A young successful executive was speeding down a neighborhood
street in his new Jaguar. Suddenly he heard something bang into the
side
of his car. He slammed on the brakes, spun the Jag into reverse, and
drove back to the source of the bang where a young boy was sitting on
the
curb. He jumped out of the car and saw a brick lying on the ground
under
his smashed door. Angrily he grabbed the culprit by the shirt and began
screaming at him, "Why did you do that? That’s going to cost a great
deal
of money to fix." The boy looked somberly at the young executive with
tears forming in his eyes. "Please forgive me mister, I didn’t know
what
else to do. My brother is a quadriplegic and confined to a wheelchair.
As
I was wheeling him down the street the wheelchair tipped and I can’t
lift him back up. There was no one around to help me and I just didn’t
know what else to do."
Moved beyond words, the executive tried to swallow the rapidly
swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young boy into the
wheelchair
and took out some Band-Aids and tissues to clean the cuts and bruises.
The boys thanked him and then began their journey home. The man stood
and
watched them for a long time before he finally turned around to head
back
to his car. It was a long walk back to the Jaguar…a long, slow walk.
The man never repaired the side door. He kept the dent to remind
him not to go through life too quickly. G-d constantly sends us
messages
but generally they are hidden and we must seek them out. However if we
hearken to the ‘whispers of G-d’, we won’t need G-d to throw a brick at
us to grab our attention.
Chumash Shemos introduces the prototype of leadership: Moshe
Rabbeinu. After escaping death in Egypt, Moshe became a shepherd for
his
father-in-law, Yisro. Moshe would lead the sheep deep into the desert,
far away from any possibility of the sheep grazing from stolen
property.
One day one of the sheep ran away. Moshe pursued the little animal
until
it reached a stream of water. After it finished drinking Moshe
proclaimed, "Had I known that you were thirsty I would have brought you
water. Now you must be tired." Moshe lifted the sheep and began to
carry
it back to the flock. Then, in the distance, Moshe saw an extraordinary
sight. A thorn-bush was aflame, yet it was not becoming consumed. Moshe
declared, (3:3) "Asurah nah v’ereh es hamareh hagadol hazeh madu’ah lo
yivar hasneh- I will turn away and see this wondrous sight; why is the
bush not becoming consumed?" Moshe approached the bush and the voice of
the Almighty rang forth from within. The rest is history.
My Rebbi, Rabbi Berel Wein shlitah, relates that the pasuk is
not merely stating this quote of Moshe nonchalantly. This statement was
actually one of the qualities of Moshe that Hashem saw when choosing
him
as the future leader of Klal Yisroel.
At times we see unusual sights and have unusual experiences.
However we don’t have the time, patience, or interest to appreciate
what
we are seeing. Life imposes upon us a tremendous amount of
responsibilities. There are carpools to drive, business deals to be
made,
meetings to attend, and appointments to keep. We have no time to "stop
and smell the flowers". Often we travel down highways that display a
magnificent scenic route or we drive across bridges that possess a
majestic aura and tremendous beauty. But we hardly give it a second
thought.
The ability to relax and reflect on one’s life is a fundamental
component
for spiritual success. Rabbi Wein often says that one should talk to
himself periodically. He adds that when he does so, those conversations
are sometimes the only meaningful ones he has all day. But people do
not
want to reflect and relax. Many people are afraid to be alone with
themselves out of fear of what they might find. They may recognize that
the person in the mirror is not utilizing his full capabilities and
will
have to change.
Other people may have seen the burning bush but they didn’t stop
and think about it. Moshe was the only one who declared "Asurah nah"
and
went to analyze the unusual occurrence. Therefore Hashem called to him
and appointed him the future leader of Klal Yisroel.
Adolph Eichman (y’mach shemo), the infamous Nazi villain,
escaped the clutches of the Allies and fled to South America after the
war. Israeli security-services tracked him down and on May 23, 1960 the
Knesset was informed that he was apprehended and was being brought to
Israel for trial. In 1961 after a fourteen-week trial, Eichman was
indicted. On his way to be hung, Eichman proclaimed "Shema Yisroel
Hashem
Elokeinu Hashem Echad", the verse every Jew says as he is about to die.
Eichman was the biggest Jew-killer in the world, second only to Hitler
himself. Those arounbd him were stunned; why would he be repeating the
most famous Jewish dictum? Eichman explained that in order to triumph
over one’s enemy, he must know his enemy COMPLETELY! Eichman then
snickered and remarked, "I know every Jewish custom and law, and that’s
why I was so successful."
Pharoh also knew the Jews completely. He understood that there
was only one guaranteed method to keep the Jews under his jurisdiction.
The Mesillas Yeshorim (chapter 2) explains that when Moshe began
speaking
to Klal Yisroel about a possible redemption, Pharoh retaliated by
commanding (5:9) "Tichbad ho’avodah al ho’anoshim vya’asu vah v’al
yishu
b’divrei shaker- "Make the work harder on the men and let them do it
and
not engage in false words." Pharoh did not grant the Jews a solitary
moment for them to seek counsel or hear words of encouragement.
In 1963, Martin Luther King Jr. led a 200,000-man march on
Washington to protest the segregation of African-Americans. He is most
remembered for his now famous words, "I have a dream". He spoke of his
dream for equality and peace among all of mankind.
(L’havdil l’havdil) Klal Yisroel were so embedded in their
servitude that they did not even have a dream. Moshe’s words of an
imminent salvation fell on deaf ears and Moshe returned to G-d in
exasperation and defeat. If one lacks a dream there is almost no hope.
The first curse of the harsh tochachah (‘rebuke’) of Parshas
Bechukosai, is that of ‘Behalah’. Simply translated behalah means
‘panic’. Our daily lives are often filled with that curse of behalah.
Under the pressures of busy schedules and time constraints we often
cannot think clearly. This leads to irrational behavior in dealing with
one’s money, health and even family.
The antidote for Pharoh’s "Tichbad haovodah" was Moshe’s ability
to say "Asurah nah v’ereh". One must be able to keep his dreams and
aspirations clearly in front of him so that no matter what pressures
impede his path, he will not be deterred.
This week I had the privilege to participate in a Hachnosas Sefer
Torah (the procession of bringing a new Torah scroll to its new home in
a
local shul). It was quite chilly as the procession made its way up the
local street that was blockaded by the neighborhood police. As we
danced
in front of the Torah, singing uplifting songs of praise and
thanksgiving
to G-d for allowing us to be the nation that lives by His Torah, I was
struck by an interesting thought.
One night earlier in Manhattan a similar gathering took place,
albeit on a far larger scale. Tens of thousands of people braved the
winter cold to watch a silly ball fall in Times Square as the secular
New
Year was heralded in. Tonight too, people braved the winter cold to
stand
outside and take part in a momentous affair.
There are always things in life for which one is willing to
sacrifice. These things are worth our time, money, comfort, and even
endangering our health somewhat. The question is what things do WE deem
worthwhile for sacrifice. Thousands of people saw the New Years’ Eve
celebration in Manhattan as being a worthwhile cause for sleep
deprivation and braving the freezing cold. Twenty-four hours later, a
minute few felt that celebrating the homecoming of a new Torah in the
quaint streets of Edison, New Jersey in memory of a special woman’s
first
yahrtzeit, was worth that same sacrifice.
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