Blaise Says:

This is a really difficult to answer. Talk it over with him, and communicate your fears, Most of all don't let the friends get in the way. Friends are great things, but sometimes they think they think they know best.(Yes, Thea, I'm regretful of the outcome of certain events. That's all your getting.) If he is jealous, you need to assure him that you are devoted to him. Communication is the best advice I can give you.

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Troubled says:
*steps up and admits* Yes I do have a love problem. I need to get over a guy I've been crushing on all year. Obviously he liked this ugly chick (I'm way prettier and friendly than) well maybe she was too friendly and thats way he liked her. I really need to move on but theres no guys in my school to crush on besides him(I go to a small private school) I really need to know either how to get him or get over him. Please help.
 

Blaise Says:

Ahahahahah! I love this question! I'm assuming you don't want to hurt him, but then again, you might. In this case, I can't help you because I'm still on probation from the Inner Council, and I promised Thea I would be a good little witch. But to continue, assuming you don't want to hurt him or the [clears throat] female, I suggest you get an item of his. Something he gave you that you don't cherish, perhaps a mercedes, ah never mind that one.  Maybe a Picture (a really smug one) would be best. Then get a old pillow that you will never use again. Find a place that you don't mind getting dirty, your room maybe. Put the picture on the pillow, you might want to glue it as this gets messy. Take out ye old dagger, or a kitchen knife (be careful boys and girls). Now, imagine that its the jerk that gave you up for the ugly tramp, and jab, thrust, anything to get of rid your fustration (don't we feel better?). This is really important, throw it all away, bury it, whatever, but get rid of it. ALL OF IT! The last and most important, is to get back into the dating game. Don't dwell on this jerk in any way, even hating him.  Why? Because you will never get over him, and don't think about his new girlfriend either. He forgot you, now you forget him.

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Troubled says:
    Ok, I dated this guy named chris for five months. Then the last weeke of april we broke up. He said that I was never around enough, but he also said that he could tell that I was interested in this guy Pat-and that it was obvious there was a conncection between us.
    Ok so what happened was the weekend we broke up, I was with Chris at this bar, and I saw Patrick(Pat) I had known him from the year before, but we had not seen each other much since (he lives on the other side of campus and our schdules are so different). So I saw him that night and we had this great conversation. So then about 3 weeks later I saw him and told him i'd broken up with Chris, so we spend the whole night together, and he broght me a drink. We have been e-mailing back and forth and we are soo much alike.  So my ques is, how can I tell if he likes me or if he is just wanting to be friends, and how can I tell if he is my soulmate or not. Thanks
 

Blaise Says:

Okay, you don't need to know if a guy likes you. Here is a hint to all girls, half the time guys never know what they want and the other half is usaully something inanimate (think video games, food, books, and mommy). Guys are like that. You need confindence. Ask him if he like to go out, so hesays no. It may seem difficult now, but how else are you going to find out,hm?

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Troubled says:
   I am head over heels in love with my best friends boyfriend. I think he's my soulmate. I would hide my feelings, but I think he likes me too. We've been really close for ages and he always comes to me with his problems. In fact, one night he tried to kiss me, but I pushed him back for the obvious reason.     The problem is I love him so much that it's tearing me apart. If I don't tell him my feelings then I am going to regret it forever. If I do I risk losing my best friend.
    Can someone help me ?               -L. C.

Blaise Says:

I learned this from experience, never get in the way of a relationship between a guy and your friends (Cousin in my case); it always ends messy. If he is your soulmate, let him do the breaking off of the relationship, but don't pressure him. The last thing anybody needs is pressure. People never make good descions when they under pressure, and end up regreting them. It best not to see him alone, email him or talk on the phone to him. I know you like him, but I'm sure you've gone to the mall and seen something you like but it was too exspensive. Face it there are just some things in this world you can't have.

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Troubled says:
Yeah..um...I just cant seem to find any guys that like me...how do I get one?
 

Blaise Says:

Welcome to the delightful world of Blaise's tips on getting guys without witchcraft (Yes, Thea, I'm listening). Okay, first you want to guys to want you. Not the other way around. Yes, I know you want to get a guy, but don't make it seem like you do. Now, pick a target, a guy your attracted to for the right reasons(Need I get into these). Make sure he is single, and begin his torment. Be yourself, but also be a little devious. He has to want you, remember? Tempting him is never out of the question, but begging is. Never beg, its beneath you! Don't be arrogant, that's a turn off for most guys; however, confidence is a turn on. Don't seem dumb! Contray to its popularity in the 50's, in the 90's, its not a good thing. Speak your mind, but also asks what he thinks. Every one sercertly loves a good listener, who offers sound advice. The rest is up to you. Happy Hunting!

Yours truly,
Blaise, the witch Goddess extrodinare