SPOUSAL:
Man comes in from work finds supper on the table and his wife waiting for him.He has had a bad day and has a bad temper anyway: the following occurs: "what is the matter with you Bitch? A man works all day and comes home and wants a decent meal, not this slop." The man throws plate against wall. Now get your fat lazy ass up and fix me something decent to eat."Man comes in from work and hands his wife the money he has
gotten when he cashed his pay check.
The following conversation occurs: “What do you mean this is all the
money you got paid. I don’t believe you;
I know you worked more hours than this you lazy slob. What were you doing out drinking and gambling instead of
working? Let me see that pay stub.”
CHILD
Father is fixing fence and sends child of six to go and get a certain pair of pliers, " what the hell is this? I told you to bring me the needle nose pliers you knuckle head not these. You are so stupid sometimes it amazes me. Now dummy go get me what I want."
CARETAKER
"I don’t know why I even put up with you. I should just ship you to a nursing home. If that stupid brother and sister of mine would help then I wouldn’t have to be here with you all the time. I don’t give a damn if you are my mother and bound to that wheelchair. You are a stupid liability to me and I don’t want to do this anymore. Why don’t you just die and get it over with."
SPOUSAL
Man comes in from work or the local bar been a bad day and
looking for a fight.” Okay bitch did you iron my shirts today like I
wanted? Why the hell not? I told you I needed those for my up coming
business trip.” Wife starts to get
up from her chair, man slaps her hard across the face, making her stumble and
fall against coffee table where she hits her head. Man.” well now damn look
what you made me do. You get yourself
cleaned up and get to ironing those shirts right now before I really lay my
hands on you. You will have a heck of a
lot more than a cut on your head if I do.”
Wife comes in after an evening out with the girls, pretty
drunk and feeling bad. “Well what did you do all night? Obviously nothing, you could have cleaned
the place up a bit you pig. Man
stands up and starts to reorganize magazines to make the place tidy, “wait a
minute I know what you have been doing all evening? You have been cheating on me again,”
Woman hits man in the stomach with a fist and then punches his face knocking him to the floor. “Don’t you ever just sit around here anymore, and you remember this, I can beat you anytime I want to and you mouse, you are too afraid to go to the authorities…. Your man hood is at stake.”
CHILD
A small child was told to go and tell her big brothers
something. As she was going out the
door they came in and went to talk to their father. The small child believed the father would tell them the item he
wanted them to do and so she didn’t tell them. The next morning was like this:
Father stomping into house “Didn’t I tell you last night Linda, to tell your
brothers to close those chicken house windows.
Well now we lost some chickens because you didn’t. You are going to get a real licking for this
when you get home from school.” The little girl tries very hard to tell her
father why she didn’t tell her brothers but he ignores her. She goes to school and spends all day crying
off and on. Her teacher asks her why
and she won’t tell them. When she gets
home from school she is still crying, walks in the door to found father waiting
for her, “now you go and get that broad belt you know where it is”
little girl goes and gets the belt and brings it back to her father,” her father doubles it over and grabs her
by one arm and starts beating her back and bottom with the belt until there are back and blue marks and welts on
her back, legs and bottom. Finally he
stops and sends the little girl to her room where she is kept all night without
any supper. The next morning she has to
apologize to her mother, brothers and father before she is allowed to eat. The windows being opened in the chicken
house, actually did no damage but one chick did die a natural death.
CARETAKER
“Oh father, you
have messed yourself again, now I have to clean it up and I tell you I am tried
of this. It is not my fault you had a
stroke. I wish that you could learn to
control yourself. A grown man sitting
in his own shit. Really great, (slap on
face) well you can just stay that way for all I care, (another slap). Person walking
away.
SEXUAL ABUSE
SPOUSAL
Men and women
both are guilty of this kind of sexual abuse.
Just because a person is married to you doesn’t give them the right or
you the right to make them have sex with you anytime you feel it. Marital sex is supposed to be a loving time
of coming together, for a lot of men and women it is a time of pain and hurt. If this is happening in your marriage there
is such a law called marital rape and it applies to both sexes. Please see someone who can help you.
DATE RAPE
Joan and Todd
had been seeing each other for about three weeks, on this date they are parked
in lover’s lane and Todd is getting very aggressive. He wants to make love to Joan, but Joan has feelings that this is
wrong before marriage and tells him so pushing him away. Todd thinks she is being silly and proceeds
to come on to her some more, he gets her out of her blouse, bra and finally her
skirt and even though by this time Joan is screaming and begging him not to he rapes
her. This is called Date Rape and is
against the law. Sometimes there are
drugs and alcohol involved to get the other person to give in even when they
don’t want to. Date Rape carries the
same degree of penalties that any other kind of rape does and if you have been
date raped or drugged and don’t know what happened, Please get help. Go to the police, your parents, your pastor
someone and get help.
