it's something I will hold dear forever...
Tomorrow we start school again. Brady's off to gr. 11 and me in OAC...it's a whole new ball game now but I know you're guiding us along throughout our journey
I love you so much and miss you like crazy!!
p.s. our trip up north was great...but definitely not the same without you
Love always,
Lindz
Tuesday, September 3, 2002 1:11:31pm
Name: Dana Barrett
E-Mail: dana_barrett@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I just wanted to say how beautiful this tribute is. Becky you did an absolutely amazing job. You guys are the stongest family I have ever met and will probably ever come across. I feel privileged to know you all. I'm sure Pat is looking down with pride!!!
All my love, Dana Barrett
Tuesday, September 3, 2002 8:01:47pm
Name: Kaylan Henry
E-Mail: kickass_k@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Even tho I didn't get the chance to know him, the one thing I do know is that he will be greatly missed. I'm so sorry for your loss. He and all of you will be in my prayers.
Tuesday, September 3, 2002 10:23:17pm
Name: Julie Theriault
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg!
Comments:
Lindz, you're my gurl and I love you! anytime you need anything, even if it's just a good cry, please don't hesitate to call me! From the little time I did spend with your dad and the stories you always had I know he was an amazing man and will forever be remembered in my heart, your heart, and the hearts of everyone that knew him! I love you girl!
Thursday, September 5, 2002 4:07:02pm
Name: Andrea
E-Mail: lil_miss_ange@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Linds, What a beautiful site in honour of your dad. He must have been a wonderful person, because he has such a wonderful and strong family. And I'm sure he is greatly missed.
Here for you always,
Ange
Thursday, September 5, 2002 8:10:50pm
Name: Amanda Ferguson
E-Mail: hurdlin_hunny@hotmail.com
City/Country: aburg, CANADA
Comments:
Good job on the site! I'm sure he would be very proud just thinking of what you have done to keep his memories alive!
Saturday, September 7, 2002 10:47:42am
Name: Nicole Hayward
E-Mail: ihh@sympatico.ca
City/Country: A'burg, Ontario
Comments:
This is a great tribute to a great man. Although I never knew him personally, I see what a great memory he's left behind. He'd be proud of his children, I'm sure.
Monday, September 9, 2002 6:50:15pm
Name: BROTHER
E-Mail: kcthrasher@hotmail.com
City/Country: HEART
Comments:
WELL BRO, WHAT ABOUT THEM LION'S. EVEN A LITTLE DIVINE INTERVENTION COULDN'T HELP. I WAS AT TWINK'S AND THINKING ABOUT YOU. THE KIDS ARE BACK IN SCHOOL AND ANOTHER SCHOOL YEAR IS UPON US. STILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY AND IT IS REFRESHING TO COME HERE!!!!!
GO DOLPHINS GO HA!
Tuesday, September 10, 2002 2:16:23pm
Name: becca lee
Comments:
dad, i don`t have much more to say than usual. i am missing you like crazy, wish you were here. always wish you were right here. i love you so much. thats all i can really say....i love you:)
Tuesday, September 10, 2002 5:07:28pm
Name: Dan & Helen Almas
E-Mail: danalmas@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Tecumseh, Canada
Comments:
This website is amazing: a wonderful tribute to Pat.
We miss Pat dearly.
Sunday, September 15, 2002 8:23:23am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
Thinking of you, miss and love you every day.
Monday, September 16, 2002 10:48:37pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
dad, lovin' you and missin' you like crazy..
thinkin' about you always...
wishin' you were here now...
good nite,
love always,
lindsay lulu
Tuesday, September 17, 2002 11:00:31am
Name: becca lee
Comments:
dear dad, its been almost a year and ya know it's really never going to be easier to live a day without you. we are all trying to ride this rollercoaster, and it seems as though we are getting just fine, but inside each of us our hearts feel empty. thank you for guiding us through it all this far, mom is the strength in each of us. we embrace each day we have, and we never go a second without your love shining upon us. god we miss you, hope you are smiling:) that's all we want for you up there.
always and forever,
becca lee lee
Saturday, September 21, 2002 5:57:44pm
Name: WES
Comments:
almost one full year, Mom and I visited
hotel dieux today. it was the 1st time either of us had been since your stay. I think she was glad to overcome it and be done with avoiding it. A lot of renovations had been done so it almost seemed like a totally different hospital altogether which was good cause nothing seemed familiar, however I think it will be a long while before any of us will ever go up to see your old room. It would just be another thing to walk by and not see you in. I miss you and hope heaven is keeping you as comfortable as we can imagine.
wesley
Saturday, September 28, 2002 1:09:09am
Name: Brian Beneteau
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Dear uncle pat, as I read through this guest book, I find it incredible to see the number of lives you've touched. You have touched more lives then any one could even count, you are truly an incredible man. I wish I could be half as great of a person as you were.
You are missed by all, and surely, will never be forgotten.
Saturday, October 5, 2002 11:14:44pm
Name: jayne
E-Mail: motown@mnsi.net
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
hey sexy man!! wow I miss you so much. so much has happened since my last entry! I don't know where to begin except thank you for four such special kids. each and every one has such a unique part of you and they help to keep the memory alive to me constantly. wes has your business sense and such a good work ethic you would be so proud of your oldest son. he truly is such a kind soul. Becky has started a new job that is much more demanding but seems to be what she excels in also, she is still taking care of lindsay james who has been a positive force in our family. I know you would have just loved her. Becky has seemed to have a tough time of it emotionally regarding our loss of you but utilizes the help that is available to her to help her get thru this ordeal. what a smart young lady she has become. as for her love life I will keep you posted. unfortunately i think she is trying to find her dad out there and has not found you yet! Lindsay has had an exceptually hard time lately dealing with the loss but becky and lindsay have started a support group at the high school that really seems to help!! also lindsay spearheaded the cancer walk and they raised in excess of 32,500.00 double from last year like father like daughter!!! Brady has joined the senior football team this year and loves it. you would be tickled pink watching him. uncle pete has made all the games and of course has critiqued when need be!!! all my family talks about you all the time and misses you so much but we will always keep the memories alive.. as for me i miss your touch, your loving look, your diddling that used to frustrate me (I am sorry) your cuddles every day, your spoiling me rotten, and especially your magic lips!!!! if i could only have that back for just a moment...I so hope truly that you are no longer suffering, I wish I had the strength i had before, but you see you were my strenghth. you are what kept me going on because you were so strong and absolutely irreplaceable...
love you forever
jayne
Monday, October 7, 2002 8:38:25pm
Name: Sara Capaldi
E-Mail: saracapaldi@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hello, Thank you for sending me this e-mail address and thank you for putting the article I wrote for your dad on here...I feel so special!!
Pat was certainly an amazing person...just reading through the guestbook I can tell how many friends and loving family members he had and who cared for him so much. He left a mark on the world that not very many people have the opportunity or the courage to make.
Friday, October 11, 2002 10:37:57pm
Name: Sandi
E-Mail: svilleneuve1@cogeco.ca
City/Country: LaSalle
Comments:
Almost a year and so much has happened. I think of you often. I really missed you being a part of Matthew's wedding. You should have been there to give a talk or lead the family in the blessing as you always did. You would have been very proud of everyone Matthew looked so handsome and so happy, Kenny did a great job giving a reading at the mass and Matthew was so happy he agreed to read. Wes was a great help to Matthew and lots of fun for everyone. Your wife and children all looked wonderful but I know it was a difficult night for them. I wish there was something I could do or say to help, but what??? I thought of you before I got up to speak at the reception. I did not want to get up there and cry and carry on. I wanted to express my feelings very calmly just like you always did when you spoke at functions and family events and I did it!
I am sorry I never got to say thank you to you. Thank you for being a great "big brother", thank you for always being there to listen and offer advice. I only hope you know.
Mom and Dad came up to the lake a couple of weeks ago. Dad and Neal went fishing and had a good time. I know you would have loved the lake and the area and fishing with Neal. While Mom and Dad were there Dad mentioned that too "Pat would have loved it here". We talked about you for a while and it was so nice to share memories. I bet you were there with us then. Did you like the lake? How about the bunkie we built? I really hope you visit us there often. I hope Jayne and the kids will come to the lake next summer. I am sure they would enjoy it too.
Love you and miss you always
Sandi
Sunday, October 13, 2002
Comments:
dear dad,
today when we were at grandma and grandpas house for thanksgiving there was a very important piece missing in each of our hearts. every day we struggle with our loss, and our heartache. you keep us each strong and i give thanks to you for your love, strength and wisdom, you and mom will always be our strength in life.
i love you so much, and i can only hope that you are at peace and you are here every day, every minute...
always,
i love you immensely
Sunday, October 13, 2002 9:33:41pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
Hey big brother, we are here in Amherstburg. I can't believe it is almost a year you've been gone. Today I went to the bench and I sat there and I think it finally hit me, then the sun started shining right on us and I felt your spirit and your love.
Today was a turning point for me, even though I will continue to miss you, and wish you were here, I feel like I can finally let you rest (you worked so hard) I finally realized the grief is really the pain of being left behind in this world without you. I have my memories, your kids, Jayne and my family, and AJ and I can smile about that.
One day I will tell our kids all about you and show them your video and pictures and they will know who "Uncle Pat" was and you will be a part of their family too.
Love and miss you always,you are close in my heart.
