This
article appeared in the May 20, 2005 Jewish
Advocate.
ArbeiterÕs
odyssey, and a home in Newton
By
Susie Davidson
Advocate
Correspondent
Israel
Arbeiter arrived in America with his wife Anna in 1949, following World War II.
They lived on Blue Hill Avenue near Franklin Park, moved to Tennis Road in
Mattapan in the 1950s and remained there until 1970, when they moved to Newton.
Arbeiter ran a tailor shop called ÒThe Arbeiter BrothersÓ with his brother
Mack, also a Holocaust survivor, on Talbot Avenue in Dorchester.
The
survivor community formed a local Hakoah
soccer club. Boston City Councilor Julius Ansel, a World War II vet who had
saved his life by impersonating a Nazi officer, secured permission for the team
to use Franklin Field. Arbeiter, who has enjoyed a long association with
non-Jews through his life, played against an Irish team in South Boston, a
Polish team in Chicopee, a Scandinavian team in Worcester and an Italian team
in the North End. When the wives wanted to join the fun, the group formed an
organization called ÒThe New Americans.Ó They met in a hall on Otis Hill Street
in Roxbury, then the Young Israel on Blue Hill Ave., and in membersÕ homes.
Their first Yom HaShoah observance in
1949 was held at the Mishkan Tefilah on Seaver Street. In 1952, the group
became the American Association for Jewish Holocaust Survivors.
But
the Mattapan area had changed, and the situation was worsening. Newton, where
some friends had moved to, seemed like a good fit for the business and the
family. ÒNewton had a good name, and it was now a developing Jewish community,Ó
Arbeiter said. In 1969 he moved the business to Auburn Street in Auburndale, as
ÒAuburn Cleaners.Ó They closed the Mattapan store in 1970; Mack now operated
their tailor shop on Lexington Street in Auburndale. The brothers did
alterations and made custom-made suits.
In
1970, the Arbeiters purchased a house in Auburndale on the Charles River.
Brandeis had been founded in 1948, but was still one building. Although they
could not see the University from their house then, they now can.
Back
in Europe in October 1942, ArbeiterÕs parents and youngest brother were sent to
Treblinka from the crowded Starachowitze Ghetto quarters in Eastern Poland
where they lived. He never heard from them again. Imprisoned in its labor camp,
he contracted typhus and while in a quarantine barrack, was the only one out of
87 to miraculously escape. As the 86 others were shot one night, a deathly-ill
Arbeiter managed to open a boarded-up window and jump out, and then evade the
shots of two guards. He was hidden under straw by friends, who helped nurse him
back to health while performing his required work at an ammunition factory. He
was liberated on his 20th birthday, April 25, 1945, on a death march from
Dautmergen, through the Black Forest.
In
light of this, Newton was the most welcoming of communities. ÒWhen we moved to
our street, there were only three other Jewish families living there. Two are
still here, but the percentage of Jews has never increased.Ó But Arbeiter has
never, to this day, had any unpleasantness with any of his non-Jewish
neighbors.
Business
increased several fold from the start. Although they got a lot of work from
Brandeis (a few professors even lived on his street), not many customers were
Jews. ÒVery few lived in Auburndale, and there still arenÕt that many,Ó he
says. More Jews were in Newton Centre and the southern part of Newton.
The
AAJHS met at the WorkmanÕs Circle in Brookline, and held events at Mishkan
Tefilah, Temple Reyim and Temple Emeth. AAJHS began meeting at the JCC about
five years ago; Arbeiter remains its President. He is also a member of the
founding Committee of the New England Holocaust Memorial in Boston, and is on
its Executive Committee.
The
family would go to Mishkan Tefilah for the high holidays. Newton Mayor Teddy
Mann was not only Jewish, but a great friend to the survivors (MannÕs son, Rick
Mann, is the President of the Friends of the New England Holocaust Memorial).
ArbeiterÕs
two daughters were out of high school when they moved to Newton in 1970, but
his son, who was 15, attended Newton North. At that time, there were not that
many Jews there (ÒTo this day,Ó Arbeiter comments, ÒNewton South has more
Jewish students.Ó) However, he never came home with any tales of mistreatment.
Despite their broad interfaith associations, all ArbeiterÕs children married
Jews. His daughters had met their husbands in Mattapan. The Arbeiters have
three grandsons who also stay close to their Jewish heritage. The youngest was
just bar mitzvahed at Temple Beth Elohim in Wellesley.
Shops
in Newton Centre in the 1970s and 1980s were largely run by Jews; Chestnut Hill
also had many Jewish businesses and restaurants. But Arbeiter remembers the
rich social diversity. ÒNorumbega Park had a dancing hall called the Totem
Pole, and hosted outdoor concerts where well-known swing musicians played.Ó
This all changed when the Marriott Hotel came in the early 1970s. ÒI didnÕt
mind, however,Ó says Arbeiter, Òbecause the hotel would refer travelers to our
businesses.Ó
The
Arbeiters sold the cleaning store in 1985, and the tailor shop in 1995, when he
retired. ÒWe got along very well with the community,Ó he says. ÒEven today,
when our old customers see us, they are very warm and respectful. They still
say they miss us, it was a wonderful business, it was a nice place to come
into.Ó