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Love and the Cabbie

I was in New York the other day and rode with a
friend in a taxi. When we got out, my friend said
to the driver, "Thank you for the ride. You did a
superb job of driving."

The taxi driver was stunned for a second. Then he
said, "Are you a wise guy or something?"

"No, my dear man, and I'm not putting you on. I
admire the way you keep cool in heavy traffic."

"Yeah", the driver said and drove off.

"What was that all about?" I asked.

"I am trying to bring love back to New York," he
said. "I believe it's the only way to save the city."

"How can one man save New York?"

"It's not one man. I believe I have made that taxi
driver's day. Suppose he has 20 fares. He's going
to be nice to those 20 fares because someone was nice
to him. Those fares in turn will be kinder to their
employees or shopkeepers or waiters or even their own
families. Eventually the goodwill could spread to
at least 1,000 people. Now that isn't bad, is it?"

"But you're depending on that taxi driver to pass
your goodwill to others."

"I'm not depending on it," my friend said. "I'm aware
this system isn't foolproof so I might deal with ten
different people today. If out of ten I can make three
happy, then eventually I can indirectly influence the
attitudes of 3,000 more."

"It sounds good on paper," I admitted, "but I'm not
sure it works in practice."

"Nothing is lost if it doesn't. It didn't take any of
my time to tell that man he was doing a good job. He
neither received a larger tip nor a smaller tip. If
it fell on deaf ears, so what? Tomorrow there will be
another taxi driver I can try to make happy."

"You're some kind of a nut," I said.

"That shows how cynical you have become. I have made
a study of this. The thing that seems to be lacking,
besides money of course, for our postal employees, is
that no one tells people who work for the post office
what a good job they're doing."

"But they're not doing a good job."

"They're not doing a good job because they feel no one
cares if they do or not. Why shouldn't someone say
a kind word to them?"

We were walking past a structure in the process of
being built and passed five workmen eating their lunch.
My friend stopped. "That's a magnificent job you men
have done. It must be difficult and dangerous work."

The workmen eyed my friend suspiciously.

"When will it be finished?"

"June," a man grunted.

"That really is impressive. You must all be very proud."

We walked away. I said to him, "I haven't seen anyone
like you since The Man From LaMancha."

"When those men digest my words, they will feel better
for it. Somehow the city will benefit from their happiness."

"But you can't do this all alone!" I protested.
"You're just one man."

"The most important thing is not to get discouraged.
Making people in the city become kind again is not an
easy job, but if I can enlist other people in my campaign..."

"You just winked at a very plain-looking woman," I said.

"Yes, I know." he replied. "and if she's a schoolteacher,
her class will be in for a fantastic day."

Art Buckwald
"Chichen Soup for the Soul"

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