Rene
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 5:54:20pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad,
Well I have a little bit of news...ok it's huge and I know you would be so proud....our school altogether raised 34,500.00 for the Cancer walk-a-thon....it was amazing to see the number of students who were eager and willing to support the cause and far surpass our goal of 25,000...which I was told earlier this year was a little high for our goal? Apparently not! I knew I couldn't lower the goal...it was a little something I learned from you...never give up and always try to go beyond the expected! You have left us all with so many of your traits and I am thankful everyday for that! I miss you more then the world will ever know and I hope your dancin' up there! I'll be back soon~
I love you always, and think about you every minute
p.s. - Mom's taking good care of us as always and you'd be proud...plus we have learned to fix some computer problems without calling uncle Tim ~
Good nite,
I love you,
Lindz
Saturday, October 19, 2002 5:36:15pm
Name: Sarah Greenham
E-Mail: sarahgreenham23@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hi Mr. Thrasher,
I just want to let you know how proud you should be. I never got the chance to know you very well, but I knew enough to know how dedicated and strong you were. Well, I just wanted to let you know that dedication and strength did not leave us. You have one of the nicest families I know. You should be so proud of your daughter. Both of them. Lindsay is the most kind hearted person I have ever met. It even bugs me sometimes. But all in all I believe that she has taken away some of my bitterness! She is wonderful for doing all she has done for cancer and M.S., but she is even better for all she does for the people around her. She has accomplished more in 17 years than most people do in a lifetime. As for Becky, well I can remember going to your house to pick up my dress and Becky was downstairs singing at the top of her lungs, I think it was off a commercial or something. She keeps everyone happy. Okay, this has actually happened to me like 3 or 4 times. I have been out in public, at a store or something and I will overhear people talking about this women who is so friendly and full of energy, they say how incredible she is and how well she is doing. They are talking about your beautiful wife. She is awesome, but you know that. I really haven't even met Wes, but of course he has to be great. There is only one thing to say about Brady, he looks HOT in a dress!!!
Okay so I totally was lying, this letter is not for Pat, he already knows all of it because he will always be watching over his family. I really just wanted to remind everyone else how great you all are!!!
Monday, October 21, 2002 11:33:28pm
Name: wes
Comments:
Well thank you very much Sarah, your kind words are a great compliment, And your 100% correct about Lindsay, Becky, and my Mother's shimmering qualities. Also Brady does look great in a dress:)
And it's true I am Great!
Tuesday, October 29, 2002 3:23:14pm
Name: jayne
Comments:
just thinking of you today!!! love you
Saturday, November 2, 2002 8:00:33am
Name: Jacquie
Comments:
Hey there mister,
Hard to believe a year has already gone by without you. Well, not really without you because I know that you haven't really been too far. Thank you for all your help this year. With bringing my little angel into the world I called out to you many times with my fears and concerns. I want you to know, I know, you were there holding my hand every step of the way. We miss you, we love you so much, and we are always thinking about you.
Dean, Jacquie, & Elyssa
xo
Saturday, November 2, 2002 8:51:27am
Name: Paula & Brian Pare
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Just thinking of you and your lovely family. You do a lot even from up there. Thinking of you today and always.
Love Paula & Brian.
Saturday, November 2, 2002 11:58:09am
Name: Bob, Dorothy, Lori and Lindsay
E-Mail: bjames@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you today and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. All your cherished and loving memories will help you through this day especially with the strong family that you have.
Saturday, November 2, 2002 2:39:43pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
Happy Birthday Pat, it's hard to believe that it has already been a year since you left
us...time flies.
This morning when I saw your picture in the memorial section of the paper it brought tears to my eyes. I know that I didn't visit with you very much when you were alive but just knowing that you're not here anymore brings sadness to my heart. I can feel the pain
that your kids are going through as Tim, Paul, Jayne, James, Peter and myself experienced that same pain when dad died. Losing a parent is very hard, you never get over it, it just gets easier to except.
Love Lives On
Those we love are never really lost to us
we feel them in so many special ways
through friends they always cared about
and dreams they left behind,
in beauty that they added to our days
in words of wisdom we still carry with us
and memories that never will be gone
Those we love are never really lost to us--
for everywhere their special love lives on.
Sunday, November 3, 2002 3:01:51am
Name: becca
Comments:
god i miss you dad!!! it hurts...it is painful but we feel you here with us every step of the way.
Sunday, November 3, 2002 9:58:54am
Name: brother
Comments:
happy birthday!!!
it is a beautiful day! thank-you!
Monday, November 4, 2002 3:30:14pm
Name: WES
Comments:
We celebrated your life on Saturday, your b-day as well as your one year anniversary.
We did it the way you would've, we shopped! We ended up sharing a really good day, you were close..i know you're always close.
Miss you Dad.
Tuesday, November 5, 2002 7:54:48pm
Name: Beans
E-Mail: hibeans@attbi.com
City/Country: Carmichael, California, USA
Comments:
I think of this wondeful man often. It makes me happy to know that he touched my life ever so gently, but I am not alone in smiling and remembering this special angel....
Thursday, November 7, 2002 2:57:07pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: paulke95182@hotmail.com
City/Country: Grimsby, Ont. Canada
Comments:
Hey there Pat.... going thru the ups and downs of retail... Sept was the best month ever and now Oct results are in and it was a break even month... and so far this month it is a good month... NOW I realise what you meant about going from a "hero to zero" in the span of a month or so....
I just wanted to tell someone that would understand...
How are you doing up there? I am sure you are keeping those angels up there in line.... Keeping you in my thoughts... and oh,, happy belated birthday!!! How was your celebration up there anyways!!!
Keep the peace.... PK
Sunday, November 10, 2002 5:32:39pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
Happy Belated Birthday Big Brother!
I hope this year was pain free and you got to dance and sing and eat as much spicy food as you could stand.
I have thought about you so much lately, it still feels like a big gap missing in my life, something I can't and still don't want to get used to.....even after a year!
I recently read a quote from Nelson Mandela's Inaugural speech that reminded me of how you lived life. It brings back all the memories of your strength and determination, how it felt when you came into a room, You always let your light shine!
"You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We were born to manifest the glory that is within us.
And as we let our light shine
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others."
Love you and hold you close to my heart always.
Your baby sister
Sunday, November 17, 2002 2:42:47pm
Name: Shar
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point, CANADA
Comments:
Hi Pat:
It's been a long time since I've put my thoughts on paper like this but I just had to because I know you would get a good laugh!
On your birthday, I boogied on down to the riverfront and sat for a bit on your bench. Here's where the laugh comes in. Without even looking around to see if anyone was nearby, I just blurted out, "Well Pat, I have a picture on my desk of me sitting on your lap at the SuperCities Walk, which I often look at and even talk to. Now although your lap was a whole lot softer than this bench, it will have to do! LOL"
Then I heard someone laughing behind me and there was this lady standing behind me asking, "Ma'am... who are you talking to?" I simply said, "Pat of course!" Then I got up and continued walking down the riverfront! LOL
I just returned from the Ontario AGM in Toronto and I have to pass this honour on to you. The recipient of this year's Sir David Flavelle Award of Distinction was Gerry McCready of the Kingston Chapter.
Gerry wasn't able to attend to accept the award but his wife accepted it on his behalf and brought with her a video taped acceptance by Gerry.
As this was Gerry's special time to glow, he brought what you said about having MS as being a white water rafting experience and gave YOU honour as being his Mentor! This all of course, had both Kim & Myself in tears but afterwards, I made a point to thank Mrs. McCready & Gerry for their sharing their special time with you.
In closing, I just want to let you know that the chapter is doing fine and think about you often as you are still, and will always be a big part of our chapter here in Windsor!
Love & Miss You!
Shar
Monday, November 18, 2002 5:18:52pm
Name: Jasmine
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
Was just passing through and thought I'd drop a line or two. I don't know whether it gets any easier as time goes by, I'd like to think so, but when you lose a loved one, it takes time, maybe a whole lifetime, to understand or be at peace...
I admire you Jayne, Beckel, Lindz, Wes and Brady, because you all possess a heart of gold, and I think what you gained through your loss was togetherness and I can say myself, that this has made me aware of my surroundings and to appreciate what we are given in life, just by observing your family. So, thank-you for that.
Here's two quotes that I came across that I thought you might like Beckel.
"My soul lacks for nothing because of what you've given me."
"All my confidence has your name on it."
Love ya
Jasmine
Wednesday, November 27, 2002 7:17:17pm
Name: WES
Comments:
I really thought you'd do something about these Lions? jj.
Love you!
Monday, Decenber 2, 2002 4:53:50pm
Name: Natalie John
E-Mail: natjohn48@hotmail.com
City/Country: Windsor Ont.
Comments:
Thank- you Becky for sending me this very special email! You are very lucky to have had a father that is such an inspiration to everyone.
Saturday, December 7, 2002 10:59:01pm
Name: Becky
Comments:
"everynight i pray
that i`ll have you here someday..
i`ll count the stars at night,
and hope with all my might..
that when i close my eyes,
you`ll be right by my side..."
dad as time has passed, the days are becoming somewhat easier...but as i sit and look back my love for you only grows stonger.
Saturday, December 7, 2002 10:59:01pm
Name: Becky
Comments:
"everynight i pray that i`ll have you here someday..
i`ll count the stars at night, and hope with all my might..
that when i close my eyes, you`ll be right by my side..."
dad as time has passed, the days are becoming somewhat easier...but as i sit and look back my love for you only grows stonger.
Saturday, December 7, 2002 10:59:01pm
Name: Becky
Comments:
"everynight i pray that i`ll have you here someday..
i`ll count the stars at night, and hope with all my might..
that when i close my eyes, you`ll be right by my side..."
dad as time has passed, the days are becoming somewhat easier...but as i sit and look back my love for you only grows stonger.
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 8:15:32am
Name: Amy MacKinnon
E-Mail: kins91@yahoo.com
City/Country: Belle River
Comments:
I'm sure you already know this but you have a wonderful sister in Shari. With all the loving things she has to say about you, I know you must have been a wonderful brother. Everytime she talks about you I can tell she is so proud of you. It's obvious to everyone that you were truly loved by all that were able to meet you.
Tuesday, December 24, 2002 11:32:09am
Name: WES
Comments:
Another xmas w/o you. You'd be so proud of all of us. We all seem to be on the right track, you gotta wonder if there is something up there guiding us. hehe
You loved christmas and we loved sharing it with you. Tonight we start at Grandmas
I could see you with your santa hat and it's blinking light, another family picture w/o you...I love you dad and I miss you.
Merry Christmas from Earth to Heaven..
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 7:29:47am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Merry Christmas Dad,
Well, it's been another one without you now and it's so hard to believe. You will be very proud to know that mom succeeded again in her Christmas shopping. I think she's actually starting to like this whole money spending thing! Anyways, we all miss you like crazy and it's not the same without you but we get by knowing that you are watching from above~
Keep shining...
Love you always, and miss you forever
Lindz
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 8:38:43am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
Merry Christmas brother.
Your memory surrounds us, on a day you always loved.
Love you and miss you. Hope yours is white too!!
