Sissydom

Deportment


Best explained as "the air in which one carries oneself", a sissy's deportment describes the way in which she interacts with the physical world about her. No one likes to see a sissy all dressed up in her pansified glory clomping around in heels like an elephant and carrying her figure around like a sack of old potatoes!

As a sissy, if you practice your feminine poise at all times it will become second nature. Consider your demeanor when you are sitting, standing, kneeling, walking, or talking. Always ask yourself; “Am I presenting myself in an appropriately dainty way?”

Put on your finest sissy attire and stand in front of a full length mirror. And consider the following:

  • Is your back straight?

  • Is your chest placed slightly forward of your hips?

  • Are you keeping your spine erect, your pelvis loose so it can sway every so smoothly from side to side, drawing subtle attention to your panty covered bottom?

  • Are your legs close together at the ankles and knees when stood? Modesty is a function of both deportment and disposition.

Take a few steps towards the mirror. Are you taking small, mincing steps? Try to think of  yourself gliding on air as you walk. Much of good deportment comes from keeping your knees together. When walking, it is much more feminine to take two small steps rather than one big one.

keeping your knees together is also important while sitting down and getting up from a chair. Try to be graceful and slow - a lady never rushes. Sitting is a posture that can be practiced throughout the day whether in sissy attire or in a stuffy office environment. When sitting never sit with your legs apart, or with one ankle resting on the knee of the opposing leg.

To sit properly, gently and gracefully set your bottom onto the edge of your chair (a sissy never lounges at the back of a seat). Keep your ankles and knees tightly together, tuck your feet slightly under, keep your back straight, head slightly bowed, eyes lowered, hands folded in your lap. Of course a sissy should always make sure she has smoothed her skirt before settling down.

Your deportment as a sissy should be slower, more considered and much more deliberate than as a man. Consider how you hold you hands as you walk; one at your waist to help accentuate your hips as they sashay to and fro; and one out to the side, palm down and fingers slightly spread to show off your manicure.

In Japan, the onnagata [female impersonators] of the kabuki theatre as experts in deportment. (Nakamura Ganjiro III still plays 18-year-old women at the age of 65). The onnagata technique focuses on making smaller movements with the feet and pulling the arms in to make them seem shorter and more delicate.

Concentrate on every aspect of your movement - even when performing the simple act of walking down the street, consider your movement as if you are in a dance or play. Remember what you are; Sissy's don't stride, they swish.

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