This is a transcript of a private chat between me and a new member


<snow> want to talk??
<sad^one> there's nothing to say
<snow> so why are you sad??
<sad^one> my life
<snow> what about your life that makes you sad??
<sad^one> everything
<sad^one> i'm sad and lonely and worthless
<sad^one> and that is my life
<sad^one> everyone her is friends and 'blessed'
<sad^one> i'm not
<snow> I understand, I some feel the same way.
<snow> so tell me about yourself so that perhaps I can understand you better and be able to help.
<sad^one> i could fade away tonight an dno one's life would be changed
<sad^one> i'm 30 divorced.
<snow> no, no, that is not true.  I know you think that, however, someone would be affected.
<sad^one> childless
<sad^one> who - my mother?
<sad^one> that's it.
<snow> well, I would be affected
<sad^one> please
<sad^one> you wouldn't know
<sad^one> you wouldn't notice
<snow> can I ask your gender??
<sad^one> f
<snow> okay
<snow> I understand compleatly how you feel.
<snow> I know because I have been there, in fact, I am there right now.
<sad^one> it sucks
<sad^one> i'm sorry for you then
<snow> It can get better, trust me.
<sad^one> people keep saying that - and it continues to get worse
<sad^one> i don't believe in better anymore
<snow> there was a time when I thought that as well
<snow> I know because my life is very hard right now.
<sad^one> i'm very sorry for you
<snow> you do not have to be, and you do not have to be sorry for yourself
<snow> why do you think that things will not become better??
<sad^one> i'm not really sorry. i just don't want my life anymore
<sad^one> because i'm thousans and thousand of $ in debt
<sad^one> i'm going to lose the place i'm living
<sad^one> my church doesn't care
<sad^one> i haven't bene to work in days and no one calls
<sad^one> i probably don't have a job anymroe
<sad^one> i'm sick of being alone
<sad^one> all i wanted out of life was to be a wife and a mother
<sad^one> it's not going to happen
<sad^one> i'm done
<snow> listen to me, it can happen
<snow> I know how hard it is, I know, I know
<snow> how challenging my life is right now would surprise you.
<snow> however, I keep telling myself to just keep going.
<snow> still there??
No such nick
<snow> still there??
<sad^one> i'mback
<snow> okay
<snow> tell me something, what makes you think that you cannot have your dreams??
<snow> still there??
<snow> talk to me.
<snow> please say something.  please.



    Note:  She changed her have from "sad^one" to "sad^one_last_chance"
just before she logged of.  She did not log back on again.