Saturday, December 28, 2002 10:07:54am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, well you have helped carry us through yet another christmas. some will say it was easier than last but i found it a bit more difficult. everytime i here that song where are you christmas i think of how i feel as though christmas will never be the same without you here....you loved this time of year, the gifts, the tree, the snow...and yes the food.
mom has done extremely well, she carries such strength doesn`t she? you have never left our hearts and thoughts dad, you surround us with your warmth, your strength and your love every day. i miss you and love you so much, and i hope your christmas was everything you deserve.
love you eternally
Sunday, December 29, 2002 10:14:36am
Name: jayne
Comments:
hey baby "how you doin"? well i'm doin what i must do to keep going and that is staying busy!! i've written to you numerous times but keep deleting, but this time i won't delete. so much has happened in the last few months, and i find myself going to the phone to call you or coming thru the door and still expecting to see you there, but you aren't! nothing is the same and i truly miss everything we had, but i also realize how fortunate we were to have had such a complete love for each other. the "way you always looked at me" is an everlasting memory for me and is what gives me strength to move forward. i have finally been able to move beyond all the anger i was feeling for everything and everybody and i find that i am finally at peace with myself. i also have been blessed with four beautiful kids whom all remind me of you each and every day just with different characteristics that they each have that they got from their "DAD".
love you,miss you!
Monday, December 30, 2002 6:00:38pm
Name: Shar
E-Mail: shar54@mnsi.net
City/Country: Stoney Point, ONT
Comments:
Hi Pat!
Just checkin in again and wanted to wish you & yours a Very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
While I have you on the line here... can you do me a favour? Make sure Jimmy keeps in line up there ok???? LOL
Love ya!
Shar
Sunday, January 5, 2003 5:42:09pm
Name: Tina Talbot-Hillan
E-Mail: thillan1@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Well, the last time I pissed and moaned to you, was over the phone during a somewhat nice day in September of that year. Not to say I haven't thought about you, I just figured what's the use in pissin' and moanin'!!!
We finally got a van with a lift, got to go up north this summer and not have to be carried in and out of the car. However, Christmas Day, Al was bringin his Dad back home when the @#%$! thing died. Ken had it towed over to the garage for us and we haven't heard the damage yet (can't wait for that!) and the @#%$! washer went on us also...glad the Christmas season is over and I'm still spendin' money (ha, ha).
I think Dad is finally feeling his age, (enjoys taking more naps and didn't golf with Murray at all this summer) and THANKS TO YOU, I think that I've finally managed to help them both realize that this is not their fault and they couldn't and still can't do anything to stop it.
Please know (and I know you know) that you're in my prayers daily, and one day we'll meet again.
Tina
Sunday, January 5, 2003 8:38:59pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
Just checking in to be close to you!!! How I admire your life and how you truly served your higher purpose while you were here. I'm in ahhhhh!!!! Still!!
You are and will always be my anchor to living large (which is my new motto to live by) and loving BIG!!
So here I go honouring my life as you did yours...........
Love big, live large!!
xxoo a million times
Rene
Friday, January 10, 2003 4:05:31pm
Name: becky
Comments:
YES ME AGAIN!
missing you so much dad.....thoughts of you keep me warm through this winter weather.
lots new...as you can see from up there. my poem to you will be published this spring
Monday, January 27, 2003 8:57:57am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
Brother, It almost feels like daily lately that I realize something you had taught me, all these revelations are happening and I can take each one and link them to something you said, or an e-mail you sent or just by watching you live your life.
Thinking back of the road you travelled during your years off dealing with MS and where that took you....from a place where you needed love and help and strength from those around you but didn't know how to ask and or more importantly didn't know how to accept, because somehow accepting help would seem weak......... all the way down the road to a place where you found that in giving those things to others it helped you accept and feel the love in return.
It hits in the face now that I realize how profoundly first of all excepting your disease and then pouring all of your energy into helping those who were also suffering and dealing with it ultimatey was healing yourself!!! Giving was your form of self love.
I truly believe your actions transformed you in such a way that when you faced your death it was with grace and dignity and peace, and the love that surrounded you from friends and family and from those who barely knew you was a reflection of what you had for yourself.
A life lesson which I won't forget.
Thank you
Love you and miss you like crazy
Rene
Tuesday, January 28, 2003 4:29:09pm
Name: jayne
Comments:
hi honey just thinking of you today again, it seemed every song on the radio today was one of our songs so i did my usual and sang along with a tear in my eyes the WRONG words as usual...love you
Wednesday, February 12, 2003 5:29:08pm
Name: wes
Comments:
Hey Dad we did it! We were notified today at the dealership that we won the triple crown award. Everyone that understands the impact of this award is glowing today especially Grandpa. You would be very proud today!
Friday, February 14, 2003 8:02:24pm
Name: becca
Comments:
to our valentine
we miss you so dad. the love you gave shines down on us everyday.
love you and hope you`re smiling and dancing
love always,
becca lee
Tuesday, February 18, 2003 7:47:36pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hi Dad,
I just wanted to send a hello to you and let you know i'm thinking of you, like all times. Your spirit has been with me on every journey i've taken without you by my side. I miss your advice giving, your pep talks but most importantly your strength! Thankfully you left each of us with a bit of your qualities and thankfully it's these things that have made the days a bit easier. I know you're watching down, and you would be proud of us all! We're taking care of mom, and reminiscing about you daily! Take care up there
Love you and miss you always,
lindz
Friday, February 21, 2003 10:47:33am
Name: jayne
Comments:
just really missing you today and really wish you were here to talk to...
love jayne
Friday, February 21, 2003 4:06:44pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: beneteau@emporium.on.ca
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hi Pat,
I haven't been in here in awhile and I am sorry for that. Everytime I come here I can feel the pain that Jayne must be going through. She is truly an amazing person. You are a source of strenghth to me Jayne.
Pat, I am thinking of you always and wishing that you were here with us.
Sunday, February 23 2003 10:36:44am
Name: Mom and Sandi
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Sitting here thinking about you. Hoping you are doing well. Had a great time last night at your euchre tournament. The weather was awful but we all got home safely, you must have been watching over us. Missing you lots.
Love you always,
Mom and Sandi
Saturday, March 22, 2003 8:46:17pm
Name: jacquie
Comments:
Hey there, been thinking about you a lot, for the last little while. I hope you are enjoying watching Elyssa grow, she's pretty tough eh? I wish that I could see you with her though. Every now and then she looks beyond me with a smile and I wonder if it is you she is smiling at. Thanks for watching out for her.
We miss you sooo much down here.
Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:42:15am
Name: WES
Comments:
HEY WE ARE A LITTLE MORE THEN A WEEK AWAY FROM THE WALK, THINKING ABOUT YOU A LOT AND WE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN.
Thursday, April 10, 2003 11:03:33am
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad,
as the walk quickly approaches i think we`re all getting a little anxious this year. your presence will definitely be felt by each of us as we walk with pride in your memory.
its been a while since i made an entry in here, but that doesn`t take away from the fact that i think about you every other minute of every day. it seems like a bit much doesn`t it...but you are with me every step of the way dad.
everyone down here seems to be doing well. mom is finally going to take some well deserved time away for herself, so be there to make sure she doesn`t burn like she did in cancun. keep her safe:)
as for each of us, we go on with each day trying to be the best we can be. each growing to be better, stronger and the best we can be.
i love you so much dad, i miss you more than words can say.
always, becky:)
Thursday, April 17, 2003 10:55:49am
Name: WES
Comments:
the walk went great! last I heard the Tally was at &210,000.00. I am hoping for a little more. We really missed you. I was looking around all day looking for a little green scooter. I never saw it but I know you were there. I miss you so much every day Dad. Every time I hear Bob Seger on the radio I crank it and glance out my sunroof.
Sunday, April 20, 2003 10:55:59pm
Name: WES
Comments:
Rene and AJ have great news but I will let them tell ya.
Happy Easter.
Monday, April 21, 2003 9:35:30pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
It was one of the happiest days of my life so far. Everyone was excited and tears of joy were flowing, and it seems like everyone's spirits were lifted!! I waited for this moment as you know for a long time!! I was remembering today the day that you and Jayne had announced you were expecting Wes and how excited you were, and I saw the happiest people ever that day, and know I can share that feeling!! I will never forget your support and your pep talks to keep going after our dreams, you said "never give up........never"
Thanks so much for being there with us, your spirit was all around, we could feel it.
Love and miss you
Rene, AJ and baby!!
Friday, May 2, 2003 4:52:36pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Hi Dad,
I know it's been a while but to tell you the truth every time I come on here to tell you a story, I feel like you already know and I don't even have to tell you.
I came on today because I just can't believe today marks a year and a half...I guess the times have been both fast and slow since you've left, nonetheless always emotional, for the good and bad!
We miss you more and more every day and I don't think a day has passed where someone hasn't approached with a thought or memory of you.
Today actually we had a presentation at school put on by Kim and Wayne and I couldn't believe how much of your presence I saw in them. It was like watchin you up their making the presentation. They spoke positively like you always did, they shared good stories and got a few laughs out like you seemed to always do. We are kicking off our school carnation sales next week so I hope to raise about $2,000.00 for the cause, but more would be even better!
I love you and miss you more all the time, I hope you're doing good, we're surviving down here and live through your memory every day
Until later,
Lindz
p.s. ~I hope you're wrapping Aunt Rene, Uncle AJ and the baby in your arms and keeping them safe, they're so excited for this and we all can't wait for the day~
Tuesday, May 27, 2003 6:47:08pm
Name: Dorothy Burns
E-Mail: burnsbob@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Burlington, Ontario
Comments:
Dear Pat,
I've thought of you so many times since you left this earth. You came back into my life at a time when I really needed the positive messages, strength and courage you displayed. My problems with severe back pain and my Mother's illness and subsequent death, put me in a very bad place, physically and emotionally. You stayed with me every step of the way, encouraging me, listening to me and comforting me. You'll never know how much I appreciated all you did.
When I think of you now I don't see a wheelchair or your limitations. I see that young politician Bob and I first met many years ago, before the MS, wandering through the crowd, smiling and shaking hands and towering over most of the heads in the crowd. Something tells me you're doing that now and organizing events for all the souls around you, trying to make life better as you did for so many here on earth. I'm sure many of those you left behind here feel richer for having known you, as I do.
