Here's a question from the dasterly duo Aisha and Mandee: on 9/7/01

    Why do people fall in love?

    Oh, love what a topic... To put it scientifically it's when you are attracted to a person that you would consider a mate. Now emotionally that's a different topic all together. I think basically people are afraid to be alone. They don't want to be the only one like them. They need that input where they can give and recieve in a caring relationship. Even if they enjoy being single there is something in them that may just click when they see that special someone. And of course they remark it's love at first site. Either that or they were blind to their need to love and be loved til that moment. So many things can trigger this. It could be a smile or the eyes, or a funny comment. Or it could be a love that grows from mutual respect and sacrifice. Sometimes it seems the kind that comes quickly also ends that way. So my theory is there is no great love. There is just that person that you depend on like you could never on yourself. And you'll fall in and out of love quickly or slowly until you find that perfect match like a puzzle piece. The persons who's mannerisms interlock with yours. Whether it's your total oppisites so you attract or you're so a ike it gives you hope. It depends on our relationships. And what about these people we just can't do without? I think it's the hope they are the one and who knows maybe they are so you put up with alot of crap. It's when you remember the good times you can through the bad. So I'll stop before I ramble though that may be too late. All I have to say well I guess I don't really know. Love is an imperfect match of attraction and dependancy. The most important thing to remember is there is someone (you may not be able to wait for them) but someday your prince/princess in a shiny armor/gown will come someday to sweep you off your feet with your heart along with it. I think I'm more answering this question for me then Mandee and Aisha.