I asked God to grant me patience.

 God said, No.

 Patience is a by-product of  tribulations; it isn't
 granted, it is earned.

 I asked God to give me happiness.

 God said, No.

 I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
 I asked God to spare me pain.

 God said, No.

 Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and
 brings you  closer to me.

 I asked God to make my spirit  grow.

 God said, No.

 You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to
make you  fruitful.
 

 I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.

 God said, No.

 I will give you life so that you may enjoy all
 things.

 I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as he
 loves me.

 God said... Ahhhh, finally you  have the idea.