When I looked at this website today, for the first time in a very long time, I noticed the guestbook and decided to read what was shared here. After having shed many tears, some happy, some sad, I felt compelled to add my two cents. I always did ramble a lot, didn't I? Although, you always held up your end of the conversation too, until it got to be physically too difficult to manage.
Anyway, what I want to say is, it must give Jayne comfort to know your light shines on in the faces of your beautiful children. From what I've read here today they inherited hearts and the strong characters of both their parents. I know you were profoundly proud of them and of your beautiful Jayne because you told me often. You always said you never knew how you ever deserved them, but you must have done something pretty good. You did a lot good Kiddo. You will always be remembered as a profoundly unique and incredibly giving person. I feel so priviledged to have known you and called you my friend. Sending Warm HUGS to Jayne and your children and all those who knew and loved you. The number is huge!
Your gentle spirit will always remain alive in the hearts of those who knew you.
Lotsa Love
Dorothy
Saturday, June 14, 2003 2:57:18pm
Name: WES
Comments:
Hey Dad, tommorrow is Fathers Day. I know you'll be there with me, we may even take your boat out as a special tribute. I love you.
Monday, June 16, 2003 3:13:32pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, yesterday was our second fathers day without you here with us. there is such a void in my heart with you gone..but i know that somehow you are with me every step of the way. while i was sitting on the bench down at the river yesterday i was remembering your smile, laughter, your spirit and your love. what can i truly have to complain about, i can at least say that i was lucky to have a father in my life who loved me and taught me so much about life and about myself.
where ever you may be.....i will be with you too:)
always, becky
i miss you
Monday, June 16, 2003 11:50:02pm
Name: Madelyn Weingarden
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario
Comments:
Thinking of all of you a lot lately.... I am very busy trying to get "the big letter" for the MS Bike ride out. I am way behind. Have to reach our goal of $50,000 this year...didn't get there last year. Only raised about $38,000. But Art and I are starting to train to be in shape for the 150K and we rode past your house the other day and I so wanted to come in and say hi to you Pat, just as I did in previous years as I was training for the ride...And I remember the first time I showed you one of my letters and told you what we do for MS, and how you encouraged me and appreciated our efforts. But to me, you are still here because you are so much a part of everyone's life. You touched so many people in such an incredible way. Jayne and all the kids, I thought about you yesterday when Art felt a little lonely because none of our kids are ever here, and I told him that being lonely is better than not being. So to all of you....you are constantly in my thoughts as is your Super Special Dad....
We were all blessed to share him!
Madie Weingarden
Wednesday, June 18, 2003 9:24:17pm
Name: Dave and Marina Walker
E-Mail: d-m.walker@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Harrow, Canada
Comments:
We didn't know Pat but do know his wife and 2 of his daughters. Knowing them shows what a loving and giving man he must have been
Friday, July 11, 2003 12:54:37am
Name: Brother
Comments:
Well how the hell are you? Haven't talked to you or with you for so long. You know why I'm calling, yesterday you couldn't stop the rain while everyone was out in your name raising money for your cause. I told everyone that I would have a talk with you to make sure you don't soak us next year! Really though the day was great and reminded me how you touched so many people but really reminded me how much I miss you!!! Pat I think about you so often and will never stop. I know you were with Danny in the van on the way home, I could see you singing along!
Talk to you soon Bro!
Love You
Tuesday, July 15, 2003 3:57:17pm
Name: WES
Comments:
Dad I haven't been in here for a while, thinking about you a lot today, started the day off with Bob Seger on 94.7, so I cranked it and gave you a smile. I will always be thinking of you.
Tuesday, August 12, 2003 6:57:48pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dear Dad, I just wanted to say I am thinking of you and talking about you often, as I'm sure you could have already guessed!
We are holding up down here and sticking together, like a family should...
I miss you and wish you were here to help us understand certain things and further explain them to us but I guess that explains why you left Mom, Wes Bec Brady and I with so many life lessons, to be able to get through them on our own, and we will...
thank you
I love you,
I miss you,
And I wish you were here
Lindz
P.S. Heads up for University in a few weeks, Bec and I are both on our way
Monday, August 18, 2003 1:19:18pm
Name: Amanda Fryer
E-Mail: md_mandy44@yahoo.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, ON
Comments:
Pat Thrasher's memory will always live on through his family with everything that they do. I know he is proud of all of you.
Love, Amanda
Thursday, August 21, 2003 3:56:29pm
Name: Jasmine
Comments:
No matter how many days go by he left a lifetime of memories that will never be forgotten.
Lately it seems that time has flown by and I've realized that I haven't seen much of the Thrasher's especially Beckel...but just as you feel about your dad, you're always in my thoughts and close to my heart.
Love Jas
Sunday, August 24, 2003 9:30:15pm
Name: Sandi
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Miss you, wish you were here to share in Michael's wedding.
Love you lots
Tuesday, August 26, 2003 1:42:36pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, last night i had a dream and you were in it. unfortunately i woke up and realized that it was only a dream. with my birthday being tomorrow, i hope you will visit me again in my dreams. i miss you so much dad. with all that is new in my life i only wish you were here to share in this hapiness too. i have someone special i wish you could meet, but i know in my heart you are with us.
i love you so much dad, see you again
Wednesday, September 24, 2003 1:52:55pm
Name: Dorothy Burns
E-Mail: burnsbob@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Burlington, Ontario, Canada
Comments:
On a recent trip to British Columbia (Sept. 2-14, 2003) I met with an old high school friend. Her husband, Don, is in late stages of M.S. This man is dealing with his illness in a way that reminds me what an amazing thing the human spirit can be. As he sat in his wheelchair, unable to move from the neck down, he spoke with intelligence and dignity and smiled and laughed many times. He has the same wonderful outlook on life that Pat did. His wife and family are simply amazing and there is a lot of love and laughter in their home. Seeing him and talking with him reminded me of the kind of person Pat was and of his family.
We're rapidly approaching the second anniversary of Pat's death and I still miss him terribly. Every once in a while I come across as old e-mail from him in my saved files that makes me smile or laugh (the toilet/bathtub incident comes to mind). It reminds me that he's still around, watching over us all and chuckling when we mess up.
Hugs to Jayne and the kids
Lotsa Love
Dot
Friday, October 3, 2003 11:34:45pm
Name: Julie Theriault
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.como
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I haven't been here in a while so I just wanted to come back and say that all of you in the Thrasher family are amazing people and I'm honoured just to know you! Take care guys and I'm sure I'll see you soon!
Julie!
Friday, October 3, 2003 11:52:13pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Where to begin, well i'll start with the BEST news, the staff and students at GAHS raised $41,000 for Cancer research today, more than any recorded in Canadian history for a high school of our size. It's sad to see how many people are affected by it today, but there will be a time where we can say that we will no longer have to worry, i just wish you could have been here to share and celebrate today, you deserve it, but i know you were there in spirit.
I miss you and think about you roughly every minute of every day and i've often found myself talking to you as though you were right next to me, I wish that were so. I need some guidance right now, school has become a greater challenge than anticipated and i'm not sure where to go from here. help me if you can...
I love you always, and miss you more
Good nite,
Lindz
p.s. Aunt Rene and Uncle AJ are anxiously awaiting their bouncing baby. keep an eye for the newest addition to the family. it'll be a bundle of joy for sure~
Sunday, October 5, 2003 9:23:10am
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
Sitting here doing my football picks and who else do you wonder knows the results! I wish you could be here to tell me them. I say go lion's but you know Adam is going for the niner's.
Still & Always Missing You!!!
BROTHER
Thursday, October 9, 2003 11:56:34pm
Name: Deanne D'Alimonte
E-Mail: PeepersDD@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg/Canada
Comments:
What a nice website!
Monday, October 13, 2003 7:51:45pm
Name: Bob & Marg. MacMillan
E-Mail: mmacbug@reach.net
City/Country: Picton/Canada
Comments:
We knew Pat from the time he was 5 and lived around the corner from us. He always kept us laughing and was such a dear friend of our son Mark. He is truly missed by all our family
Wednesday, October 15, 2003 11:31:21pm
Name: Sara
E-Mail: saracapaldi@yahoo.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
This is definitely a growing website...it's looking awesome.
Lindsay, congrats with the cancer-walk money raised at Amherst...your dad would be incredibly proud!
Saturday, October 18, 2003 9:17:33am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Toronto
Comments:
Pat, It feels like yesterday you left us, and so long ago at the same time.
I think about you always, and pray to see you in my dreams, more often.
We are fast approaching the baby's arrival and the second anniversary of your death and I can't help but feel bittersweet. I am overwhelmed that we will witness the full circle of life. I guess until now life has been taken for granted, you don't realize the value until someone you love leaves and then you create and carry another and witness it's first breath. It's my faith that keeps me believing there is a part of you and a part of AJ's dad in our baby. We are all part of those who died before us and even though we may not be able to see it.....spirits live on. I've seen it in your own kids, it's a beautiful thing.
So as we approach a new life I am filled with faith, love and emotions I can't explain and most of all a sense of calm that all is right in my world.
Love you and miss you, always
Rene
Thursday, October 23, 2003 10:40:47pm
Name: Amanda
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ont
Comments:
Well Uncle Pat I haven't written in here for a long time! I just wanted to say congrats to your daughter in here because it is such an accomplishment and I know you would be proud of her! She is definitely following in your footsteps! You've taught her and the rest of us well!
Congrats Lindz! Miss you
Amanda
xoxox
Monday, October 27, 2003 3:33:52pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad, I have the best news ever to tell you, and I'm sorry I didn't do it sooner, but I was thinking of the best way to tell you, and in thinking I realized, any way would work great, so here it goes!
I was told on Wednesday that I am the A'Burg CITIZEN OF THE YEAR....wwaaaahhhhhooooooooooo! I cannot believe it, even still and I don't know that I ever will but I am surely excepting of it and absolutely honoured! Especially since I am able to share in something that you were also a part of, like many things, this is just another way of keeping your memory alive and keeping me going!
Thank you for everything, and although as always I wish you were here, I know you've been watching down and I feel your presence more and more lately~
I love you and miss you more
Lindz
p.s. update to Baby D, if he/she is not ready to come out by Friday, they will induce so watch closely and be with them on that day, and always!
