Mike Brescia
SUCCESS PATTERN #1
Part of positive self-esteem is believing that you are smart enough, good enough, and deserving to achieve your desired results.
Holding the self-image of a person who easily does what you want to do almost guarantees that you'll do it.
SUCCESS PATTERN #2
Driven By Your Purpose - The Why
When people are REALLY motivated to reach an outcome, they put their whole heart into what they're doing.
And it's impossible to be this driven unless you are being pushed by something more than just getting the next task out of the way.
In order to be motivated from within, and to keep momentum going through ups and downs, it's crucial to constantly focus on your purpose, why you want the goal in the first place. A weak purpose means failure 99.999% of the time.
SUCCESS PATTERN #3
Visualizing Your Desired Outcome Constantly
Visualize what you want, and your entire person will carry out that vision, both physically and mentally.
Just as a dream can seem so real, when you visualize your desire, your mind will go about making it happen.
Everything that was EVER accomplished by humans was first seen in the mind's eye. And it's no different for the challenges you face.
When you see it as handled, as fixed, as done, as a raging success in your mind, then you WILL reach your objective, or you will be able to put all your being into it.
SUCCESS PATTERN #4
Determination
The will to succeed can overcome nearly every limitation or weakness no matter what your challenge is.
SUCCESS PATTERN #5
High Level of Confidence
Whether it's a small lingering doubt or a person's total disbelief in their ability to do something, a lack of confidence can make even the best efforts go awry, or prevent an effort from even being made to reach a goal.
"Yes, I Can," will become your new mantra.
And as your self confidence grows, your stress levels will plummet and your willingness to take action will soar.
SUCCESS PATTERN #6
Follow Through
Knowing exactly what you need to do to reach a goal or make a change in yourself is important, but it's only part of the picture. Half-hearted or inconsistent efforts lead to failure.
It is vital to follow through on whatever actions are required of you each and every day. Do your affirmations every day. Even when you reach your goals, keep on doing them daily. Your thoughts are what creates your life.
If you simply do what little is required of you each day, you'll get to your desired goal. Just like the people who always seem to get what they want in life.
SUCCESS PATTERN #7
Enjoy the process of change and of goal achievement
Is the process of accomplishing a challenging goal always fun? No. If it were fun, wouldn't you do a better job? Wouldn't you look forward to the next challenge? Wouldn't you experience your mistakes, setbacks, delays, and criticism differently than you do now? Yes, you would. Instill in your mind an alert awareness of the fun and satisfaction you can have all along the path toward reaching your desired outcome.
For example, in areas where you don't now enjoy the tasks, like exercising, with the statements steering your consciousness toward a love for all things physical, you'll easily see the activities as enjoyable, or at least gain a greater appreciation for the tasks just like the millions who see it that way already. Discover new ways to make it more pleasant. You'll look at the situation in whatever way you need to see it so that you feel good instead of depressed over your fate of having to do this set of tasks or activities related to your outcome. Your stress levels will go down considerably and you should be able to reach your goal easier than you could ever have imagined just a short time ago.
SUCCESS PATTERN #8
Learn What You Must
The most important goals in our lives often don't fall within our natural abilities and current level of knowledge.
We usually need to do some research, explore options and learn new ideas, techniques, facts, skills, or principles.
The problem is, most people don't want to be bothered to learn anything new. It's viewed as too much work, as boring or unpleasant, or cuts into relaxation and recreation time. You need to be ready and willing to learn what you must to reach your goal and love doing it.
SUCCESS PATTERN #9
Keep Problems or Setbacks in Perspective
Whatever your goal is, the truest test of how you are progressing toward it lies
not in how you function when you are moving along smoothly, but in how you act and react when problems are presented to you. Bad decisions, mistakes and setbacks are simply part of the process to get
where you want to go, and absolutely no reason to quit, to get upset, or even slow your progress. So whether you're trying to gain a habit, lose a habit, reach success in business or relationships, or overcome
depression or anxiety, flood your mind with self-instructions telling yourself that you are optimistic and level-headed through your setbacks and weak moments.
With conditioning, your desire and
determination will grow and stay high even after bigger, more serious setbacks. You'll become one of those people
that always knows or figures out what to do and makes sure it gets done without delay.
SUCCESS PATTERN #10
Appreciate Your Success and Rewards
One of the biggest frustrations most people experience is to experience success in reaching a big goal or status level only to see it all go away. To watch yourself stop doing what you did to reach your success in the first place. The strong tendency is to forget what it took to succeed.
That is why people who have been good at something for years can make mistakes and correct them fairly rapidly. People who are just gaining a skill, attitude, or habit can very easily mess up once and quit, or they can fall back into old routines without even knowing it.
When changes are desired, conditioning is critical.
And one of the things you MUST do to make your changes stick is to pay attention and appreciate what it took to get there, to enjoy the end result, to enjoy the rewards, to acknowledge your success and efforts so that when temptations arise you can understand how you came to succeed.
This way, you'll keep your new ways and continue to succeed when 19 out of 20 are failing, predictably going back to old ways of thinking and acting within days, weeks, or months.
SUCCESS PATTERN #11
Getting Satisfaction from Your Accomplishments
Most people who reach some long-term goal or who quit some bad habit screw it up after they worked hard to reach the goal. They don't see in their own mind that they have accomplished anything. When you accomplish anything, no matter if it is large or small, give yourself a boost by praising yourself for it. Accept other's praise for what you have accomplished. It's time to give yourself and accept from others the credit you deserve.
Change Your Mindset and Change Your Life