Heavenly Insights

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or
a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you
will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They
have come to assist you through a difficult time, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem
like a godsend, and they are!   They are there for the
reason you need them to be. Then,
without any wrong doing on your part, or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to
move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON. . .
It is because your turn has come to share, grow, or
learn.   They bring you an experience of peace, or make
you laugh.   They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable
amount of joy. Believe it!   It is real!   But, only for
a season.

When people come into your life for a LIFETIME. . .
It is usually to teach you lifetime lessons; things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said
that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life.