Good night
Wednesday, October 29, 2003 2:55:52pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad, It's me again, just thought I'd pop in and tell you that Aunt Rene and Uncle AJ have introduced the newest addition to our family, his name is Anthony Cole, YAHHHHHOOOOO! I hear he is a healthy 8 pounder, nothing sweeter!
I'll let Aunt Rene fill you in on all the rest as I'm sure she'll have much to say about their new bundle of joy
Love you,
Lindz
Friday, October 31, 2003 10:55:26am
Name: WES
Comments:
Dad, Today is Kenny's birthday, and we are drawing very close to your own. I don't think it's strange that I have a difficult go this time of the year, however I have so much to be happy about. Lindsay is Amherstburg's newest Citizen of the Year, Aunt Rene had a baby boy...I just can't seem to shake the empty feeling. I hope for something magical or completely out of the ordinary to happen on your birthday, that way I feel closer to you, or you feel closer to me. I still miss you very much and I miss the role you played...I miss having a Father, everyday. I know what you would say, I know how you would react, I miss you saying it and reacting. Mom, the kids and I, will be together on Sunday. We will be thinking of you, with smiles.
Sunday, October 2, 2003 8:44:07am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
Pat, Thank you for making me promise to never give up on my dream of becoming a parent. I know that was the biggest and most important accomplishment of your life and you knew I would be completely fulfilled by parenthood.
Today I can't help but sit and stare at our new baby boy and wish you were here to hold him. I know how happy you are for us, I can feel it.
Mom and Dad say he's got lots of dark hair "just like Pat"
He is so beautiful. I can't explain the overwhelming feeling of emotion I felt when he was placed on my belly at birth. I know now why you wouldn't let me give up.
Today on your birthday and the anniversary of the resting of your body, your spirit lives on in new life.
I love and miss you, hope to see you soon in my dreams.
Rene, AJ and Cole
Sunday, November 2, 2003 2:10:53pm
Name: The James Family
E-Mail: dorothyjames@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you today. Pat has left you with so much love and many wonderful memories that shine through in all of you! Jayne, Wes, Becky, Lindsay and Brady - you are a very special and gifted family.
Take care of each other today and always.
Bob, Dorothy, Lori and Lindsay.
Saturday, November 8, 2003 12:17:28am
Name: jayne
Comments:
hey....well we've reached another date of your birth and your death and i am still so sad for us...you have become an uncle again to a beautiful baby boy, only i know how you so wanted this for rene and a.j. your wish came true!! and they know that! your memory will always be kept alive so that cole will know who uncle pat was and what an amazing person you were...we also have a celebration of lindsay becoming citizen of the year...god i wish you were here for this you would be so proud of her and it is just another way of keeping your memory alive...and the most terrific thing is how proud of lindsay the kids are, i am thankful everyday for not only what we had but the values and morals that each of our kids have and continue to make me so proud, i really do believe we are all different people because of the challenges we have had in our lives and we will continue to grow and learn and absolutely become better because of it...
eternal love always
Sunday, December 7, 2003 11:14:54pm
Name: Brady
Comments:
dad, I wanted to let you know that our football team won the championship I have played football the past two years, and started at center. I remember you telling me I should go out for it and also wes, so I did and we are ranked #1 in canada for small schools. I wish you were here to enjoy everything with the family, Lindsay won citizen of the year, our family is just amazing, mom and becky are getting involved, wes is a hot shot business man like you were, it's great. And as we go through these stages I wish you were here to enjoy what you have worked for, you have made our family what they are today. I am so proud to be a part of this family, I thank god for putting me in this wonderful family. Thank you for everything, and I wish you were here. and also i wanted to let you know I started to get involved I helped out with the cancer walk a thon, and I joined student council, because you inspired me to do so.
Love Brady
Tuesday, December 9, 2003 0:40:11am
Name: Becky
Comments:
Dear dad,
Somedays, more so than others it is difficult to imagine that we have to experience life and all it offers without you by our sides. We have all grown so much spiritually, emotionally and physically. I often sit back and wonder what you would be saying about each of us, about the paths we have been choosing, the bonehead mistakes we have made, the many challenges and obstacles we have each hurdled over. I believe that when those times approach you are in each of our hearts guiding us in the right direction.
I think you carry me personally through many things, I think you give me strength and courage and I give thanks for that everyday. However, it is not enough that you are not here with me. It makes my heart break that you do not see that what you have always wanted for me is actually happening. I am in such a happy time in my life, feeling fullfilled, loved, in love, and very much at peace. I feel that the only way I got to this place was from the love I learned from yours and moms. You two had a love so rare, it was a love you built together, you shaped it, you made it grow, and you never let it die. The love will remain forever true to you both, and that is truly a gift.
My wish is to always remember your spirit, your love and your passion.
I miss you each day, I hope you can see my heart smile.
always, becky
Monday, December 15, 2003 10:23:57am
Name: jane vance/navin
E-Mail: jnavin@cogeco.ca
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
Holy Cow! I can't believe I just now discovered this website. The address was below an e-mail I recently received and I spent hours reading through the entries.
Jane, what remerkable children you and Pat have raised. Even though Pat and I were related I never got to know him as well as I did you. I always knew through yourself or Carolyn how involved he was in our community and MS functions. Carolyn and Valerie always kept my family abreast of his health concerns. My regret is not getting to know him better.
Les, Carolyn and family and Jane and family, Pat lives on through you. God bless you all.
Thursday, December 25, 2003 4:37:14pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
MERRY CHRISTMAS Pat. You were the best brother in law any girl could ever ask for. I miss you.
Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:04:49am
Name: BROTHER
Comments:
MERRY CHRISTMAS PAT!
Friday, January 9, 2004 3:59:01pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad, today i`m struggling a bit...coming here heals my soul:)
always loving and missing you
becca lee
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 7:02:39pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad, I haven't been on in a while but i'm just checking in to ask for your guidance this weekend as i'm getting scared, nervous and anxious for the upcoming weekend. I feel like i've got so many mixed emotions and I don't know what to do with any of them. I'll figure it out though, but I look forward to havin you on my shoulder Friday night~
I love you and miss you immensely (I think thats how you spell it)
Love,
Lindz
Friday, January 30, 2004 3:32:05pm
Name: Jasmine
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
well, I haven't visited this site in quite a while and still everyone's loving words bring tears to my eyes. As I read through recent entries I found it pretty ironic that Bob Seger was playing on the radio ;) kind of nice really.....
What can I say about the family that Pat and Jayne created...."wow" sums it up for me. I know that he must be up above bragging to everyone what he has here on earth. He must be the proudest man in heaven!! ;)
Thrasher's your strength, loving hearts, and kind souls amaze me everyday.
Love Jasmine
Saturday, January 31, 2004 1:41:05pm
Name: pat's wife,
Comments:
hey hon! hope you are soaring with pride on not only lindsay's accomplishments but all the kids. we are so blessed! god i watched 20/20 last nite re: meredith vierras's husband who has had m.s. for 30 yrs and i felt like i was watching us on t.v. i miss you still soooo much and wish i could have my life back, you always kept me focused and on track and i still feel like i am so far off track and i am not liking it!!! i know that you are in a better place but selfishly i need you here with me and us. you were the one thing that gave me purpose and strength by watching you overcome your challenges and obstacles each and every day... i will continue to take each and every day and try to find the purpose, but if you can hear me guide me thru this next chapter in my life.
eternal love always ...jayne
Saturday, February 14, 2004 2:51:47pm
Name: becky
Comments:
Happy Valentines Day dad:)
I wish for many things in life...one thing for sure is to experience the love you and mom shared.
I love and miss you every day!
I love you
becky
Thursday, January 26, 2004 2:13:33pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hola Dad, I'm in the Dominican Republic and i've found a plaza right next to our hotel that has internet services available so of course not Sar nor I could resist
I hope you're watchin over us and protecting us for the next couple of days, it's kinda different here hehe
Love you and miss you always,
Lindsay lulu
Tuesday, March 9, 2004 11:20:57am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hey Dad, Well thanks for the "watching over" while Sara and I were on vacation. Everything went well and of course we managed to have a blast
Aside from our wonderful vacation things are going well. I think i'm beginning to get back into the swing of things with school, but don't count on it, I guess its just not what I expected it to be, you know, I'm not having that much fun surprizingly hehe
I'm also just starting to bring back the carnation sales for Mother's Day weekend into Amherstburg so I'll have another fun project to keep me busy and sane for a while hehe
I miss you and love you always,
Lindz
Thursday, April 1, 2004 4:37:08pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, i just wanted to pop in and spend some time visiting the site because it makes me feel just that much closer to you. tonight is my fashion show, i know you`ll be watching and smiling, you loved when i was in modelling. i am back into it, but in a much healthier way than before.
anyways, i love you so much and i think about you every single minute.
its grandma`s birthday today, she has many special things to celebrate...
always becky
luv ya
Wednesday, April 14, 2004 5:01:02pm
Name: Cole Duch
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
Dear Uncle Pat, I know we haven't met yet but my Mom has told me all about you. I am getting ready to attend my first MS SuperCities Walk this weekend. I look forward to seeing your bench along the water. My mom says it's a special place. I think she misses you a lot. When she speaks of you her eyes always tear!! I guess as I get older I'll understand more about you and I can really appreciate the things you did for others. I look forward to this weekend and raising money for a cause that was so near and dear to our family.
Your presence is always near.
We love you and miss you dearly
Your Nephew Cole and his Mom
Thursday, April 15, 2004 8:43:09pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad, as you can see each of us are really struggling to try to figure these things out on our own. we know you are not here to give us answers or make things better, and i truly believe that you passed on your strength to each of us and in time we will know in our hearts that everything will be okay. you and mom have blessed our lives with so many amazing gifts and we each cherish those every day. i cannot tell people enough just how lucky we are, to have so many gifts.....i love you so much dad.
the walk on sunday is "your day" we take so much pride in our pat's legs team, i love you dad......please show me the strength and help us through.....
i love you so much
always, becky
Saturday, April 24, 2004 7:44:42pm
Name: jayne
Comments:
hi honey, just popping in to let you know that the walk was a great success, and an absolute perfect day except that you were not there again to see the overwhelming crowd of support for our cause. i am a little sad after talking to a few of our m.s. friends and to find out that they are all having problems with their m.s. and i had really hoped that some of them would see a significant positive change with the new drugs that they have all tried. i don't understand why so many have to suffer and was hoping that i had seen the end of it with you because in my mind you gave so much so that they could all reap from the advancements in the new drugs....maybe i just expected too much too soon..there is so much i need to tell you. wish you were here...i love sooooo much and will keep up the fight!!! hope you are truly at peace and know that we will always love you and fight for the cause and the CURE!!!!
love jayne
Saturday, April 24, 2004 11:04:33pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Maybe tonight isn't the best time to come to visit, i'm havin what Mom, Bec and I commonly refer to as a "punky" night and I wish so badly that you were here to extinquish the sadness, confusion and pain that we all feel in not havin you home.
