You may have the choice to say no... You may have the choice to get beyond what happened. You may have the choice in how you let it affect you. You may have the choice in how you react, etc... You may have the choice in how you will treat others and how you treat yourself. You always have more choices than you think. But the choice to let the ends justify the means is just a cop-out. To say there are no choices is a cop out too. You always have a choice... it may just not be the one you want to have.

One of the biggest and most dangerous pitfalls in this lifetime... is called despair or lack of hope.. Falling into despair and losing hope will cause you and your soul to stop growing. It can lead you to make poor decisions or cause various types of problems to crop up seemingly out of nowhere. It also can lead to suicide both physically and/or mentally. It will also extend the time needed on this earth plane to bring your soul to a more learned state. Understand this....Earth is like a boot camp. It is a very difficult camp but know this.... you will make it...even if it takes many lifetimes. No one is left behind... sooner or later everyone catches up and everyone goes Home. Some just make it sooner than others. So get up each day and move through it slowly one step at a time. Take each day as it comes. Every day is a new chance... no matter how small or large that chance is... to make changes or fine tune...

Be aware of what you think and do. Get through the day with the least amount of harm possible to yourself and others. Do not whine. Do not give up. Do not shut down.

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