SEXUAL HARRASSMENT AT WORK LEADING TO RAPE
We all are aware
that sexual harassment in the work place is a real problem. It is has been brought forth in the news a
lot latterly and it does happen to men and women. Usually the proceed is that the person has a position of
authority over the person being raped and demands sex for that person to keep
his or her job, or they demand them to put up with being groped, touched,
patted or any other forms of inappropriate touching, to keep their job. This is
against the law and if you are in this situation Please get help. Go to your union, if you have one, the head
of your office, or the police and have charges brought. You do not have to submit to this to keep a
job.
SEXUAL ABUSE OF A CHILD
BY A STRANGER
This kind of abuse
usually happens when a child least suspects it. Some nice older man he has talked to in the park many times invites
him home for some milk and cookies. Now
he knows this man, has talked to him often and so he goes with him. Along with the milk and cookies he is given a
dose of sexual abuse. Sometimes this (for
a male child) will involve oral sex or anal sex. It will leave the child afraid, and scared to talk because the raper
almost always, uses some kind of threat to keep the child quiet. Sometimes these people are people that a child
would trust anyway, a pastor or a priest, or even a school teacher. Parents if you child starts showing some abnormal
fears, has a lot of nightmares that are unexplainable, please question them careful
about their relationships with their elders and leaders. If the worse comes out then PLEASE call the
police and have the person arrested.
This kind of abuse will haunt a child for the rest of their life, and that
child needs help. PLEASE if you know of
a young person in this situation have the guts to help them. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BY A FAMILY MEMBER
This is the
hardest there is for me to write about.
Most young children have normal natural relationships with their
parents, grandparents and aunts and uncles, but some of them are put through
the hell of sexual child abuse on a regular basis. One lady that I personal know was continue sexually abused by her
father by molestation when she was a baby, that progressed to rape as she got
older, and then progress to where her older brother was raping her also. Her Step Grandfather got into it a couple of
times also. It was not until she was 12
years old that she knew that what was going on was wrong and then she was
afraid to say anything to anybody. When
she was 15 she told her mother and her mother chose not to believe her so she
ran away. She worked, as a hooker for
about a year and to this day has never gotten over the trauma of these
unspeakable acts. The sad thing was
that her school teachers knew but didn’t want to get involved, and none of the
adults that know by her behavior would get involved to help her. She was alone in Hell. There is a definite behavior pattern of an
abused child.
1.
She will
start to masturbate at a young age and not know what she is doing, only that it
feels good. Sometimes this will start
when she is two or three years old.
2.
She will
understand things about sex that a child her age shouldn’t know about.
3.
She will talk
to her peers about her daddy checking to make sure she is growing all right or
some other lie that she has been told. Her
peers will not understand.
4.
She will get
vaginal itching and some of the same yeast infections as her mother may have.
5.
She will show
an irrational fear or being left with the abuser even if it is her father.
6.
She will have
reoccurring nightmares that will get worse as the abuse continues.
This little girl
needs help, she can not get it for herself, she must have someone who will ask
her questions and intercede in her behave.
Please if you know any young people that are showing these signs, Please
Help them somehow, PLEASE.
I myself have been
where that young lady was and no one helped me. I too suffered from the disgrace and the pain and the feelings
of sexual abuse and rape as a child.
There is no crime that is more hideous and those who try and cover it up
for their own personal reasons are just as guilty.
If you are a
child reading this please contact me and I will see that you get the help you
deserve. I will contact the proper
people in your area to help you. Leave
me a message on the bulletin board with your email and I will get back to you
as soon as I can, or email me right away.
If I don’t respond right away then email my friend, the web master of
this site. She will help you also.
PAIN IS A REAL
FACT: WE ALL LIVE WITH A CERTAIN
AMOUNT OF IT, YOUR JOINTS HURT IN THE MORNING, YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE HAD THAT
PIZZA FOR SUPPER, YOU JUST HIT YOUR ELBOW ON A TABLE. THOSE KINDS OF PAIN HAPPEN TO ALL OF US. THE PAIN THAT IS TALKED ABOUT HERE IS
SOMETHING THAT CAN AND MUST BE STOPPED FOR THE INDIVIDUAL TO BE ABLE TO BECOME
A WHOLE PERSON IN SOCIETY AGAIN. PLEASE
HELP! AND IF ANY OF THOSE ABOVE SITUATIONS APPLY TO YOUR LIFE, PLEASE GET
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!.
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