There is so much that I wish I could tell you, about all of us, and about what we've been doing, but I don't always know how or when to tell you things, I wish I could get an answer from you, a sign of some sort, to know that you're here.
I just miss you very much, but so I don't worry you, we are, aside from these "in between punky days" getting on, if I can call it that. Mom is amazing as ever, maybe she doesn't know it, and maybe I don't tell her often enough, but I see who was given 99.9% of your strength. She is finally doing things now that she was afraid to do for the past few years without you, and she's taking care of all of us. Wes is also amazing me daily, with the Dealership, his charisma and that god awful humour that keeps me smiling. He's also done a lot of soul searching and with that has met a great woman, who i know you would love. Bec, what can I say. She's baffling to me, juggling between jobs, school, a great personal and social life and still maintains an awesome relationship with us all. Plus she's always givin me the strength to believe that you're still present in our lives, she's strong. Brady, well I know you'd be proud, as I continue to be. He's got those crazy dance moves like you used to have years back and probably are enjoying right now. He's funny, intelligent and just an all around compassionate person. So as you can see we're doing alright, we're missing you always but we know that somehow you've been able to share in our lives since you passed.
As for me, I'm excited to have finished my first year of University along with Bec, which I know you would be proud of, I'm so happy in my relationship with Mike and I know, even though his favorite teams are complete opposite of yours, that you would approve. I always enjoy tellin him about you, but often wonder why he wasn't able to meet you, just once. Someday he'll know
Anyhow, I must go as i'm findin it hard to write, as I wish I could just sit and talk
I love you and miss you always
Lindz
Saturday, May 15, 2004 0:29:19am
Name: Julie Theriault
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg, Canada
Comments:
Hey Lindz, Just wanted to let ya know that I'm still thinkin about ya even if I don't see you or talk to ya for a while - we both know how busy us workin girls are!
Take care!
Love you!
Sunday, June 6, 2004 11:17:41pm
Name: becky
Comments:
hey dad, yesterday was what would have been yours and mom's 28th wedding anniversary. it amazes me everyday the love you both shared, when i look at my relationship i am inspired by your love and i can be thankful that my parents taught me about that.
i love you dad, miss you more and more all the time. you are a huge part of my everyday life and i know you are here with me.
always, bec
Wednesday, June 23, 2004 5:58:47am
Name: Dorothy
E-Mail: burnsbob@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Burlington, Ontario
Comments:
To Pat
~~~~
I sent a wish up to the sky
Up to the place where angels fly
I sent a wish that you could see
The members of your family
You'd see how well they've carried on
How they have fought to stay so strong
How they are furthering the cause
That gave your life an early pause
Your kids would really make you proud
And stand out in most any crowd
Your dear wife too has done her best
She's carried on and passed the test
I know you're watching from above
And sending all of them your love
I hope they've felt it every day
Since the one you went away
And know that you aren't very far
Within their hearts, there you are.
Lotsa Love,
Dot
Wednesday, June 30, 2004 10:08:57pm
Name: Cole Duch
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
Uncle Pat, Tomorrow we are going on our first holiday together as a family. I'm 8 months old now and you know what, my Mom thinks I look like you! I guess you were a really cute baby! My Mom says that your family vacations were really special to your kids and that you always had lots of great stories to tell when you got back. I am happy that they had those wonderful times with you and I wish someday they will tell me about you and your times at Manitoulin too!
Tommorrow we start our family stories and I hope that you will be there with us in spirit to share this because my Mom wishes you could be here to see how happy she is since she is a Mom. You were right, there is nothing like it.
She misses you, and sometimes reaches for the phone to call you and suddenly remembers you're not there. We keep your picture close and she tells me who you are every day along with my Grandpa Duch.
Like the movie "Big Fish" if you tell your stories enough you become them and then they are told by generations, in turn you live forever. We will keep your stories going, your passion for a cure, your leadership at the walk and your humour on your vacations, and most importantly your love for your family.
Thursday, July 1, 2004 1:26:56pm
Name: bec
Comments:
i know you were with me today...you were the strength behind me pushing me to run. it was a great feeling
i love you dad
Monday, August 2, 2004 10:04:30am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Hope you're with me today, send people to the River, and watch the race from above
Love,
Lindz
Sunday, August 22, 2004 9:52:48pm
Name: Rene
E-Mail: rene.thrasherduch@sympatico.ca
City/Country: Mississauga
Comments:
I had an angel on my shoulder this weekend. I saw you in my dreams and I heard your messages. I felt your presence while I accomplished something very powerful and I felt your strength and courage telling me I could do it. Thank you for your presence it gave me comfort and you would be so proud of what I accomplished today!
Love you always, you are still and will always be my inspiration! Now I know my next step! Please keep guiding me
Love you
Wednesday, August 25, 2004 2:24:40pm
Name: becca
Comments:
dad, i know how excited you would be right now, watching us begin our journey and building our first home. we are very happy and we know you are watching over our new home.
always, becca lee
Friday, August 27, 2004 11:15:57am
Name: WES
Comments:
Hey Dad, Today is Beckys' b-day with Brady and I to follow as you know. Miss you alot thinking of years ago.
Friday, August 27, 2004 2:50:39pm
Name: jayne
Comments:
i do miss you so much, and i know you know that now and forever because you did take a big part of my heart and my soul with you to hang onto until we meet again.....
love love love you
Wednesday, September 22, 2004 5:03:14pm
Name: WES
Comments:
Hey Dad, football season is among us,
among other things I miss asking your advice before my picks go in...I miss you very much more and more Dad.
Sunday, September 26, 2004 12:17:32am
Name: becca
Comments:
dad, just when i think life is getting a little bit easier, it hits me. i hope you are watching over jamal's granny. she is a special lady and we hope she has angels around her.
i continue to keep you alive in my heart every day....i miss you so much. also, hoping you were there to watch over chad and allison on their day of marriage. i`m sure they felt your presence along with uncle rick`s.
i love you with all of my heart...see our new home...its coming along:)
always, becca lee
Monday, October 4, 2004 10:22:03am
Name: Brady
E-Mail: bradyorr@yahoo.com
Comments:
hey dad, on october 1st our school raised over $72,000 for cancer. I was an organizer of this event and i took a lot of pride doing it. I got involved in the past 2 years in school because you inspired me to do so, i love you. I also saw how lindsay made a difference around town so i wanted to get involved. Mom, lindsay, wes, and becky all motivated me and stood proud for all the things i have accomplished since you have been gone. I have never seen a family like ours. you and mom are the definition of inspiration..
love brady
Saturday, October 9, 2004 10:15:35pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Hi Pat, It's been a while since I have last been on here. Please know that I think of you often. You have left a big part of yourself here with me. So many times I can recall sitting with you as you talked about dreams that you had in life. You taught me to hold on to and to go for whatever you want in life. I have huge dreams too and they are being fulfilled. Pat, you will be happy to know that I have finished taking a Pastoral Ministry for the Elderly Course, and will be recognized for all of my work for the course on Oct. 21. I am very excited about this. My call in life is to work with the sick and elderly and this is something I do with pride. God has truly blessed me.
All of your children have mentioned how much of an inspiration you are to each one of them. You have truly left them with a lot of who you were.
Pat, you have also touched my life. You are my strenghth in so many situations. You were certainly one of gods disciples..........
I love you Pat, and I miss you brother-in-law.
Monday, October 11, 2004 5:58:14pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Thinking of you,
Love
Lindz
Saturday, October 23, 2004 1:45:36pm
Name: bec
City/Country: home
Comments:
dad, when i see the fall leaves, feel the cool breeze it reminds me of you. because of the most important days with you were during this time almost 3 years ago. i know in my heart everyday that you are with me, but i want you here again. tonight we are all gathering for grandpas birthday as a "family"
i know i have probably disappointed you a little for the way i have dealt with things. i know i have not been with your family on many special occassions, and i have missed all of them so much. when i look back, i realized that it was very painful to be in a room with all of your siblings and their families and you are not there. i know now after some time...that i need them all! i love our beautiful family and i wish i did not distance myself from so many family events, but i did need time to cope with feelings of sadness and loss.
i love and miss you every every every minute
always, bec
Sunday, October 31, 2004 6:25:48pm
Name: MOM& DAD
E-Mail: LES.THRASHER @SYMPATICO .CA
City/Country: AMHERSTBURG ONT.
Comments:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAT.
Monday, November 1, 2004 5:54:31pm
Name: Megan Duby
E-Mail: m_duby@hotmail.com
Comments:
Wow!!! I can't believe it's been three years already. I was thinking about you today and so I decided I would say a little something to you. I want you to know that I miss you more then any words could describe. I miss the way you made us smile and laugh and the joy you brought to our family. I want you to know that we're all doing ok. Your children are truly amazing. I look at each one of them and I see you. Brady is a true gentlemen. You would be so proud of the man he has turned out to be. Lindsay is you. All I see in her is my Uncle Pat. Her determination and strength are so uplifting and it reminds me of all the days I spent with you. Becky is a beautiful, successful young woman and you would be very happy for her today. And then there's Wes...what more can I say. I look up to Wes. He's turned into the man you've always wanted him to be. I know you already know all this and are watching down on all of us. I miss you more and more each day and just know that I love you and wish you were here. You are always in my heart.
Love Always,
Megan
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 10:11:55am
Name: WES
Comments:
Happy Birthday Dad, each day you continue to grow inside of each of us. I just wish you could be here for it.
keep Dancin!
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 6:50:42pm
Name: Megan Duby
E-Mail: m_duby@hotmail.com
Comments:
I forgot one thing yesterday...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNCLE PAT!!!
xoxox
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 7:49:50pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: A'burg, Ontario
Comments:
WE REMEMBER, WE CELEBRATE, WE BELIEVE..
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAT!
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 9:26:24pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Happy Birthday Dad,
Today we celebrated what would have been your 49th, I can't believe its already three years. We had a wonderful night tonight remembering all of the good times and happy memories you've left us with.
Thank you for blessing us with everything that you cherished in life, it's now our turn to cherish those memories and continue on the legacy you left for us
I love you so much,
Lindz
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 11:20:08pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey Pat: Just closing off a bad month, but has been a great year! How's life in the true 'land of the free'? Been there now more than a year and a half. Still lookin' out for us!?
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 11:22:12pm
Name: Paul Ke again
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey there big lug!! Chevy still rocks and Happy Birthday!!
Party hard for me eh!
Miss ya tons!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, November 2, 2004 11:30:03pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
You know what Pat?! Laura, Spencer, & Justin and I are going to have a little girl in our home soon?! We are adopting from China. Can you keep an eye on her for us until we get there? Happy Birthday big guy! Miss you so. Wish you could counsel me on some more work stuff! Did I say I miss you already?! Still wonder many times what you ever saw in me?!
Lots of love and make sure the boys and girls are treatin ya right up top!!!!!!
Thursday, November 4, 2004 6:57:20pm
Name: Julie Theriault
E-Mail: oolie_goolie_julie@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hey Lindz, just want to let ya know that we were all thinking of you and your family on the 3rd anniversary of your dad's passing (i can't believe its already been that long)
you guys are doing an amazing job in keeping his memory alive and pure
you take care and i'll talk to ya soon!
love you!
Jules
Saturday, December 4, 2004 3:41:03pm
Name: becky
City/Country: new home
Comments:
dear dad, just want you to know that i am so incredibly happy right now. my life is beautiful and filled with so much. it is missing your presence but i feel your spirit with us everyday.
our new home is wonderful and i know in my heart you would be thrilled...its exciting.
always, bec
Friday, December 24, 2004 8:30:19pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dear Dad, It is our third Christmas without you being here, and sometimes, it seems like things aren't getting any easier. However, tonight we celebrated another great Christmas with our Thrasher family and we also celebrated your memory. I love you and always miss you, and I wish like crazy that you were here, as I have so much i'd like to tell you,
But for now I will continue to keep you in my heart and share my stories that way
Merry Christmas Dad,
Love Lindz
Friday, December 24, 2004 9:08:08pm
Name: becky
Comments:
merry christmas dad. i will always remember your smile on christmas morning.....god i miss you. tonight was special with your family
i love you dad
always, becky
Saturday, January 1, 2005 9:41:46am
Name: Rene
E-Mail: renelifecoach@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
Pat, Happy New Year.
I think about you every day but today especially because you always had such a positive outlook on life and what you could achieve and you always believed and wanted that for others. You always started off a new year with excitement and a huge outlook of endless possibilites for yourself and others. I love today and what you showed us.
Happy New Year!!
Love ya always, and miss you sooooo very much.
Rene
P.S. You would love our Cole.
Thursday, January 6, 2005 5:54:20pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, last night i saw you in my dream....you made my day:) i miss your smile every day
always, becky
Friday, February 4, 2005 1:52:19pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, i just wanted to keep the visits going...i speak to you all of the time i know. i love you and we all miss you so much.
love you immensely
Friday, February 4, 2005 8:39:04pm
Name: michael temesy
E-Mail: mtemesy448@cogeco.ca
City/Country: amherstburg,ontario
Comments:
ANYTHING FOR THIS HANDSOME GUY
Monday, February 7, 2005 3:23:16pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Just wanted to say hi, and let you know I'm doing well. Things have changed quite dramatically for me. I'm back at Thrashers and I'm loving it. Working at Thrashers and trying to save enough money for many things hehe
I love you and miss you like crazy. I'm working on the Carnation campaign and helping Brady with Amherst's, and I'm hoping to reach my goal this year for the walk, we're getting so close to a cure, I know it! You started the path to finding a cure and now we're trying to carry on your mission
Thinking of you always,
Love, Lindz
Friday, February 18, 2005 11:10:49am
Name: Mike & Shelley Sipila
E-Mail: mikesipila@sympatico.ca
City/Country: St. Marys Ont.
Comments:
Even after three years, when I think of Pat, I can only smile to myself. He could always make me laugh, and still does.
Never Forgotten, Always missed
Love;
Mike & Shelley
Saturday, February 26, 2005 8:57:34am
Name: Mike Fummerton
E-Mail: fummer31@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada
Comments:
While I was not fortunate enough to ever meet Mr. Thrasher, I have become friends with Wes. Wes and the Thrasher family's dedication to Mr. Thrasher's cause is a wonderful tribute to Mr. Thrasher and I am sure that he is proud and honoured by his family's dedication and is always smiling down from heaven on them.
Saturday, March 26, 2005 5:06:51pm
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad, everyday i am thankful for the life you and mom have given me....you have both taught me so much about what life should mean and how to live each day to its very fullest.
your life inspires me every day to have a purpose in everything that i do....i love you and miss you every moment
always, becca
Thursday, April 7, 2005 8:15:27am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Thank you for granting us our wishes - I know this is what you would have wanted
Love you,
Lindz
Saturday, April 9, 2005 8:15:10am
Name: becky
Comments:
Dad, It's ironic when people leave us the world feels as though it should stop in its place......i know you are with us during this time...give granny a warm welcome into heaven
I love you
Becky
Monday, April 18, 2005 1:16:19pm
Name: Erin Bump
E-Mail: bump_n_grind9@hotmail.com
City/Country: Canada
Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:16:22pm
Name: becky
Comments:
Dad, I need from you words of wisdom and encouragement, reassurance that road blocks shouldn`t stop me but just slow me down.
I need you here with me
We love you and miss you always...you know that
always
becca
Monday, May 9, 2005 6:40:37am
Name: becky and jamal
Comments:
the most important thing was to make you a part of our special moment...and it was
i love you dad
Thursday, June 2, 2005 7:59:12am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Just thinking of you Wishin you were here with Mom to celebrate 29 years, but I know you'll be there with her in her heart
Love you,
Lindz
Sunday, June 19, 2005 10:48:05pm
Name: becky
Comments:
i love you
Tuesday, June 28, 2005 1:20:51pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, Today is a sad day as we say good bye to the pontoon, which we all know was a true passion of yours ever since we moved to the water. The many memories and happy times will not be forgotten, although it will be hard to look out onto the dock and not see it - I think we all know this is what you would have wanted. Hopefully this family will enjoy the boat and form as many memories as ours did
I love you -
Lindz
Tuesday, August 9, 2005 9:05:23am
Name: becky
Comments:
dear dad there are so many things that i wish i could share with you every day. i know your spirit is with me, but i think the most difficult part is that i cannot share you with the new man in my life. we are embarking on the most important time in our lives this upcoming year and when i think about doing it without you by my side it makes me sad. mom will feel the same i`m sure, but you will be in our hearts throughout each moment.
i love you so much and i miss you immensely
love bec
Wednesday, September 14, 2005 0:11:29am
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey big guy! How's it going up there anyways? Had a thought today when I was sitting here looking at my paperwork, emails, voicemails, --- basically getting overwhelmed when I heard your voice... your laugh. Just wanted to let you know we have adopted our little Vanessa from China. Spencer, Justin, and mom simply love her to bits and now we are 5....
Gotta go, but think about you lots!!!
Wednesday, September 21, 2005 9:54:22am
Name: Kathy Meseck
E-Mail: meseck@mnsi.net
Comments:
Very Nice!
Wednesday, October 5, 2005 5:58:34pm
Name: Colleen Seguin
E-Mail: cseguin23@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
What a beautiful Site.
I never had the opportunity to meet your dad, since I just met your AWESOME Mom this year, but after reading this entire website over the last month. I now feel in some odd way that i at least know a part of the person that your father was. Wow ...he was amazing and very humble to say the least. Great job on keeping your father's memory and accomplishments alive! I truly feel i knew this man without meeting him in person.
Colleen.........:)
Jayne...you are an amazing women and i look at you and listen to you and I can say Pat must be very proud to have YOU as his wife...:)
Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:13:26am
Name: Liza Price
E-Mail: 156@3web.net
City/Country: Amherstburg, ON
Comments:
A beautiful tribute for a wonderful man.
Tuesday, November 1, 2005 1:36:23pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
In loving memory of our brother-in-law and uncle on his birthday. Ever remembered, never to be forgotten.
Love
Lisa, Lawrence, Brian, Steph. Chris and Laura
Tuesday, November 1, 2005 8:58:20pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Dad, I'm at a loss for words right now as so much is going through my head. Thoughts of you being here to celebrate what would have been your 50th birthday, what life would be like for all of us if you were home, and how, even after four years I can learn to go on knowing you are in a more comforting place, even though that thought is so hard understand and accept all too often.
It hurts like hell not having you here by our sides as so much is going on in our lives that we want you to be here to share in.
I guess you could say i'm having a 'pity me' night in which I feel like nothing in the world is making sense and all i want is to hear you verbally speak your words of wisdom, until the day, I will listen to my heart and trust that you are watching over me and the decisions i'm making with my life.
I love you so much and miss you more than these words will ever explain. Tomorrow we will celebrate your life together and remember the countless memories we were able to share as a family.
MISSING YOU ALWAYS, LOVING YOU MORE
Lindz
Tuesday, November 1, 2005 9:32:31pm
Name: becky
Comments:
Well big guy it would be your 50th tomorrow! like lindsay said we wish you were here. right now life gets so complex and so much is happening that not a moment passes where we do not stop and think of you and how much we miss you.
the last few days have been very difficult. you know...those moments that hit you in the face and tears just will not stop....or songs that play over and over on every radio station.....i have felt your presence very strongly around me this week and i will think of you and celebrate your life tomorrow.
i love you
becky
Wednesday, November 2, 2005 0:48:46am
Name: WES
Comments:
Hey Dad, November 2nd is here again. Today would be your 50th and we plan to celebrate that tonight...I couldn't imagine if you were here w/ us today what we would have planned for you, it would be special...Tonight while we are together w/o you will be special as well, we've planned to watch a video or two from the past..It will be nice to hear your voice again (rather then just saying "the Thrasher's" on Mom's answering machine) and to see you.
Thank You! for your beautiful Life...
I love you.
Wednesday, November 2, 2005 9:45:32am
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsj.ke@primus.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey big guy! Happy flipping birthday! Every day I am on this side of this great business of ours, I think of you and say... "What the heck would Pat do!"
Vanessa, Justin, Spencer and Laura are doing fantastically well!!!
Keep watching out for all of us down here!
PK
Wednesday, November 2, 2005 5:05:19pm
Name: Brother
E-Mail: thrasherkc@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I can't believe I stayed away this long but lost the address from my favorites. Pat I will never stop thinking of you or forget you, this will be a special day because I know a lot of people who love you will be thinking of you. Anytime we think of you can only be great. The memories will last a lifetime BIG BROTHER. Got to go starting to feel selfish and getting teary eyed but I will be back.
Love & Missing You always
Ken
Wednesday, November 9, 2005 11:00:47pm
Name: Carol Keith
E-Mail: cakeith@rogers.com
City/Country: Canada
Comments:
I am a friend of Sandra Bondy and have met your mother. You are so lucky to have had such a wonderful father and I am sure you miss him terribly.
Tuesday, November 15, 2005 3:28:44pm
Name: HAROLD & DAR
E-Mail: haldar@mnsi.net
City/Country: AMHERSTBURG
Comments:
November 2nd, 2001 a day that will live in many people's memory....the day that Amherstburg lost one of their best ever.
We will never forget our friendship.
Wednesday, December 14, 2005 9:21:12am
Name: Laura Coughlin
E-Mail: lauracoughlin@xplornet.com
City/Country: McGregor, ON, Canada
Comments:
I can't say that I ever knew you personally; however, I have had the priviledge to meet your wonderful family and can only imagine how great a man you were from all the wonderful things people say about you.
Saturday, December 17, 2005 3:04:07am
Name: becky
Comments:
dad, can`t sleep tonight......just poppin in to say i love you and i miss you.
love bec
Monday, December 19, 2005 3:49:38pm
Name: Jen
E-Mail: jennifer_ruston@hotmail.com
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
I found this poem and thought of you Lindsay. My heart goes out to you and your family. May your memories of Pat stay dear to your heart throughout Christmas time.
"Christmas Without You"
I know I've told you I won't cry
And you made me promise this
But I can not help it sometimes
When it is you the most I miss
This holiday won't be happy
For you will not be here
I will be thinking of you love
And wishing you were near
I will think of you that day
And wish the whole day through
Nothing else will matter to me
Just wishing to be with you
Every day that goes by now
I need you by my side
I want to have you here with me
My love I cannot hide
Everyone now will know
Sadness I'll go through
You will be always on my mind
Having Christmas without you
"I'll Miss You Dad"
Tuesday, December 20, 2005 3:42:08pm
Name: caroline delisle
E-Mail: care_bear_25@msn.com
City/Country: amherstburg
Comments:
pat was a wonderful man. i enjoyed doing the ms walkathon just because of him and i got to walk with his sister in law lisa which gave me a better perspective of what pat is like.
i miss you.
Saturday, December 24, 2005 8:34:53pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: A'Burg
Comments:
Merry Christmas Pat. Lately I have not only been thinking about you, but I am also thinking about my dad. You both have finally met, up there in heaven, where all the angels are. I know you are both looking down here and keeping a watch on us. Pat, tell dad I love him and miss him just as much today, as I did thirty some years ago.
Monday, December 26, 2005 4:49:06pm
Name: becky
Comments:
merry christmas dad
this year many magical things happened for me....and i know to always look to the angels for that....i love and miss you so very much. christmas will never feel the same but we are trying to build new beginnings
i love you
becky
Wednesday, February 1, 2006 11:59:27pm
Comments:
I often wonder what life will be like when I have to experience life's most precious moments without you. When I have to walk down the aisle at my wedding knowing that you would be a bigger pile of mush than me...Or when I welcome my first born into this world without a very proud grandpa...What will life be like if you could be here to see...
Saturday, June 3, 2006 4:02:27pm
Name: Caleb Aaron
E-Mail: caleb_aaron@yahoo.ca
City/Country: USA
Comments:
A very nice and comprehensive site. I am glad i have found it. Surely, I will come back.
Sunday, June 4, 2006 7:49:28am
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: Home
Comments:
Please help me to figure out and understand what is goin on right now, I cannot make sense of this without your guidance
I love you
Sunday, June 11, 2006 7:03:46pm
Name: becca lee
Comments:
dad, i know for sure that you were right on my shoulder yesterday....the day was absolutely perfect!!! i feel you with me through out all of the wedding planning and you would be so happy....
i love you
Saturday, August 5, 2006 5:24:44am
Name: becca
Comments:
well dad the big day is finally here....I wish you were here to share in this day. I love you and will carry you in my heart through out the day..thanks for the perfect weather...its my sign isn`t it?
always, becca
Monday, August 7, 2006 5:12:55pm
Name: laura
E-Mail: lbouffard@cogeco.ca
City/Country: aburg
Comments:
Well Beckal you are now a married woman. You looked so incredibly beautiful walking down that aisle. Not a dry eye in the place. The weather was perfect & so was the day. Your dad is beaming down on you & Jamal. It was a lovely service & a great time.
Love Laura aak baby girls mom!!!!
Wednesday< August 9, 2006 11:49:24pm
Name: lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: home
Comments:
dad, please meet toonie at the gates tomorrow - take good care of him
love you
Saturday, August 19, 2006 10:55:27am
Name: Chad Stewart
E-Mail: shadrock@hotmail.com
City/Country: St. Louis, USA
Comments:
My uncle Pat was very inspirational to me. He helped me get through a very tough time in my life, when my father Rick Stewart passed away. I would visit with him several times a week when I was home from school in the summers, and we would talk about everything from sports to life. I will always be grateful for the time I had with my uncle Pat.
Saturday, August 19, 2006 1:24:50pm
Name: rebecca banks
Comments:
dad well...you were definitely there with us on the big day. everything went more perfect than i could have ever imagined. it was by far the best day of my life and i know that i was sharing it with you because you were in my heart all day. i love you so much and i know you would have been so happy. mom was stunning in her gown and she was so strong. i love you and hope you are watching....
always rebecca banks (you like)
Monday, September 4, 2006 8:23:39pm
Name: MIKE GYORI
E-Mail: MICHGYOR@AOL.COM
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Pat, I've never done this before, I wasn't sure if I ever would, write in your guest book that is. Pat it's nice to finally talk to you, not on these terms but that's where I need your help, I messed up, you probably already know that, I don't even know what to say, I love her so much, I guess I just want you to know that. Since I'm here you have an amazing family, so much love for everyone, I've never met people with so much love for everyone, Lindsay obviously, but Brady, Wes, and Becky are like my own brothers and sister and Jayne who will always be like my mom, JUST AMAZING, Anyway I came here to ask for your help but that's not really fair, whatever happens I'll let you know how I make out.
Love You
Love Mike
Tuesday, September 5, 2006 6:22:46pm
Name: Lindz
E-Mail: lulubell5@yahoo.com
City/Country: home
Comments:
Hey Dad, So it's certainly been a while, although I do frequent the site about 4658 times a day. Anyhow, I just wanted to say thank you for guiding me through the past couple of months - this hasn't been easy for any of us. Everyone has been so supportive with everything, but I know that everything happened for a reason and that I have and will continue to grow from all of this. Thank you for looking out for Scuggy too, I know he felt your presence. I miss you so much everyday and know that you and Toonie are happy together, free of any pains
i love you always
lindz
Friday, September 29, 2006 5:29:24pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: lisa_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: A'burg
Comments:
Thinking about you today Pat, Wazzup!! So much has happened around here since you left this world. We have moved, we bought a beautiful farm house out in the country. Brian has a new job, he was hired by the Leamington Police, he will be pursuing his dream of being a Police Officer. Right now he is attending Police College. He will graduate from there in November. You would be so proud of him as we all are.
Memories are all I have left of you Pat. I still to this day think of how lucky I was to have you as my brother-in-law. Missing you still and thinking of you all the time.
Hugs
Monday, October 16, 2006 2:43:47pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: paulke@queenstonchev.com
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey there Pat... After what I've been thru this past summer, it seems such a relief to finally be able to leave you a message. I wish this summer's project with a proposed deal for me had gone more favourably but oh well!!
Hope all is well up top and watch out for us all down here!
PK
Thursday, November 2, 2006 12:45:33am
Name: denean kristalovich
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Happy Birthday big guy. Miss Ya!
Thursday, November 2, 2006 7:45:23pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: paulwcke@hotmail.com
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey there Pat... just came back from the GMT900 driveaway and met a bunch of guys from Windsor way and... well thought about you a lot. My records also indicate today would be your proper birthday!
Happy Birthday!
take care Pat!
Thursday, November 2, 2006 8:02:28pm
Name: Paul Ke
E-Mail: plsjv.ke@cogeco.ca
City/Country: Grimsby
Comments:
Hey there Pat... Just wanted to thank you for your inspiration. Was chatting with a whole bunch of GM folks last night and thought... Wow how time flies! I felt so much like I was back in the wholesales biz again but with a great deal of retail spin. Anyways, just wanted to drop you a line and say thanks for being the voice of encouragement - forever!
Laura is still as beautiful as ever; Spencer is now 8 and getting to be a real handful - rewarding and challenging; Justin is now 5 and still loves to snuggle us; and well, Vanessa is now 2 & a half and wow, what a drama queen!
Gotta go... talk later,
PK
Thursday, November 2, 2006 8:52:01pm
Name: Lisa
E-Mail: l_beneteau@yahoo.ca
City/Country: Amherstburg
Comments:
Hi Pat, remembering you today.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:38:53am
Name: bec
Comments:
hi dad
just thinking of ya....love you and miss you soooo much
luv bec
Monday, December 25, 2006 6:55:54am
Name: bec
Comments:
merry xmas......i got the best gift this year
i love you
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